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Savage Lovecast

NuevoAfter Action Report #5513 de noviembre de 2026 · 23 min
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Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex and relationship questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, record your question and send it to [email protected], or call 206-302-2064. For a much longer version of the show, with no ads, visit savage.love and get yourself a subscription.

Episodios 1.113

  1. After Action Report #55

    23 minEpisodio 55

    What the F is an agonophile? We’ll tell you. It’s super-freak who gets turned on by struggling or fighting, a.k.a wrestling. Enter Darren- a bi man who has been into it since he was a wee teen. But it all …

    Notas del episodio

    What the F is an agonophile? We’ll tell you. It’s super-freak who gets turned on by struggling or fighting, a.k.a wrestling.

    Enter Darren- a bi man who has been into it since he was a wee teen. But it all clicked into place when he went home with a fellow kick-boxer…

    We love Darren! You will too!

    Do you have a tale of sexual interest…indulged?
    Write about it, and send it to us: [email protected]

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  2. Savage Love Episode 1044

    52 minEpisodio 1044

    Dan? Is there ANY nipple play porn for straights? Like AT ALL? A woman is into sexting and trading nude pics. She does NOT enjoy oral- neither giving nor receiving. But the fellas like to sext about it. Should …

    Notas del episodio

    Dan? Is there ANY nipple play porn for straights? Like AT ALL?

    A woman is into sexting and trading nude pics. She does NOT enjoy oral- neither giving nor receiving. But the fellas like to sext about it. Should she dash their hopes of it ever happening in person?

    On the Magnum, we welcome one of our favorite guests- Lina Dune of the Ask a Sub podcast! She and Dan do a deep dive into cuckolding. Dan maintains that threeways always involve some amount of the cuck dynamic. And can we dispense with the gendered term “cuckquean” (and its preposterous spelling?)

    And, hear the tale of the lonely stripper. She has little sexual experience, and has a hard time meeting men she would want to date, especially on the job. Is there a Grindr for straight women?

    The Levin & Meston nipple play study is ⁠here⁠.


    Got a question? Hot sex advice columnists are standing by!

    Call or text: 206-302-2064

    Email: [email protected]

    Click here, baby

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  3. After Action Report #54

    17 minEpisodio 54

    Meet Mark, a married man in his 60s who, with his husband, took part in a horse market. They encountered mares, stallions, handlers, and stable masters.If you’re wondering if you accidentally pressed play on …

    Notas del episodio

    Meet Mark, a married man in his 60s who, with his husband, took part in a horse market. They encountered mares, stallions, handlers, and stable masters.
    If you’re wondering if you accidentally pressed play on “The Equestrian Podcast,” you super-didn’t.


    Do you have a *tail* of sexual adventure? What the hay?
    Write it up and send it in to [email protected]


    This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial plus 25% off an annual subscription when you go to dipseastories.com/savage. 


  4. Savage Love Episode 1043

    49 minEpisodio 1043

    Oh my god you guys it’s the quickies show!You called. Asked fast. Dan kept answers shorter than usual. Enjoy. Phew! Now you can long-winded again. Call or text 206-302-2064 Email: [email protected] with your …

    Notas del episodio

    Oh my god you guys it’s the quickies show!You called. Asked fast. Dan kept answers shorter than usual.

    Enjoy.



    Phew! Now you can long-winded again.

    Call or text 206-302-2064

    Email: [email protected] with your recorded question.

    Or click ⁠here⁠.

    Take your time.


     This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Right now, Helix is offering 27% off site wide exclusively for Lovecast listeners. Go to ⁠HelixSleep.com/Savage⁠. With Helix, better sleep starts now. 

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  5. After Action Report #53

    20 minEpisodio 53

    Meet Nick, who went to Berlin for a bachelor party, and had his very first Folsom experience. What happens at Folsom Berlin? What happens at Lab.Oratory?Have a listen, and you’ll get an inkling. “It’s a little …

    Notas del episodio

    Meet Nick, who went to Berlin for a bachelor party, and had his very first Folsom experience.

