Hear me out, Sis.
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Welcome to the hear me out sis podcast. This is a SAFE space for ladies and gents. I'll speak to you about literally anything and everything. We'll navigate this life thing together. I'll laugh, cry, vent, narrate hilarious stories and be the friend/sister you never knew you needed.
Love and Light
Maria x
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Episodios 67
Losing interest in Social Media // Cherish your parents
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!Maybe I’m just over it… or maybe I’m learning to value quiet. 🤍In this episode, I’m talking about my …
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Maybe I’m just over it… or maybe I’m learning to value quiet. 🤍
In this episode, I’m talking about my current relationship with social media, I’ve been craving more quiet and less noise, the importance of stepping away when you simply don’t feel being online
Sometimes I just want to be quiet. I want to live my life without having to document it or share every little thing.
And honestly, I think there’s something so beautiful about being quiet and just being present.
And then I get a little deeper… 🥺
Our parents,
How easy it is to assume we have more time, and why we need to cherish them, make the calls, have the conversations, and love them while we can.
Because life has a way of reminding us that time is not promised.
A little reminder to slow down, be present, and appreciate the people we love
Love and light
Ri
God did you hear me ? Things will get better -Cleo Sol 🎶🤍
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!I was tired. I was emotional. I cried, I prayed, and I asked God one simple question: ‘Did You hear me?’ …
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I was tired. I was emotional. I cried, I prayed, and I asked God one simple question: ‘Did You hear me?’ What happened last night caught me completely off guard.
God is really cool. He sent me a confirmation through Apple Music
This is a short story about a moment that reminded me that even when we can’t see what God is doing, He hasn’t stopped listening. 🤍
How much longer? When waiting on God gets frustrating…..
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!Sometimes the hardest part of faith isn’t believing God can do it—it’s waiting for Him to do it.In this …
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Sometimes the hardest part of faith isn’t believing God can do it—it’s waiting for Him to do it.
In this episode, I’m talking about the frustration that can come with waiting on God. The moments where you’ve prayed, believed, trusted… and you’re still waiting. It’s easy to become discouraged or wonder if God has forgotten you.
If you’re in a waiting season, this is your reminder: don’t grow weary. God is still working, even when you can’t see it. His delays are never the same as His denial, and His timing is always purposeful.
“Let us not get tired of doing good, for we will reap at the proper time if we don’t give up.” — Galatians 6:9 ❤️
I pray this episode encourages you to keep trusting, keep believing, and keep holding on.
Love and light
Ri
Happy Girlfriends day // Bare Minimum gent and and…..
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!Happy Girlfriends Day. 🤍This episode is more than a celebration of friendship—it’s an honest conversation …
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Happy Girlfriends Day. 🤍
This episode is more than a celebration of friendship—it’s an honest conversation between two girlfriends who have done life together.
We talked about our journey as friends, what it means to be the strong friend, the weight of carrying everyone else, and those existential thoughts that quietly creep in when life gets overwhelming.
We also unpacked bare minimum energy in dating and why true sisterhood often reminds us of what healthy love looks like. The women who love us well, show up consistently, communicate, and celebrate us often set the standard for how we should expect to be treated in every relationship.
If you’ve ever questioned your standards, felt the pressure of always being the strong one, or simply wanted to listen in on an honest conversation between two friends, this episode is for you.
Can you stand the rain in a relationship ?
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!Everyone wants the soft life, the flowers, the baecations, the cute pictures, and the “relationship …
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Everyone wants the soft life, the flowers, the baecations, the cute pictures, and the “relationship goals.”
But what happens when the rain comes?
When your partner loses their job.
When grief changes them.
When a health scare shakes everything.
When life isn’t romantic anymore.
Love isn’t only tested in the sunshine—it’s revealed in the grey skies and the storm.
This episode isn’t about settling for unhealthy relationships. It’s about asking ourselves an honest question before we commit to someone:
Can you stand the rain?
