Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads
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Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads

von G-Rex and Dirty Skittles, Bleav

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”Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads” is a podcast that emerged from G-Rex’s personal mental health journey, starting with a breakdown in 2022. Supported by her wife, 988, and a higher power, G-Rex found healing and vowed to destigmatize mental health struggles. With best friend Dirty Skittles, the podcast tackles life’s challenges with humor and honesty, emphasizing the importance of open dialogue. Listeners join their engaging discussions on relationships, parenting, pop culture, and mental health, gaining practical tips and a sense of community. Through laughter and camaraderie, the podcast offers empowerment and solidarity, reminding everyone that it’s okay not to be okay and encouraging reaching out for support. Ultimately, ”Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads” is a beacon of hope, humor, and companionship, advocating for mental health awareness and inclusivity.

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  1. You Are More Than Your Worst Mistake: Ranae on Healing After Prison, Resilience, and Second Chances — Part 2

    44 Min.Folge 8

    Can prison become the place where someone finally begins to heal from a lifetime of trauma? In Part 2, Ranae Van Roekel returns with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to discuss surviving a serious mental health crisis …

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    Can prison become the place where someone finally begins to heal from a lifetime of trauma? In Part 2, Ranae Van Roekel returns with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to discuss surviving a serious mental health crisis, discovering healthier coping skills during incarceration, rebuilding relationships, and creating a new purpose through Connecting to Cope.

    Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “You are not the worst thing you ever did.” — Ranae Van Roekel Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder Content Notice: This episode includes discussions of suicidal thoughts, severe depression, childhood sexual trauma, incarceration, and mental health treatment. The conversation also explores recovery, self-worth, and the importance of supportive relationships.

    If you or someone you know is experiencing a mental health crisis in the United States, call or text 988 or visit: https://988lifeline.org/

    For crisis resources outside the United States: https://findahelpline.com/

    Episode Description Imagine walking into prison carrying decades of shame, untreated childhood trauma, and the belief that your worst decisions are all you'll ever be remembered for. Now imagine discovering that healing is still possible.

    In Part 2, Ranae Van Roekel returns to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads for a powerful conversation with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles about mental health recovery, resilience, incarceration, and rebuilding a life after devastating choices.

    Before entering prison, Ranae experienced severe depression and suicidal thoughts that led to a stay at a mental health treatment facility. Although she had begun recognizing her need for help, it wasn't until incarceration that she started confronting the childhood trauma she had spent decades suppressing.

    Ranae shares how therapy, psychiatric care, physical activity, self-esteem classes, and meaningful friendships helped her challenge deeply ingrained beliefs about herself. A mental health professional who refused to accept her avoidance became especially important in helping her recognize destructive thinking patterns.

    After serving 36 months, Ranae returned home during the COVID-19 pandemic. Reconnecting with her husband and sons, setting healthier boundaries, and welcoming her beloved dog, Cope, helped shape her next chapter.

    That journey inspired Connecting to Cope, her platform for emotional wellness, self-care, and compassionate support.

    Together, the trio explores how forgiveness differs from accountability, why healing requires ongoing effort, and how supportive relationships can help people rebuild without erasing the harm they've caused.

    Ranae's message is simple but powerful: your past is part of your story, not your entire identity.

    No matter how far you've fallen, the next step still matters.

    Keywords: Ranae Van Roekel, healing after prison, mental health recovery, trauma healing, resilience and recovery, prison rehabilitation, second chances, suicide prevention, emotional resilience, mental health treatment, self-worth and shame, coping skills, rebuilding after incarceration, Connecting to Cope, personal transformation

    Meet Our Guest — Ranae Van Roekel Ranae Van Roekel is a mental health advocate, justice reform advocate, and founder of Connecting to Cope, an initiative focused on helping people find healing and growth beyond their circumstances. Drawing from her experiences with childhood trauma, federal incarceration, mental health treatment, and rebuilding her life, she encourages others to recognize their worth while taking responsibility for their actions. Ranae is also a wife, mother, grandmother, and devoted dog lover who believes that empathy, honest conversations, and ongoing personal work can create meaningful change.

    Connect with Ranae:

    Key Takeaways
    • Healing can begin in unexpected places. Ranae started confronting decades of unresolved childhood trauma while serving her prison sentence, although she acknowledges that incarceration itself does not guarantee healing.
    • Mental health recovery happens one step at a time. Counseling, physical activity, better sleep, and learning new ways of thinking helped Ranae build a healthier foundation.
    • Your past does not have to define your identity. Ranae encourages people to recognize the full picture of who they are rather than reducing themselves to their worst decisions.
    • Healthy boundaries are essential to rebuilding relationships. Returning home meant recognizing which friendships were supportive and which relationships were no longer healthy for her.
    • Real support includes accountability. Ranae credits her husband and sons with loving her while also challenging her when she slips into old people-pleasing patterns.
    • Recovery is an ongoing practice, not a finish line. Ranae openly acknowledges that she still experiences anxiety, makes mistakes, and must continually practice healthier coping skills.
    Actionable Items
    • Start with one manageable step. Identify one small action that supports your well-being today, whether that's taking a walk, reaching out for support, or creating space to rest.
    • Challenge all-or-nothing self-judgment. When shame tells you that one mistake defines your entire life, remind yourself that you are responsible for your choices but are also capable of making new ones.
    • Strengthen your support system. Identify people who can listen without judgment, respect your boundaries, and lovingly hold you accountable when old habits return.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:00:46 — Finding Hope Before Entering Prison
    • 00:01:44 — Severe Depression, Suicidal Thoughts, and Getting Help
    • 00:03:39 — Recognizing the Connection Between Trauma and Choices
    • 00:05:05 — Saying Goodbye to Her Husband at Prison Intake
    • 00:05:59 — The Moment Ranae Decided to Find Herself
    • 00:06:30 — Therapy, Self-Esteem Classes, and Healthier Coping Skills
    • 00:08:35 — Adjusting to Life Inside Federal Prison
    • 00:11:35 — Finding Friendship and Support Behind Bars
    • 00:14:26 — Discovering the Prison Service Dog Program
    • 00:15:43 — The Mental Health Professional Who Challenged Her Thinking
    • 00:18:52 — Escaping the Prison of Your Own Mind
    • 00:20:22 — Coming Home During the COVID-19 Pandemic
    • 00:24:00 — Friendship, Rejection, and Learning Healthy Boundaries
    • 00:27:13 — Advice for Anyone Who Thinks They've Ruined Their Life
    • 00:29:39 — Rebuilding Family Life After Incarceration
    • 00:30:35 — Meeting Cope and Finding a New Purpose
    • 00:34:02 — What Ranae Would Tell Her Younger Self
    • 00:35:00 — Why You Shouldn't Push Away the People Who Love You
    • 00:38:03 — Resilience, Self-Worth, and the Power of Words
    • 00:39:21 — Connecting to Cope and Ranae's Children's Book
    • 00:41:15 — You Are Not the Worst Thing You've Ever Done
    • 00:42:07 — Family Accountability and Continuing the Work
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    #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #RanaeVanRoekel #HealingAfterPrison #MentalHealthRecovery #TraumaHealing #ResilienceMatters #SecondChances #PrisonReform #SuicidePrevention #SelfWorth #HealthyCopingSkills #EmotionalResilience #LifeAfterIncarceration #ConnectingToCope #OvercomingShame #KeepDoingTheWork

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    If You Need Support, Reach Out

    If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.

    Stay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles

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  2. You Are More Than Your Worst Mistake: Ranae on Childhood Trauma, People-Pleasing, and Accountability — Part 1

    34 Min.Folge 7

    What happens when unresolved childhood trauma, decades of people-pleasing, and the fear of being judged lead you down a path you never imagined? In Part 1, Ranae Van Roekel joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles for a …

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    What happens when unresolved childhood trauma, decades of people-pleasing, and the fear of being judged lead you down a path you never imagined? In Part 1, Ranae Van Roekel joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles for a deeply honest conversation about childhood sexual trauma, anxiety, shame, financial fraud, and the life-changing decision to take responsibility for her actions.

    Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “I’m not saying I’m stupid. I’m saying I made a stupid choice.” — Ranae Van Roekel Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder Content Notice: This episode includes discussions of childhood sexual assault, rape, suicidal thoughts, depression, financial fraud, and the emotional impact of incarceration. Please listen with care and take a break if you need one.

    If you or someone you know is experiencing a mental health crisis in the United States, call or text 988 or visit: https://988lifeline.org/

    For crisis resources outside the United States: https://findahelpline.com/

    Episode Description What happens when the trauma you've spent your entire life hiding starts shaping decisions you never thought you'd make?

    In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles welcome Ranae Van Roekel, a wife, mother, grandmother, and founder of Connecting to Cope, for an unfiltered discussion about childhood sexual trauma, people-pleasing, shame, and taking accountability when everything falls apart.

    As a young girl, Ranae experienced sexual assault and tried to tell trusted adults what happened. Instead of receiving the support she needed, she learned to associate her experience with being "bad." That belief followed her into adulthood, contributing to a pattern of overcommitting, seeking approval, and struggling to face difficult truths.

    Years later, what began as a small ticket-reselling business spiraled into fraudulent transactions. Ranae admits she made illegal choices while desperately trying to fix a situation that kept getting worse. The pressure, anxiety, and fear became overwhelming. Eventually, she faced a terrifying crossroads: end her life or come forward and take responsibility.

    She chose to tell the truth.

    Ranae shares what happened when she voluntarily contacted authorities, confessed to her husband, and began reaching out to the people she had harmed. The conversation also explores the emotional cost of apologizing, the impact of public judgment, and how her family's reactions changed everything.

    This isn't a story about using trauma to excuse wrongdoing. It's about understanding how unresolved pain can shape behavior while recognizing that accountability and healing can coexist.

    Sometimes, the first step toward changing your life is admitting that you can't keep living the way you have been.

    Keywords: Ranae Van Roekel, childhood trauma recovery, people-pleasing, mental health and shame, sexual assault survivor, unresolved trauma, trauma responses, anxiety and depression, accountability and healing, overcoming guilt, mental health crisis, emotional resilience, family support, Connecting to Cope, mental health podcast

    Meet Our Guest — Ranae Van Roekel Ranae Van Roekel founded Connecting to Cope, a platform that helps people navigate trauma, emotional struggles, and personal growth through education, self-care, and community. After serving 36 months in federal prison, Ranae transformed her experiences with unresolved childhood trauma, accountability, and mental health recovery into a mission centered on compassion and second chances. Today, she also advocates for justice reform and a greater understanding of the human experiences behind incarceration.

    Connect with Ranae:

    Key Takeaways
    • Unresolved trauma can affect choices decades later. Ranae's childhood experience shaped how she saw herself, handled conflict, and sought others' approval.
    • People-pleasing can become a damaging coping pattern. Constantly trying to make everyone happy made it harder for Ranae to acknowledge problems and set boundaries.
    • Trauma explains context, not responsibility. Ranae distinguishes between the experiences that influenced her thinking and the criminal decisions she ultimately made.
    • Shame can keep people trapped in unhealthy cycles. Believing she was inherently "bad" fueled Ranae's fear of judgment and her avoidance of difficult conversations.
    • Taking accountability doesn't guarantee forgiveness. Ranae's apologies were important, even when the people she harmed remained understandably angry.
    • Support can make confronting the truth possible. Her husband's eventual willingness to face the consequences alongside her became a significant source of stability.
    Actionable Items
    • Notice your people-pleasing patterns. The next time you're tempted to say yes when you're already overwhelmed, ask yourself whether you're acting from genuine willingness or fear of disappointing someone.
    • Separate your behavior from your identity. When you make a mistake, acknowledge what happened and what needs to change without automatically deciding that you are a terrible person.
    • Tell someone when you're struggling. If shame, anxiety, or an unresolved problem feels too heavy to handle alone, reach out to a trusted person or qualified mental health professional rather than trying to fix everything yourself.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:01:08 — Ranae Opens Up About Her Story and Her Mission to Help Others
    • 00:01:38 — The Prison Doors That Changed Everything
    • 00:04:03 — The Decision to Stop Hiding and Come Forward
    • 00:05:45 — Choosing to Tell the Truth During a Mental Health Crisis
    • 00:07:26 — The Federal Fraud Conviction
    • 00:09:27 — Childhood Sexual Trauma and the Shame That Followed
    • 00:11:11 — How a Small Ticket Business Became Financial Fraud
    • 00:14:08 — People-Pleasing, Dissociation, and Trying to Fix Everything
    • 00:18:15 — Telling Her Husband and Family the Truth
    • 00:21:05 — A Husband's Anger, Love, and Decision to Stay
    • 00:22:05 — Apologizing to the People She Harmed
    • 00:23:55 — Federal Sentencing and Justice System Concerns
    • 00:29:27 — The Emotional Toll of Shame and Apologizing
    • 00:30:51 — Community Judgment and Protecting Her Family
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    #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #RanaeVanRoekel #ChildhoodTrauma #TraumaRecovery #PeoplePleasing #BreakingTheShameCycle #SexualAssaultSurvivor #AccountabilityAndHealing #MentalHealthRecovery #AnxietyAwareness #OvercomingShame #EmotionalHealing #FamilySupport #ConnectingToCope #SecondChances #HealingFromTrauma

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    If You Need Support, Reach Out

    If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.