    What happens at Folsom Berlin? What happens at Lab.Oratory?
    Have a listen, and you’ll get an inkling.

    “It’s a little overwhelming” says Dan Savage.

    Did you travel for an erotic adventure? YOU HAVE TO TELL US ABOUT IT.
    Send an email to [email protected] and spill it.



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  6. Savage Lovecast Episode 1042

    53 minEpisodio 1042

    A bisexual woman has started dating a lady for the first time. She doesn't feel much sexual spark. Is it because of the baggy, unflattering clothes her girlfriend wears? Is it ever appropriate to ask your …

    Notas del episodio

    A bisexual woman has started dating a lady for the first time. She doesn't feel much sexual spark. Is it because of the baggy, unflattering clothes her girlfriend wears?

    Is it ever appropriate to ask your doctor out? Your nurse? A woman wrings her hands over the ethics of leaving a thank-you note with her phone number on it for Max, the hot radiologist.

    On the Magnum, it's everybody's favorite gay former Mormon humor writer, Eli McCann! His new novel "Stitched" is on the NYT bestsellers list. And because there's Mormonism in the air, we got two calls from listeners about the Latter Day Saints. One is from a woman in her late 20s, newly divorced and free from the church. She wants to know how to embrace her sexuality. And another is from a mother whose daughter has Mormon friends, and they are trying to woo her into the hive. The mother is horrified. Should she be?

    A non-binary AFAB person has no desire to try to pass as a man. But they like pretending they have a small dick, and then have their boyfriend degrade and insult them.They both like it when he uses transphobic slurs as part of their dirty talk and role play. Cool?



    [email protected]

    ⁠Click me! ⁠

    206-302-2064

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  7. After Action Report #52

    20 minEpisodio 52

    Deep in rural Sweden, the tantric kinksters are getting FREAKY. At the “Sexsibility Festival” a 5-day erotic gathering where you can explore tantra, contact improv, and eye gazing along with impact play …

    Notas del episodio

    Deep in rural Sweden, the tantric kinksters are getting FREAKY.

    At the “Sexsibility Festival” a 5-day erotic gathering where you can explore tantra, contact improv, and eye gazing along with impact play workshops, there’s a lot to do and see. But everybody’s still gotta eat, right?

    Enter Pearse, who cooked breakfast for over 500 participants.

    He says it looks similar to Midsommar but without the murder. Hear what he did there, and most importantly, what he learned about… himself.


    What did YOU do at summer camp?Write about every little thing, and send it to [email protected]

    Read Pearse’s Playboy article ⁠here⁠.

    This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit ⁠VB.Health⁠ when you use the code Savage.


  8. Savage Love Episode 1041

    55 minEpisodio 1041

    A 25 year-old queer, plus-size woman has never been in a relationship or had sex. Both her size and virginity make it hard to connect with people through the apps. How can she break through these barriers and …

    Notas del episodio

    A 25 year-old queer, plus-size woman has never been in a relationship or had sex. Both her size and virginity make it hard to connect with people through the apps. How can she break through these barriers and get some lovin' already?


    A married woman for 18 years with kids is sick to death of her life. She wants to chuck the family, move to another town and have a ton of new sex. But she loves her family! How can she scratch this dangerous itch?


    On the Magnum, meet the Executive Director of the Kinsey Institute! Dan and Dr. Justin Garcia have a wide-ranging conversation about what the Kinsey Institute is, evolutionary biology, the cause of the sex recession and more. When asked what's the most expensive service one can buy at a legal brothel in Las Vegas, Dr. Garcia's answer may ...shock you.


    A cuckquean wants to figure out a way to get evidence of the hook-ups her boyfriend is enjoying while traveling. Can she ask for video without intruding too much?


    Record and email your question: [email protected]

    Call or text: 206-302-2064

    Click this here handy LINK.

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     This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Right now, Helix is offering 20% off site wide exclusively for Lovecast listeners. Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now. 

    This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage.


    Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From cuckqueans to compersion, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.

