Daddy Got Custody: Helping Good Parents Win Custody of their Kids
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Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad on Twitter, shares his unique experience of winning a paternity suit and being full custody, of his then 4-year-old daughter. As a non-attorney but a male parent, he shares unique ideas on how to be a better parent and ultimately win a child custody suit. Fred's goal is to help good parents caught in the complicated process of divorce or child custody. This show has parenting and custody tips as well as attorney interviews from state to state.
Episodios 59
DGC 059 – What Fathers Need to Know Before Custody Mediation
In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, 27-year custody veteran, explains what fathers need to understand before walking into custody mediation. Fred breaks down why mediation should …
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In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, 27-year custody veteran, explains what fathers need to understand before walking into custody mediation.
Fred breaks down why mediation should never be treated like something you can simply "wing." Fathers need to know what parenting schedule they actually want, what issues are true must-haves, where they can compromise, and how details like holidays, summer schedules, transportation, school decisions, medical decisions, and communication can create problems later if they are not clearly addressed up front.
You'll also hear why dads should avoid negotiating from anger, why "fair" and "best for the child" are not always the same thing, and how exhaustion can push parents into agreements they may regret. Fred explains why every agreement should be read carefully, why trial risk should be part of the decision-making process, and why a good settlement is not about defeating your Ex — it is about creating a stable, workable plan for your child.
Most importantly, this episode is about preparation.
Do not walk into mediation hoping for a good deal. Walk in knowing what a good deal actually looks like.
DGC 058 - What to Do When Your Child Refuses Visitation
In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, 27-year custody veteran, talks about one of the most difficult situations divorced parents can face: what to do when your child says, "I don't want …
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In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, 27-year custody veteran, talks about one of the most difficult situations divorced parents can face: what to do when your child says, "I don't want to go."
Fred explains why a child refusing visitation should not automatically be treated as parental alienation, disobedience, or a custody victory. Instead, fathers need to slow down, listen carefully, and understand what may be behind the refusal. The reason could be something simple like friends, activities, different rules between homes, or difficulty with transitions — or it could point to a deeper emotional, relationship, or safety concern.
You'll learn the difference between listening and interrogating, why children should never be pressured to choose between parents, how age can change the situation, and why fathers should avoid rewarding refusal, guilt-tripping a child, or turning the child into evidence. Fred also discusses documenting repeated problems, communicating calmly with the other parent, when counseling may help, and when it may be time to involve an attorney.
Most importantly, this episode is about protecting the child while still respecting the realities of a custody order.
When your child says, "I don't want to go," your first job is not to win the argument. Your first job is to understand why.
DGC 057 - The First 30 Days of a Custody Battle
In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, a 27-year custody veteran, explains why the first 30 days of a custody battle can shape the next year of your case. Fred walks fathers through the …
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In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, a 27-year custody veteran, explains why the first 30 days of a custody battle can shape the next year of your case.
Fred walks fathers through the practical steps they should take immediately when a custody dispute begins, including reading every court document, getting legal advice early, starting a custody journal, building a parenting-time calendar, saving important texts and emails, organizing school and medical information, cleaning up social media habits, and getting finances in order.
He also explains why fathers should develop a realistic parenting plan early, take temporary orders seriously, avoid bad-mouthing the other parent to the children, and stop treating every disagreement like a major crisis. The goal is not to panic or become obsessed with proving your Ex is terrible. The goal is to start building a clear pattern of stability, involvement, preparation, and child-focused parenting from day one.
Most importantly, this episode is a reminder that custody cases often begin long before the final hearing.
Your custody case does not begin when you walk into court. It begins the moment you realize there may be a fight.
DGC 056 - Interview Jamie Lima, the Financial Thoughts on Divorce
In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, custody coach, sits down with Jamie Lima, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, financial professional, and founder of Allegiant Divorce Solutions …
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In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, custody coach, sits down with Jamie Lima, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, financial professional, and founder of Allegiant Divorce Solutions, for a practical conversation about one of the most overlooked parts of divorce: the money.
Jamie explains why financial decisions made during divorce can have consequences that last long after the court case is finished. Fred and Jamie discuss dividing assets, retirement accounts, taxes, the family home, business interests, and why two assets that appear equal on paper may have very different values once taxes and long-term financial consequences are considered.