    Stay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles

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  3. D E Foster: The Hidden Reality of Benzodiazepine Withdrawal and Long-Term Healing

    50 Min.Folge 6

    What happens when a medication prescribed to help you becomes the beginning of a life-changing health battle? In this powerful episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with D …

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    What happens when a medication prescribed to help you becomes the beginning of a life-changing health battle? In this powerful episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with D E Foster to uncover the hidden realities of benzodiazepine withdrawal, chronic anxiety, and living with Benzodiazepine-Induced Neurological Dysfunction (BIND). From 12 years on Klonopin to becoming a voice for patients navigating withdrawal, D shares a story of resilience, medical advocacy, and learning that healing doesn't always follow a straight line.

    Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “Kindness to ourselves, take care of yourself, be good to yourself, treat yourself well, and equal kindness to others.” — D E Foster Content Notice & Mental Health Crisis Resources Content Notice: This episode includes discussions of benzodiazepine dependence, prolonged withdrawal symptoms, chronic anxiety, medical trauma, loss of independence, and suicide. Please take care of yourself as you listen.

    D shares the heartbreaking loss of two close friends to suicide while discussing the emotional and physical challenges some people experience during prolonged benzodiazepine withdrawal.

    If you or someone you know is experiencing a mental health crisis in the United States, call or text 988 or visit:
    https://988lifeline.org/

    For crisis resources outside the United States:
    https://findahelpline.com/

    Important Medication Safety Reminder: Benzodiazepine withdrawal can be medically dangerous, particularly when medication is stopped abruptly. Do not stop or change a prescribed medication without working with a qualified healthcare professional. This episode shares lived experiences and educational information, not individualized medical advice.

    Episode Description Imagine taking a prescribed medication for 12 years, trusting that it's helping you, only to discover that coming off it could change your life in ways you never expected.

    That's exactly what happened to D E Foster.

    In this eye-opening conversation, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles welcome D, an author, podcaster, medical researcher, and patient advocate who has dedicated more than a decade to helping people understand benzodiazepine dependence and withdrawal.

    Originally prescribed Klonopin for chronic stomach distress, D spent 12 years taking the medication without being warned about the potential complications of long-term use. When he eventually learned about those risks, he began an 18-month taper. His final dose was August 20, 2014, but his journey was far from over.

    D opens up about living with Benzodiazepine-Induced Neurological Dysfunction (BIND), including cognitive challenges, physical symptoms, and the emotional toll of losing his career and independence. He also explains the critical difference between physical dependence and addiction, why individualized medical guidance matters, and how his lived experience helped shape benzodiazepine research and clinical guidelines.

    But this conversation isn't just about medication.

    It's about what happens when life doesn't return to normal, and you have to figure out what normal looks like now.

    From meditation and mindfulness to his wife's unwavering support, D shares the coping tools, relationships, and sense of purpose that have helped him navigate his toughest moments.

    He also gets real about people-pleasing, setting boundaries, and stepping away from advocacy work to protect his own well-being.

    Because sometimes the strongest thing you can do isn't push harder. It's recognizing when you need to take care of yourself.

    Keywords: D E Foster, benzodiazepine withdrawal, Klonopin withdrawal, benzodiazepine dependence, BIND, Benzodiazepine-Induced Neurological Dysfunction, protracted withdrawal, chronic anxiety, benzodiazepine tapering, anxiety medication, mental health advocacy, medication withdrawal support, long-term healing, mindfulness for anxiety, self-compassion

    Meet Our Guest — D E Foster D E Foster is an author, podcaster, medical researcher, and mental health advocate specializing in chronic anxiety, benzodiazepine dependence, and the complications of long-term withdrawal. After his own difficult experience discontinuing Klonopin, he wrote Benzo Free: The World of Anti-Anxiety Drugs and the Reality of Withdrawal, created the Benzo Free Podcast, and helped advance research identifying Benzodiazepine-Induced Neurological Dysfunction (BIND).

    As co-founder and co-chair of the Benzodiazepine Action Work Group, D has contributed to medical education, peer-support training, and research initiatives, including helping develop the American Society of Addiction Medicine's 2025 benzodiazepine tapering guidelines. He also founded Uneven Life, a community organization that supports people affected by BIND, and continues sharing his knowledge while prioritizing his own health.

    Connect with D E Foster:

    Key Takeaways
    • Physical dependence and addiction aren't the same thing. D explains how people taking benzodiazepines exactly as prescribed can develop physical dependence without the behaviors associated with addiction, and why understanding that difference matters for compassionate care.
    • Benzodiazepine withdrawal isn't always a short-term experience. While many people recover without prolonged difficulties, D's experience with BIND reveals why persistent symptoms deserve medical attention, research, and understanding.
    • Being informed changes the conversation with your doctor. D discusses the 2025 ASAM benzodiazepine tapering guidelines and why informed, collaborative conversations between patients and healthcare providers are essential.
    • Healing requires more than managing physical symptoms. Meditation, mindfulness, breathing exercises, meaningful activities, and supportive relationships helped D cope with anxiety and the ongoing challenges of withdrawal.
    • Supporting others shouldn't come at the expense of your own well-being. After years of community leadership, D stepped away from running support groups and coaching services to focus on his health, reminding us that boundaries matter even when the work is deeply personal.
    • Kindness and compassionate responsibility can exist together. D's approach recognizes that people deserve understanding and support while still having agency in how they respond to difficult circumstances.
    Actionable Items
    • Prepare for a more informed medication conversation. If you have questions about a prescribed benzodiazepine, write down your symptoms, concerns, and medication history. Discuss them with your prescribing clinician and ask about the ASAM benzodiazepine tapering guidelines when relevant. Never adjust your dosage independently.
    • Experiment with a small anxiety-management practice. D found meditation especially helpful during his hardest moments. Try a few minutes of mindful breathing, a gentle relaxation exercise, or another grounding activity that feels comfortable for you. The goal isn't to eliminate anxiety instantly; it's to discover tools that support you.
    • Practice kindness with boundaries. Think about one responsibility you've taken on because you don't want to disappoint someone. Ask whether it's sustainable and consider where you might need more rest, support, or a compassionate boundary.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:00:37 — Meet D E Foster: From Patient to Benzodiazepine Advocate
    • 00:02:37 — Why D Was Prescribed Klonopin for Stomach Problems
    • 00:05:27 — The 18-Month Taper and the Reality of Withdrawal
    • 00:07:30 — Living With BIND and Choosing Self-Care
    • 00:11:26 — Neurological Symptoms and the Loss of Independence
    • 00:13:17 — The Emotional Toll of Withdrawal and Losing Friends to Suicide
    • 00:14:59 — Why Peer Support Matters During Benzodiazepine Withdrawal
    • 00:17:21 — Finding a Doctor Who Understands Benzo Tapering
    • 00:19:53 — ASAM Guidelines and Changing Medical Conversations
    • 00:21:35 — Why D Decided to Stop Taking Klonopin
    • 00:23:15 — Understanding Slow Tapers and Protracted Withdrawal
    • 00:25:36 — Meditation, Mindfulness, and Relearning Anxiety Management
    • 00:27:55 — The Power of Marriage, Purpose, and Emotional Support
    • 00:30:25 — Why Honest Podcasting Creates Real Human Connection
    • 00:35:08 — Physical Dependence vs. Addiction
    • 00:37:32 — What D Would Tell His Younger Self
    • 00:39:06 — Kindness, People-Pleasing, and Setting Boundaries
    • 00:41:28 — If Anxiety Had a Theme Song
    • 00:43:29 — Everybody Has Their Shit: Finding Perspective
    • 00:45:15 — Kindness, Blame, and Compassionate Responsibility
    • 00:47:19 — Where to Find D and Benzodiazepine Support Resources
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    #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #DEFoster #BenzodiazepineWithdrawal #BenzoAwareness #KlonopinWithdrawal #BINDRecovery #ChronicAnxiety #AnxietyManagement #MentalHealthAdvocacy #MedicationAwareness #ProtractedWithdrawal #BenzoTapering #MindfulnessForAnxiety #SelfCompassion #PatientAdvocacy #LongTermHealing

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    If You Need Support, Reach Out

    If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.

    Stay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles

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  4. Alexis: You Are Not Your Diagnosis — Redefining Mental Health

    51 Min.Folge 5

    Who gets to define who you are? Your diagnosis, your past, or someone else's expectations? In this hilariously honest and deeply meaningful episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Alexis, a special …

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    Who gets to define who you are? Your diagnosis, your past, or someone else's expectations? In this hilariously honest and deeply meaningful episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Alexis, a special education teacher, mental health advocate, and founder of Permission to Define, to talk about living with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), challenging mental health stereotypes, finding the right therapist, setting boundaries, and taking back the power to define yourself.

    Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote "The hardest lesson I've ever learned is disclosure is not access." — Alexis Kur Content Notice & Mental Health Crisis Resources This episode includes conversations about Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), trauma, mental health stigma, difficult therapeutic experiences, discrimination related to a mental health diagnosis, and a brief mention of a past suicide attempt. Please listen with care and take breaks if needed.

    If you or someone you know is experiencing a mental health crisis in the United States, call or text 988 or visit:
    https://988lifeline.org/

    For crisis resources outside the United States:
    https://findahelpline.com/

    Episode Description What if everything you've been told about your mental health, your identity, and what success should look like isn't the whole story?

    In this powerful, funny, and unapologetically honest episode, Alexis joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about living with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), challenging mental health stigma, and refusing to let anyone else define who you are.

    Diagnosed with DID at 26, Alexis opens up about navigating nearly two decades of therapy, confronting misconceptions about her diagnosis, and building a trusted team of three therapists she affectionately calls her "Justice League." From equine-assisted therapy to exploring EMDR, she shares why finding the right mental health support matters and why healing sometimes requires questioning the language and expectations surrounding it.

    Alexis also shares the remarkable career change that took her from a successful, six-figure environmental consulting career to teaching high school special education. For her, success is no longer measured by money or professional recognition. It's watching a struggling student find the confidence to walk into class or discover a strength nobody else noticed.

    Things get especially real when Alexis discusses having her diagnosis used against her by someone she trusted professionally. That painful experience reinforced one of her most important lessons: Disclosure is not access. Sharing your story doesn't give someone permission to weaponize it.

    Through laughter, vulnerability, and plenty of colorful language, Alexis reminds us that lived experience matters, boundaries are essential, and only you get to decide what your diagnosis or your life means.

    Because sometimes the most powerful thing you can do for your mental health is stop trying to fit someone else's definition of normal.

    Keywords: Alexis Kur, Permission to Define, Dissociative Identity Disorder, DID awareness, living with DID, mental health stigma, mental health advocacy, trauma therapy, EMDR therapy, equine-assisted therapy, therapy relationships, mental health boundaries, self-advocacy, redefining success, lived experience

    Meet Our Guest — Alexis Alexis is a high school special education teacher, mental health advocate, speaker, writer, and founder of Permission to Define, a platform dedicated to challenging labels, amplifying lived experiences, and changing conversations about mental health.

    After 15 years in environmental consulting, Alexis traded a six-figure salary for something far more meaningful: helping teenagers recognize their strengths, build confidence, and believe in themselves. Now, working with high school students who receive special education services for emotional impairments, she brings compassion, authenticity, and her lived experience into the classroom.

    Diagnosed with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) at 26, Alexis has spent nearly two decades navigating therapy, confronting mental health stereotypes, and discovering what it means to live authentically. Through Permission to Define, she champions the value of lived experience, challenges limiting language, and encourages others to take ownership of how they define themselves.

    With sharp humor, unapologetic honesty, and a refreshing willingness to question the status quo, Alexis reminds us that a diagnosis is information, not an identity, and that everyone deserves the freedom to tell their own story.