  9. After Action Report #51

    18 minEpisodio 51

    What’s it like to be a bearded, 6’4″, 250 pounc fella getting his nails done in preparation for the first crossdressing session with his wife? Dust off your gender studies 101 textbook and find out. Tell us …

    Notas del episodio

    What’s it like to be a bearded, 6’4″, 250 pounc fella getting his nails done in preparation for the first crossdressing session with his wife?

    Dust off your gender studies 101 textbook and find out.

    Tell us about your…transgressions.
    [email protected]

    This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage.


  10. Savage Love Episode 1040

    56 minEpisodio 1040

    A divorced father of adult children understood himself to be bisexual later in life. He digs men in an aromantic, casual sex kind of way. Is he obligated to tell his family? Does his connections with men fall …

    Notas del episodio

    A divorced father of adult children understood himself to be bisexual later in life. He digs men in an aromantic, casual sex kind of way. Is he obligated to tell his family? Does his connections with men fall under private sex life or public identity?


    A woman went to a sex party and met a hot female bouncer who throws out misbehaving guests. The caller wants to ask her to be her dom. Should she? How?


    On the Magnum, Dan and sex researcher Niki Davis-Fainbloom do a deep dive on fetishes. What's the difference between kinks and fetishes? What causes people to get into them- is it cultural or biological? Is the destigmatization of kink making it less hot? Listen in.


    And, a straight man matched with the woman who works at his local dry cleaners. He thinks she might be trouble- texting him from the bar at 1:30, maybe driving drunk. Should he avoid her or get a little hanky-panky from a hot, messy lady?



    Call us, text us, don't be afraid.

    206-302-2064

    Or record your question and send it to [email protected]

    Or just click ⁠HERE⁠.


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  11. After Action Report #50

    16 minEpisodio 50

    Imogen was a seasoned Burning Man pro. But she’d never done a threeway with whippets there before… Hear all about her dusty experience. What have YOU done lately? Hmmmm?Write up your experience (good or bad) …

    Notas del episodio

    Imogen was a seasoned Burning Man pro. But she’d never done a threeway with whippets there before…

    Hear all about her dusty experience.

    What have YOU done lately? Hmmmm?
    Write up your experience (good or bad) and send it to [email protected].


    This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial plus 25% off an annual subscription when you go to dipseastories.com/savage. 


  12. Savage Love Episode 1039

    59 minEpisodio 1039

    A gay man in his 60s is perplexed about foot fetishes, and what is so damn sexy about his feet. A man is frustrated by the concept of "false positives" when he tests for herpes. What on earth is going on here? …

    Notas del episodio

    A gay man in his 60s is perplexed about foot fetishes, and what is so damn sexy about his feet.

    A man is frustrated by the concept of "false positives" when he tests for herpes. What on earth is going on here? Dan brings on the delightful and calming Dr. Ina Park to explain the whole testing situation.

    On the Magnum, it's a bisexuality brawl with sex therapist Claire Perelman! Dan and Claire talk about the bisexual's plight in dating, and how to overcome the stigma.

    And a gay man and his boyfriend are moving in together. The boyfriend owns his apartment and asks the caller to pitch in toward a vacation fund in lieu of paying rent. Is this equitable?





    Your question:

    Call or text to: 206-302-2064

    Record and send to: [email protected]


    This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at ⁠Squarespace.com/Savage⁠ and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase.

     This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Right now, Helix is offering 27% off site wide exclusively for Lovecast listeners. Go to ⁠HelixSleep.com/Savage⁠. With Helix, better sleep starts now. 

    This episode is brought to you by Quince, high quality essential clothing, at radically low prices. Refresh your everyday with luxury you’ll actually use. Head to ⁠Quince.com/SAVAGE⁠ for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.


  13. After Action Report #49

    21 minEpisodio 49

    What's in the duffel bag? On her vacation to Bali, she hooked up with a hot, rich dude with a glass house in the jungle. But, what tricks did he have up his sleeve? After a bad experience at home, Julia had a …

    Notas del episodio

    What's in the duffel bag?


    On her vacation to Bali, she hooked up with a hot, rich dude with a glass house in the jungle.

