Love Life With Matthew Hussey
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- 13 Nov 2026
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Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing! Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.
Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
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Episodios 1.010
What to Do When Someone Starts Pulling Away | Rewind
The moment someone starts pulling away, something strange can happen: we become even more determined to make them want us.We replay conversations, wonder what changed, and start thinking about what we could say …
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The moment someone starts pulling away, something strange can happen: we become even more determined to make them want us.
We replay conversations, wonder what changed, and start thinking about what we could say or do to bring back the excitement they showed in the beginning.
But there's a question we rarely stop to ask: Why are we fighting so hard for someone who's becoming less certain about us?
In this episode, I explain why we can become so attached to someone who's losing interest, how a scarcity mindset and low self-worth can make us overvalue a connection, and the biggest mistake people make when someone suddenly goes cold.
I also share a simple exercise to help you recognize the difference between being attracted to someone and knowing they'd actually make a great partner.
If you've been trying to win back someone's attention, this episode will help you look at the situation differently. Their uncertainty about you might be the very reason you need to start questioning whether they're right for you.
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How to Get Them to Text You Without Chasing | Rewind
“If they wanted to text you, they would.”We've heard this advice so many times that it's almost become a rule of modern dating. Don't text first. Match their energy. Never give more than you're getting.And …
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“If they wanted to text you, they would.”
We've heard this advice so many times that it's almost become a rule of modern dating. Don't text first. Match their energy. Never give more than you're getting.
And while there's wisdom in not chasing someone who isn't making an effort, following these rules too rigidly can actually work against you.
In this episode, I challenge the idea that protecting your self-respect means always waiting for the other person to make a move.
Using a listener's question about a man who's great on dates but barely texts in between, I explain why there's a crucial difference between matching someone's effort and showing them the kind of communication you'd like to have.
We also get into something that I think changes the way we approach early dating: What if reaching out first wasn't about getting someone to like you, but about finding out whether they're capable of giving you the relationship you want?
It's a small shift that can change how you handle texting, rejection, vulnerability, and the fear of coming across as desperate.
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The Dating Red Flag That Looks Like Romance | Rewind
Someone can plan romantic dates, take you on incredible trips, and make you feel special when you're together... and still have no intention of building a relationship with you.That's what makes this particular …
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Someone can plan romantic dates, take you on incredible trips, and make you feel special when you're together... and still have no intention of building a relationship with you.
That's what makes this particular red flag in early dating so easy to miss.
Maybe they make grand gestures, but rarely check in between dates. Maybe your time together feels amazing, but the connection doesn't seem to grow when you're apart. And because they're making an effort to see you, you assume they must be serious about you.
But are they trying to build a relationship, or are they simply enjoying the experiences they get to have with you?
In this episode, I share a real coaching story that reveals why romantic gestures aren't always a sign of genuine investment, how to recognize when someone wants the experience of dating you without the commitment, and what to do when their actions aren't matching what you need.
We also explore how to stop getting distracted by short-term excitement at the expense of what you really want in your love life.
Because a few incredible weekends with someone can end up costing you months of waiting for a relationship that was never really developing.
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How to Let Go of the One That Got Away | Rewind
Have you ever met someone who felt like the right person, only for circumstances to make a relationship impossible?Maybe the connection was incredible. You both had feelings for each other. But because of …
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Have you ever met someone who felt like the right person, only for circumstances to make a relationship impossible?
Maybe the connection was incredible. You both had feelings for each other. But because of distance, timing, or something happening in their life, they told you they couldn't be with you.
And now you're left wondering how to move on from someone who, under different circumstances, might have been the love of your life.
In this episode, I respond to a listener who's struggling to let go of someone he adores, even though she's told him she can't be in a relationship right now.
We explore why the idea of "the right person at the wrong time" can make heartbreak so difficult to overcome, the difference between someone who can't be with you and someone who chooses not to, and how holding on to what could have been can keep you from living the life that's still ahead of you.
Because as painful as it is to lose a connection that felt so promising, there's an important question worth asking: If a happy relationship wasn't possible, what exactly are you holding on to?