Are you storm material?
Men are begging women for money // Oversharing on social media // Dealing with disappointment
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!In this episodeI’m unpacking three big conversations: the controversy around men asking women for money …
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In this episode
I’m unpacking three big conversations: the controversy around men asking women for money. Why has this sparked so much outrage?
Also Jesus just needs to come get us. Crazy things are happening
From there, I shift into a more personal space—oversharing on the internet and what we choose to keep private in a world that encourages constant transparency.
Speaking of oversharing, there are just some things you could never pay me to talk about publicly. Certain experiences are personal, and not everything needs to be shared with the internet. That’s just me.
Lastly I close by reflecting on disappointment—how we deal with it, what it teaches us, and how it shapes the way we see life and Gods plans for us. This one is honest, layered, and reflective.
Love and Light
Ri
May 🌸 Birthday Month… Gratitude // Anything is possible black child
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!In this episode, I talk about gratitude in real time—what it looks like to appreciate where you are while …
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In this episode, I talk about gratitude in real time—what it looks like to appreciate where you are while still still dreaming about where you’re going and most importantly looking at where you’re coming from.
Also touched on Brizzo. Him being on tour with B2k.. That lit something in me… Confirmation. Confirmation that dreams are real, and they’re closer than we think.
His gratitude to God lit something even bigger.
And with it being my birthday month 🥹 I’ve just been overwhelmed with gratitude. God has carried me through seasons I didn’t even think I’d survive, and somehow I’m still here, still growing, still becoming.
So this is your sign to pause, reflect, and say thank you—for everything that’s working out, even the parts you don’t fully understand yet. Your journey is unfolding exactly how it needs to. ✨
Love and light
Ri
Life , Career, love and hard truths ft Kelvin
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!This episode is a real conversation between two friends about life, career (surviving the aviation …
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This episode is a real conversation between two friends about life, career (surviving the aviation industry) love, and growth.
We explore relationships from both perspectives — the misunderstandings, the expectations, and the importance of honesty with yourself and your partner.
It’s not perfect, and that’s the point. Just two people trying to make sense of it all while being real about their experiences and lessons learned
We also unpack real-life experiences, including the things women do that men don’t always like, and the pressure both sides feel in modern relationships.
It’s not about blaming anyone — it’s about understanding, learning, and growing.
PS: If you’ve ever struggled to be fully real with your partner, this conversation is for you.
Love and Light
Ri and Kelvin
The seasons of Iife nobody prepares you for
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!There are seasons of life nobody prepares you for.Not even life itself will prepare you for them.The …
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There are seasons of life nobody prepares you for.
Not even life itself will prepare you for them.
The seasons where things don’t look the way you imagined (The life you thought you’d be living vs reality)
The seasons where prayers feel delayed and everyone around you seems to be moving forward.
The seasons where you question everything.
Just because your life looks different right now doesn’t mean you’re behind.
The quiet seasons are the ones where God is doing His deepest work. 🌱
Love and light 🖤
Ri
When will you marry ? // Embracing Change // God Restores
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!So… when are you getting married?’ A question many hear, but few talk about the pressure behind it. As if …
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So… when are you getting married?’
A question many hear, but few talk about the pressure behind it.
As if marriage is as easy as drinking water
Thou shall not stress anybody about marriage.
I briefly talked about embracing seasons of change, and trusting that God restores the years we feel we’ve lost, because with God, your story is never late — He is the God of suddenly.
Love and light
Ri
Love is eazi ft my boyfriend
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!Hey guysFirstly happy valentines Hope you guys were filled with love Secondly No better time to drop an …
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Hey guys
Firstly happy valentines
Hope you guys were filled with love
Secondly
No better time to drop an episode with my partner right ?
We tackled a couple of things (talking stages, honest conversations etc) answered a few of your questions but most importantly we stressed the fact that love is so eazi and straightforward.