The conversation also covers some of the financial mistakes people make when emotions are running high, why it is important to understand your complete financial picture before agreeing to a settlement, and how having the right professionals on your divorce team can help you make decisions based on facts instead of fear.
Jamie also shares how his own experience with divorce helped lead him into divorce financial planning and eventually to developing tools designed to make the complicated financial side of divorce easier to understand. For professionals working in the divorce space, Jamie discusses SecureSplit, a platform designed to help organize cases, analyze financial information, and evaluate settlement scenarios.
If you are facing divorce or custody litigation, this episode is a reminder that winning an argument today does not necessarily mean you are making the best financial decision for tomorrow.
The divorce eventually ends. The financial decisions you make during it may follow you for years.
To contact Jamie Lima:
Phone: 619-354-9477 Email: [email protected]
Individuals going through divorce can learn more at: https://allegiantds.com/
Divorce professionals and practitioners can learn more about SecureSplit at: https://securesplit.com/
DGC 055 – Your Child Is Not Your Witness
In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 27-year custody veteran, talks about one of the easiest mistakes parents make during a custody battle: turning their child into …
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In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 27-year custody veteran, talks about one of the easiest mistakes parents make during a custody battle: turning their child into part of the case.
Fred explains why children should never become witnesses, messengers, investigators, therapists, or emotional support for either parent. He breaks down the difference between listening to your child and interrogating them, why asking "Who do you want to live with?" can create enormous pressure, and how using children to carry messages or gather information can damage both the child and your credibility.
You'll also hear practical advice on what to do when a child voluntarily shares something serious, how to respond without coaching or leading them, and why fathers should create a safe zone where kids can simply be kids instead of participants in the legal fight.
Most importantly, this episode is a reminder that the goal is not just to win a custody case. It is to protect your child from carrying adult conflict.
Your child should know they are loved — not know your litigation strategy.
DGC 054 – How Text Messages Can Win or Lose Your Custody Case
In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, a 27-year custody veteran, explains how something as simple as a text message can either strengthen your custody case or quietly damage it. Fred …
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In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, a 27-year custody veteran, explains how something as simple as a text message can either strengthen your custody case or quietly damage it.
Fred breaks down the most common texting mistakes fathers make during high-conflict custody disputes, including responding while angry, sending threats or insults, writing long emotional messages, using sarcasm, and taking the bait every time an Ex tries to provoke a reaction. He also explains what better custody communication looks like: brief, factual, polite, child-focused, and written as though a judge may someday read it.
You'll learn why text messages can become powerful evidence, how patterns of communication can affect credibility, why complete context matters when saving messages, and how co-parenting apps can sometimes help create structure in difficult situations.
Most importantly, this episode is about discipline. Stop texting your Ex like you are talking to your Ex. Start texting like you are talking to the judge.
DGC 053 – What to Do When Your Ex Violates the Court Order
In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 27-year custody veteran, explains what fathers should do when their Ex refuses to follow the court order. Fred breaks down how …
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In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 27-year custody veteran, explains what fathers should do when their Ex refuses to follow the court order.
Fred breaks down how dads can protect themselves when parenting time is denied, exchanges are repeatedly delayed, important school or medical information is withheld, or other parts of the order are ignored. He explains why retaliation is usually a mistake, why calm communication matters, and how strong documentation can turn repeated violations into a clear pattern the court can actually understand.
You'll also learn why fathers should keep following their own part of the order, when it may be time to involve an attorney, and why enforcement should be about restoring compliance — not getting revenge.
Most importantly, this episode is about staying disciplined when the other parent is not.
Don't respond to a court-order violation by creating one of your own.
DGC 052 – How Fathers Accidentally Damage Their Own Custody Case
In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, a 27-year custody veteran, talks about one of the biggest threats to a Father's custody case: himself. Good Dads sometimes damage otherwise strong …
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In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, a 27-year custody veteran, talks about one of the biggest threats to a Father's custody case: himself.
Good Dads sometimes damage otherwise strong custody cases through a series of small, preventable mistakes — angry texts, missed parenting time, arguments during exchanges, talking to the kids about the case, ignoring court orders, poor documentation, social media drama, and assuming their attorney will take care of everything.
