E265: Is This Cheating? (Part 3) Emotional Affairs, Secret Texts, and Sneaky DMs
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Have you and your partner ever actually sat down and defined what counts as cheating?
Most of us never do, which is exactly why the gray areas get so complicated.
We're back with Part 3 of Is This Cheating?, weighing in on your trickiest, most "wait, is that okay?" scenarios.
💛 In this episode, you'll hear:
Why every couple has to define cheating for themselves, and the talks most people skip
Real listener dilemmas: late-night drives, a secret sex-shop trip, and disappearing text threads
The female-friendship situations that blur the line between platonic and something more
Our honest take on the big one: does masturbation count as cheating?
A rapid-fire round on nudes, dating apps "for friends," flirty DMs, and drunk Vegas kisses
Why this is the perfect episode to play for your partner and talk through together
If you've ever felt unsure whether something crossed a line, you're not overreacting and you're not alone. The clearer you get on your own definition, the easier these conversations get.
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