    But, what tricks did he have up his sleeve?


    After a bad experience at home, Julia had a re-discovery of her best sexual self.



    Have a listen.


    And then send us your story!

    [email protected]


    This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage.

  14. Savage Love Episode 1038

    59 minEpisodio 1038

    We begin the show...drunkenly. A lit lady enjoys the sensation of touching ears. Room temperature, or slightly chilled. Not too cold. But "ear porn?" Is that a thing? A lucky fella won a three-month free entry …

    Notas del episodio

    We begin the show...drunkenly. A lit lady enjoys the sensation of touching ears. Room temperature, or slightly chilled. Not too cold. But "ear porn?" Is that a thing?

    A lucky fella won a three-month free entry to his local bathhouse. Whatever should he do when he's in there?

    Our guest this week is Allen Sulkin, creator of the new podcast "Gerbil." He and Dan analyze the persistence of the insane sex myth that you've probably heard about. Do people still believe it? They go into the dark motivations that allowed such a preposterous rumor to live on and on. Gerbil is out now, and you should drop everything to listen to it.

    And, should a woman demand her fiancé continue the painful, expensive tattoo removal from a previous marriage?



    People. Make good choices.

    Call or text your questions to: 206-302-2064

    Or send to [email protected]


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  15. After Action Report #48

    16 minEpisodio 48

    Just how polite are Canadians? Meet Owen, a Canuck whose good manners went above and beyond when he visited the red light district in Amsterdam. Name a lake after this guy! Tell us your story, right away!Send …

    Notas del episodio

    Just how polite are Canadians?

    Meet Owen, a Canuck whose good manners went above and beyond when he visited the red light district in Amsterdam.

    Name a lake after this guy!

    Tell us your story, right away!
    Send it to [email protected]


    This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage.


  16. Savage Love Episode 1037

    50 minEpisodio 1037

    Grapefruiting! It's a new sex act involving fruit! Can *any* word be verbed? Apparently! A woman wonders how anyone can successfully fake an orgasm, when the physical contractions should be noticeably felt. On …

    Notas del episodio

    Grapefruiting! It's a new sex act involving fruit! Can *any* word be verbed? Apparently!


    A woman wonders how anyone can successfully fake an orgasm, when the physical contractions should be noticeably felt.


    On the Magnum, Dan brings on a guest to definitively answer the question you all have: How long must you wait to masturbate after you've had a heart attack? Dr. Eugene Fan is a cardiologist with nothing but good news for you horndogs. As long as your heart is beating, you can beat off. He and Dan discuss a couple of heart health issues with the charming and reassuring Dr. Fan.


    And, is piss an acquired taste? Because this woman just doesn't like it.



    [email protected] 206-302-2064 (You can text us a voice memo too.)


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    Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From bondage to bisexuality, cuckolding to crossdressing and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, when we most need it.


  17. After Action Report #47

    18 minEpisodio 47

    No words exchanged. He lying in a hotel bed. She enters and just watches. It was their first and only date. Rachel’s story proves that scheduled sex most certainly CAN be hot. Hear her story, get turned on. If …

    Notas del episodio

    No words exchanged. He lying in a hotel bed. She enters and just watches. It was their first and only date.

    Rachel’s story proves that scheduled sex most certainly CAN be hot.

    Hear her story, get turned on.

    If YOU have a delicious tale to tell, write it down and send it in to [email protected].



    This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit ⁠VB.Health⁠ when you use the code Savage.

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  18. Savage Love Episode 1036

    46 minEpisodio 1036

    Bummer! A man had just met with a male-female couple who wanted him to take part in a kinky three-way. But when he confessed that he sometimes has trouble coming, they cancelled. Can he train himself to blow a …

    Notas del episodio

    Bummer! A man had just met with a male-female couple who wanted him to take part in a kinky three-way. But when he confessed that he sometimes has trouble coming, they cancelled. Can he train himself to blow a load? Need he?

    Speaking of loads, a woman credits her beautiful, supple skin to the facial treatments her husband obligingly administers. Can this be true? Any dermatologists care to weigh in?