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Why You Keep Falling for the Wrong People | Rewind
Have you ever looked back at the people you've dated and realized you keep falling for the same type of person, even when those relationships never seem to work out?Maybe you're always drawn to someone who's …
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Have you ever looked back at the people you've dated and realized you keep falling for the same type of person, even when those relationships never seem to work out?
Maybe you're always drawn to someone who's emotionally unavailable, unpredictable, or exciting in ways that ultimately leave you feeling insecure. Or perhaps you've met someone who treats you well, makes you feel comfortable, and genuinely interests you, but you dismiss them because they're just not your usual type.
So how much of what we call our "type" is genuine attraction, and how much is simply what we've become used to?
In this episode, we explore why we keep repeating the same dating patterns, how familiarity can influence who we find attractive, and why the qualities that initially excite us aren't always the ones that make us happiest in a relationship.
We also discuss how attraction can grow in unexpected places, and why being more open to people outside your usual type doesn't mean settling for someone you don't feel chemistry with.
You might be surprised by who you could fall for if you stopped assuming you already know exactly what your type is.
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Everything you know about confidence is WRONG | Matt Monday
Have you ever wondered why, after everything you’ve achieved and experienced in life, you still don’t feel as confident as you thought you would by now?Maybe you’ve spent years working on yourself, building a …
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Have you ever wondered why, after everything you’ve achieved and experienced in life, you still don’t feel as confident as you thought you would by now?
Maybe you’ve spent years working on yourself, building a career, or achieving things you thought would finally make you feel good enough. And yet, one rejection or setback can still leave you questioning your worth.
Why is confidence so easy to lose, even when we’ve worked so hard to build it?
In this week’s episode, I share my 3 Layers of Confidence model and explain why so much of the confidence advice we hear misses what actually matters.
I also reveal four of the biggest barriers keeping us from building the kind of confidence that doesn't disappear when life doesn't go our way.
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What If You Never Find Love? | Rewind
What if you never find the love you've always wanted?It's a fear many people carry, especially when they've spent years dating, watching other people find relationships, and wondering when it will finally be …
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What if you never find the love you've always wanted?
It's a fear many people carry, especially when they've spent years dating, watching other people find relationships, and wondering when it will finally be their turn.
But how do you make peace with the possibility that something you want so deeply might never happen, without giving up hope of finding it?
In this episode, we respond to a listener who, at 51, is confronting that very question. We talk about the danger of measuring your life against someone else's, how focusing on the worst-case scenario can rob you of the possibilities still ahead, and why there's more than one way to experience a deeply loving and meaningful life.
We also explore how our expectations of what love should look like can sometimes prevent us from recognizing the connections right in front of us.
Because you may not be able to guarantee the love story you've imagined. But that doesn't mean you can't have an extraordinary life, or that your best chapters aren't still ahead of you.
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Why You Get ADDICTED To The Wrong Person w/ Gabby Bernstein
Have you ever had something happen in your love life that affected you far more than you thought it should?Maybe someone pulled away. You got rejected. Or a relationship ended. And instead of simply feeling …
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Have you ever had something happen in your love life that affected you far more than you thought it should?
Maybe someone pulled away. You got rejected. Or a relationship ended. And instead of simply feeling disappointed or hurt, you couldn’t stop thinking about it. You replayed what happened, obsessed over what you could have done differently, and felt desperate to get back the person or connection you lost.
At what point does normal disappointment become something deeper?
In this episode, I sit down with Gabby Bernstein to talk about what’s really happening when someone pulling away, rejecting us, or becoming unavailable triggers a reaction that feels completely out of proportion to the relationship itself.
We talk about anxious attachment, obsessive thoughts and rumination, the difference between wanting love and needing a relationship to feel safe, and why certain people can become so difficult to let go of. We also explore how these patterns can influence who we’re attracted to in the first place.
Gabby shares a practical four-step exercise you can use when you feel emotionally hijacked, so that instead of immediately reaching for the other person, you can begin to understand what the reaction is actually asking for.
Because sometimes the person you’re desperately trying to get back isn’t the thing you need most in that moment.
