How to Know It’s Time to Move On

6 novembre 2026 · 51 min

Notes de l’épisode

KJ is back! And this episode of Double Trouble aka Blair Squared aka Twin Told Me is all about getting out of your comfort zone. First off, we’re recapping our Halloween weekend: what we did, our costumes, the parties (thank you, Brittany Broski). This was truly the best halloween EVER. And then, inspired by me moving to LA, we talk about what to do when you feel like you’re in a spot that you can’t grow anymore. Getting out of your hometown seems like a risk in the moment, but if you’re looking around and feel like you don’t belong, you’re doing your soul an injustice if you don’t listen to it. As KJ says, we should be more like hermit crabs, finding new shells to fit in. And I share a story about a time in my life where I had to choose the hard path and leave a relationship that wasn’t conducive to my growth. Just because you imagined something for yourself for so long doesn’t mean that you’re not allowed to change and realize things about yourself…and have revelations on a treadmill after eating IHOP.

Then we’re answering some of YOUR questions:

📸How do I choose a career path when my family wants me to be a doctor, but I want to do something creative?

😔What do I do if I feel like I’ve outgrown my friendships, but I’m scared to be all alone?

👯‍♀️My closest friend is changing schools…should I change schools, too?

Sometimes we don’t see what’s happening behind the scenes of our life, we just see what’s happening on the stage in front of us. What you want is already out there, you just have to step into it and become that person that you want to be. And sometimes you need to live in the middle of your old choice and your new choice. Keep persevering. Feeling out of place doesn’t mean you’ve failed. But if you go back to what’s comfortable, you’re never going to grow.

It’s butterfly season, divas. Hopefully if you’re in a situation where you feel like you have to do something for your future, this podcast can give you the outlook you need to make that leap. Your life doesn’t have to look the same as anybody else’s around you and it shouldn’t cause it’s yours. It’s special to you and it’s unique. SPREAD YOUR WINGS AND FLY YOU LITTLE BUTTERFLY!

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