    Connect with Alexis:

    Key Takeaways
    • Your diagnosis doesn't define your identity. Alexis challenges misconceptions about Dissociative Identity Disorder and reminds us that a diagnosis may help explain someone's experiences, but it never tells their entire story.
    • Disclosure is not access. Sharing personal mental health information doesn't give anyone permission to weaponize that information, cross your boundaries, or demand access to parts of your life you've chosen to keep private.
    • Finding the right therapist can change your mental health journey. Alexis's trusted "Justice League" of three therapists demonstrates how collaboration, respect, and a strong therapeutic relationship can make difficult emotional work feel more manageable.
    • Success is about purpose, not just a paycheck. Leaving a lucrative environmental consulting career helped Alexis realize that watching a student overcome a challenge can be more rewarding than professional status or financial success.
    • Lived experience deserves a voice in mental health conversations. Alexis uses her experiences with DID and therapy to help educators, mental health professionals, and others better understand the perspectives of people living with mental health conditions.
    • You have permission to challenge the language of healing. Whether she's questioning the word "resilient" or pushing back against scripted therapy phrases, Alexis reminds us that we can choose words and definitions that genuinely reflect our experiences.
    Actionable Items
    • Redefine a label you've been carrying. Choose one word others have used to describe you, such as anxious, difficult, or resilient, and consider whether it reflects who you are or whether it's time to create your own definition.
    • Practice setting boundaries around personal disclosure. Before sharing something about your mental health, decide what you're comfortable revealing and remind yourself that being honest doesn't mean giving someone unlimited access to your personal experiences.
    • Evaluate whether your support system respects your needs. Think about whether the people supporting your mental health listen without judgment, respect your boundaries, and encourage you to participate in decisions about your well-being.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:00:37 — Meet Alexis: Mental Health Advocate and Educator
    • 00:01:22 — Overcommitting, Perfectionism, and Mental Health
    • 00:04:29 — Living With DID and the Art of Multitasking
    • 00:07:54 — Finding Balance and Learning to Protect Your Time
    • 00:11:30 — Leaving a Six-Figure Career to Redefine Success
    • 00:14:13 — Building Trust With Special Education Students
    • 00:19:45 — How Lived Experience Shapes Alexis's Teaching
    • 00:23:05 — Receiving a Dissociative Identity Disorder Diagnosis
    • 00:24:27 — The Therapy Justice League: EMDR and Equine-Assisted Therapy
    • 00:27:24 — Why Alexis Challenges Traditional Therapy Language
    • 00:30:01 — Finding the Right Therapist and Building Trust
    • 00:33:19 — Overcoming Fear Through Equine-Assisted Therapy
    • 00:37:05 — Why Therapy Is Hard Work
    • 00:37:51 — Creating Permission to Define
    • 00:39:32 — Living Authentically Beyond Mental Health Labels
    • 00:42:48 — Advice to Her Younger Self: Finding Your People
    • 00:43:34 — Disclosure Is Not Access: Learning Difficult Boundaries
    • 00:44:56 — Mental Health Advice That Misses the Mark
    • 00:46:13 — Anxiety Theme Songs, Humor, and the Power of Words
    • 00:49:02 — Connecting With Alexis and Permission to Define
    • 00:49:54 — Closing Thoughts and Mental Health Reminder
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  5. Amy & Avery: Rebuilding After Life Changes — Caregiving, Self-Advocacy, and Finding Your Voice | Part 2

    52 Min.Folge 4

    What happens when chronic pain doesn’t only change the person hurting — it changes the marriage, the money, the business, the caregiver, and everybody’s identity? In Part 2, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles continue …

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    What happens when chronic pain doesn’t only change the person hurting — it changes the marriage, the money, the business, the caregiver, and everybody’s identity? In Part 2, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles continue their conversation with Amy and Avery Nubson about caregiver burnout, asking for help, surviving the darkest chapters of a relationship, rebuilding independence, letting go of shame, and creating a life that looks nothing like the one they originally planned.

    Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “Doing nothing was just not an option.” — Avery Nubson Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder This episode includes discussion of suicidal concern, severe chronic pain, caregiver burnout, depression, medication complications, medical trauma, and significant relationship and financial stress. Please take care while listening.

    If you or someone you know is experiencing a mental health crisis in the United States, call or text 988 or visit:
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    For crisis resources outside the United States:
    https://findahelpline.com/

    Episode Description Part 2 of Amy and Avery Nubson’s story asks a question we don’t talk about nearly enough: what happens to the caregiver when someone they love becomes consumed by pain?

    Amy gets brutally honest with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles about the period when she felt like a car accident had stolen her husband, best friend, business partner, and financial security all at once. Their clients disappeared. Medical bills landed on credit cards. She became Avery’s caregiver while trying to keep their lives afloat — and eventually reached a point where she knew something had to change.

    Avery shares the other side: the shame of needing help, the frustration of invisible disability, difficult treatment decisions, setbacks that sent his mental health spiraling, and the exhausting process of learning to advocate for himself. Together, they explain how pain journals helped reveal progress that was otherwise almost impossible to see.

    But this episode isn’t only about surviving. It’s about becoming.

    Amy found independence and her voice. Avery returned to art, creativity, illustration, and board-game design. They learned to travel differently, spend time apart without fear, ask for help, tell the truth about what they were experiencing, and stop measuring their lives against someone else’s timeline.

    Twelve years after the accident, Avery says something remarkable: he feels like he is coming back better.

    Keywords: caregiver burnout, chronic pain recovery, caregiver mental health, self-advocacy, men’s mental health, invisible disability, relationship resilience, asking for help, medical trauma, chronic illness marriage, emotional healing, storytelling and shame, self-discovery, pain journaling, finding your voice

    Meet Our Guests — Amy & Avery Nubson Amy Nubson turned one of the most difficult periods of her life into a mission to help other women rediscover their voices, courage, and confidence through storytelling, coaching, conferences, and her Rebrand You work. Avery Nubson is a longtime designer, marketer, illustrator, web and SEO professional whose life after a 2014 accident expanded his creative work into board-game design while giving him a deeply personal reason to speak about chronic pain, men’s pelvic health, PTSD, and the importance of refusing to give up on finding care.

    Together, Amy and Avery offer two sides of the same story: the person living with pain and the person loving, supporting, and sometimes struggling beside them.

    Website:
    http://www.nufiremarketing.com

    Amy Nubson on LinkedIn:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/amynubson-business-coach/

    Avery Nubson on LinkedIn:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/averynubson/

    Avery’s Games:
    https://humerusgames.com

    Key Takeaways
    • Chronic illness affects relationships and families, not only the person experiencing the physical symptoms.
    • Caregivers need care too, and ignoring their needs can create resentment, exhaustion, isolation, and emotional collapse.
    • Progress can be so gradual that you miss it unless you intentionally look backward and notice how far you’ve come.
    • Asking for help is not failure. Sometimes the most useful request is incredibly simple: mow the lawn, carry the bag, sit with me, or listen.
    • Independence can strengthen a relationship. Amy and Avery learned that doing things separately helped them rediscover themselves outside their roles as patient and caregiver.
    • Telling the story you once hid can transform shame into connection and give somebody else permission to speak.
    Actionable Items
    • Write down one specific thing someone could help you with instead of waiting until you are completely overwhelmed. Make the request concrete.
    • Track your progress. Whether you’re dealing with emotional healing, chronic illness, caregiving, or another long-term challenge, periodically compare where you are now with where you started.
    • Put something on the calendar to look forward to — a creative project, trip, conversation, class, walk, or small experience that reminds you your life contains more than the hard thing.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:00:46 — Pride, Wheelchairs, and Invisible Disability
    • 00:02:06 — Learning to Advocate for Yourself
    • 00:05:56 — A Medical Setback Hits Mental Health Hard
    • 00:09:44 — Where Do You Find the Strength to Keep Going?
    • 00:10:47 — Why Avery Kept Pain Journals
    • 00:12:06 — The Caregiver Story Nobody Was Asking About
    • 00:14:44 — The Conversation That Changed Their Marriage
    • 00:16:43 — Rebuilding Amy, Not Just Avery
    • 00:18:17 — Stop Waiting for Retirement to Live
    • 00:20:10 — The Moment Amy Heard Avery Laugh Again
    • 00:22:19 — Creativity Comes Back Online
    • 00:27:42 — “I Think I’m Coming Back Even Better”
    • 00:30:23 — Turning Pain Into Art and Shame Into Story
    • 00:33:52 — You Never Know What Someone Is Carrying
    • 00:35:58 — Getting Lost and Learning You’ll Be Okay
    • 00:39:43 — Advice to Their Younger Selves
    • 00:42:19 — Asking for Help, Perfection, and Not Giving Up
    • 00:44:38 — Theme Songs, Favorite Words, and a Little Fun
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  6. Amy & Avery: Rebuilding After Life Changes — Chronic Pain, PTSD, and Fighting to Be Heard | Part 1

    56 Min.Folge 3

    One car accident changed everything for Amy and Avery Nubson — their health, their marriage, their business, and the future they thought they had planned. In Part 1, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Amy …

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    One car accident changed everything for Amy and Avery Nubson — their health, their marriage, their business, and the future they thought they had planned. In Part 1, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Amy and Avery for a raw conversation about invisible injuries, chronic pain, PTSD, medical trauma, and what happens when you know something is wrong but getting someone to listen becomes a battle of its own.

    Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “Pain doesn’t have to be visible to be real, and progress doesn’t have to be fast to matter.” — Inspired by Avery Nubson Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder This episode includes discussion of chronic pain, PTSD, medical trauma, medication dependence and withdrawal, invasive medical treatment, and suicide risk. Please take care while listening.

    If you or someone you know is experiencing a mental health crisis in the United States, call or text 988 or visit:
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    Episode Description A car accident that looked minor on paper changed nearly every part of Amy and Avery Nubson’s lives.

    After Avery was hit from behind while stopped at a red light in 2014, he walked away without broken bones or obvious external injuries. But what followed was anything but minor: debilitating pain, PTSD, panic attacks, flashbacks, bladder and pelvic health complications, sleep problems, mobility limitations, and eventually a traumatic brain injury diagnosis that took years to uncover.

    In Part 1 of this deeply honest conversation, Avery tells G-Rex and Dirty Skittles what it was like to have his body become unfamiliar territory while repeatedly hearing that tests looked normal or providers didn’t know what came next. He opens up about male pelvic floor therapy, the shame surrounding intimate health problems, opioid withdrawal after insurance coverage changed, EMDR, implanted medical devices, and the exhausting reality of having to continuously advocate for care.

    Amy shares the other side of that journey: watching the person you love disappear beneath pain, trying to understand symptoms nobody prepared you for, and learning how to support someone through a recovery that doesn’t follow a clean timeline.

    This isn’t a story about magically “getting better.” It’s about persistence, invisible disability, medical self-advocacy, and finding hope in inches, not miles.

    Keywords: chronic pain, PTSD recovery, medical trauma, invisible disability, traumatic brain injury, EMDR therapy, men’s mental health, pelvic floor therapy, chronic illness, pain management, healthcare advocacy, anxiety after car accidents, caregiver support, mental health recovery, patient advocacy

    Meet Our Guests — Amy & Avery Nubson Amy and Avery Nubson have spent more than two decades building a life, businesses, and creative projects together, but a 2014 car accident forced them to completely rethink what partnership, healing, and success looked like. Amy now helps women reclaim their voices and tell their stories, while Avery brings his background in design, web development, marketing, SEO, illustration, and game design together with a growing desire to speak openly about chronic pain, men’s pelvic health, PTSD, and the treatments that helped him rebuild his life.

    Website:
    http://www.nufiremarketing.com

    Amy Nubson on LinkedIn:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/amynubson-business-coach/

    Avery Nubson on LinkedIn:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/averynubson/

    Avery’s Games:
    https://humerusgames.com

    Key Takeaways
    • An injury does not have to be visible on a scan for the pain and trauma surrounding it to be real.
    • PTSD can show up in waves, through flashbacks, panic attacks, sleep disruption, avoidance, and triggers that may make everyday life feel unsafe.
    • Physical pain and mental health are deeply connected, and treating one without acknowledging the other can leave major pieces of recovery untouched.
    • Men’s pelvic health remains difficult to talk about, and shame can make an already isolating medical problem even harder to navigate.
    • Self-advocacy sometimes means asking again, getting another opinion, and refusing to stop simply because the first answer was “we don’t know.”
    • Healing may be measured in tiny changes: driving around the block, skiing again, traveling, sleeping better, or simply experiencing less pain than yesterday.
    Actionable Items
    • Keep a symptom or pain journal. Track changes, triggers, treatments, medication reactions, and small improvements so you have something concrete to reference when progress feels invisible.
    • If you feel dismissed or your symptoms remain unexplained, consider asking what the next appropriate referral or specialty might be instead of accepting “nothing is wrong” as the end of the conversation.
    • When traveling with medical devices, mobility challenges, or other medical needs, research passenger-support options ahead of time and create a plan that reduces unnecessary stress.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:01:57 — From Art School to 26 Years Together
    • 00:04:10 — The Accident That Changed Everything
    • 00:07:07 — When PTSD Arrived in Waves
    • 00:14:57 — Portugal, Pain Relief, and Feeling Safe Again
    • 00:20:05 — EMDR and Life After Panic Attacks
    • 00:22:03 — The Medical Problems Nobody Could Explain
    • 00:27:01 — The Reality of Men’s Pelvic Floor Therapy
    • 00:33:15 — Fighting Insurance While Fighting to Heal
    • 00:36:04 — Why Men Need Somewhere to Talk About This
    • 00:42:51 — Pain Medication, Withdrawal, and the Pain Pump Decision
    • 00:47:32 — Traveling With Medical Devices
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  7. Tiphany Kane: Medical Gaslighting, Women’s Health, and Fighting to Be Heard

    31 Min.Folge 2

    Season 20 continues with Part 2 of our conversation with Tiphany Kane, where finding your voice becomes more than personal growth. Tiphany joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to share what happened when she had to …

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    Season 20 continues with Part 2 of our conversation with Tiphany Kane, where finding your voice becomes more than personal growth. Tiphany joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to share what happened when she had to fight to be heard while living with dangerously uncontrolled hypertension and repeatedly being told anxiety was the problem.

    Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “You’re supposed to share your story. You’re supposed to be heard and seen.” — Tiphany Kane Episode Description What do you do when you know something is wrong with your body, but you keep hearing that it’s anxiety?

    You keep fighting to be heard.

    In Part 2 of our Season 20 opener, Tiphany Kane takes G-Rex and Dirty Skittles deeper into the medical journey that turned her hard-won voice into one of her most important tools.

    Tiphany was dealing with dangerously uncontrolled hypertension alongside lifelong congenital organ abnormalities. After one medical appointment left her sobbing before she could even make it to her car, she found a clinical trial through UCI Health for people with resistant hypertension.

    Two days after an appointment where she felt completely dismissed, she walked into a room where people listened.

    Tiphany was accepted into the clinical trial and eventually underwent renal denervation. Months later, she says her blood pressure was controlled with medication, and she had something back that she’d desperately missed: quality of life.

    But those years came with consequences. Tiphany discusses lasting damage involving her eyes, kidneys, and heart.

    This conversation isn’t about pretending every doctor is terrible or that anxiety can’t affect the body. It’s about recognizing that mental and physical health can exist in the same damn body at the same time.

    Having anxiety doesn’t make every physical symptom anxiety.

    Tiphany’s story is a powerful reminder to ask questions, document what you’re experiencing, bring support when you need it, and keep advocating for yourself when something doesn’t feel right.

    Keywords: Tiphany Kane, medical gaslighting, women’s health, patient advocacy, self-advocacy, anxiety stigma, chronic illness, resistant hypertension, healthcare trauma, trusting your body, women’s mental health, medical dismissal, emotional resilience, finding your voice, patient empowerment

    Meet Our Guest — Tiphany Kane Tiphany Kane, M.Ed., is an award-winning producer, entrepreneur, public speaker, and storyteller whose own medical journey has added another powerful chapter to her work: speaking openly about what happens when people have to fight to be heard and believed.
    • CEO & Co-Founder, KaSa Media Productions — Tiphany produces podcasts, video, live events, and other story-driven media.
    • Founder, J4F MORE Foundation — Her work reaches beyond production into advocacy, storytelling, and creating opportunities for other voices to be heard.
    • Medical Advocacy — After navigating lifelong complex health issues and feeling dismissed during her medical journey, Tiphany began publicly sharing what happened so other people would know they aren’t alone.
    • Just 4 Feet Studio — She is building a 5,500-square-foot state-of-the-art Dolby Atmos recording and post-production studio in Orange County, California.
    • Academy of Interactive & Visual Arts — Tiphany is an AIVA member and serves as an AIVA juror.
    • Website — http://www.kasamediapro.com
    • Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/tiphanykane/
    • Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/tiphany.k
    • YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@J4Fstudio
    • LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/tiphany-kane-m-ed-514264175/
    Key Takeaways
    • Mental health and physical illness can exist at the same time. One doesn’t automatically explain away the other.
    • You live in your body every damn day. If something feels wrong and keeps feeling wrong, it’s okay to keep asking questions.
    • Self-advocacy isn’t about picking a fight with your doctor. It’s about being an active participant in your own care.
    • Sometimes you need another person in the room. An advocate can listen, take notes, ask questions, and help when you’re too sick, exhausted, or overwhelmed to do everything yourself.
    • Being listened to changed Tiphany’s medical experience. Feeling heard shouldn’t have to feel like winning the lottery.
    • The voice Tiphany spent decades learning not to suppress became exactly the voice she needed when the stakes got serious.
    Actionable Items
    • Walk in prepared. Keep a simple timeline of your symptoms, medications, relevant medical history, changes you’ve noticed, and the questions you don’t want to forget.
    • Bring backup when you need it. Ask someone you trust to attend an appointment with you, and tell them beforehand exactly how you’d like them to support you.
    • Ask one more question. If a physical symptom is being attributed to anxiety, ask what physical causes have been considered and what findings support that conclusion.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:00:45 — What Happened After the Appointment?
    • 00:01:14 — Finding the Clinical Trial
    • 00:02:58 — Renal Denervation and Getting Her Blood Pressure Controlled
    • 00:04:06 — The Lasting Physical Damage
    • 00:05:03 — Getting Her Quality of Life Back
    • 00:06:33 — Why Did Tiphany Have to Find the Answer Herself?
    • 00:08:57 — Finally Being Taken Seriously
    • 00:12:44 — When Trust in Healthcare Breaks Down
    • 00:14:20 — Insurance, Chronic Illness, and Access to Care
    • 00:19:51 — Why Having an Advocate Matters
    • 00:20:59 — Anxiety and Physical Illness Can Coexist
    • 00:22:17 — What Tiphany Wishes She Had Said
    • 00:23:43 — Using Her Voice to Help Others
    • 00:24:40 — What She Would Tell Her Younger Self
    • 00:26:21 — Divorce and One of Life’s Hardest Lessons
    • 00:29:27 — Where to Find Tiphany
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  8. Tiphany Kane: Finding Your Voice After Religious Trauma, Rejection, and Reinvention

    33 Min.Folge 1

    Season 20 starts with one hell of a story. In Part 1 of this two-part opener, Tiphany Kane joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about leaving a restrictive religious environment at 19, losing family and …

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    Season 20 starts with one hell of a story. In Part 1 of this two-part opener, Tiphany Kane joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about leaving a restrictive religious environment at 19, losing family and community, carrying the wounds of rejection, and eventually realizing she didn’t need anyone’s permission to use her voice.

    Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “I can do really hard things.” — Tiphany Kane Episode Description At 19, Tiphany Kane packed up her little blue Toyota Corolla and drove across the country. She was leaving behind the restrictive religious world that had shaped what she believed about women, family, belonging, and herself.

    But getting out was only the beginning.

    In this Season 20 opener, Tiphany talks with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles about being disfellowshipped and suddenly losing contact with family members, childhood friends, and the community she had always known. She describes becoming an “instant orphan” and how that kind of rejection doesn’t magically disappear, even after decades.

    Those old wounds still show up. Sometimes rejection brings up a protective wall. Other times, it wakes up the little girl who wonders why people don’t fight for her. Tiphany has learned to recognize those stories without letting them run the whole damn show.

    She also opens up about people-pleasing, divorce, rebuilding her life, leaving a 20-year career she loved, and being told professionally that she was “too passionate.”

    That moment became another crossroads: keep making herself smaller or figure out who she was without everyone else’s rules.

    Then she found podcasting.

    For the first time, Tiphany could say what she wanted to say without asking permission. And once she found that voice, there was no putting it back in the box.

    Keywords: Tiphany Kane, religious trauma, finding your voice, rejection, people-pleasing, emotional healing, divorce recovery, reinvention, abandonment wounds, women’s mental health, self-worth, resilience, starting over, trauma recovery, podcasting

    Meet Our Guest — Tiphany Kane Tiphany Kane, M.Ed., is an award-winning producer, entrepreneur, public speaker, and storyteller who has seen firsthand what happens when someone finally stops shrinking and starts owning their voice. Key Takeaways
    • Reinventing yourself doesn’t mean the person you were before was a failure. Sometimes every version of you gets you a little closer to who you really are.
    • You can leave a controlling environment and still carry pieces of what happened with you for years.
    • Rejection and abandonment can leave emotional fingerprints long after you’ve built an entirely new life.
    • People-pleasing isn’t always about being nice. Sometimes it starts as a way to stay safe, accepted, or loved.
    • There is no expiration date on finding your voice. Tiphany was in her late 40s when podcasting helped her truly discover hers.
    • Being called “too much” doesn’t automatically mean you need to tone yourself down. Sometimes you’ve simply outgrown the room you’re standing in.
    Actionable Items
    • Catch the rejection story. The next time something feels like rejection, ask yourself: What actually happened, and what is my old wound telling me happened?
    • Notice where you’re shrinking. Look at your work, relationships, family, and friendships. Where are you editing yourself just to keep somebody else comfortable?
    • Practice using your voice. Journal it, record it, say it to someone you trust, or create something. Give yourself one place where you don’t have to make your truth prettier for everybody else.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:02:07 — A Lifetime of Reinvention
    • 00:04:02 — Leaving Home at 19
    • 00:05:30 — Growing Up in a Restrictive Religion
    • 00:07:14 — The Questions That Changed Everything
    • 00:11:08 — Disfellowshipped and Losing Her Community
    • 00:14:52 — Rejection and Abandonment Wounds
    • 00:16:34 — Breaking the “Good Girl” Programming
    • 00:19:32 — Finding Her Voice in Her Late 40s
    • 00:21:56 — How Podcasting Changed Everything
    • 00:25:54 — When Health Problems Get Blamed on Anxiety
    • 00:28:34 — Sharing Her Medical Story With the World
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  9. G-Rex & Dirty Skittles: Leaving Self-Doubt Behind — Our Biggest Mental Health Lessons from Season 19

    33 Min.Folge 17

    Season 19 gave us a front-row seat to grief, resilience, reinvention, boundaries, healing, and some seriously honest conversations. In this season finale, we look back at every guest who sat down with us, the …

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    Season 19 gave us a front-row seat to grief, resilience, reinvention, boundaries, healing, and some seriously honest conversations. In this season finale, we look back at every guest who sat down with us, the moments that stayed with us after the microphones turned off, and how much we have both changed along the way.

    Awards & Downloads

    Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries.

    Feedback

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    Mental Health Quote

    “I want to leave behind doubt and sadness and bring with me determination and hope and love.” — Dirty Skittles

    Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder

    This episode includes conversations about grief, suicide loss, sexual assault, addiction, depression, trauma, and other difficult mental health experiences.

    If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, call or text 988 in the United States to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline:

    https://988lifeline.org/

    For international crisis support:

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    Episode Description

    We honestly cannot believe we are wrapping up Season 19.

    When we started Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, we knew we wanted honest conversations about mental health. We didn't realize how much those conversations would change us, too.

    This season brought us stories about burnout, grief, perfectionism, binge eating, difficult relationships, workplace stress, suicide loss, trauma, resilience, identity, and what it really means to reinvent yourself. Every guest brought something different into the room, but somehow each conversation left us looking at our own lives a little differently.

    In this finale, we go back through every guest from Season 19 and talk about what stuck with us.

    We reflect on boundaries, self-doubt, fear of failure, therapy, creativity, friendship, and the weird little things that help us stay grounded when life gets messy. We talk about learning to protect our peace, walking away from drama, giving ourselves permission to change, and understanding that trying something hard does not mean we failed just because the outcome looked different than expected.

    And yes, we also talk about fishing, fantasy romance, laughing at wildly inappropriate things, and why sometimes the best mental health support is having that one person who understands exactly how your brain works.

    The biggest takeaway from Season 19 is this: our stories matter, but they don't have to become our entire identity.

    Season 19 is ending, and we are leaving self-doubt behind.

    Keywords: mental health podcast, emotional wellness, resilience, self-doubt, boundaries, burnout recovery, grief, trauma healing, perfectionism, anxiety, personal growth, therapy, self-care, reinvention, mental health awareness

    Meet Our Guests — Season 19

    Season 19 gave us some unforgettable conversations, and every guest left us with something that stuck.