I hope you’ll enjoy this episode just as much as we enjoyed relishing it for you
Love and Light
Ri
A heavy start to 2026…..
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!Happy New Everyone 🤍Welcome to season 3 of the HMOS podcast. I hope the beginning of the year is feeling …
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Happy New Everyone 🤍
Welcome to season 3 of the HMOS podcast.
I hope the beginning of the year is feeling like a warm hug from God.
This episode is raw.
In the beginning I was scared to record because I didn’t wanna be vulnerable but it’s okay not to be okay right ?
Life has been a lot lately .
The last two months have been a sad movie and unfortunately I’ve been the main actress.
I’ve questioned God a lot lately but I’ve also trusted him more.
Extremely anxious about this year but also praying it goes well.
Enjoy listening
Love and light
Ri 🤍
Merry Christmas // Life Lately // The end of 2025 and and……
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!Season 3 Finale…We’ve finally come to the end of this season.This episode is a bit all over the place..,in …
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Season 3 Finale…
We’ve finally come to the end of this season.
This episode is a bit all over the place..,in the best way.
I touch on quite a few things, but at its core, it’s a life update. Conversations from Friendsmas sparked a lot of reflection, leaving me questioning life, people, and the lack of authenticity in this social-media era… and more.
But you know what? I won’t say too much.
I’ll let you listen.
Lastly, thank you so much for the immense love and support throughout this season. I’m truly grateful, more than words can express.
Love and light, always.
Ri
Can never be me
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!You know how sometimes we utter the words can never be me ? OhoooI’m sure if you have experienced real …
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You know how sometimes we utter the words can never be me ? Ohooo
I’m sure if you have experienced real life you’ll know that it really can be you.
Even tomorrow
Read a post to you guys that sums up why you should never say
“Can never be me”
Enjoy
Ke December // Stop attaching yourself to an older version of people.
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!Hey guysI hope you’re doing well and enjoying December just like your host is. I can safely say the …
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Hey guys
I hope you’re doing well and enjoying December just like your host is.
I can safely say the December spirit is upon me
Last episode I spoke about how I wasn’t feeling December,
Oh hunaaay we are so up now lol
December is Decembering
Secondly
You know how people love to speak about someone when they haven’t even received an updated version of the person they’re speaking about ?
Oh “Maria is so so and so” yet you haven’t even spoken to me in decades.
You don’t know me
You don’t know the person I’ve become.
So when speaking about people or about a situation please ensure you get your facts right.
Download the updated version of people
Love and light
Maria
Christmas as an adult
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!T’is the season to be jolly 🎄I don’t know if it’s just me or Christmas hasn’t really been the same …
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T’is the season to be jolly 🎄
I don’t know if it’s just me or Christmas hasn’t really been the same lately.
Maybe because I’m an adult now.
Maybe because life isn’t as easy as it was when I was younger.
Maybe because I’m not looking forward to Santa.
Can’t exactly pin point what it is but I truly want the Christmas spark back.
In this episode I’m discussing Christmas as an adult. We’re kinda responsible for how our Christmas pans out now lol
Happy listening
Love and light
Ri.
Ending the year with gratitude // Advise for my corporate people
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!We’re inching towards the end of 2025. It’s been a long year tbh and it’s easy to feel discouraged around …
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We’re inching towards the end of 2025.
It’s been a long year tbh and it’s easy to feel discouraged around this time of the year.
Looking at your 2025 goals and realizing you haven’t achieved most of them.
That’s okay. As long you still have breath in your lungs. You can always try again but don’t forget to remain grateful. Even for the little things.
Second part is advise to my Corporate people.
Also this is advise to younger me if she were starting work tomorrow.
Enjoy listening
Love and light
Ri
Experiencing people differently
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!First things first in the beginning of this episode I said we’re six months into the new month.Forgive me …
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First things first in the beginning of this episode I said we’re six months into the new month.