Fred explains how one mistake may not destroy a custody case, but repeated behavior can create a pattern that opposing counsel can use to tell a damaging story about who you are as a parent.
You'll learn why every text should be written as though a judge might someday read it, why you should consistently use the parenting time you already have, why custody exchanges should be boring, and why your children should never become messengers, witnesses, investigators, or emotional support during the fight.
Most importantly, this episode is about recognizing that every decision you make during a custody battle is helping build one of two stories: a pattern of instability and conflict, or a pattern of calm, consistency, involvement, and responsible fatherhood.
If you're a Dad fighting for custody, remember one simple rule: Don't make the other side's case for them.
DGC 051 - Interview with Chel Cartmill, Author of "Spider on My Neck"
In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, I sit down with Chel Cartmill, Next Chapter Transition Specialist and author of Spider on My Neck, for an honest conversation about the emotional side of …
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In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, I sit down with Chel Cartmill, Next Chapter Transition Specialist and author of Spider on My Neck, for an honest conversation about the emotional side of divorce, custody, grief, and rebuilding your life after everything changes.
Please contact Chel Cartmill at https://www.chelcartmill.com/ For my listeners, Chel is offering a complimentary consulting call here... https://bit.ly/469j06E
Chel explains why divorce can feel like a kind of death, how parents can continue showing up for their children while they are emotionally exhausted, and how to recognize the difference between normal grief and something deeper. We also talk about the overuse of labels like "narcissist," what emotional abuse can really look like, and why healing after divorce is not always a straight line.
In the final part of the conversation, Chel shares the story behind her new book, Spider on My Neck, and how her own experiences with divorce, loss, fear, healing, and starting over shaped the message she hopes to give others.
If you are a parent going through divorce, fighting for custody, grieving the loss of the family life you expected, or simply trying to figure out what comes next, this conversation is a reminder that the legal battle is only one part of the journey.
Custody cases may be fought in courtrooms, but a lot of the real battle happens inside your own head and heart.
DGC 050 - The 10 Most Important Custody Lessons I've Learned in 27 Years
After 27 years of dealing with custody battles, courtrooms, attorneys, judges, CPS, evidence, and the realities of raising kids after divorce, I've learned a few things—some of them the hard way. In this …
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After 27 years of dealing with custody battles, courtrooms, attorneys, judges, CPS, evidence, and the realities of raising kids after divorce, I've learned a few things—some of them the hard way.
In this milestone 50th episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, I share the 10 most important custody lessons I've learned over the past 27 years. These aren't theories from a textbook. They come from my own custody battle, dozens of trips to court, years of raising my kids, and helping other fathers understand what it actually takes to fight for their children.
We talk about why being a good dad isn't enough—you have to be able to prove it, why documentation and preparation matter, why temporary decisions can have long-term consequences, and why controlling your emotions may be one of the most important courtroom strategies you ever learn.
Most importantly, this episode is about keeping the focus where it belongs: your kids.
If you're a father facing divorce, custody litigation, or simply trying to become a stronger and more involved dad, these are the lessons I wish someone had given me when my custody journey began.
27 years. 50 episodes. A lot of mistakes, a lot of lessons—and four kids who made every bit of it worthwhile.
DGC 049 - What Fathers Should Never Say in Court
Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 23-year custody consultant, explains why the words fathers choose in family court can have a lasting impact on their custody case. In this episode, Fred breaks down some of the …
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Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 23-year custody consultant, explains why the words fathers choose in family court can have a lasting impact on their custody case. In this episode, Fred breaks down some of the most common courtroom phrases that can damage a father's credibility—even when they're true—and explains why judges listen for far more than just the facts. They are evaluating attitude, maturity, judgment, self-control, and whether a parent demonstrates a healthy co-parenting mindset.
Fred walks through the statements fathers should never make in court, including phrases like "She's crazy," "I deserve custody," "My child wants to live with me," and "I did nothing wrong." He explains why these emotional or exaggerated statements often backfire and offers stronger, child-focused alternatives that present fathers as calm, credible, and prepared. Throughout the episode, he emphasizes the importance of replacing accusations with evidence, emotion with strategy, and self-focused language with a clear commitment to the child's best interests.