    • Diandra Ford-Wing — Diandra talked with us about severe workplace burnout, losing her mom, and what happens when grief does not fit inside somebody else’s timeline.
    • Justin Shaw — Justin introduced us to his “shadow and sorcerer” framework and gave us a different way to think about trauma, identity, and what happens when our unhealed parts start running the show.
    • David Meyer — David reminded us how powerful creativity can be when writing, poetry, storytelling, and self-expression become part of how we process what is going on inside our heads.
    • Rocio & Angel — Rocio and Angel shared their work around women’s identity, growth, and transformation through The Orchid: The Secret Code of Modern Goddesses, while also showing us what genuine partnership and mutual respect can look like.
    • Mandi Lynne — Mandi opened up about being a recovering perfectionist and learning how to stop tying her worth to being extraordinary all the time.
    • Amber Abila — Amber shared her experience with restrictive eating, binge eating, and bulimia, along with the work it took to rebuild her relationship with food and herself.
    • Barbara Parker — Barbara talked about perfectionism, divorce, rebuilding her life, and learning that sometimes “good enough” really is enough.
    • Regent Cornell — Regent reminded us why the conversations we most want to avoid are often the ones we need to have, especially when work, relationships, and mental health collide.
    • Stephanie Renner — Stephanie shared the heartbreaking loss of her son Jordan and how she has turned that grief into meaningful ways of reminding people that they matter.
    • Noah May — Noah opened up about the circumstances surrounding his conception, the mental health struggles that followed, and how podcasting helped him find his voice.
    • John Carter — John shared an unbelievable story of surviving being shot in the head, depression, addiction, jail, and major life changes before rebuilding a life centered around fatherhood, fitness, and resilience.
    Key Takeaways
    • Healing does not happen on somebody else’s schedule. Grief, trauma, and burnout do not care what a policy says.
    • What happened to us can shape us without becoming the only thing that defines us.
    • Boundaries can feel uncomfortable, but protecting our peace is worth it.
    • Trying something difficult and getting an unexpected result does not automatically mean we failed.
    • We can reinvent ourselves at any age. There is no expiration date on becoming somebody new.
    • Mental health support does not always look serious. Sometimes it is therapy. Sometimes it is laughter. Sometimes it is fishing, fantasy books, a phone game, or calling the one person who understands your sense of humor.
    Actionable Items
    • Ask yourself what you are ready to leave behind in this season of your life. Write down what you want to replace it with.
    • Pick one boundary that would make your life feel lighter and practice holding it without overexplaining yourself.
    • Start your own joy folder. Fill it with photos, memories, screenshots, quotes, or anything else that reminds you what makes you feel like yourself.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:00:37 — Welcome to the Season 19 Finale
    • 00:03:48 — How Much We Have Changed
    • 00:08:23 — Diandra Ford-Wing: Burnout, Grief, and Work
    • 00:10:17 — Justin Shaw: Your Shadow Is Not Your Identity
    • 00:11:32 — David Meyer: Creativity and Mental Health
    • 00:12:53 — Rocio & Angel: Identity, Partnership, and The Orchid
    • 00:14:04 — Mandi Lynne: Recovering From Perfectionism
    • 00:15:22 — Amber Abila: Binge Eating and Understanding the Why
    • 00:16:39 — Barbara Parker: When Good Enough Is Good Enough
    • 00:18:24 — Regent Cornell: Having the Conversations We Avoid
    • 00:20:13 — Stephanie Renner: Grief, Jordan, and Letting People Know They Matter
    • 00:21:51 — Noah May: Finding His Voice Through Podcasting
    • 00:22:54 — John Carter: Survival, Resilience, and Rebuilding
    • 00:24:18 — Five Questions for Us
    • 00:26:14 — The Ridiculous Things That Actually Help Our Mental Health
    • 00:27:25 — Friendship as Mental Health Support
    • 00:30:10 — What We Are Leaving Behind in Season 19
    • 00:31:01 — Thank You, Season 19
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  10. John Carter: Part 2- Never Give Up — Sobriety, Forgiveness, and Finding Purpose After Trauma

    26 Min.Folge 16

    What happens after you survive something that should have killed you? In Part 2, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles continue their conversation with John Carter about waking from a coma, living with permanent injuries …

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    What happens after you survive something that should have killed you? In Part 2, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles continue their conversation with John Carter about waking from a coma, living with permanent injuries, maintaining long-term sobriety, choosing forgiveness, staying grateful, and turning a brutal past into a life of purpose.

    Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “Never give up. You are much stronger than you think.” — John Carter Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder This episode includes conversations about gun violence, addiction, overdose, incarceration, depression, disability, and loss. Please take care of yourself while listening.

    If you or someone you know is in crisis or needs immediate emotional support in the United States, call or text 988 or visit:
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    For crisis resources outside the U.S.:
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    Episode Description In Part 2 of John Carter’s story, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles go deeper into the moments that shaped the man he is today—and the mindset that keeps him moving forward.

    John describes the vivid dream he experienced while unconscious after being shot in the head. In the dream, he was repeatedly challenged to swim a race he could not win until an unknown older man appeared, coached him, and refused to let him quit. John eventually won the race—and woke up. To him, that mysterious coach represented a higher power delivering a message that would follow him for the rest of his life: keep going.

    The conversation explores the long road of physical recovery, John’s decision not to carry hatred toward the man who shot him, and why he sees accountability differently after surviving the consequences of his own choices.

    John also talks about maintaining sobriety by refusing to forget how bad addiction became. Today, storytelling, speaking at recovery centers, mentoring younger people, training clients, supporting Mobility Danes of New England, and being present for his children and grandchildren all help keep him connected to his purpose.

    He is candid about one challenge that remains difficult: accepting changes in his mobility. But instead of pretending those feelings don't exist, John keeps returning to gratitude.

    His message is beautifully simple: never give up, accept help when it comes, and remember that you may be stronger than adversity has allowed you to believe.

    Keywords: John Carter, trauma recovery, long-term sobriety, addiction recovery, forgiveness, gratitude, resilience, mental health recovery, overcoming adversity, purpose after trauma, disability awareness, personal growth, second chances, recovery motivation, never give up

    Meet Our Guest — John Carter John Carter is a personal trainer, motivational speaker, entrepreneur, author, and owner of Titanium Health and Fitness in Boston. After surviving a near-fatal gunshot, addiction, incarceration, disability, and profound loss, John rebuilt his life and now uses his experience to help others through fitness, speaking, recovery advocacy, mentorship, and service.

    His first book, Triggered to Change, documents a life he describes as having contained “a hundred lives”—and the second chances that made his current one possible.

    Key Takeaways
    • Long-term recovery requires remembering where addiction can take you—not romanticizing where you came from.
    • Forgiveness can mean recognizing your own choices without carrying hatred for someone else.
    • Purpose often grows when we turn painful experiences into something that can help another person.
    • Accepting help can be every bit as important as having the strength to keep fighting.
    • Gratitude does not erase difficulty; it changes what you choose to focus on inside it.
    • Being present for the people you love can become one of the strongest reasons to protect your recovery.
    Actionable Items
    • Write down the reality of a difficult period you never want to return to. Keep it somewhere you can revisit when your memory starts softening the hard edges.
    • Identify one way your lived experience could help someone else—even if it is simply having an honest conversation.
    • When adversity hits, replace “I can’t do this” with one smaller question: “What is the next thing I can do without giving up?”
    References Mentioned Important Chapters
    • 00:00:53 — What Happened After John Was Shot
    • 00:01:30 — The Dream John Remembers From His Coma
    • 00:04:18 — Waking Up Unable to Move or Speak
    • 00:05:19 — Physical Recovery and Aqua Therapy
    • 00:06:43 — What Happened to the Man Who Shot John
    • 00:07:23 — Choosing Accountability Over Resentment
    • 00:09:03 — John’s Documentary and What Comes Next
    • 00:10:20 — Getting His Book Into Prisons
    • 00:11:25 — How John Maintains His Sobriety
    • 00:12:27 — Being Present for His Family
    • 00:14:37 — Accepting Changes in His Mobility
    • 00:18:00 — Fatherhood After Prison
    • 00:19:23 — What John Would Tell His Younger Self
    • 00:22:19 — John’s Advice: Never Give Up
    • 00:23:00 — Anxiety, Turbulence, and the Word John Hates Most
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  11. John Carter: Part 1- Shot in the Head, Lost in Addiction, and Fighting His Way Back

    33 Min.Folge 15

    At 22, John Carter survived a point-blank gunshot to the back of the head—but surviving the bullet was only the beginning. G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with John for Part 1 of an unbelievable conversation …

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    At 22, John Carter survived a point-blank gunshot to the back of the head—but surviving the bullet was only the beginning. G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with John for Part 1 of an unbelievable conversation about organized crime, depression, addiction, prison, sobriety, physical recovery, and the people who helped him fight his way back.

    Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “Tomorrow might not be here for you, so take advantage of it.” — John Carter Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder This episode includes conversations about gun violence, addiction, incarceration, depression, overdose, and loss. Please take care of yourself while listening.

    If you or someone you know is in crisis or needs immediate emotional support in the United States, call or text 988 or visit:
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    Episode Description John Carter has lived through the kind of story that sounds impossible until you hear him tell it. Raised around organized crime and determined to follow in his father’s footsteps, John entered a dangerous world that nearly killed him. At just 22, he was shot point-blank in the back of the head. He survived—but the aftermath brought disability, depression, alcohol, drugs, and eventually dealing drugs to support his addiction.

    In Part 1, John joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about the moments that changed the direction of his life. After his arrest, he found himself sitting in a police department parking lot at more than 300 pounds, using a wheelchair, broke, addicted, and out of options. A trip to detox—and a woman named Deb who showed him what recovery could look like—became the beginning of something different.

    John also shares how a 10-year prison sentence ultimately became part of his second chance. Inside, three men who had known his father refused to let him stay in his wheelchair. They brought him to the prison gym, trained with him, and helped him rebuild his body until he eventually walked out of prison.

    The conversation also explores grief, the loss of John’s brothers to addiction, the importance of asking for help, and the unexpected purpose he found through personal training and service dogs.

    John’s story isn’t about pretending trauma was a gift. It’s about what can happen when you keep getting back up.

    Keywords: John Carter, addiction recovery, mental health recovery, sobriety, trauma recovery, depression, prison rehabilitation, resilience, second chances, organized crime survivor, personal transformation, service dogs, recovery community, fitness and mental health, overcoming adversity

    Meet Our Guest — John Carter John Carter is a personal trainer, motivational speaker, entrepreneur, author, and owner of Titanium Health and Fitness, a private gym in Boston. After surviving a near-fatal gunshot, addiction, incarceration, and profound personal loss, John rebuilt his life around sobriety, service, fitness, and helping others believe that change is still possible.

    His memoir, Triggered to Change, shares his journey from organized crime and addiction to recovery, purpose, and second chances.

    Key Takeaways
    • Recovery can begin at the moment you finally admit you need help.
    • Getting sober does not make every problem disappear, but it gives you a fighting chance to face them.
    • A painful consequence can sometimes become the interruption that saves a life.
    • Asking for help is not weakness—it can completely change the direction of your story.
    • Physical movement and fitness became powerful tools in John’s rebuilding process.
    • The people who believe in you can matter enormously, but you still have to choose the next right step.
    Actionable Items
    • Make a recovery plan before you need it. Identify the people, places, and resources you can turn to when life becomes overwhelming.
    • Look honestly at the environments that pull you backward. Sometimes protecting your progress means changing where you go and who you spend time with.
    • Find one healthy practice that helps you reconnect with your body—walking, strength training, stretching, swimming, or another form of movement that meets you where you are.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:01:02 — John Introduces His Story
    • 00:02:25 — Growing Up Around Organized Crime
    • 00:03:03 — Surviving the Gunshot
    • 00:04:00 — Addiction, Arrest, and Hitting Bottom
    • 00:05:09 — Meeting Deb and Seeing Recovery Differently
    • 00:06:00 — A 10-Year Prison Sentence
    • 00:07:29 — Making a Plan Instead of Giving Up
    • 00:09:13 — Rebuilding His Body in Prison
    • 00:12:14 — The Lesson John’s Father Taught Him About Quitting
    • 00:16:55 — Entering Prison at 24
    • 00:18:31 — Facing Temptation After Prison
    • 00:19:40 — Losing His Brothers to Addiction
    • 00:21:16 — Turbulence and the Power of Service Dogs
    • 00:26:21 — Turning His Story Into a TEDx Talk
    • 00:29:46 — Finding Purpose Through Speaking and Service
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  12. Noah: From Depression and Suicidal Thoughts to Finding His Voice Through Podcasting

    36 Min.Folge 17

    What happens when years of depression, anxiety, bullying, and feeling like an outsider finally meet a microphone? G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Noah May to talk about surviving some of his darkest …

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    What happens when years of depression, anxiety, bullying, and feeling like an outsider finally meet a microphone? G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Noah May to talk about surviving some of his darkest moments, finding connection when he needed it most, and discovering that using his voice through podcasting could become part of his healing.

    Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “Stay strong and don’t let it all bring you down. You got to keep fighting.” — Noah May Episode Description Noah May has been navigating depression since he was 13 and anxiety since he was 18, but his story is about more than diagnoses. It’s about what happens when loneliness, bullying, complicated family history, and feeling like you don’t belong start shaping the way you see yourself — and what can happen when you finally find a way to speak back.

    In this deeply personal conversation, Noah joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about growing up without his biological father, learning the painful circumstances surrounding his conception, being bullied by classmates, and wondering whether he was ever good enough. He also opens up about starting therapy, struggling to be completely honest during those early sessions, and later realizing that healing sometimes requires finding the right outlet — not just following someone else’s version of what recovery should look like.

