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In a world that worships easy answers and surface-level conversations, Get Cancelled isn’t afraid to dive into the messy, uncomfortable truths. The truth offends before it sets you free! Hosts Bryan Smith and Kellen Cowan.
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Are We Choosing Temporary Pleasure Over Long-Term Peace?
🎙️ GET CANCELLED PODCAST | Faith, Relationships & Real Talk: Are We Choosing Temporary Pleasure Over Long-Term Peace?This week on Get Cancelled, Bryan, Kellen and Thad with special guest Entrepreneur …
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🎙️ GET CANCELLED PODCAST | Faith, Relationships & Real Talk: Are We Choosing Temporary Pleasure Over Long-Term Peace?
This week on Get Cancelled, Bryan, Kellen and Thad with special guest Entrepreneur, International Fitness Cover Model, Actor, Motivational Speaker, Abe Cruz diving into the conversations most people think about but don't always want to have!
From faith and personal testimony to relationships, communication, and the consequences of our everyday choices, nothing is off-limits.
Are we sacrificing long-term happiness for short-term satisfaction? Are we complicating relationships by avoiding honest conversations? And what if God's guidance isn't about restricting our freedom, but protecting us from unnecessary pain?
We're talking about the importance of balance, recognizing deeper issues in relationships, breaking cycles from our past, and understanding what it really means to live with purpose.
And because it's Get Cancelled, you already know there's plenty of humor, unexpected tangents, and unfiltered opinions along the way. Yes, we even get into grocery store rotisserie chickens!
🎧 Real conversations. Different perspectives. Zero filters.
Join Bryan, Kellen, and Thad for another episode of Get Cancelled, where faith meets everyday life and no topic is too uncomfortable to discuss.
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Jesus, Judgment & Rotisserie Chickens: We Have Questions
What do faith, relationships, rotisserie chickens, and life's toughest lessons have in common? Apparently, a whole lot more than you'd think!In this episode of Get Cancelled, the guy's dive into …
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What do faith, relationships, rotisserie chickens, and life's toughest lessons have in common? Apparently, a whole lot more than you'd think!
In this episode of Get Cancelled, the guy's dive into a little bit of everything from authentic testimonies and staying disciplined to relationship struggles, communication, and finding balance in a world obsessed with instant gratification.
The conversation gets real as they unpack the difference between short-term pleasure and long-term consequences, explore what Jesus taught about grace instead of judgment, and discuss why the real problems in relationships often run much deeper than what's on the surface.
Of course, it wouldn't be Get Cancelled without some hilarious detours, unfiltered opinions, and everyday debates that somehow turn into meaningful life lessons.
From childhood trauma and discovering your worth through faith to figuring out what it really means to be someone's "woman," nothing is off the table.
Real conversations. Real faith. Real relationships. Zero filters.
Grab a seat, buckle up, and get ready for another episode of Get Cancelled, where the conversations aren't always comfortable, but they're always worth having!
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ANOINTED BUT TOUGH VIBES.... EPI - 55
Bryan, Kellen, and Thad are joined by special guest and MMA fighter Cody McCloud for a raw, encouraging conversation about what happens when faith reshapes your identity. They explore how to stop letting shame …
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Bryan, Kellen, and Thad are joined by special guest and MMA fighter Cody McCloud for a raw, encouraging conversation about what happens when faith reshapes your identity. They explore how to stop letting shame, rejection, and old voices define you—and how to ground your life in the Word of God. The conversation centers on a powerful message: God does not reject you for your mistakes. He convicts, corrects, restores, and calls you forward. For anyone carrying baggage from the past, wrestling with doubt, or trying to find spiritual clarity, this episode offers encouragement and perspective. You’ll hear how opening the Bible can become more than a habit: a place where truth breaks through, lies lose their grip, and peace takes hold. The discussion also gets practical and personal, exploring sanctification, humility, love, and the way faith can reshape someone from the inside out. The group reflects on the strength that comes from staying aligned with God when life doesn’t make sense, and the difference between correction that crushes and correction that heals. If you need encouragement, a spiritual reset, or a reminder that your story isn’t over, this episode is for you—grace still has the final word.
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DID HE SAY HEALING AND HOSE? - EPI 54
Episode SummaryBryan and Kellen are joined by guest Sean Whalen for a live podcast conversation broadcast on Facebook. Like most episodes of Get Cancelled, the conversation is candid, unscripted, and not afraid …
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Bryan and Kellen are joined by guest Sean Whalen for a live podcast conversation broadcast on Facebook. Like most episodes of Get Cancelled, the conversation is candid, unscripted, and not afraid to go where most people won’t.
The guys dig into the topics that regularly drive the podcast relationships, marriage, masculinity, personal accountability, success, failure, family, business, and the realities of being a man in today’s world. It’s about having the conversations men are actually having behind closed doors, without polishing every opinion or worrying about saying the “right” thing.