If you're preparing for a custody case or simply want to avoid costly courtroom mistakes, this episode will help you understand how to communicate in a way that strengthens your credibility and keeps the focus where it belongs—on your child. More details and resources can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com.
DGC 048 - Why Temporary Orders Can Decide Your Entire Custody Case
Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 23-year custody consultant, explains why temporary orders in a custody case can matter far more than most fathers realize. In this episode, Fred breaks down how "temporary" …
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Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 23-year custody consultant, explains why temporary orders in a custody case can matter far more than most fathers realize. In this episode, Fred breaks down how "temporary" arrangements often create the first court-approved routine for a child, shape the judge's first impression, and can give one parent the advantage of becoming the default parent while the case is still unfolding. He also explains why dads who treat temporary orders like a warm-up round may spend the rest of the case trying to climb uphill. If you are fighting for custody, this episode will help you understand why you need to take temporary orders seriously, prepare early, and show the court a stable, child-focused plan from the very beginning. More details and resources can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com
DGC 047 - The Difference Between Being a Good Dad and Proving It in Court
Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 23-year custody consultant, shares a hard truth many fathers learn too late: being a good dad and proving it in court are not always the same thing. In this episode, Fred …
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Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 23-year custody consultant, shares a hard truth many fathers learn too late: being a good dad and proving it in court are not always the same thing. In this episode, Fred explains why love, sacrifice, and private fatherhood matter deeply in real life — but why family court often looks instead for documentation, patterns, credibility, and proof of daily involvement. He breaks down the gap between what a father knows he does, what his child knows he does, and what a judge can actually verify. If you are fighting for custody, this episode will help you understand how to make your fatherhood visible in a system that rewards preparation. More details and resources can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com
DGC 046 — 5 Ways Parental Alienation Cost My Ex Full Custody of Our Daughter
Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 23-year custody consultant, shares five real behaviors from his own custody case that contributed to his Ex losing full custody of their daughter Caitlyn. In this deeply …
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Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 23-year custody consultant, shares five real behaviors from his own custody case that contributed to his Ex losing full custody of their daughter Caitlyn. In this deeply personal episode, Fred walks through how failing to follow the court order, excluding him from medical decisions, involving Caitlyn in adult conflict, speaking negatively about Fred in front of their daughter, and being unable to say anything positive about him to anyone — including the judge — all added up to a pattern of parental alienation that the court could not ignore. If your Ex is doing any of these five things right now, this episode will help you recognize it, document it, and handle it the right way. More details and resources can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com
DGC 045 — Interview with Dallas Criminal Attorney Nicole Knox
In this episode of Daddy Got Custody, we sit down with Dallas trial attorney Nicole Knox to talk about the courtroom perspective of jury trials. From high-stakes courtroom strategy to the emotional realities …
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In this episode of Daddy Got Custody, we sit down with Dallas trial attorney Nicole Knox to talk about the courtroom perspective of jury trials. From high-stakes courtroom strategy to the emotional realities parents face, Nicole shares what separates those who win from those who fall short.
We dive into the difference between judge trials and jury and why a jury trial may be a better solution. Nicole also breaks down how to handle interactions with law enforcement, what judges are really looking for, and how to position yourself as the stable, reliable parent your child needs.
If you're in the middle of a custody fight—or want to be prepared before one starts—this episode gives you real-world insight from someone who's spent years defending clients when everything is on the line.
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DGC 044 — What Caseworkers and Judges Look For in a Home Study
Fred Campos breaks down exactly what caseworkers and judges are looking for during a home study—and why most Dads fail it simply because they don't prepare. Drawing from his experience and insights from his …
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Fred Campos breaks down exactly what caseworkers and judges are looking for during a home study—and why most Dads fail it simply because they don't prepare. Drawing from his experience and insights from his book, Fred explains that success starts long before the visit, with well-prepared paperwork, positive language about the Ex, and attorney-reviewed responses. He emphasizes that your home should immediately tell a story of stability, cleanliness, and intentional parenting—from a decluttered, well-maintained space to visible signs of a child-focused life like schedules, artwork, and family photos. Safety is critical, with proactive childproofing and organization playing a major role. Fred also highlights how everyday details—like what's in your fridge, how your child's room is set up, and even displaying a respectful photo of your ex—signal to caseworkers whether you foster a healthy environment. He wraps up with practical preparation strategies, reminding fathers that the home study can make or break their case, and that thoughtful, consistent preparation is the difference between passing and failing.