Forgive me , it’s the fatigue. It’s supposed to be 6 days into the new month
Secondly
Have you ever experienced the worst side of somebody and then you go ahead and witness them display the best side of themselves to somebody else?
That is a thing. Especially With relationships but even with friends and family too.
The worst part is someone can treat you so poorly and then go ahead and treat the next person with utmost kindness.
In this episode I’m explaining how this is possible and also how more often than not it’s not a you thing. It’s the other person
Maybe they’re grieving, maybe they’ve lost a job, maybe they’re battling something so personal that they can’t even speak up.
So many possibilities but it’s still not a valid reason to treat people terribly.
Enjoy listening
Love and light
Ri
Are we saving or spending ? Let’s talk finances
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!In my 20s, money has been one of my biggest teachers. I’ve learned when to save, when to spend, and when …
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In my 20s, money has been one of my biggest teachers. I’ve learned when to save, when to spend, and when to live a little.
In this episode, I open up about how I’ve handled my finances so far, the lessons, the slip-ups, and the little wins that keep me going.
Saving money hasn’t always come easy for me, but I’ve learned a few things along the way. I’ve managed to grow my savings, cutdown on the expenses, mindset that keeps me disciplined, and understanding the difference between saving and investing.
Ps: I’m not a financial advisor or expert. Just stating what works for me
Love and Light
Ri
Health stress // Don’t let loneliness lead you back to people God has removed from your life // A healing conversation with my Dad
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!In this episode I briefly touch on my health ( currently going through it, pray for me)Also the main topic …
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In this episode I briefly touch on my health ( currently going through it, pray for me)
Also the main topic is loneliness leading you back to people that God has removed from your life. This is a very common thing and I think we don’t discuss this enough.
It’s okay to miss someone who was once a part of your life. However missing them doesn’t mean you go back. When God removes somebody from your life he’s heard and seen things you haven’t so trust him.
I also had a healing convo with my dad. I was teaching him how to say sorry.
I don’t understand why it’s so difficult for an African parent to apologize 😂
Enjoy listening
Love and light
Healing Conversations with my Mum
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!In this episode I discuss how opening up to my mom led to us healing our somewhat fractured relationship …
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In this episode I discuss how opening up to my mom led to us healing our somewhat fractured relationship.
I had a conversation with my mum about her parenting
We were both vulnerable and there was a lot of honesty and comprehension
She opened up about her parenting and explained that she came from a place of love.
This conversation was everything I never knew needed.
The convo also reminded me that communication really is key
Enjoy listening
Love and light
Moving out of your parents home. Yay or Nay?
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!At some point, we all feel that pull, the desire to step out of our parents’ house and into a space we can …
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At some point, we all feel that pull, the desire to step out of our parents’ house and into a space we can finally call our own.
In this episode, I reflect on the beauty of independence and the challenges that come with it.
There’s a certain kind of magic in creating your own space and building your life from the ground up.
There are so many important things I’ve learned from moving out (especially financial discipline) and why it can be one of the most empowering decisions you’ll ever make, when the time is right of course
Enjoy listening
Love and light
Ri
PTSD from being God’s strongest soldier // How long do you take to move on from heartbreak? Will you heal in heaven ? Lol
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!Gods strongest soldier ? I’m sure you have been on that list at some point. Maybe even consecutively.Sucks …
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Gods strongest soldier ? I’m sure you have been on that list at some point. Maybe even consecutively.
Sucks I know but it strengthens you.
If you’re similar to me and have topped that list quiet a number of times you’ll attest to the fact that you can actually develop PTSD.
It’s difficult to re wire your brain to enjoy the good things after constantly going through innumerable hurdles.
In this episode I dive into how being on that list induced a lot of anxiety and also the active steps I’m taking in order to heal from the PTSD
Also how long do you take to heal from a heartbreak ? Are you like me who takes a million years or you’ll heal in your next relationship or in heaven ? Lmao
I hope you enjoy this episode.