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How to Get Over Someone Who Ghosted You | Rewind
You’ve been ghosted. They’re gone. But somehow, the conversation with them is still happening in your head.You reread the messages. You wonder what you did wrong. You search for the clue that will finally …
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You’ve been ghosted. They’re gone. But somehow, the conversation with them is still happening in your head.
You reread the messages. You wonder what you did wrong. You search for the clue that will finally explain why they disappeared.
The problem is, our need for closure can become a desperate attempt to regain control in a situation where we have none. And every time we go looking for an answer, we risk reopening the wound.
In this episode, I’ll show you how to stop that cycle and create the closure you didn’t get from them, including a specific text you can send—not to get them back or force a response, but to help yourself finally move forward.
Because sometimes closure isn’t an answer someone else gives you. It’s deciding you no longer need their answer to move on.
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How To Instantly Become Better At Flirting | Matt Monday
What do people who are naturally good at flirting do differently?It’s easy to assume they’re more confident, more attractive, or simply better at knowing what to say. But after nearly 20 years of studying …
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What do people who are naturally good at flirting do differently?
It’s easy to assume they’re more confident, more attractive, or simply better at knowing what to say. But after nearly 20 years of studying attraction and watching hundreds of first dates, I’ve noticed something else going on.
In this week’s episode, I break down three great flirting scenes from movies that look completely different on the surface but all have one surprising thing in common.
And it’s something most flirting advice completely misses.
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How to Get Through the Worst Heartbreak | Rewind
What if the reason your heartbreak isn’t getting better isn’t because you haven’t tried hard enough to move on, but because there’s a part of it you still haven’t allowed yourself to feel?I recently sat down …
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What if the reason your heartbreak isn’t getting better isn’t because you haven’t tried hard enough to move on, but because there’s a part of it you still haven’t allowed yourself to feel?
I recently sat down with David Kessler, one of the world’s leading experts on grief, and something he said stopped me in my tracks: “You don’t have a broken mind. You have a broken heart.”
We spend so much time trying to think our way out of heartbreak. We compare our pain to other people’s. We distract ourselves. We turn sadness into anger. We tell ourselves we should be over it by now. But underneath all of that may be grief we’ve never really attended to.
And I know that because, during this conversation, David helped me recognize some of my own.
In this episode, we talk about why heartbreak is a form of grief, what anger may actually be protecting us from, and why avoiding painful emotions can sometimes keep us stuck in them for much longer.
Most importantly, we talk about what it looks like to actually show up for yourself in those moments with more compassion and a kinder internal voice.
You may not be able to change what broke your heart. But you can change how you meet yourself in the pain that follows.
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Feel Them Pulling Away? Here's What To Do next... | Matt Monday
Have you ever noticed that the moment someone starts pulling away, you suddenly want them more?Maybe they’re taking longer to reply. Their texts are getting shorter. Or they haven’t made plans to see you again …
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Have you ever noticed that the moment someone starts pulling away, you suddenly want them more?
Maybe they’re taking longer to reply. Their texts are getting shorter. Or they haven’t made plans to see you again. Nothing has actually happened, but you can feel that something has changed.
And suddenly, someone you were still figuring out becomes the person you can’t stop thinking about.
Before you know it, the question has changed from “Do I actually want this person?” to “How do I get them to want me again?”
Why does that shift happen? And why can not knowing where you stand feel even more painful than being rejected?
In this week’s video, I break down what’s really happening in these moments, and I sit down with Gabby Bernstein to talk about why distance can trigger such an intense reaction in us, and how to stop it from taking over.
Because sometimes, the person pulling away isn’t the real reason it hurts this much.
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Are You Giving Too Much in Your Relationships? | Rewind
Have you ever realized that you’re the one keeping a relationship alive?You’re the one who reaches out. The one who checks in. The one who remembers, helps, gives, and shows up. And after a while, instead of …
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Have you ever realized that you’re the one keeping a relationship alive?
You’re the one who reaches out. The one who checks in. The one who remembers, helps, gives, and shows up. And after a while, instead of feeling generous, you start feeling resentful.