DGC 043 - 4 Things Judges Notice Fast in a Father's Custody Case
In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 27-year custody veteran, breaks down four things judges can notice very quickly when a father walks into a custody case — and …
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In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 27-year custody veteran, breaks down four things judges can notice very quickly when a father walks into a custody case — and why those first impressions can matter more than dads realize.
Fred explains why fathers should avoid sounding bitter or obsessed with tearing down the mother, how important it is to show the court that you support your child having a healthy relationship with both parents, and why acknowledging things the other parent does well can actually make you sound more credible — not weaker. He also talks about the importance of proving hands-on parenting through specific everyday details instead of simply telling the judge, "I'm a good dad."
The bigger lesson is that judges are not only listening to the accusations being made. They are also evaluating your attitude, your judgment, your emotional control, and whether you sound like a parent focused on the child or an Ex focused on winning a fight.
You do not have to prove the other parent is terrible to prove that you are a capable, involved father. Sometimes the strongest thing you can show the court is that you are calm, fair, prepared, and focused on your child.
More details can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com
DGC 042 - Derek Salyers Journey to Winning Custody
In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 27-year custody veteran, sits down with Derek Salyers to talk about his personal journey through family court, the fight to …
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In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 27-year custody veteran, sits down with Derek Salyers to talk about his personal journey through family court, the fight to remain an active father, and what ultimately helped him succeed in his custody case.
Derek shares the lessons he learned along the way, including why fathers need to stay involved, remain disciplined, and document what is actually happening instead of relying on memory or emotion. Fred and Derek also talk about the importance of creating a clear record of parenting time, communication, missed exchanges, and other significant events that may later matter in court.
A major part of the conversation focuses on documentation and the work Derek is doing with Custody Journal, a tool designed to help parents organize and preserve important custody information. You can learn more at https://custodyjournal.com/.
Derek also discusses his involvement with Fathers for Fair Custody, an organization focused on helping fathers navigate custody disputes, understand the family court process, and remain meaningful parts of their children's lives. More information can be found at https://fathersforfaircustody.com/.
If you are a father facing a difficult custody battle, Derek's story is a reminder that preparation, persistence, documentation, and staying focused on your children can make a tremendous difference.
You may not control everything that happens in family court, but you can control how prepared you are, how well you document your case, and how consistently you show up as a father.
More details can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com
DGC 041 - 10 Favors Custodial Parents Should Do for Their Ex
In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, 27 year custody coach, talks about something divorced parents do not discuss nearly enough: the small acts of kindness and cooperation that can …
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In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, 27 year custody coach, talks about something divorced parents do not discuss nearly enough: the small acts of kindness and cooperation that can make co-parenting easier for everyone — especially the kids.
Fred shares 10 favors custodial parents should consider doing for their Ex, including offering a first right of refusal when childcare is needed, encouraging phone or video calls between the children and the other parent, and listing the other parent as an emergency contact when appropriate. The bigger idea is simple: having primary custody should not mean shutting the other parent out of the child's life.
The episode challenges custodial parents to think beyond the minimum requirements of a court order and ask what reasonable actions might actually help their children maintain a healthy relationship with both parents. Sometimes a little flexibility, better communication, or a simple courtesy can reduce conflict and make life easier for the child caught between two households.
Good co-parenting is not about doing favors for your Ex because they earned them. It is about doing what you reasonably can to make your child's relationship with both parents stronger, healthier, and less stressful.
More details can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com
DGC 040 - 10 Ways to Be a Credible, Calm Witness
Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, shares ten ways to be a credible, calm witness both in court and dealing with high stressed situations like cross examinations. You will learn …
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Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, shares ten ways to be a credible, calm witness both in court and dealing with high stressed situations like cross examinations.
You will learn reasons to be calm, keep your emotions in check, stick to the facts, speak in a non-condescending way when speaking with judges, social workers, police and other authorities.
More details can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com
DGC 039 - 10 Ways to Absolutely Lose Custody of Your Kids
In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, custody consultant, flips the usual custody advice around and looks at 10 behaviors that can seriously damage — or even destroy — a parent's …
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In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, custody consultant, flips the usual custody advice around and looks at 10 behaviors that can seriously damage — or even destroy — a parent's custody case.