With Sean joining the conversation, the episode brings another perspective to the table as Bryan and Kellen challenge ideas, share experiences, trade stories, and talk openly about lessons learned the hard way.
Because the episode was recorded live, listeners also get some of the behind-the-scenes moments that normally get edited out, including the occasional check-in to make sure everything is still rolling.
Get Cancelled isn’t about everyone agreeing. It’s about being willing to have the conversation. This episode delivers exactly that—real people, real experiences, different perspectives, and an unfiltered conversation about life, relationships, business, and everything in between.
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New York is changing one block at a time- Epi 53
New York is changing one block at a time—and Bryan, Kellen, and Thad have some thoughts about it.This episode starts with buildings literally being torn down and somehow ends up exactly where you'd expect …
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New York is changing one block at a time—and Bryan, Kellen, and Thad have some thoughts about it.
This episode starts with buildings literally being torn down and somehow ends up exactly where you'd expect a Get Cancelled conversation to go: food, neighborhoods, weird people, local businesses, questionable observations, and the everyday insanity that makes New York… well, New York.
The guys get into what actually gives a neighborhood its personality—the hole-in-the-wall places everyone knows, the restaurants that somehow become landmarks, the people who make absolutely no sense but completely belong there, and the little things you don't notice until they suddenly disappear.
Of course, nobody stays on topic for long.
Bryan, Kellen, and Thad bounce from neighborhood food culture and changing city blocks to the strange habits people have, what they order, what catches their attention, and all the random details that somehow tell you more about a city than any travel guide ever could.
It's part New York conversation, part people-watching, and part three guys finding entirely too much entertainment in things most people would walk right past.
Because sometimes the best stories aren't the big ones.
They're happening on the block right in front of you.
Get Cancelled.
Come for the conversation. Stay because somehow we got completely off topic again.FAST AND FURIOUS WAS MADE FOR PAUL WALKER - EPI 52
GET CANCELLED — NEW EPISODENo filters. No playing it safe. No pretending we’ve got it all figured out.This week, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad get into the conversations most people would rather avoid the pressure …
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GET CANCELLED — NEW EPISODE
No filters. No playing it safe. No pretending we’ve got it all figured out.
This week, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad get into the conversations most people would rather avoid the pressure men carry, the mistakes that shape us, relationships, leadership, accountability, and what it actually takes to become a better man.
They’re talking about the stuff that happens behind closed doors. The battles nobody posts about. The moments that can either break you or force you to grow.
Expect different opinions. Expect some uncomfortable truths. And yeah… somebody might get cancelled.
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EDITED MUSIC AND RANDOM TAT WHITE GUY?! EPI 51
What happens when church becomes more about profit, platforms, and pride than people?In this episode, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad challenge some uncomfortable realities about modern faith, leadership, and ministry …
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What happens when church becomes more about profit, platforms, and pride than people?
In this episode, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad challenge some uncomfortable realities about modern faith, leadership, and ministry. They dig into what happens when pastors begin chasing prosperity, churches start operating more like corporations, and success is measured by the size of the building, the audience, or the bank account instead of the lives being changed.
At what point does ministry stop being a calling and start becoming a business?
The guys unpack the tension between calling and entrepreneurship, service and success, humility and influence and why having more money, followers, or recognition doesn't necessarily mean you're making a greater impact.
They also pull from conversations and perspectives shared by leaders like Mark Simpson and Rubens Cunha, examining why the strongest leaders aren't always the loudest or wealthiest. Real leadership is often found in serving people when there's nothing to gain from it.
And the conversation doesn't stop at the church doors.
Bryan, Kellen, and Thad look at how culture, media, massive organizations, and even global spectacles like the FIFA World Cup can reveal what society truly values. Behind the money, attention, and glamour is a bigger question:
What are we actually worshiping?
This episode challenges pastors, entrepreneurs, leaders, and believers to examine their motives and redefine what success really means.
Is it what you accumulate?
Or is it who you serve, how you live, and the impact you leave behind?
If you've ever looked at modern church culture and thought, "Something about this doesn't feel right," this conversation is for you.
No polished answers. No pretending. Just an uncomfortable conversation about faith, money, pride, leadership, and what it really means to serve.
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YOU CAN'T JUST BE SAYIN THAT .. EPI 50
In this episode of Get Cancelled, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad tackle the topics many people avoid parenting, faith, leadership, social media, and what it really means to live as a follower of Christ. Through plenty …
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In this episode of Get Cancelled, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad tackle the topics many people avoid parenting, faith, leadership, social media, and what it really means to live as a follower of Christ. Through plenty of humor, honest stories, and biblical truth, they challenge listeners to move beyond appearances and embrace authentic relationships with God and others.
From funny parenting moments to deep conversations about marriage, discipleship, and the influence of today's culture, this episode reminds us that Christianity isn't about performance it's about a transformed heart. Bryan, Kellen, and Thad explore how leaders can serve with humility, why genuine connection matters more than platform size, and how social media can both help and hinder our walk with Christ.