We often think the answer is to get the other person to give more. But what happens when they don’t?
In this episode, I talk about why sometimes the only way to stop the resentment is to start giving less—and why doing that can be much harder than it sounds. Because when you stop propping up a relationship, you may discover just how much of it was being held together by you.
And then comes the part we don’t talk about enough: the guilt of pulling back, the fear of losing someone you love, and the grief of realizing the relationship may never be what you hoped it was.
Whether it’s a friend, a family member, or someone else you love deeply, this episode is about finding a new way to love someone without constantly draining yourself to keep the relationship going.
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13 Subtle Ways to Make Him Want You More | Rewind
There are small things we do in the early stages of dating that can have a surprisingly big impact on how someone sees us, and on the kind of relationship we end up creating with them.Sometimes we’re so focused …
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There are small things we do in the early stages of dating that can have a surprisingly big impact on how someone sees us, and on the kind of relationship we end up creating with them.
Sometimes we’re so focused on whether someone likes us that we don’t stop to think about the tone we’re setting. Are we showing them what we value? Are we making it too easy for the relationship to exist entirely on their terms? Are we communicating what we want without even realizing it?
In this episode, I’m giving you 13 practical ways to be taken more seriously by someone you’re dating. Some are incredibly subtle, but they can change the entire dynamic. And I won’t just tell you what to do: I’ll explain the psychology behind each one and give you specific examples and texts you can adapt to your own situation.
Because what you establish in the beginning can follow you throughout an entire relationship. Get this part right, and you give yourself a much better chance of building something where you’re not simply hoping they choose you; you’re finding out whether the two of you can actually build something together.
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3 Traps Keeping You Stuck After Narcissistic Betrayal | Matt Monday
Why can someone who treated you terribly still be so hard to get over?You know they lied. You remember the manipulation, the gaslighting, and all the ways they made you question yourself. And yet, even after …
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Why can someone who treated you terribly still be so hard to get over?
You know they lied. You remember the manipulation, the gaslighting, and all the ways they made you question yourself. And yet, even after you leave, you can still find yourself replaying what happened, searching for answers, or wondering whether somehow you were the problem.
That’s because getting a narcissist out of your life and getting free from their effects are two very different things.
In this week’s episode, I break down three of the biggest traps that can keep us emotionally tied to a narcissist long after the relationship ends, and what it actually takes to start getting your life back.
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What Men Say vs. What They Really Mean | Rewind
Have you ever walked away from a conversation with a guy thinking, “Wait... what did he actually mean by that?”Maybe he says he “isn’t ready for a relationship right now” but continues acting like your …
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Have you ever walked away from a conversation with a guy thinking, “Wait... what did he actually mean by that?”
Maybe he says he “isn’t ready for a relationship right now” but continues acting like your boyfriend. Or he tells you he “doesn’t want to hurt you” while still pursuing you. Suddenly, you’re analyzing every word, wondering whether you should give him a chance or take what he’s saying as a warning.
In this episode, I’m breaking down 9 of the most confusing things men say in dating, based on real examples you sent me, including:
- How to tell when an “excuse” is actually a red flag
- What to listen for when someone says they’re not ready for a relationship
- How to know when someone is keeping things deliberately vague
- The difference between someone who genuinely needs time and someone who just wants something casual
- When to stop analyzing their words and start paying attention to their actions
If you’ve ever found yourself trying to decode mixed messages or wondering whether you’re reading too much into what someone said, this episode will help you see the situation more clearly and know when it’s safe to keep going, and when it’s time to walk away.
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Are You Mistaking Red Flags for Chemistry? | Rewind
Have you ever wondered why you can feel so much chemistry with someone who's inconsistent, unavailable, or clearly wrong for you... yet struggle to feel the same spark with someone who actually treats you …
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Have you ever wondered why you can feel so much chemistry with someone who's inconsistent, unavailable, or clearly wrong for you... yet struggle to feel the same spark with someone who actually treats you well?