Easily one of my faves. I really relished recording it for you guys.
Love and light
Maria
Isolation.. Hearing from God
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!Isolation if you’re like me is important, especially if you use that time to seek God and hear what he’s …
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Isolation if you’re like me is important, especially if you use that time to seek God and hear what he’s been/ is trying to tell you..
The last two weeks have involved some isolation and I’ll explain what God has revealed to me.
I won’t get into the intricacies of this episode.
More than anything I just want you to listen
Love and light
Maria
Also somewhere between 4:50_04:57
Please Forgive my error.
I meant I CANNOT do life WITHOUT GOD
Not I can xx
Take care of yourself. Your health is your wealth
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!Eat healthy, exercise and drink lots of water.Being in good health is one of the biggest blessings. It’s …
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Eat healthy, exercise and drink lots of water.
Being in good health is one of the biggest blessings. It’s not until you fall ill and realize how much of a blessing good health is.
This episode is includes a few habits I’ve adopted that have been really helpful to me health wise.
Enjoy listening
Love and Light
Maria
Black Tax
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!In this episode, we take a hard look at the infamous black tax; the unspoken obligation that often keeps …
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In this episode, we take a hard look at the infamous black tax; the unspoken obligation that often keeps many in our communities from truly moving forward, the cultural expectation that can quietly drain our resources and stall our dreams.
While the dream is to build generational wealth and create opportunities for the next generation, the constant financial pull backwards can derail even the best-laid plans. Let’s unpack why this cycle exists, the toll it takes, and how we can start rewriting the narrative.
Love and light
Maria
Life update and everything in between
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!Hey everyone, just dropping in with a quick life update! In this episode I’m speaking about how I prayed …
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Hey everyone, just dropping in with a quick life update!
In this episode I’m speaking about how I prayed back in 2022 for my job and now, in 2025, I actually have the job.
I also share what it felt like getting exactly what you prayed for and how social media can sometimes make things look way glossier than they really are-because no one sees the struggle behind the scenes.
Also the waiting season I went through, (still going through btw) stepping out of my comfort zone, and all the little things happening in my life right now.
Just wanted to keep you all in the loop!
Love and Light
Ri
Minister of enjoyment (Grooving in your late 20s) // Would you recommend moving in with a friend? Some advice
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!Grooving in your late 20s is a full time job.You wake up fighting for your dear life.Also moving in with a …
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Grooving in your late 20s is a full time job.
You wake up fighting for your dear life.
Also moving in with a friend?
Yay or nay ?
For be big nay, I’ll briefly explain why in this episode
Happy listening
Love and light
Still waiting on God // Late 20s and the Marriage talk.
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!Hey EveryoneI’m back like I never left.Today I’m diving a little deeper into my waiting season. Not the …
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Hey Everyone
I’m back like I never left.
Today I’m diving a little deeper into my waiting season.
Not the easiest season but I’m trusting God. If you’re waiting on God for something, please keep the faith.
Isaiah 60:22
Also everyone’s getting married.. We’ve really reached that age.
Scary, but aging is a beautiful thing.
Marriage is a gift from God and it’s a forever thing. Pick your life partners wisely ☺️
Pre & Post Birthday Thoughts 💭 Appreciating life more.
Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode!In this episode, I take a quiet pause to reflect on the days leading up to my birthday—and the ones that …
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In this episode, I take a quiet pause to reflect on the days leading up to my birthday—and the ones that followed. From the chaos of past celebrations to the calm I’ve finally found within, I talk about how the years have shaped me, how growth has softened me, and how peace has slowly become my new normal. It’s not just about getting older; it’s about evolving, letting go, learning, and embracing the woman I’m becoming—flaws, faith, softness and all.
If you’ve ever felt a shift around your birthday—the good, the uncertain, or the deeply reflective—you’ll feel right at home in this one.
Love and light
Maria
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