They also discuss the importance of speaking truth within our families, the dangers of chasing influence over integrity, and what Scripture really teaches about grace, forgiveness, and redemption. Whether they're breaking down cultural trends, reflecting on biblical examples like the thief on the cross, or encouraging men to step into authentic community, the conversation stays practical, honest, and deeply rooted in faith.
In this episode, you'll hear about:
- Parenting with honesty, wisdom, and a sense of humor.
- Raising children in truth while navigating today's culture.
- The influence of social media on faith, leadership, and identity.
- Biblical perspectives on marriage, divorce, humility, and salvation.
- Why authentic discipleship matters more than polished appearances.
- Building real relationships instead of competing for influence.
- Leading with integrity, vulnerability, and servant-hearted humility.
- The role of community, prayer, and accountability in spiritual growth.
- Finding healing, freedom, and purpose through the transforming love of Jesus.
If you've ever wrestled with balancing faith and culture or wondered what authentic Christian leadership really looks like, this conversation offers biblical encouragement and practical wisdom. Bryan, Kellen, and Thad invite you to pursue truth, live with integrity, and remember that God is far more interested in the condition of our hearts than the image we present to the world.
Listen now, and don't forget to like, subscribe, and share with someone who needs this conversation.
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TWITTER BE DONE ?! EPI 49
In this episode, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad explore the complexities of living, leading, and staying connected in an increasingly digital world. The conversation examines how social media platforms shape …
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In this episode, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad explore the complexities of living, leading, and staying connected in an increasingly digital world. The conversation examines how social media platforms shape communication, influence perception, and impact mental health, while challenging listeners to pursue authenticity in both their online and offline relationships.
The hosts also dive into deeper discussions surrounding faith, forgiveness, purpose, and personal growth. Through honest reflections and practical insights, they highlight the importance of meaningful connection, intentional leadership, and remaining grounded in values that transcend the ever-changing digital landscape.
Key Topics Discussed
- The evolving role of social media in communication and culture
- Building authentic relationships in a connected world
- Faith, forgiveness, and spiritual growth
- The impact of social media on mental health and self-perception
- Leadership lessons for navigating the digital age
- Finding purpose and meaning beyond online validation
Key Takeaway
True influence is not measured by followers, likes, or online recognition. Lasting impact comes from authentic relationships, intentional leadership, and a life rooted in faith, purpose, and genuine connection.
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I WANNA BE A YOU TUBER ? EPI 48
The Truth About Gym Culture and Social MediaIn this episode, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad dive into the realities of modern social media culture, gym etiquette, and the impact both have on confidence, relationships …
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The Truth About Gym Culture and Social Media
In this episode, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad dive into the realities of modern social media culture, gym etiquette, and the impact both have on confidence, relationships, and personal development. They explore how curated online lifestyles can distort expectations, why self-respect and authenticity matter more than appearance, and how strong values and mentorship shape lasting character.
The conversation challenges listeners to look beyond surface-level influence and focus on building confidence through integrity, discipline, and genuine personal growth. From gym culture to social media standards, this episode offers a candid discussion about staying grounded in a world that often prioritizes image over substance.
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• Gym etiquette and personal standards
• The influence of social media on self-image
• Authenticity, respect, and personal responsibility
• Building confidence through character and discipline
• Long-term values in relationships and personal growth#GetCanceledPodcast #BryanKellenThad #PersonalGrowth #Authenticity #CharacterMatters #SocialMediaCulture #GymCulture
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NORTH SOUTH EAST AND WESTERN WEAR? EPI 47
In this powerful conversation, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad sit down with Angie to unpack the real impact of emotional health, trauma, counseling, and faith-based healing. From hidden emotional patterns to the …
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In this powerful conversation, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad sit down with Angie to unpack the real impact of emotional health, trauma, counseling, and faith-based healing. From hidden emotional patterns to the freedom that comes through forgiveness, this episode dives into the hard conversations many people avoid but desperately need.
They discuss how therapy, counseling, and even personality tests can reveal wounds and behaviors we don’t always recognize in ourselves, while also pointing toward healing, restoration, and personal growth.
This episode is raw, honest, encouraging, and packed with practical insight for anyone walking through pain, struggling with relationships, or searching for emotional freedom.
🔥 Topics Covered:
• Emotional health & counseling
• Trauma and relationship struggles
• Forgiveness and healing
• Personal growth through testing & self-awareness
• Faith-based freedom and restoration💬 Sound Bites:
“Forgiveness is the pinnacle of freedom.”
“Help is available, and you’re not alone.”
“I’m messing up today, but it’ll be good.”If you’ve ever battled emotional weight, unresolved hurt, or wondered if healing is possible… this episode is for you.
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WE DIDN'T HAVE AI LIKE TONY STARK DID... EPI 46
In this episode of the Get Cancelled Podcast, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad sit down for a real and unfiltered conversation about parenting in today’s world, the impact of technology on kids, discipline, trauma, and …
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In this episode of the Get Cancelled Podcast, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad sit down for a real and unfiltered conversation about parenting in today’s world, the impact of technology on kids, discipline, trauma, and raising resilient children in a culture full of distractions.