You may genuinely want a healthy, stable relationship. But when you've become accustomed to the emotional highs and lows of unpredictable relationships, healthy attention can feel strangely unfamiliar—and sometimes even boring.
So does that mean you have to choose between chemistry and a healthy relationship? Absolutely not.
In this episode, I'll show you three ways to build real attraction with the right person, including:
- Why emotionally unavailable people can feel so addictive
- How unpredictability can get mistaken for chemistry
- Why someone being consistent doesn't mean the relationship has to lack excitement
- Three ways to create attraction without relying on games, anxiety, or emotional highs and lows
The good news is, you don’t have to choose between feeling a spark and being with someone who treats you well. You can have both. And once you learn to feel attraction without needing the emotional roller coaster, it can completely change who you choose next.
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The #1 sign you’re about to find love | Matt Monday
Two years ago, I met Ann at one of my Retreats. She stood up in tears and told me something I’ll never forget:“I feel like I’m not worthy.”Life had given her plenty of reasons to believe it. She had spent years …
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Two years ago, I met Ann at one of my Retreats. She stood up in tears and told me something I’ll never forget:
“I feel like I’m not worthy.”
Life had given her plenty of reasons to believe it. She had spent years feeling unseen, making herself smaller, and slowly losing touch with the person she used to be.
Two years later, I sat down with Ann again to find out what happened next.
And even knowing parts of her story, I wasn’t prepared for everything she had to tell me.
If life has ever made you question your worth or wonder whether it’s too late for things to be different, I really hope you’ll listen this one.
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Will They Lose Interest After You Sleep Together? | Rewind
Sex can bring up some of the biggest questions in dating: When is the right time to sleep with someone? Should you talk about what it means beforehand? And what if you have sex and they suddenly pull away?If …
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Sex can bring up some of the biggest questions in dating: When is the right time to sleep with someone? Should you talk about what it means beforehand? And what if you have sex and they suddenly pull away?
If you've ever worried that sleeping with someone too soon could make them lose interest—or felt like having sex somehow meant giving away your power—this episode is for you.
I'm answering some of the questions people come to me with in full SOS mode, including:
- When to have sex with someone you're dating
- How to talk about sex before you sleep together (including a simple script you can adapt)
- What to do if someone rejects or ghosts you afterward
- How to stop tying your sense of power to whether someone stays or leaves
Because your power doesn't come from making all the "right" moves so someone chooses you. It comes from knowing you'll be OK no matter what they choose.
If you've been overthinking when to have sex, worrying about getting attached, or wondering whether sleeping with someone will change how they feel about you, this episode will help you approach sex and dating with more confidence and far less fear.
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How to Know If You're Being Love Bombed | Rewind
It starts off feeling like the relationship you've been waiting for.The connection is instant. They can't get enough of you. Every text makes you smile. They talk about the future, make you feel chosen, and …
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It starts off feeling like the relationship you've been waiting for.
The connection is instant. They can't get enough of you. Every text makes you smile. They talk about the future, make you feel chosen, and leave you wondering how you got so lucky.
Then everything changes.
The messages slow down. The excitement disappears. You're left replaying every conversation, trying to figure out what happened and whether any of it was real.
The hardest part? Love bombing doesn't always look like manipulation. Sometimes it looks exactly like the beginning of a healthy relationship, which is why so many smart, self-aware people don't recognize it until they're already emotionally invested.
In this episode, I'll show you how to tell the difference between genuine interest and love bombing before it pulls you in. We'll unpack the subtle warning signs most people overlook, why intense chemistry can override your instincts, and how to protect your heart without becoming guarded or cynical.
If you've ever found yourself asking, "How did something that felt so real disappear so fast?" this episode will give you the clarity to spot the difference and save yourself from that heartbreak in the future.
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My wife Audrey answers your personal questions | Matt Monday
After so many requests, Audrey's finally back!In this week's episode, she's answering some of your biggest relationship questions. We talk about rebuilding trust after heartbreak, jealousy over a partner's …
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After so many requests, Audrey's finally back!
In this week's episode, she's answering some of your biggest relationship questions. We talk about rebuilding trust after heartbreak, jealousy over a partner's past, feeling "behind" in dating, keeping a marriage strong, and what really makes someone attractive.