Fred walks through the kinds of mistakes that can make a judge question a parent's judgment, stability, credibility, and willingness to put the child first. From ignoring court orders and interfering with the other parent's relationship with the children to losing control emotionally, failing to show up consistently, and creating unnecessary conflict, these are the behaviors fathers need to recognize and avoid.
The bigger lesson is that custody is rarely lost because of one isolated bad day. More often, it is damaged through repeated decisions that create a pattern the court can no longer ignore. Fathers need to understand that judges are not only looking at what happens to them — they are also watching how they respond.
If you are fighting for custody, this episode is a reminder to stay disciplined, follow the order, document what matters, remain involved, and keep your focus where it belongs: on your children.
If you want to win custody, start by making sure you are not accidentally giving the court reasons to take it away.
More details can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com
DGC 038 - 5 Tips to Consider in Your Case Thanks to Covid-19
In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, custody coach, looks back at how the COVID-19 pandemic changed everyday life for divorced parents and created new custody issues that fathers had …
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In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, custody coach, looks back at how the COVID-19 pandemic changed everyday life for divorced parents and created new custody issues that fathers had rarely needed to think about before.
Fred shares five practical considerations for custody cases during and after COVID-19, including how sudden school closures, remote learning, changes in work schedules, health concerns, and disrupted parenting routines can affect both children and custody arrangements. The episode focuses on how fathers can adapt when normal schedules disappear and why flexibility, communication, and documentation become even more important when circumstances change quickly.
Fred also discusses the importance of separating legitimate concerns from emotional reactions, understanding how changes in a child's routine may affect custody arguments, and thinking ahead about how temporary changes can sometimes create longer-lasting patterns.
The bigger lesson from this episode goes beyond the pandemic: custody cases do not happen in a vacuum. Unexpected events can completely change a family's schedule, responsibilities, and needs, and fathers need to be ready to respond calmly and strategically when that happens.
The rules of parenting may change when life changes — but the goal stays the same: protect your relationship with your children and stay focused on what is best for them.
More details can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com
DGC 037 - 10 Side Hustles During Covid-19
In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, custody coach, steps outside the courtroom for a practical conversation about something many parents were struggling with during the COVID-19 …
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In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, custody coach, steps outside the courtroom for a practical conversation about something many parents were struggling with during the COVID-19 shutdown: how to earn extra money when work, schedules, and normal life suddenly changed.
Fred shares 10 side hustles that people can start quickly, drawing from real examples he watched clients and business owners put into action. From starting a simple lawn-care business to turning an existing skill into an online class or membership program, the focus is on finding something you can begin without waiting months for the perfect opportunity.
The episode also connects extra income directly back to the realities fathers face during divorce and custody battles. Attorney fees, child-related expenses, household costs, and unexpected financial setbacks do not disappear just because the economy changes. Sometimes the answer is not waiting for more money to arrive — it is finding another way to create it.
If you are a father trying to keep your finances together, pay for a custody case, or simply create another source of income, this episode offers practical ideas and a reminder that opportunity can still exist during difficult circumstances.
You may not control the economy, your employer, or everything happening around you — but you can still look for ways to create income, solve problems, and keep moving forward.
Show notes found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com/podcast
DGC 036 - Parental Alienation, Cathy's Story
In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, custody coach, sits down with Cathy to hear her personal story of parental alienation and the emotional toll that can come when one parent's …
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In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, custody coach, sits down with Cathy to hear her personal story of parental alienation and the emotional toll that can come when one parent's relationship with their children is slowly damaged by conflict, manipulation, and separation.
Cathy shares what it was like to experience the loss of connection with her children, the warning signs she recognized along the way, and the difficulty of trying to respond without making an already painful situation worse. Fred and Cathy discuss how parental alienation can develop gradually, why children should never be forced to choose sides, and how damaging it can be when adult anger becomes part of a child's relationship with the other parent.
The conversation also highlights the importance of staying calm, documenting what is happening, avoiding retaliation, and keeping the focus on rebuilding and protecting the parent-child relationship rather than simply "winning" against an Ex.