The conversation dives deep into the challenges parents face with screen time, YouTube culture, online safety, and the importance of setting boundaries while still building trust with your kids. The guys share personal experiences and practical insight on parenting with purpose, teaching accountability, and why discipline is more about consistency than control.
The episode also explores how unresolved trauma can affect mental health, relationships, and family dynamics. Together, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad unpack the importance of resilience, emotional awareness, and breaking unhealthy cycles while creating stronger family values for the next generation.
This episode is honest, relatable, and packed with conversations every parent, mentor, and family leader needs to hear.
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OVER ON ADMIRAL AND TELLING GOD YOU LOVE HIM ....... EPI 45
Episode 45 of the Get Cancelled is one of the most raw and heartfelt conversations yet. Bryan, Kellen, and Thad sit down with special guest, Kally Hristov for an honest discussion about pain, healing …
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Episode 45 of the Get Cancelled is one of the most raw and heartfelt conversations yet. Bryan, Kellen, and Thad sit down with special guest, Kally Hristov for an honest discussion about pain, healing, forgiveness, faith, and finding purpose through life’s hardest valleys.
Kally opens up about what it feels like to walk through seasons where your heart becomes closed off from love, connection, and even from feeling God’s presence. Through vulnerability and powerful reflection, this episode dives into the process of forgiveness, rediscovering authentic love, and understanding that God’s timing is never wasted even in brokenness.
This conversation is a reminder that healing doesn’t happen overnight, but God can transform pain into purpose when we surrender the things we’ve carried for too long. From relationships and self-worth to faith and personal growth, Episode 45 speaks directly to anyone struggling to let go, move forward, or believe they are still worthy of love and purpose.
“God is love, and I couldn’t feel it.”
“You can’t feel love if your heart is closed.”
“Love your neighbor as yourself.”If you’ve ever battled hurt, questioned your purpose, or needed hope that healing is possible, this episode is for you.
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#pastorstageguy... why did God do it that way? EPI 44
In this candid conversation, Bryan, Kellen, Thad and Pastor Mark Simpson of South Community Church in Bixby, OK explore the true role of pastors, the importance of authenticity, and how faith intersects with …
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In this candid conversation, Bryan, Kellen, Thad and Pastor Mark Simpson of South Community Church in Bixby, OK explore the true role of pastors, the importance of authenticity, and how faith intersects with everyday life and business. They discuss the challenges pastors face, the need for vulnerability, and how believers can live out their faith boldly in a complex world.
Key Topics- The higher calling of pastors and the importance of authenticity
- The challenges pastors face with modern expectations and social media
- The importance of vulnerability and transparency in leadership
- Living out faith boldly in everyday life and business
- The role of the church in community and global missions
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TRAUMA PILLOWS AND TIGERS
Ever catch yourself calling something a “mistake”… when deep down, you knew exactly what you were doing?In this episode, Bryan, Kellen and Thad dive into the uncomfortable gray area between accidental mistakes …
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Ever catch yourself calling something a “mistake”… when deep down, you knew exactly what you were doing?
In this episode, Bryan, Kellen and Thad dive into the uncomfortable gray area between accidental mistakes and premeditated choices. The kind we think about, justify, and sometimes even plan before acting like it just “happened.”
The guys unpack the difference between reacting in the moment versus making a decision we’ve already wrestled with internally. Because the truth is—those two things carry very different weight when it comes to accountability, growth, and forgiveness.
This conversation challenges you to look inward:
Are we being honest about our intentions… or just softening the truth to feel better about our actions?If you’ve ever struggled with owning your decisions, extending grace to yourself or others, or understanding the “why” behind what you did this one hits home.
It’s not just about what happened.
It’s about what led you there.Let’s get real about it.
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HASHTAG # HEALING PHASE - EPI 42
In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, Bryan. Kellen and Thad open up about the hidden battles many people face while trying to lead, succeed, and hold life together. Through raw reflection and …
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In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, Bryan. Kellen and Thad open up about the hidden battles many people face while trying to lead, succeed, and hold life together. Through raw reflection and faith-centered wisdom, this episode dives into the realities of stress management, control, and spiritual health in a world that constantly demands more from us.
The guys explore how the pressure to control everything often comes from a deeper place fear and a loss of security and how that pressure can quietly erode our mental and emotional well-being. Instead of continuing to push harder, the conversation challenges listeners to embrace something counter-cultural: rest.
Kellen shares why stepping away into nature, slowing down, and creating space for reflection can reset both the mind and the spirit. In those quiet moments, clarity returns, priorities realign, and the noise of chaos begins to lose its grip.
The episode also highlights the power of mentorship and community, reminding us that we were never meant to navigate life alone. Strong mentors and honest relationships provide perspective, guidance, and emotional support when fear and stress begin to take over.
