363: Raising Problem-Solvers: Lessons from the Co-Creator of Blue's Clues & Daniel Tiger, with Angela Santomero
Notes de l’épisode
There is research behind that four-beat pause on Blue's Clues. It wasn’t a creative choice or a lucky accident . It was Angela Santomero, co-creator of Blue's Clues, Super Why!, and Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood, standing on set and asking herself how long it actually takes a child to formulate a real answer. That pause — the one your kids leaned toward the screen for — is the same pause that can change everything about how you talk to your neurodivergent kid.
In this episode, I sat down with Angela to talk about what she learned across thirty years of co-creating some of the most beloved children's programming ever made, and what parents of neurodivergent kids can take directly from that research and apply at home.
We talked about why repetition is not boring, but how kids master skills. We talked about scaffolding without taking over, and the difference between giving kids answers versus giving them a little more room to reach their own. Angela shared why kindness is not soft (it is actually a leadership skill backed by research) and how to raise intrinsically motivated, kind kids without nagging them through it.
We also got into how these shows can help neurodivergent kids process emotions through the buffer of a character. The story Angela shared about a little boy who used a Daniel Tiger strategy to handle his pizza cheese sliding off, actually singing himself through it, is exactly the kind of thing I want every parent of a neurodivergent kid to hear.
Plus Angela introduced her newest project, Princess Penelope's Purse of Preposterous Things, and what she designed it to do for a generation of kids who need critical thinking, resilience, and a sense of humor.
This one is packed. Come listen.
Not sure where to start with your neurodivergent child? Take the free quiz: parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz
Ready to stop collecting strategies and start getting real support? Apply for the SIGNAL Parenting Program -- fall cohort enrollment is open: parentingadhdandautism.com/signal
More from this episode: parentingadhdandautism.com/363
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support.
You can find additional resources at parentingadhdandautism.com. It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.
In this episode, I sat down with Angela to talk about what she learned across thirty years of co-creating some of the most beloved children's programming ever made, and what parents of neurodivergent kids can take directly from that research and apply at home.
We talked about why repetition is not boring, but how kids master skills. We talked about scaffolding without taking over, and the difference between giving kids answers versus giving them a little more room to reach their own. Angela shared why kindness is not soft (it is actually a leadership skill backed by research) and how to raise intrinsically motivated, kind kids without nagging them through it.
We also got into how these shows can help neurodivergent kids process emotions through the buffer of a character. The story Angela shared about a little boy who used a Daniel Tiger strategy to handle his pizza cheese sliding off, actually singing himself through it, is exactly the kind of thing I want every parent of a neurodivergent kid to hear.
Plus Angela introduced her newest project, Princess Penelope's Purse of Preposterous Things, and what she designed it to do for a generation of kids who need critical thinking, resilience, and a sense of humor.
This one is packed. Come listen.
Not sure where to start with your neurodivergent child? Take the free quiz: parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz
Ready to stop collecting strategies and start getting real support? Apply for the SIGNAL Parenting Program -- fall cohort enrollment is open: parentingadhdandautism.com/signal
More from this episode: parentingadhdandautism.com/363
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support.
You can find additional resources at parentingadhdandautism.com. It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.