    On the Magnum, Dan chats with filmmaker, actor and fetish content creator Julian Shaw. He wrote and directed the thriller Use Me, co-directs the documentary Acting Hard, and is the subject of Cam Boy, a documentary currently in production. He was the face of Australia's gay marriage fight, and had to "come out'" as straight. He and Dan cover a lot of ground in this convo about foot fetishes, the benefits and perils of sex work, the ethics of dating guys on the DL, and how to avoid stomach aches.

    Finally, a gay man in Italy asks if wearing a jockstrap tells the world that he is a bottom.


    [email protected]

    206-302-2064


     This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Right now, Helix is offering 27% off site wide exclusively for Lovecast listeners. Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now. 

    This episode is brought to you by Mack Weldon: timeless, innovative menswear to help you move through
    the day with confidence. Get 20% off your first order of $125 or more, with promo code SAVAGE at MackWeldon.com

    This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage.

  19. After Action Report #46

    19 minEpisodio 46

    Meet Tom who went on a very special vacation with his girlfriend. Packing checklist: Kink outfits Consent Form Waste bag How did it go? You'll find out. Send us your stories, your wonderful stories! …

    Notas del episodio

    Meet Tom who went on a very special vacation with his girlfriend.


    Packing checklist:

    Kink outfits

    Consent Form

    Waste bag



    How did it go? You'll find out.


    Send us your stories, your wonderful stories!

    [email protected]



    This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial plus 25% off an annual subscription when you go to dipseastories.com/savage. 


    This episode is brought to you by Lean- a weight loss supplement that works by lowering blood sugar and reducing appetite.If you have 10 or more pounds to lose, get started with 20% off and free rush shipping. Visit TakeLean.com and enter SAVAGE for your discount.

  20. Savage Love Episode 1035

    57 minEpisodio 1035

    A man has been together with his boyfriend for 10 years. The caller works long hard hours and values peace and quiet when he comes home. But his boyfriend works from home all day and pounces on his husband …

    Notas del episodio

    A man has been together with his boyfriend for 10 years. The caller works long hard hours and values peace and quiet when he comes home. But his boyfriend works from home all day and pounces on his husband, wanting to chat and interact. Dan was in a similar situation, but don't tell Dan's husband how he dealt with it.

    A divorced woman with children has been dating a man. Both are in open relationships, and he wears a wedding ring. Her kids don't yet know about ethical non-monogamy and her family disapproves, making this year's Rosh Hashanah dinner extra spicy.

    Our guest is the intrepid comedian Zach Noe Towers who sailed away on the gay ship that got turned away by homophobic country after homophobic country. He and Dan go Deep Gay on the scent of man, and whether uncircumcised dicks slip in easier. A little is on the Micro, and the uncut version is on the Magnum.

    And, a 35 year-old gay man connected with a guy via dating app, who seemed pretty darn cool. But when he learned the man was in his 60s, he politely rejected him. The guy accused our caller of being ageist. Is he?



    This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at ⁠Squarespace.com/Savage⁠ and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase.

    Foria is an all natural health & sexual wellness company with product lines using the power of plant actives & CBD to effectively enhance intimacy, sexual pleasure, daily wellbeing, and relief from discomfort. Right now get 20% off your 1st order by going to ⁠ForiaWellness.com/SAVAGE⁠ or use code SAVAGE at checkout.

    This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit ⁠VB.Health⁠ when you use the code Savage.


    Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.



  21. After Action Report #45

    16 minEpisodio 45

    Cat started a sex toy company, so she had to come out as kinky to friends and family. What she didn’t expect was the stampede of her mother’s boomer friends asking for product… Do you have a story of something …

    Notas del episodio

    Cat started a sex toy company, so she had to come out as kinky to friends and family. What she didn’t expect was the stampede of her mother’s boomer friends asking for product…

    Do you have a story of something you tried that was like, so embarrassing??!!Let us hear it: [email protected]


    This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit ⁠VB.Health⁠ when you use the code Savage.