At its heart, this conversation is about authentic living. True strength isn’t pretending everything is fine it’s having the courage to admit when you’re not okay, to be vulnerable, and to invite faith, wisdom, and trusted voices into the struggle.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by expectations, trapped in the need to control everything, or spiritually drained by the pace of life, this episode is a reminder that rest, faith, and honest connection can restore what chaos tries to steal.
Sometimes the most powerful step forward is learning how to pause, reflect, and breathe again.
Legendary pastrami, hidden thrift shop gold, and comedy clubs- Epi 41
This episode starts light… Kellen went to New York for food, legendary pastrami, hidden thrift shop gold, and comedy clubs.But don’t get comfortable.Because then we go where most people won’t.Bryan, Kellen and …
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This episode starts light… Kellen went to New York for food, legendary pastrami, hidden thrift shop gold, and comedy clubs.
But don’t get comfortable.
Because then we go where most people won’t.
Bryan, Kellen and Thad talk about discipline. Weight loss. Health. Ownership. The uncomfortable truth that transformation doesn’t happen by accident it happens when you decide to change everything.
And then we step straight into it:
Spiritual warfare is real.
Prayer is not weak it’s strategic.
Unforgiveness will poison you.
And God doesn’t love a polished version of you He delights in the real one.We talk divine encounters. We talk surrender. We talk about inviting God into the parts of your life you’d rather manage yourself.
This isn’t surface-level faith.
This isn’t self-help fluff.This is laughter, grit, conviction, and testimony that might make somebody uncomfortable.
And if that gets us canceled?
So be it.
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WE ARE NOT GONNA TALK ABOUT THE SUPERBOWL.... EPI 40
In this powerful conversation, Bryan, Kelle and Thad dive into the intersection of cultural blending, personal faith, tradition, and disruption, challenging listeners to rethink what authentic belief really …
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In this powerful conversation, Bryan, Kelle and Thad dive into the intersection of cultural blending, personal faith, tradition, and disruption, challenging listeners to rethink what authentic belief really looks like. Rather than relying on inherited traditions alone, she highlights the importance of developing a personal relationship with God through real experiences, honest prayer, and intentional self-reflection.
The episode explores how disruption though uncomfortable can become a catalyst for growth, pushing individuals beyond routine religion into deeper spiritual encounters. The guys also address the tension artists often face within faith communities, discussing judgment, acceptance, and the role creative voices play in bridging cultural divides and inspiring transformation.
Throughout the conversation, Byran calls attention to modern distractions that pull focus away from spiritual purpose, encouraging listeners to shift from criticism to compassion and from comparison to community. Ultimately, the message centers on planting seeds of faith, embracing growth, and leaning into prayer and supportive relationships as anchors in an ever-changing cultural landscape.
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Band Of Brothers Tulsa Area:
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BUILD A TOWER AND LEAN INTO IT! EPI-39
This episode dives deep into forgiveness, self-reflection, and realignment after failure, confusion, or spiritual drift. Bryan, Kellen and Thad take conversation center on what to do when life feels like it’s …
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This episode dives deep into forgiveness, self-reflection, and realignment after failure, confusion, or spiritual drift. Bryan, Kellen and Thad take conversation center on what to do when life feels like it’s gone off the road when you’re unsure whether you made a mistake, were attacked, or simply lost clarity.
The first step discussed is seeking forgiveness and realigning your heart getting honest with God and asking to be brought back into alignment, even when you don’t fully understand where things went wrong. The second step is trusted consultation inviting wise, grounded voices into the process to help think clearly, challenge assumptions, and regain perspective.
Using the metaphor of a car flying off the road, the episode emphasizes that these steps don’t fix everything instantly, but they do get you back on the road instead of staying stuck in the ditch.
The conversation also widens to meet listeners wherever they are. While the hosts openly share their belief in God and Jesus and how that faith has personally changed their lives, they acknowledge that everyone needs something solid to stand on. A moment of vulnerability from a young man sparks a powerful reflection: being able to look yourself in the mirror and say, “I love you.” One man’s honest admission that he couldn’t do that becomes a sobering reminder of how deep shame, self-rejection, and unresolved pain can run.
This episode is a raw invitation to slow down, get honest, seek alignment, and take the first steps back toward wholeness with God, with others, and with yourself.
Bryan Smith Facebook page:
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Band Of Brothers Tulsa Area:
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WHAT HAPPENS IN VEGAS GOES ON GET CANCELLED- EPI 38
This week on Get Cancelled, hosts Bryan, Kellen & Thad take the show on the road to Las Vegas for a must-hear live episode! Known for diving into real conversations that cut past surface-level noise and get …
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This week on Get Cancelled, hosts Bryan, Kellen & Thad take the show on the road to Las Vegas for a must-hear live episode! Known for diving into real conversations that cut past surface-level noise and get straight to raw truth, wisdom, and heart, this special episode brings that signature energy to an unforgettable Vegas stage.