Whether you're single, dating, or married, I think there's something in this conversation that will stay with you.
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How to Meet the Right Men | Rewind
"Where can I actually meet someone?"It's one of the most common dating questions, and one that's become even more frustrating in the age of dating apps and endless swiping.In this episode, we explore why so …
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"Where can I actually meet someone?"
It's one of the most common dating questions, and one that's become even more frustrating in the age of dating apps and endless swiping.
In this episode, we explore why so many people feel stuck meeting the same kinds of people, whether there's really a "best place" to meet someone great, and the simple shifts that can dramatically increase your chances of finding a meaningful relationship.
If you're tired of wondering where all the good men are, or feel like you've exhausted every dating app and social circle, this episode will help you rethink where, and more importantly, how you meet the right person.
Have a question about your own dating or relationship? Ask Matthew AI anytime at AskMH.com.
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How to Tell If Someone Is Love Bombing You | Rewind
Love bombing can feel exactly like the beginning of the relationship you've always wanted.The chemistry is instant. They want to see you all the time. They talk about the future, make you feel special, and …
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Love bombing can feel exactly like the beginning of the relationship you've always wanted.
The chemistry is instant. They want to see you all the time. They talk about the future, make you feel special, and everything seems to move at lightning speed. Then, just as quickly, something changes. The messages become less frequent, they start pulling away, and you're left wondering whether any of it was real.
In this episode, Matthew breaks down three simple ways to tell the difference between genuine interest and love bombing. He explains why intensity isn't the same as intimacy, the warning signs many of us miss in the early stages of dating, and how to protect yourself without becoming cynical about love.
If you've ever found yourself questioning whether someone's feelings were real—or worrying about getting swept up too quickly—this episode will help you date with more confidence and clarity.
Have a question about your own dating or relationship? Ask Matthew AI at AskMH.com
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How to Get Over Someone You Still Can't Get Over | Rewind
Some people stay with us long after they're gone.Not because they were the right person, but because we remember how they made us feel.In this episode, I answer a question from a listener who can't seem to let …
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Some people stay with us long after they're gone.
Not because they were the right person, but because we remember how they made us feel.
In this episode, I answer a question from a listener who can't seem to let go of someone she met two years ago. Their chemistry felt effortless. Their connection felt rare. Yet the relationship never became what she hoped it would.
Together, they explore why certain people become impossible to forget, how nostalgia can distort the story we tell ourselves, and why chemistry alone is never enough to build a great relationship.
If you've ever wondered why you still can't get over someone who was never truly yours, or why every new person seems to fall short by comparison, this episode may change the way you think about heartbreak.
And if you're ready to go beyond understanding your heartbreak and start actively healing from it, join me for Healing Immersion Month LIVE—a 30-day coaching experience designed to help you let go, rebuild your confidence, and move forward with expert guidance and a supportive community. We start on July 28, 2026.
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How I Got Over My Worst Heartbreak (And You Can Too) | Matt Monday
I still remember the worst heartbreak of my life.I remember thinking I'd never feel okay again. I remember searching for answers. And I remember realizing that knowing what to do isn't the same as actually …
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I still remember the worst heartbreak of my life.
I remember thinking I'd never feel okay again. I remember searching for answers. And I remember realizing that knowing what to do isn't the same as actually living through it.
Over time, I discovered a handful of things that genuinely changed the way I healed. Not because they made the pain disappear overnight, but because they helped me stop making an already painful experience even harder.
In this week's episode, I share the five things that got me through one of the hardest periods of my life, and the lessons I still come back to whenever I'm helping someone through heartbreak.
If you're going through heartbreak right now, or you're still carrying one from years ago, I hope this gives you a little hope, a little perspective, and reminds you that healing is possible.
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How to Move On When Your Ex Finds Someone Else | Rewind
There's a particular kind of heartbreak that comes from seeing your ex move on before you have.It can leave you wondering what they saw in someone else that they didn't see in you, or whether they were always …
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There's a particular kind of heartbreak that comes from seeing your ex move on before you have.