  22. Savage Lovecast Episode 1034

    54 minEpisodio 1034

    Any military lawyers in the house? A gay man and his boyfriend, both serving active duty, want to open their relationship. But infidelity is forbidden by military law. How risky would this be? Now that chastity …

    Notas del episodio

    Any military lawyers in the house? A gay man and his boyfriend, both serving active duty, want to open their relationship. But infidelity is forbidden by military law. How risky would this be?

    Now that chastity play its all the rage, should we assume that a key necklace means something deeply kinky? And if so, should we knowingly wink when we see one?

    Sex/science nerds rejoice! Our Magnum guest this week is Distinguished Research Professor Dr. Lixing Sun, who wrote On the Origin of Sex. Dan and Dr. Sun discuss the deep biological underpinnings of sex: when and why did pleasure emerge in reproduction? Why hasn't homosexuality been selected against? And why don't we just reproduce like sponges?

    And, a woman no longer drinks, but her boyfriend still does. When he comes home reeking of beer and cigarettes, she feels repulsed by him. How can she explain that drinking a pitcher and getting laid that night are now mutually exclusive events?



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    Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From bondage to bisexuality, cuckolding to crossdressing and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, when we most need it.


  23. After Action Report #44

    19 minEpisodio 44

    Hey Everybody! Meet Jay- a pan, poly furry who, along with 15 other queer furries, met up for a "kink tasting, orgy event." What goes on at kink cabin? We won't say here, but please know that an inflatable …

    Notas del episodio

    Hey Everybody! Meet Jay- a pan, poly furry who, along with 15 other queer furries, met up for a "kink tasting, orgy event."


    What goes on at kink cabin? We won't say here, but please know that an inflatable horse costume was involved.

    Also, Dan brings a much needed Marxist interrogation to the story.

    If you have a tale to share, write it up and send it in to [email protected]

  24. Savage Love Episode 1033

    52 minEpisodio 1033

    A gay, married couple journeyed to Montreal to enjoy the services of a tantric masseur. And they REALLY enjoyed him. But did this open Pandora's box? How can they continue to have earth-shattering, mind-blowing …

    Notas del episodio

    A gay, married couple journeyed to Montreal to enjoy the services of a tantric masseur. And they REALLY enjoyed him. But did this open Pandora's box? How can they continue to have earth-shattering, mind-blowing sex when it's back to the hum-drum two of them?

    A caller wonders if folks who enjoy adult baby play actually... well, actually shit themselves. The answer comes from Dan's guest, Fancy of the InTheNook podcast. The show champions "nuance, kink-positive education, and unfiltered queer realness" for those into ABDL. They have a great conversation about what fuels this maligned kink.

    On the Magnum, Dan chats with Atlantic writer Faith Hill, who covers dating, young adulthood, family, and social connection. Her latest piece, "The Great Romance Slump" digs in to why young people are forgoing sex and dating. She and Dan discuss the changes that have left us in this dismal place. They also discuss age gap relationships and the various other "gaps" that our culture eyes with suspicion.

    And, what makes a sexy foot? Are some feet sexier than others? Why? Dan answers.


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    Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to adult babies, tantric sex to BDSM and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.

  25. After Action Report #43

    18 minEpisodio 43

    After 22 years of marriage, well, it was just time. Hear Trix’s story about writing, filming and performing in her “queer adoring gang bang” story. And how she feels about the possibility of her kids stumbling …

    Notas del episodio

    After 22 years of marriage, well, it was just time.

    Hear Trix’s story about writing, filming and performing in her “queer adoring gang bang” story.

    And how she feels about the possibility of her kids stumbling across it one day.


    How have YOU kept your marriage fresh? Tell us a story at [email protected]



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  26. Savage Lovecast Episode 1032

    59 min

    As this is a wholesome, family-focused show, we bookend the episode with parenting questions. First, a woman's 5 year-old nephew wants to wear a padlock around his neck. He saw this on a stranger in a grocery …

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    As this is a wholesome, family-focused show, we bookend the episode with parenting questions. First, a woman's 5 year-old nephew wants to wear a padlock around his neck. He saw this on a stranger in a grocery store and thought it looked cool. Should they let him?