Live from the city that never sleeps, Bryan, Kellen and Thad are joined by a special guest straight from the fighting world the FRANK MIR— bringing fresh perspectives, candid stories, and spontaneous moments you won’t want to miss. From heartfelt authenticity to unfiltered discussion, expect laughter, insight, and the kind of bold conversation Get Cancelled is known for.
Whether you’re a longtime listener or tuning in for the first time, this Vegas edition promises high energy, unforgettable dialogue, and truth that challenges and inspires. Tune in and get ready to be part of the live experience because in Vegas, Get Cancelled happens in person!
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Band Of Brothers Tulsa Area:
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ROBOT WATCH TRANSFORM OR WHATEVER THEY SAY - EPI 37
In this episode of Get Cancelled, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad unpack why communication is the backbone of every relationship and why genuine connection requires more than surface-level advice or feel-good …
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In this episode of Get Cancelled, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad unpack why communication is the backbone of every relationship and why genuine connection requires more than surface-level advice or feel-good responses. They challenge the tendency to say what sounds right just to satisfy ourselves, emphasizing the importance of thinking deeper and engaging more honestly in our conversations.
The trio highlights how the little things often matter most, from intentional listening to the pauses we usually rush to fill. By choosing authenticity over convenience, they show how being real—even when it’s uncomfortable—opens the door to stronger, more meaningful connections. Throughout the episode, they remind listeners that every conversation is an opportunity to learn, grow, and understand one another better, and that sometimes the most powerful moments come when we slow down, sit with the silence, and truly listen.
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Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Iambryansmith
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Band Of Brothers Tulsa Area:
https://www.facebook.com/bobmensministrytulsa
Plumbline Ministries Inc.-Stickman Teaching:
https://www.facebook.com/StickmanTulsa
THE HAIR CLUB FOR CHRIST WITH HENRY PENIX! - EPI 36
In this episode, Bryan, Kellen and Thad sit down with special guest Henry Penix for a powerful and reflective conversation centered on growth, resilience, and personal healing. Henry opens up about his life …
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In this episode, Bryan, Kellen and Thad sit down with special guest Henry Penix for a powerful and reflective conversation centered on growth, resilience, and personal healing. Henry opens up about his life journey, sharing how moments of challenge, loss, and self-discovery became catalysts for healing and transformation over time.
Throughout the episode, Henry discusses the ongoing nature of healing—how it evolves through different stages of life—and the practices, mindset shifts, and support systems that helped him move forward. His story highlights the importance of self-awareness, perseverance, and embracing vulnerability as tools for personal growth.
Listeners will gain meaningful insight into how healing can shape purpose, leadership, and connection with others. Whether you’re navigating your own healing journey or simply seeking inspiration, this episode offers honesty, hope, and powerful takeaways.
FIND HENRY AT: https://www.facebook.com/share/18C3iMSRSX/?mibextid=wwXIfr and http://SOAAK.com
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https://www.facebook.com/StickmanTulsaTHE BEARDED BARBARIAN RETURNS - EPI 35
In this episode, we follow Kellen on a profound journey to Brazil, where he steps into an entirely new spiritual world one where faith, God, and the Church are at the center of extraordinary healings and …
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In this episode, we follow Kellen on a profound journey to Brazil, where he steps into an entirely new spiritual world one where faith, God, and the Church are at the center of extraordinary healings and supernatural experiences.
Kellen ventures through cities and spaces, seeking out places where God’s power is seen in miraculous ways. Along the way, he visits churches and sacred locations renowned for witnessing divine interventions that seem to transcend the natural world. From healing services to encounters with individuals who have experienced life-changing miracles, Kellen’s journey becomes a testimony to the living power of God’s presence in the world today.
Through prayer, worship, and personal stories of transformation, Kellen highlights how faith and the Church play a pivotal role in bringing healing, peace, and hope to those in need. He encounters individuals whose lives have been radically changed through their faith, experiencing God’s power in ways that go beyond what many would consider possible.
This episode invites listeners to open their hearts and minds to the possibility that God’s miracles are still happening today, challenging the conventional and offering a fresh perspective on what it means to live a life of faith. Whether you're deeply spiritual or just curious, Kellen’s story will leave you contemplating the deep and mysterious ways God moves in the world.
Join us for this incredible spiritual journey that will remind you of the living power of God in our everyday lives.
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Band Of Brothers Tulsa Area:
https://www.facebook.com/bobmensministrytulsa
Plumbline Ministries Inc.-Stickman Teaching:
https://www.facebook.com/StickmanTulsa
THE DEMAND PROJECT NEEDS YOU! - EPI 34
In this powerful and inspiring episode, Bryan and Thad sit down with Kristen Weis, Co-Founder and CEO of The Demand Project, a nonprofit on a mission to end child trafficking, online enticement, and the …
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In this powerful and inspiring episode, Bryan and Thad sit down with Kristen Weis, Co-Founder and CEO of The Demand Project, a nonprofit on a mission to end child trafficking, online enticement, and the commercial sexual exploitation of children.