    For Noah, one of those outlets became podcasting.

    After graduating from Auburn University with a journalism degree, Noah faced another familiar fear: What if all that work had been for nothing? Instead of giving up, he leaned harder into creating. Today, he hosts three podcasts — Lethal Venom, Music Talks, and Southern Reads — and uses his platform to tell the truth, connect with people, and create the kind of space he once needed himself.

    Noah’s story reminds us that life rarely follows the damn plan. Sometimes healing looks like therapy. Sometimes it looks like friendship. Sometimes it looks like music, books, or sitting behind a microphone and finally saying the things you’ve carried for years.

    Keywords: Noah May, depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts, mental health recovery, podcasting and mental health, bullying recovery, loneliness, finding your voice, emotional healing, therapy, young adult mental health, mental health advocacy, overcoming adversity, healing through storytelling

    Meet Our Guest — Noah May Noah May is an Auburn University graduate with a bachelor’s degree in journalism and the host of three podcasts: Lethal Venom, Music Talks, and Southern Reads. After navigating depression, anxiety, bullying, loneliness, and periods of suicidal thinking, Noah turned his experiences into a reason to speak openly and create conversations where others can feel seen, heard, and less alone.

    Website: https://www.noahspodcasts.com/
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/713902225134300
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thenoahshowww
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/noah-c-may
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thenoahshowww
    X: https://www.x.com/noahspodcasts
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/noahspodcasts

    Lethal Venom:
    https://noahspodcasts.com/lethal-venom

    Music Talks:
    https://noahspodcasts.com/music-talks

    Southern Reads:
    https://noahspodcasts.com/southern-reads

    Key Takeaways
    • Your past can shape you without getting the final say in who you become.
    • Depression and anxiety can make you feel isolated, but hearing someone else’s story can remind you that you aren’t the only one carrying heavy shit.
    • Finding the right mental health support may take time, honesty, and sometimes more than one therapist or healing approach.
    • Creative expression can become a powerful emotional outlet when you've buried feelings for years.
    • Supportive friendships can completely change the way we experience difficult seasons.
    • Life rarely unfolds exactly according to plan, and that doesn’t mean you failed.
    Actionable Items
    • Find one safe outlet where you can say what you’ve been holding back — whether that’s therapy, journaling, podcasting, voice notes, art, or a trusted person.
    • Take inventory of the people around you. Pay attention to who makes you feel supported, heard, and able to be yourself.
    • When your original plan falls apart, ask yourself, “What can I build with what I have right now?” instead of automatically assuming you failed.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:00 — Meet Noah May
    • 01:45 — Noah’s Childhood and Family Story
    • 06:38 — Bullying and Growing Up Without a Father
    • 08:11 — Depression and Anxiety Begin
    • 09:12 — Starting College During COVID
    • 12:52 — Why Noah Chose Journalism
    • 15:00 — Turning a Dream Into Podcasting
    • 16:38 — Podcasting as a Therapeutic Outlet
    • 19:59 — Building Three Podcasts
    • 21:05 — Music and Mental Health
    • 23:14 — Rediscovering Reading
    • 26:15 — Therapy and Learning to Open Up
    • 28:28 — Giving Anxiety a Theme Song
    • 29:53 — Advice to Noah’s 12-Year-Old Self
    • 30:52 — The Hardest Lesson Noah Has Learned
    • 32:15 — Noah’s Favorite Word
    • 33:32 — Where to Find Noah
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  13. Stephanie on Grief, Guilt, and Turning Regret Into Resilience

    47 Min.Folge 13

    Grief has a way of dragging us back into every decision, every conversation, and every painful “what if.” In this deeply personal episode, Stephanie Renner joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about losing …

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    Grief has a way of dragging us back into every decision, every conversation, and every painful “what if.” In this deeply personal episode, Stephanie Renner joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about losing her son Jordan to suicide, the guilt and regret that followed, and how she learned to keep moving forward without letting the past define the rest of her life.

    Awards & Downloads Line Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listeners in more than 160 countries. Feedback Link Line We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here:

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    Mental Health Quote “Love is not measured by the outcome.” — Stephanie Renner Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder This episode includes candid conversations about suicide, suicidal ideation, self-harm, grief, and the loss of a child. Please take care of yourself while listening and step away if you need to.

    If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis in the United States, call or text 988 to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. https://988lifeline.org/

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    Episode Description After losing her father, her mother, and her oldest son within a six-year span, Stephanie Renner knows what it feels like to replay the past and wonder what could have been different.

    In this raw and deeply human conversation, Stephanie opens up to G-Rex and Dirty Skittles about her son Jordan, who died by suicide shortly before his nineteenth birthday. She shares what it was like raising a deeply empathetic young man who struggled for years with suicidal ideation, mental health challenges, and the feeling that he did not quite fit into the world around him.

    Stephanie also speaks honestly about the guilt that can follow devastating loss. The questions come fast and hard: What if I had found the right therapist? What if I had been home? What if I had made one different decision? She calls them the “if-onlys,” and she knows firsthand how easily they can become a prison.

    Over time, Stephanie began to understand that loving someone deeply does not mean you can control their outcome. That realization became one of the most important lessons of her life: Love is not measured by the outcome.

    She also shares the unexpected signs that have helped her feel connected to Jordan, the community that surrounded her when she could barely function, and the ways grief changed her perspective on fear, work, and what actually matters.

    After nearly 25 years as an attorney, Stephanie stepped away from the life she built and moved toward something more meaningful. Today, through her Regret to Resilience Method, she helps people work through regret, guilt, and shame after trauma or loss.

    She also founded Gilly’s Friends in Jordan’s memory, turning his kindness into a lasting reminder: You matter. You’re loved.

    Keywords: Stephanie Renner, Regret to Resilience, grief, grief recovery, suicide loss, suicide prevention, parental grief, guilt after loss, regret, emotional healing, self-forgiveness, resilience, trauma recovery, mental health awareness, finding purpose after loss

    Meet Our Guest — Stephanie Renner Stephanie Renner is a keynote speaker, writer, attorney, nonprofit founder, and creator of The Regret to Resilience Method. Her work helps people release regret, guilt, and shame after trauma or loss so they can move forward with greater purpose, confidence, and self-compassion.

    Her work is deeply personal. After losing her father, mother, and oldest son, Jordan, within six years, Stephanie turned her own experience with grief into a mission to help others stop allowing the past to control what comes next.

    She is also the founder of Gilly’s Friends, a nonprofit created in Jordan “Gilly” Guilford’s memory that spreads intentional acts of kindness and reminds people that they matter and are loved.

    Key Takeaways
    • Love is not measured by the outcome. You can love someone completely and still not control what happens.
    • Regret often lives in the “if-onlys,” where we convince ourselves that one different choice would have changed everything.
    • Grief does not mean forgetting someone or moving on from them. It can mean learning to carry love and loss at the same time.
    • Support matters. Sometimes the people who simply show up, sit with you, feed you, and stay close make survival possible.
    • Belonging matters, especially for young people who feel like they do not fit anywhere.
    • Purpose can grow alongside grief. Stephanie transformed Jordan’s legacy of kindness into work that continues to help other people feel seen and valued.
    Actionable Items
    • Challenge one “if-only.” Write down a regret you keep replaying and ask yourself whether you truly know that changing that one moment would have changed the outcome.
    • Know who your people are. Identify two or three people you can call when life gets heavy, and consider whether someone in your life may need you to be that person for them.
    • Do one intentional act of kindness. Send the text. Make the call. Buy the coffee. Check in. Small moments can carry more weight than we realize.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:00 – Meet Stephanie Renner
    • 02:30 – Signs From Jordan and Staying Connected After Loss
    • 08:15 – Jordan’s Mental Health Journey
    • 12:00 – Surviving the Loss of a Child
    • 13:35 – The “If-Onlys” of Grief and Regret
    • 18:50 – One of Stephanie and Jordan’s Final Conversations
    • 21:45 – Mental Health, Shame, and Creating a Kinder World
    • 23:30 – The Community That Carried Stephanie
    • 26:15 – Losing Fear After Losing So Much
    • 26:55 – Grieving a Son While Losing a Mother to Alzheimer’s
    • 29:30 – From Attorney to Regret to Resilience
    • 31:00 – Letting Go of Mother’s Day Guilt
    • 33:30 – Care Bears, Raccoons, and Signs From Beyond
    • 41:25 – What Stephanie Would Tell a Younger Jordan
    • 44:25 – Love Is Not Measured by the Outcome
    • 45:40 – Favorite Word, Least Favorite Word
    • 46:10 – Regret to Resilience
    • 47:05 – Gilly’s Friends and Jordan’s Legacy of Kindness
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  14. Regent on Courageous Conversations: Stop Avoiding What’s Costing You Peace — Part 2

    28 Min.Folge 12

    Some conversations can be course-corrected with feedback. Others cross a bright line and demand something more. In Part 2, G-Rex, Dirty Skittles, and Regent Cornell get even more practical about confrontation …

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    Some conversations can be course-corrected with feedback. Others cross a bright line and demand something more. In Part 2, G-Rex, Dirty Skittles, and Regent Cornell get even more practical about confrontation, emotional regulation, accountability, leadership, and what to do when the other person simply refuses to meet you halfway.

    Awards & Downloads Line Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback Link Line We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “People rarely need fewer confrontations. They need thousands more courageous everyday feedback conversations.” — Regent Cornell Episode Description How do you have a healthy conversation when the other person refuses to listen, take accountability, or change?

    In Part 2, Regent Cornell returns with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to push the conversation beyond basic communication skills and into the harder territory: bright lines, toxic leadership, broken trust, emotional triggers, and knowing when you have done everything you can.

    Regent explains the difference between feedback and confrontation, including situations where a boundary has been crossed so clearly that feedback is no longer enough. He also explores why confrontation should never become an excuse to retaliate, humiliate, or emotionally punish another person. The temporary satisfaction of “winning” a fight can quickly turn into regret.

    G-Rex asks what happens when leaders avoid conflict or when the person receiving feedback refuses to engage. Regent’s answer is clear: you cannot force someone to change. You can communicate, influence, set expectations, and choose what you are willing to tolerate, but accountability ultimately belongs to each individual.

    The trio also talks about self-worth, curiosity, emotional regulation, and why avoidance can quietly destroy relationships. Regent leaves listeners with a challenge: choose one conversation. Not ten. One. Decide what needs daylight, get curious about the other person’s reality, and stop waiting for the “suddenly” that comes after months or years of avoidance.

    Keywords: difficult conversations, courageous conversations, conflict resolution, mental health, emotional wellness, boundaries, leadership communication, workplace conflict, toxic leadership, self-worth, accountability, emotional regulation, healthy confrontation, relationship communication, Fierce Conversations

    Meet Our Guest — Regent Cornell Regent Cornell is a transformational leadership, talent-development, and organizational-growth expert with more than 33 years of experience helping leaders, teams, and individuals build the clarity, confidence, and capability to thrive. He serves as Vice President of Market Evolution & Strategic Growth at Fierce Conversations and owns Cornell Consulting, bringing expertise in executive coaching, strategic communication, organizational development, team building, diversity and inclusion, negotiation, and change management.

    Regent is an HBDI Level III Master Facilitator through Herrmann International and holds a Professional Coaching Certification at the ICF-PCC level from the University of Miami. He is also certified in Fierce Conversations, Myers-Briggs, DiSC, Prosci Change Management, and Advanced Consulting.

    Fierce Inc.:
    https://www.fierceinc.com/

    LinkedIn:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/regent-cornell

    Key Takeaways
    • Feedback is preventative care; confrontation is the intervention when a pattern becomes too important to ignore.
    • Some situations cross a “bright line” and require immediate accountability rather than gradual feedback.
    • You cannot force another person to change, no matter how well you communicate.
    • Entering a confrontation to prove you are right usually shuts down curiosity and learning.
    • The best time to give feedback is close enough to the moment to be useful and calm enough to be constructive.
    • Avoidance weakens relationships; curiosity strengthens them.
    Actionable Items
    • Pick one conversation you have been postponing and put a date on when you will address it.
    • Before speaking, ask yourself: “Am I entering this conversation to prove something or to learn something?”
    • Use Regent’s standard for fierce feedback: candor with care, clarity with curiosity, and courage with respect.
    References Mentioned Fierce Inc.: https://www.fierceinc.com/

    Fierce Conversations by Susan Scott

    Important Chapters
    • 00:00:49 – Asking, “How Can I Show Up Better for You?”
    • 00:01:31 – Feedback as Preventative Care
    • 00:02:08 – When Someone Crosses a Bright Line
    • 00:04:22 – Confrontation Is Not Revenge
    • 00:06:58 – What Happens When Leaders Avoid Conflict?
    • 00:10:52 – What If the Other Person Won’t Reciprocate?
    • 00:12:39 – The Cost of Waiting Too Long
    • 00:16:08 – Self-Worth, Choice, and What You Will Tolerate
    • 00:17:55 – Avoidance vs. Curiosity
    • 00:19:57 – Stop Entering Conversations to Prove You’re Right
    • 00:20:57 – Candor With Care
    • 00:21:41 – Start With One Conversation
    • 00:23:09 – Stop Waiting for the “Suddenly”
    • 00:24:33 – A Message for Leaders
    • 00:25:24 – How to Connect With Regent
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  15. Regent on Courageous Conversations: Stop Avoiding What’s Costing You Peace — Part 1

    33 Min.Folge 11

    What happens when the conversations you keep avoiding start costing you your peace, your relationships, or even your mental health? G-Rex and Dirty Skittles welcome back Regent Cornell for a powerful …

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    What happens when the conversations you keep avoiding start costing you your peace, your relationships, or even your mental health? G-Rex and Dirty Skittles welcome back Regent Cornell for a powerful conversation about honest feedback, emotional courage, boundaries, and why saying the hard thing early can keep resentment from taking over.