If you are a father or mother dealing with parental alienation, this episode is a reminder that the emotional damage can be very real — but reacting with more anger and conflict usually makes the situation worse.
Parental alienation is not just a battle between two parents. The child is often the one caught in the middle, and protecting that relationship has to remain the priority.
DGC 035 - Spend Some Time with Your Kids
Sometimes life forces us to slow down. And when it does, we have an opportunity to focus on what matters most: our children. In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody podcast, Fred Campos reflects on the …
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Sometimes life forces us to slow down. And when it does, we have an opportunity to focus on what matters most: our children.
In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody podcast, Fred Campos reflects on the importance of spending meaningful time with our kids, particularly during the unprecedented changes brought about by the COVID-19 pandemic.
With schools closing, families adjusting their schedules, and everyday routines being disrupted, parents faced new challenges. But these circumstances also created opportunities to reconnect, build relationships, and make lasting memories.
For fathers navigating divorce, custody arrangements, or co-parenting, being present in a child's life is about much more than simply fulfilling a visitation schedule. It's about creating experiences, having conversations, and showing children that they are loved and valued.
Making the Most of Your Time TogetherWhether you have primary custody, shared custody, or limited parenting time, the moments you spend with your children matter.
Consider using that time to:
Be present. Put away distractions and give your children your attention.
Create memories. Play games, cook together, take walks, or enjoy simple activities at home.
Have meaningful conversations. Ask your children how they're feeling and listen to their answers.
Build family traditions. Even small routines can become memories your children cherish.
Offer reassurance. During uncertain times, children need to know their parents are there for them.
Focus on relationships. Quality time doesn't have to be expensive or elaborate to be meaningful.
Custody isn't just about court orders, schedules, or legal victories. It's about the responsibility and privilege of raising our children.
The time we have with our kids is limited. Childhood passes quickly, and the opportunities we have today may not be available tomorrow.
Rather than focusing entirely on the inconveniences of disrupted routines, look for opportunities to strengthen your relationship with your children.
Sometimes the simplest moments become the most important ones.
Final ThoughtsAs families navigate unexpected challenges, remember that being a good father doesn't require a perfect plan.
It requires showing up, paying attention, and making your children a priority.
Spend this time with your kids. You'll never regret the memories you make together.
Listen to Episode 035 of the Daddy Got Custody podcast and reflect on how you can make the most of the time you have with your children.
DGC 033 - Best Advice for Being a Step-Parent
Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, discusses the best advice for being a step-parent. He outlines eight points or expectations to be the best parent you can be. Ranging from "Don't …
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Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, discusses the best advice for being a step-parent. He outlines eight points or expectations to be the best parent you can be. Ranging from "Don't Try to Be the Kids Mother" to "Don't Handle the Discipline" and much, much, more.
DGC 034 - Best Advice for Working with an Attorney
Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, discusses the best advice for working with your attorney. He outlines seven points he wish he knew in working with his lawyer. Starting with …
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Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, discusses the best advice for working with your attorney. He outlines seven points he wish he knew in working with his lawyer. Starting with listening to your attorney, sharing EVERYTHING, doing your homework, working out a payment plan, and much, much, more.
DGC 032 - Best Advice to be Calm in Court
Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, discusses the best advice he got in order to stay calm in court. This advice ranged from joining Toastmasters, visiting his courtroom, practicing …
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Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, discusses the best advice he got in order to stay calm in court. This advice ranged from joining Toastmasters, visiting his courtroom, practicing prepared speeches as to why he should have custody and much, much more. For more information visit...
DGC 031 - Best Advice in Handling & Communcating with Your Ex
Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, discusses the best advice he got from his attorney on how to deal and communicate with your Ex. He expresses six thoughts on the best advice he ever …
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Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, discusses the best advice he got from his attorney on how to deal and communicate with your Ex. He expresses six thoughts on the best advice he ever got from James Newth regarding this issue. For more information visit...
DGC 030 - Ask Fred 02/20/2020 Parental Alienation
Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, starts a new Wednesday addition, Ask Fred. Here he pulls 5 questions/emails he has gotten and answers them. Today's episode talks about social media …
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Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, starts a new Wednesday addition, Ask Fred. Here he pulls 5 questions/emails he has gotten and answers them. Today's episode talks about social media in court, do my kids need their own room, and much, much more. For more information visit...
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