The Demand ProjectFrom the first moments of the conversation, Kristen’s passion shines through as she shares her journey from seeing something horrific that forever changed her life to leading one of the most dedicated organizations fighting for the vulnerable. Listeners will hear behind-the-scenes insights into how The Demand Project works on the frontlines, including:
✨ The organization’s multi-faceted approach—Prevention, Protection, Recovery, and Restoration—to combat trafficking and exploitation.
The Demand Project
✨ Stories of resilience and hope from survivors whose lives are being rebuilt at their Tulsa campus.
The Demand Project
✨ What it truly means to serve with compassion, courage, and community support.Bryan and Thad dive deep with Kristen on why this work matters to every one of us, and how regular listeners can be more than bystanders—they can become active participants in the solution.
🎧 Get Inspired to Give:
Kristen reminds us that ending exploitation doesn’t happen alone. Whether it’s through prayer, advocacy, awareness, or financial support, everyone has a role to play. The Demand Project thrives on collective action and community generosity—and your involvement can make a real difference.Learn More & Support:
Visit Home - The Demand Project to discover how you can donate, volunteer, or spread awareness to help protect children and support survivors of trafficking.
The Demand ProjectBryan Smith Facebook page:
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Band Of Brothers Tulsa Area:
https://www.facebook.com/bobmensministrytulsa
Plumbline Ministries Inc.-Stickman Teaching:
https://www.facebook.com/StickmanTulsa
FORGET THE TOY I WANT THE HEALING BOOK! SPECIAL GUEST LOGAN MAYBERRY - EPI 33
In this powerful episode of Get Cancelled, Bryan and Thad host while Kellen is on a mission trip in Brazil. Their special guest, Logan Mayberry, joins the conversation to share bold stories of compassion in …
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In this powerful episode of Get Cancelled, Bryan and Thad host while Kellen is on a mission trip in Brazil. Their special guest, Logan Mayberry, joins the conversation to share bold stories of compassion in difficult places. Logan opens up about a mission moment that changed him: meeting a little boy whose mom is nearing the end of her life. When given a choice between a toy and a healing hat for his mom, the boy selflessly chose the healing hat a moment that turned a simple choice into a profound lesson in love and sacrifice.
This episode is all about real people facing real pain and the strength we find when we choose empathy over ease. Tune in for honest dialogue, hard truths, and a reminder that kindness matters, especially when it costs something.
God also finds us and sends people you have never met to pray with you at 2 am from across the country.... GOD IS BIGGER THAN US. This Story will give you chills and make you rethink those doubts.
Support Logan: https://pillar.io/rewardthekind?utm_source=pillar_profile_share
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Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Iambryansmith
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Band Of Brothers Tulsa Area:
https://www.facebook.com/bobmensministrytulsa
Plumbline Ministries Inc.-Stickman Teaching:
https://www.facebook.com/StickmanTulsa
SPECIAL GUEST JUSTIN WENZEL- PURPOSE! EPI- 32
In this episode of the “Get Canceled” podcast, Brian, Thad, and Kellen are joined by special guest Justin Wenzel. Justin is an online business coach who’s all about helping fellow coaches turn their practices …
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In this episode of the “Get Canceled” podcast, Brian, Thad, and Kellen are joined by special guest Justin Wenzel. Justin is an online business coach who’s all about helping fellow coaches turn their practices into sustainable, purpose-driven businesses. On the show, he shares his journey, offers some motivational insights, and dives into how coaches can create real transformation for their clients. It’s a great listen if you’re into mixing business with a bit of deeper purpose!
Justin Wenzel :Justin Wenzel | Trusted Systems and Resources for Online Coaches (@justinwenzel) • Instagram photos and videos
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ONE GENERATION AWAY FROM NOT KNOWING WHO JESUS IS!?- EPI 31
In today’s episode of Get Canceled, we’re bringing the Thanksgiving vibes—laughter, nostalgia, real talk, and a reminder of what truly matters.We kick things off celebrating something we’re deeply thankful for …
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In today’s episode of Get Canceled, we’re bringing the Thanksgiving vibes—laughter, nostalgia, real talk, and a reminder of what truly matters.
We kick things off celebrating something we’re deeply thankful for: YOU. The listeners, the reviewers, the downloaders, and the folks sharing the show. Your support continues to blow us away, and we appreciate every five-star review—(and if you leave a one-star… well, you already know.
From there, we roll into a heartfelt Thanksgiving reflection. Brad shares a powerful story about how his once-massive family gatherings—120+ people deep—have dwindled down over the years to tiny “micro Thanksgivings.” It sparks a bigger conversation about legacy, changing generations, and how quickly traditions, families, and even faith can fade if they’re not intentionally carried forward.
We draw a parallel to the phrase:
“We’re always just one generation away from people not knowing who Jesus is.”
And through this lens, we look at how family structures evolve, how time transforms what used to be, and why connection and intentionality matter more now than ever.