It can leave you wondering what they saw in someone else that they didn't see in you, or whether they were always meant to end up with someone else in the first place.
In this episode, Matthew answers a question from a live audience member who is trying to let go after the end of a five-year relationship. They talk about why it's so hard to move on when someone else seems to have done it so quickly, the role our ego plays in heartbreak, and one shift in perspective that can completely change the way we see the relationship we've lost.
If you've been feeling stuck after a breakup or can't stop thinking about your ex moving on, this is an episode you'll want to hear.
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The Truth About Heartbreak
Heartbreak has a way of changing everything. It can make the world feel unfamiliar, leave you questioning yourself, and convince you that no one could possibly understand the weight you're carrying.In this …
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Heartbreak has a way of changing everything. It can make the world feel unfamiliar, leave you questioning yourself, and convince you that no one could possibly understand the weight you're carrying.
In this special episode, I wanted to do something different. I'm reading an essay I wrote over the last ten days about heartbreak, what it really feels like, why it can be one of the most devastating experiences of our lives, and the hope that still exists even when you can't see it.
If you're in the middle of heartbreak right now, I hope this feels like someone sitting beside you in the darkness, reminding you that you're not alone and that healing is possible.
I also share details about 5 Days to Mend, a free five-day live experience beginning July 20, where I'll be with you each day to help you navigate heartbreak, answer your questions, and support you through the healing process. If your heart is hurting right now, I'd love for you to join me.
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How to Get Over Any Heartbreak | Matt Monday
Heartbreak has a way of convincing us that what we're feeling is unlike anything anyone else has ever experienced.But not all heartbreak is the same.The pain of losing someone you never really got to have isn't …
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Heartbreak has a way of convincing us that what we're feeling is unlike anything anyone else has ever experienced.
But not all heartbreak is the same.
The pain of losing someone you never really got to have isn't the same as the pain of losing a long-term relationship. And neither of those feels like the heartbreak of someone walking away without warning.
The truth is, different kinds of heartbreak keep us stuck for different reasons.
That's why, in this week's episode, I talk about the four kinds of heartbreak I see most often, why each one is so uniquely painful, and what it takes to move through it.
If you're going through heartbreak right now, or you're still carrying one from years ago, I hope it gives you a little clarity, a little hope, and reminds you that you're not alone.
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Will They Lose Interest After You Sleep Together? | Rewind
Worried that sleeping with someone will change the way they feel about you?In this episode, I tackle one of the biggest sources of anxiety in dating: when to have sex, how to bring up the conversation …
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Worried that sleeping with someone will change the way they feel about you?
In this episode, I tackle one of the biggest sources of anxiety in dating: when to have sex, how to bring up the conversation beforehand, and what to do if you're afraid of being rejected or ghosted afterward.
I also share a simple script you can adapt to make that conversation feel more natural, along with the mindset that will help you stop feeling like your happiness depends on someone else's response.
My hope is that, by the end of this episode, you'll feel more confident making decisions that are right for you, not out of fear of losing someone, but from a place of self-respect and clarity. Because when you know you'll be okay no matter the outcome, you stop worrying about "losing your power" and start dating with much more confidence.
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Running Out of Time to Find Love? | Rewind
If you've ever felt like you're running out of time to find love, you're not alone.It's easy to look around and feel like everyone else is moving forward while you're standing still. That pressure can make us …
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If you've ever felt like you're running out of time to find love, you're not alone.
It's easy to look around and feel like everyone else is moving forward while you're standing still. That pressure can make us settle for relationships that feel like progress, even when they're taking us further away from the love we actually want.
In this episode, Matthew shares seven mindset shifts to help you let go of the fear, comparison, and uncertainty that can come with being single. He explores why there is no universal timeline for love, why being in the wrong relationship is never better than being on your own, and how building a life you genuinely enjoy today puts you in the best position to find the right relationship tomorrow.
Whether you're feeling left behind, questioning your future, or simply tired of the pressure to have it all figured out, this conversation offers a healthier way to think about love, timing, and your own journey.
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