    Awards & Downloads Line Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback Link Line We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “Silence does not remove the issue. It simply delays the conversation while allowing the impact to continue.” — Regent Cornell Episode Description Avoiding a hard conversation might feel easier in the moment, but what happens when silence starts becoming resentment, anxiety, or emotional exhaustion?

    In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles welcome back leadership and communication expert Regent Cornell to talk about why courageous conversations matter long before things reach a breaking point. Regent shares how the principles of Fierce Conversations have changed his personal and professional life, and why feedback should feel less like criticism and more like a GPS helping us course-correct.

    The conversation gets deeply personal as Regent opens up about quarterly relationship check-ins with his partner, navigating difficult family dynamics, and setting a painful boundary with a friend struggling with addiction. Dirty Skittles reflects on how avoiding hard conversations can turn into resentment, while G-Rex shares how she uses the principles of Fierce Conversations even when the person she needs to confront is herself.

    Together, they unpack why confrontation does not have to mean conflict, cruelty, or emotional warfare. Healthy confrontation means facing the problem with honesty, curiosity, and respect before frustration becomes something bigger.

    This episode reminds you that protecting your peace doesn't always mean walking away. Sometimes it means finally saying what needs to be said.

    Keywords: courageous conversations, difficult conversations, mental health, emotional wellness, healthy communication, boundaries, feedback, confrontation, resentment, self-awareness, relationship communication, conflict resolution, Fierce Conversations, leadership communication, protecting your peace

    Meet Our Guest — Regent Cornell Regent Cornell is a transformational leadership, talent-development, and organizational-growth expert with more than 33 years of experience helping leaders, teams, and individuals build the clarity, confidence, and capability to thrive. As Vice President of Market Evolution & Strategic Growth at Fierce Conversations and owner of Cornell Consulting, Regent works at the intersection of leadership, strategy, human connection, and change, grounded in the belief that meaningful conversations create the conditions for learning, action, and transformation.

    Fierce Inc.:
    https://www.fierceinc.com/

    LinkedIn:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/regent-cornell

    Key Takeaways
    • Avoidance does not solve conflict; it often gives resentment room to grow.
    • Feedback works best when it happens before frustration becomes confrontation.
    • Difficult conversations can strengthen both professional and personal relationships.
    • You can have a Fierce Conversation with yourself, but an outside perspective can help challenge the stories you tell yourself.
    • Setting a boundary does not mean you stopped caring about someone.
    • Honest communication should come from respect, not revenge or the need to prove you are right.
    Actionable Items
    • Think of one conversation you have been avoiding and write down what you actually need the other person to understand.
    • Use Regent’s “experience, explore, explain” approach: share your experience, ask about theirs, explore the situation together, and clarify what happens next.
    • Before confronting someone, check your emotional temperature. If you are going in to punish, prove, or unload, give yourself time to regulate first.
    References Mentioned Fierce Conversations:

    Fierce Inc.:
    https://www.fierceinc.com/

    Fierce Conversations by Susan Scott

    Herrmann International / HBDI

    Important Chapters
    • 00:00:40 – Regent Returns to the Podcast
    • 00:04:44 – You Don’t Have a “Work Self” and a “Personal Self”
    • 00:09:49 – Why Common Sense Is Not Always Common Practice
    • 00:10:33 – Feedback Before Confrontation
    • 00:15:46 – How Avoidance Turns Into Resentment
    • 00:18:34 – Having Fierce Conversations With Yourself
    • 00:21:55 – When Loving Someone Requires a Boundary
    • 00:27:20 – Why We Need Other Perspectives
    • 00:29:36 – Confrontation Is Not a Brawl
    • 00:31:24 – Experience, Explore, Explain
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  16. Barbara: How Healthy Boundaries Protect Your Peace and Self-Worth

    39 Min.Folge 10

    What happens when betrayal forces you to stop fixing everyone else and finally start protecting yourself? G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Barbara Parker for a raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation …

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    What happens when betrayal forces you to stop fixing everyone else and finally start protecting yourself? G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Barbara Parker for a raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation about healthy boundaries, emotional safety, perfectionism, rebuilding self-worth, and learning that protecting your peace isn’t selfish—it’s necessary.

    Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder This episode includes conversations about infidelity, toxic relationships, emotional trauma, alcohol misuse, suicidal thoughts, and intense emotional distress. Please listen with care.

    If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, call or text 988 in the United States and Canada for immediate support. You don’t have to carry the heavy shit alone.

    Mental Health Quote “Anything that comes between you and your peace needs to be removed.” — Barbara Parker Episode Description Barbara Parker knows what it feels like to lose yourself while trying to hold a relationship together. After discovering repeated infidelity in her marriage, she found herself facing heartbreak, anger, financial instability, and one brutal realization: she had spent so much energy worrying about someone else’s happiness that she had stopped paying attention to her own.

    In this powerful conversation with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles, Barbara shares how those painful experiences became the foundation for rebuilding her identity, strengthening her boundaries, and eventually helping others do the same. She explains why boundaries start with knowing what you want, why two perfectly good people can still be completely wrong for each other, and why protecting your peace sometimes means accepting that somebody simply isn’t headed where you’re headed.

    Barbara also gets real about perfectionism, anxiety, emotional triggers, and the wounds that can sit beneath our awareness until something slams directly into the panic button. She shares her “good enough” approach when perfection falls apart, her tea-kettle analogy for bottled-up emotions, and how her POWER method helps people communicate more clearly, rediscover their confidence, and create lives aligned with what actually matters.

    This isn’t about pretending heartbreak was some magical gift wrapped in a bow. It’s about realizing the shit that hurt you doesn’t get to own you forever. You can learn from it, rebuild from it, and become fiercely protective of the peace you worked so damn hard to find.

    Keywords: healthy boundaries, self-worth, emotional safety, toxic relationships, relationship healing, betrayal trauma, divorce recovery, self-love, perfectionism, anxiety, emotional wellness, confidence building, personal growth, women’s empowerment, mental health podcast

    Meet Our Guest — Barbara Parker Barbara L. Parker, MA, LPCC-S, is the Founder and CEO of BF Empowerment Center, where she helps people build confidence, improve communication, set healthier boundaries, and move through emotional healing and major life transitions. Drawing from both professional expertise and her own experiences with heartbreak, divorce, financial hardship, and rebuilding her identity, Barbara brings a practical, empowering approach to helping people create healthier relationships with themselves and others.

    Connect with Barbara:

    Official Website:
    https://www.bfempowerment.com/

    Instagram — BF Empowerment:
    https://www.instagram.com/bfempowerment/

    Facebook — B F Empowerment Center:
    https://www.facebook.com/bfempowerment/

    LinkedIn — Barbara L. Parker:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/queenblparker

    Key Takeaways
    • Healthy boundaries begin with knowing what you want before somebody else starts deciding it for you.
    • Two people can both be good humans and still be completely wrong for each other.
    • Protecting your peace sometimes requires walking away from situations that keep pulling you away from yourself.
    • Perfectionism can steal the joy from moments you worked incredibly hard to create.
    • Anger can be the surface reaction covering a much deeper emotional wound.
    • Rebuilding after betrayal means investing energy back into yourself instead of endlessly investigating somebody else.
    • Emotional safety, self-worth, and identity matter just as much as what a relationship looks like from the outside.
    Actionable Items
    • Ask whether it’s on mission or off mission. Before saying yes to a relationship, commitment, opportunity, or another obligation, ask whether it supports the life you’re trying to build or pulls you away from it.
    • Practice the “good enough” reset. When perfectionism starts convincing you everything is ruined because something went wrong, remind yourself that successful doesn't have to mean flawless.
    • Empty the emotional tea kettle. Make regular space to talk, journal, rest, seek therapy, or process what you’re carrying before one small trigger sends everything boiling over.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:01:06 – Meet Barbara: Spunky, Sassy, and a Recovering Perfectionist
    • 00:04:21 – What Healthy Boundaries Actually Look Like
    • 00:06:29 – The Heartbreak That Taught Barbara Boundaries
    • 00:08:53 – Facing Infidelity and Talking to Nine Mistresses
    • 00:13:30 – Poor Boundaries, Lost Identity, and Inviting Chaos
    • 00:15:15 – When Betrayal Made Barbara Disconnect From Herself
    • 00:16:28 – Turning Pain Into Purpose
    • 00:19:01 – Stop Investigating Them and Start Investing in You
    • 00:21:53 – The POWER Method and Finding Yourself Again
    • 00:23:51 – Anger, Old Wounds, and the Panic Button
    • 00:25:26 – The Tea Kettle: What Happens When We Never Empty Out
    • 00:30:22 – “This Is Going to Hurt, but It’s Going to Be Worth It”
    • 00:32:04 – Loyalty, Fidelity, and Emotional Safety
    • 00:34:06 – Anxiety, Perfectionism, and Never Feeling Productive Enough
    • 00:35:12 – Favorite Word, Least Favorite Word, and Why “Can’t” Gets No Love
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  17. Amber on Food Addiction, Binge Eating, and Why Willpower Isn’t the Answer*

    49 Min.Folge 9

    What if binge eating isn’t proof that you lack discipline—but a learned pattern your brain can actually change? In this episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with binge-eating coach Amber Abila to unpack …

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    What if binge eating isn’t proof that you lack discipline—but a learned pattern your brain can actually change? In this episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with binge-eating coach Amber Abila to unpack food obsession, restriction, cravings, shame, and what it can look like to rebuild trust with yourself around food.

    Awards & Downloads

    Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries.

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    Mental Health Quote

    “You’re a lot less alone than you think you are.” — Amber Abila

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    Amber shares a guided audio designed to help people slow down and “play the story forward” when an urge to binge hits. The direct resource link was not included in the transcript, but listeners can find Amber’s resources through: https://theconfidenteater.org/

    Episode Description

    Binge eating can feel like a battle between what you want to do and what your brain seems determined to make you do. Amber Abila knows that fight firsthand. After years of restriction, bingeing, bulimia, food guilt, and trying everything from calorie counting to willpower, she began searching for a different way forward.

    In this raw and practical conversation, Amber joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about how binge-eating patterns can develop, why shame often keeps people stuck, and why simply trying harder may not create lasting change. Amber explains her approach to separating the biology that may contribute to urges from the psychology that can reinforce them, while also challenging the belief that recovery has to take forever.

    The conversation gets especially real around dieting, food noise, emotional eating, body image, and the endless mental tug-of-war between “I’ve been good all day” and “I deserve this.” Amber also shares how visualization, questioning automatic thoughts, noticing how food actually makes you feel, and celebrating small wins can help create new patterns.

    G-Rex and Dirty Skittles bring their own complicated relationships with sugar, carbs, dieting, GLP-1 medications, and body changes into the conversation, making this episode less about perfection and more about curiosity, awareness, and self-trust.

    Most importantly, Amber reminds listeners that shame doesn’t have to run the show. Change can begin when you stop treating yourself like the enemy and start paying attention to what your mind and body are actually telling you.

    Keywords: binge eating, food addiction, emotional eating, binge eating recovery, food obsession, food guilt, eating habits, body image, diet culture, food cravings, mental health, emotional wellness, self-compassion, habit change, confident eating

    Meet Our Guest — Amber Abila

    Amber Abila is a binge-eating and overeating coach and the founder of The Confident Eater. Drawing from her own experience with binge eating and bulimia, Amber now helps people challenge learned food patterns, understand urges, question automatic thoughts, and build a more confident relationship with eating.

    Her work centers on emotional eating, hunger and fullness cues, food mindset, body confidence, habit change, and helping people move away from cycles of restriction and shame.