Plus—don’t miss the shoutout to our recent episode with NASA’s Gabe Sherman, who dropped some absolute gold. If you haven’t listened to that one, run—don’t walk.
This episode is equal parts hilarious, nostalgic, challenging, and warm—just like Thanksgiving should be.
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SOOO WE DID LAND ON THE MOON?!?! - EPI 30
In this episode, Bryan, Kellen and Thad with special guest Gabe Sherman, former assistant to the NASA director, dive into the enduring controversy surrounding the moon landing and what it reveals about our …
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In this episode, Bryan, Kellen and Thad with special guest Gabe Sherman, former assistant to the NASA director, dive into the enduring controversy surrounding the moon landing and what it reveals about our broader cultural tensions. The conversation unpacks how social media amplifies misinformation, shaping what people believe—and why. Brayn and the hosts explore how personal experience powerfully influences faith and conviction, drawing parallels between public skepticism and private spiritual doubt.
They also discuss the renewed global space race and its implications for national pride, using it as a springboard to reflect on leadership, integrity, and the importance of faith-rooted guidance. Throughout the episode, the speakers emphasize that faith is not merely an individual pursuit but a communal journey that flourishes through honest dialogue, transparency, and accountability.
The discussion highlights the value of confronting personal challenges head-on, encouraging listeners—especially men—not to shy away from vulnerability for fear of appearing weak. The episode closes with a reminder that ministry is not limited to formal roles; it is an expectation and calling for everyone seeking to live out their faith with authenticity.
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JUMPING OFF A BRIDGE TO UPON A ROOF TOP!? EPI 29
In Episode 29, Bryan, Kellen and Thad are honored to welcome Pastor Paul Daugherty, Lead Pastor of Victory Church in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Paul’s transparency, heart for people, and powerful faith set the stage for …
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In Episode 29, Bryan, Kellen and Thad are honored to welcome Pastor Paul Daugherty, Lead Pastor of Victory Church in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Paul’s transparency, heart for people, and powerful faith set the stage for a deeply meaningful conversation.
Paul shares how his upbringing in a ministry family shaped his understanding of leadership and purpose. He opens up about the moment he realized he would eventually step into pastoral leadership, following in the footsteps of his parents.
One of the most memorable stories Paul shares is about his looking out of a bridge one night thinking no one would miss him and things would be better without him to being on a roof top of the church years later being called to keep others from feeling that same way. Paul talks about how God can use even the messy, imperfect parts of our lives to bring about hope and healing. Emphasizing that leading isn’t about being the “face” of a ministry but about building a healthy team around you. He encourages emerging leaders to lean into authenticity, humility, and service.
Pastor Paul hopes for the next generation: to live boldly, lead humbly, and carry a legacy of faith and service.
Find Pastor Paul Daugherty: Welcome! | Victory with Paul Daugherty
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Band Of Brothers Tulsa Area:
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I'M GONNA STOP WATCHING CORN ??!? - EPI 28
This episode centers on a raw, honest conversation about men, affirmation, and the emotional wiring that often goes unspoken. The Bryan, Kellen and Thad break down why so many men rank words of affirmation at …
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This episode centers on a raw, honest conversation about men, affirmation, and the emotional wiring that often goes unspoken. The Bryan, Kellen and Thad break down why so many men rank words of affirmation at the top of their love-language list—not because they need encouragement to take action, but because they crave recognition after doing what they were already designed to do.
Men are internally wired to “conquer.” Men don’t need to be told to work hard, provide, protect, or push forward. That drive comes built in. Yet they still long to hear “I’m proud of you” and “I see what you did.” That desire doesn’t make them weak it reveals a deep relational design.
The 300 analogies for approval matters highlight the moment in 300 when King Leonidas looks to the queen for a subtle nod before acting. Even a revered warrior, feared and respected by all, still craves the approval of the one person who truly knows him. Men, by nature, want to take action but they want their partner “in it with them.”
When affirmation is missing, resentment grows. Men will still work, still fight, still provide. But without words of affirmation from the person they are doing life with, what once felt purposeful begins to feel empty. Over time, lack of encouragement creates emotional hollowness and resentment, even toward the very responsibilities they were designed to carry.
The relational weight women often don’t see is how powerful their words are. Encouragement isn’t about ego it is fuel. A simple “I notice you” can carry a man through enormous responsibility, stress, and expectation.
Affirmation begins in childhood with children especially boys naturally looking for approval. When that approval is inconsistent or absent growing up, it shapes the adult love languages they crave most. Many men are still trying to receive words they never heard as boys.
Men need partnership, not perfection. A woman doesn’t have to provide, protect, or carry the load. She brings value by offering belief, confidence, and partnership joining him in the mission instead of adding weight to it.
Men are built to carry heavy loads, compete, and provide. But even strong, driven, masculine men need recognition from the person closest to them. It’s not about validation for the job—it’s about relational connection.
Affirmation doesn’t create the man; it strengthens him.
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