    And last, when your five year old asks "What is sex?" What should you say?

    Our guest is the incomparable Jane Don't! The break out star of Season 18 of Ru Paul's drag race is here to talk about her upcoming tour, her Miss Congeniality role on Drag Race, growing up gay in a small town, and her abiding love for drag. She and Dan dish and do a deep dive on Drag Race. If you're a fan of the show, you're going to want to listen. A little is in the Micro and the whole thing is on the Magnum.

    And, a woman has been dating her boyfriend for a year now, and he still never comes when he's with her. Dan spells out his technique to get him there.


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  27. After Action Report #42

    21 minEpisodio 42

    Jade is normally a sub with her husband. But when she inserted the sounding rod into his urethra, did she really feel submissive? Really? It’s a journey… Tell us all about your novel erotic …

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    Jade is normally a sub with her husband. But when she inserted the sounding rod into his urethra, did she really feel submissive? Really?

    It’s a journey…

    Tell us all about your novel erotic [email protected]


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  28. Micro Extra! Sex & Politics #46

    46 minEpisodio 43Extra

    Sex & Politics #46 Can we really change? Welcome to Sex & Politics!For this bonus episode, Dan chatted with Benoit Denizet-Lewis, an associate professor at Emerson College, a longtime contributing writer for …

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    Sex & Politics #46

    Can we really change?


    Welcome to Sex & Politics!
    For this bonus episode, Dan chatted with Benoit Denizet-Lewis, an associate professor at Emerson College, a longtime contributing writer for The New York Times Magazine, and the author, most recently, of “You’ve Changed: The Promise and Price of Self-Transformation.” He and Dan talked about the various ways people can change- how prisoners who have the possibility of parole can improve themselves and prove they’ve done so. They talk about the ex-gay movement, specifically Michael Glatze, who went from gay activist to anti-gay activist. And they answered a call from a man whose wife’s weight loss has completely altered their sex life.

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    206-302-2064

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  29. Savage Love Episode 1031

    52 minEpisodio 1031

    A woman in her 60s has a husband who is into feet. She's planning to get a professional foot massage. Can he come along and watch if he promises to hide his boner? A woman has a boyfriend who provides financial …

    Notas del episodio

    A woman in her 60s has a husband who is into feet. She's planning to get a professional foot massage. Can he come along and watch if he promises to hide his boner?

    A woman has a boyfriend who provides financial security and perfectly fine sex. But she finds him so very dull. Is a comfortable but boring relationship enough?

    On the Magnum, meet comedian, filmmaker and avowed cuck queen Edy Modica. She and Dan talk about her brilliant performance on Jury Duty, and in her personal life, how she eroticizes jealousy. Then, they take a call from a woman whose boyfriend wants her to put whipped cream up her ass and squeeze it out all over him. So there's that too.

    And, a femme person is developing a hot, kinky, fulfilling relationship with...a chat bot. She found "him" on an app, and it's turning her on so hard! Is this gonna be ok?




    Maybe! (Probably not.)

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    Edy Modica's debut special, I'm Just Like You (And It Sucks) On VEEPS now: https://veeps.com/edymodicaOn YouTube Sept 17 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yMhAV7XrSKM


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    This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage.

    Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From bondage to bisexuality, cuckolding to crossdressing and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, when we most need it.

  30. After Action Report #41

    16 minEpisodio 41

    What’s it like for a trans man at a gay leather convention?Listen and you will find out… Tell us about your brave excursion. Write about your experience and send it to Dan: [email protected] This episode is brought …

    Notas del episodio

    What’s it like for a trans man at a gay leather convention?Listen and you will find out…

    Tell us about your brave excursion.

    Write about your experience and send it to Dan: [email protected]



    This episode  is brought to you by Feeld- the dating app that so many Lovecast listeners are already using. Try Feeld’s new feature “Reflections” now by visiting ⁠feeld.co/reflections⁠ or by downloading Feeld on the App Store or Google Play.


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