    Website: https://theconfidenteater.org/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theconfidenteater_/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/532434625387487

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@amberabila

    Key Takeaways
    • Binge eating is not simply a matter of being “weak” or lacking willpower; Amber encourages people to look at the patterns underneath the behavior.
    • Restriction and food obsession can create a cycle in which cravings grow louder rather than quieter.
    • Shame makes it harder to ask for help, which is why talking openly about binge eating matters.
    • Learning to question automatic thoughts like “I deserve this because I’ve been good all day” can interrupt old habits.
    • Visualization can help you move beyond the first few seconds of an urge and imagine how each choice may feel afterward.
    • Celebrating small wins matters. Your brain needs reinforcement when you practice a new response instead of immediately moving on.
    Actionable Items
    • Ask, “Is this true?” When a food-related thought shows up—“I need this,” “I deserve this,” or “I already blew it”—pause and question whether the thought is actually true or simply familiar.
    • Play the story forward. Imagine both paths: what happens physically and emotionally if you act on the urge, and what happens if you allow the urge to pass?
    • Celebrate the new behavior. When you make a choice that supports the relationship with food you want, consciously acknowledge it instead of brushing it off.
    References Mentioned

    The Confident Eater: https://theconfidenteater.org/

    Become a Confident Eater Podcast: Amber mentions her weekly podcast during the episode. You can find it on The Confident Eater website.

    DSM-5 / Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders: Amber references diagnostic criteria for binge-eating disorder while discussing how binge eating is recognized clinically.

    Important Chapters
    • 00:01:12 – Amber’s Story and the Beginning of Binge Eating
    • 00:02:22 – Restriction, Cravings, and Amber’s First Binge
    • 00:05:17 – GLP-1s and Food Noise
    • 00:06:38 – Why Amber Believes Binge Eating Starts
    • 00:10:16 – Food Flavor, Cravings, and Hyperpalatable Foods
    • 00:15:44 – The Pleasure-versus-Pain Teeter-Totter
    • 00:23:46 – Visualization as a Tool for Urges
    • 00:27:37 – Why You Should Celebrate Small Wins
    • 00:30:02 – The Question That Can Change Your Thinking
    • 00:32:59 – Can Change Really Happen Quickly?
    • 00:37:22 – Restriction vs. Self-Care
    • 00:40:25 – What Amber Wishes She Could Tell Her Younger Self
    • 00:43:20 – The Hard Things Can Build Us
    • 00:45:09 – Anxiety’s Theme Song and the Meaning of Confidence
    • 00:47:00 – Where to Find Amber
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  18. Mandi Lynne: The Courage to Live Now — Part 2

    44 Min.Folge 8

    What if healing was never supposed to become another full-time job? In Part 2, Mandi Lynne joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about leaving survival mode, reconnecting with yourself, refusing to let mental …

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    What if healing was never supposed to become another full-time job? In Part 2, Mandi Lynne joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about leaving survival mode, reconnecting with yourself, refusing to let mental health diagnoses become limitations, and giving yourself permission to live now—not someday when everything finally feels fixed.

    Awards & Downloads Line Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback Link Line We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here:

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    Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder This episode includes conversations about trauma, depression, suicidal crisis, and suicide. Please listen in whatever way feels safest for you.

    If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis in the United States, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline:

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    Mental Health Quote “I kept postponing living until I was done healing.” — Mandi Lynne Episode Description What if you stopped treating healing like the admission ticket you have to earn before you are allowed to enjoy your own life?

    In Part 2, Mandi Lynne joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to explore the philosophy behind ONE | Life and the shift from simply understanding mental health to figuring out how the hell we actually live with everything we know.

    After years of helping build MedCircle, Mandi began noticing something important. Mental health education was becoming easier to access, but people still needed help answering the next question: now what?

    She talks about going beneath the crisis of the moment to understand the beliefs underneath it, including how her former husband’s infidelity activated old wounds around worth. The conversation expands into boundaries, relationships, self-abandonment, caregiving, personal agency, labels, diagnoses, and why caring about other people should not require disappearing from your own life.

    Then things get wonderfully weird.

    There are raccoon videos, ADHD superpowers, favorite swear words, Joan Jett, Led Zeppelin, joy folders, squirrels eating McDonald’s cheeseburgers, funeral menus, tequila, mofongo, espresso martinis, glow sticks, and enough inappropriate laughter to keep the USS Shit Show afloat.

    Underneath all of it is a powerful reminder: joy belongs in recovery too.

    You do not need to become fully healed before you deserve connection, purpose, laughter, and a life that feels like yours.

    Keywords: Mandi Lynne, ONE Life, survival mode, trauma recovery, living while healing, mental health recovery, self-worth, boundaries, self-abandonment, CPTSD, anxiety, ADHD, emotional wellness, personal growth, healing journey

    Meet Our Guest — Mandi Lynne Mandi Lynne is the Founder and CEO of ONE | Life and a former executive at MedCircle, where she helped scale one of the world's most recognized mental health education platforms.

    A former educator and nonprofit leader with a background in science, education, and leadership, Mandi also holds certifications in Health & Wellness Coaching, Hypnotherapy, NLP, Somatic practices, and Global Leadership & Social Innovation through the United Nations University for Peace.

    Her perspective is shaped not only by her professional experience but by rebuilding her own life through trauma, chronic illness, job loss, bankruptcy, divorce, financial hardship, miscarriage, single parenting, OCD, anxiety, CPTSD, and a past eating disorder.

    Today, she helps people move out of survival mode and into a life of clarity, confidence, and direction.

    Not someday. Now.

    Website: https://onelifelivenow.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/onelifebymedcircle

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MedCircle

    Key Takeaways
    • You do not need to finish healing before you are allowed to start living.
    • Constantly triaging external problems can keep us from examining the deeper beliefs those problems activate.
    • Caring for other people should not require abandoning yourself.
    • Mental health diagnoses can provide information and direction without becoming your identity or limitation.
    • Healing is allowed to include joy, laughter, music, nature, friendship, and ridiculous moments.
    • Asking for help does not diminish your strength.
    • Sometimes one person reminding you of your worth can change the direction of your life.
    Actionable Items
    • Build five minutes of living into your day. Choose something that genuinely makes you feel alive—music, nature, coffee, laughter, animals, creativity—and make space for it before everything feels “fixed.”
    • Create a joy folder. Whenever something sparks a moment of happiness, take a picture. On the days you feel disconnected from yourself, use that folder as evidence of what still lights you up.
    • Identify your support people. Write down the names of the people you can contact when you are struggling so you do not have to figure out who to call in the middle of a hard moment.
    References Mentioned ONE | Life: https://onelifelivenow.com/

    MedCircle: https://www.youtube.com/@MedCircle

    988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: https://988lifeline.org/

    Important Chapters
    • 00:00:46 — What is ONE | Life? Mandi explains her eight years with MedCircle and how mental health education evolved into a bigger question: once we understand what is happening, how do we actually live better?
    • 00:02:31 — When all the distractions disappeared, Mandi reflects on COVID and how suddenly being left alone with ourselves changed the broader conversation around mental health.
    • 00:03:20 — Stop spending every therapy session triaging the surface. Mandi explains how repeatedly focusing only on external crises can keep us from reaching the deeper beliefs those situations trigger.
    • 00:04:00 — Infidelity, self-worth, and getting to the root. Mandi shares how her former husband’s affairs hurt so deeply because they reinforced something she already feared about her own worth.
    • 00:05:05 — Stop postponing your life until you are healed. Mandi describes realizing that she had turned healing into a prerequisite for living and why that needed to change.
    • 00:05:49 — Raccoon videos count as mental health care around here G-Rex explains the therapeutic value of starting the day with ridiculous raccoon videos, and somehow it makes perfect sense.
    • 00:06:46 — Service without self-abandonment. Mandi talks about caring for others while recognizing that giving should not constantly come at your own expense.
    • 00:07:16 — Relationships without betraying yourself. Mandi explores healthy connection, attachment wounds, authenticity, and finding people who cherish you for being who you actually are.
    • 00:08:57 — G-Rex on masking depression: G-Rex reflects on how completely she hid her depression while caring for everyone around her and why she refuses to put that mask back on.
    • 00:10:05 — Humor as a mental health pressure valve Mandi, G-Rex, and Dirty Skittles explain why sometimes the thing that keeps heavy experiences bearable is laughing at shit you probably should not laugh at.
    • 00:11:47 — Living while you are still healing: G-Rex talks about traveling, setting boundaries, and continuing to experience life even while recovery was still unfolding.
    • 00:14:42 — Introverts confess they kind of loved lockdown. Dirty Skittles and Mandi bond over the unexpected freedom of canceled obligations, while G-Rex, the extrovert, strongly disagrees.
    • 00:16:32 — The evolution from MedCircle to ONE | Life Mandi describes creating a more experiential, inclusive approach focused on practical living rather than only diagnosis and education.
    • 00:18:26 — Your diagnosis is not your personality. Mandi explains why labels should provide information and direction—not become evidence that you cannot do something.
    • 00:20:32 — ADHD as a superpower: G-Rex talks about working with her ADHD instead of treating it solely as a limitation.
    • 00:22:06 — What Mandi would tell her seven-year-old self: Mandi returns to the childhood trauma discussed in Part 1 and gives her younger self the message she needed most: it was not your fault.
    • 00:23:49 — The hardest lesson: You do not have to do everything yourself. Mandi talks about responsibility, caregiving, parenting, enabling, and the value of letting others learn to stand on their own.
    • 00:26:03 — If anxiety had a theme song, Joan Jett and Led Zeppelin enter the chat as Mandi shares the music that helps her interrupt anxiety and release control.
    • 00:27:19 — Mandi’s favorite word is exactly what you think it is. The versatility and emotional range of the word “fuck” receive the appreciation it deserves.
    • 00:30:38 — Mandi turns the questions on G-Rex and Dirty Skittles. The conversation shifts as Mandi asks the hosts about the life-changing realizations that altered their own mental health journeys.
    • 00:31:01 — Dirty Skittles realizes she has been living in fight mode. Dirty Skittles shares how therapy helped her recognize chronic hypervigilance and begin discovering what peace actually felt like.
    • 00:32:10 — The 988 call that changed G-Rex’s life. G-Rex describes the crisis call that reminded her of her worth, helped her ask for help, and became a pivotal moment in her survival.
    • 00:33:10 — Kevin Hines and the power of human connection: Mandi reflects on conversations with Golden Gate Bridge survivor Kevin Hines and why acknowledging another human being can matter more than we realize.
    • 00:35:02 — Healing outside therapy: Nature, joy folders, photography, and small moments of happiness become examples of tools that can help us reconnect with ourselves.
    • 00:37:41 — When caregiving disconnects you from yourself: Mandi and Dirty Skittles talk about losing pieces of identity inside roles like parent, partner, and caregiver.
    • 00:38:40 — The squirrel, the cheeseburger, and unexpected joy. Mandi shares one of those completely ridiculous moments that instantly remind you of how healing laughter can be.
    • 00:39:14 — Music and activating the experience of being alive: Mandi discusses using playlists, sensory experiences, nature, and emotion to reconnect with what it feels like to be fully present.
    • 00:40:25 — Planning the ultimate funeral party: Tequila, mofongo, meatloaf, espresso martinis, glow sticks, walkers, and Depends close the conversation in exactly the way you would expect from this crew.
    • 00:42:04 — Where to find Mandi and ONE | Life Mandi shares how listeners can connect with ONE | Life and MedCircle and reminds everyone to find the approach that works for them.
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  19. Mandi Lynne: Breaking the Shame Cycle — Part 1

    33 Min.Folge 7

    How much of the way we see ourselves was shaped before we were old enough to understand what was happening? Mandi Lynne joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles for a deeply honest conversation about childhood trauma …

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    How much of the way we see ourselves was shaped before we were old enough to understand what was happening? Mandi Lynne joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles for a deeply honest conversation about childhood trauma, shame, self-worth, perfectionism, and the work of separating who you are from what happened to you.

    Awards & Downloads Line Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback Link Line We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here:

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    Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder This episode includes conversations about childhood sexual trauma, eating disorders, alcohol use, shame, and suicide. Please take care of yourself while listening and step away if you need to.

    If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis in the United States, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline:

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    Mental Health Quote “When we learn to see something differently, that is where most of the healing is.” — Mandi Lynne Episode Description Mandi Lynne has spent years working in mental health education, but long before becoming the Founder and CEO of ONE | Life, she was trying to understand the shit going on inside her own head.

    In Part 1, Mandi sits down with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about the childhood sexual trauma she experienced at seven years old and how it shaped her understanding of love, safety, responsibility, and self-worth. She opens up about the shame and confusion that followed, including what she later came to understand as moral injury.

    That early trauma became tangled with perfectionism, OCD, anxiety, eating disorders, alcohol use, attachment wounds, and the exhausting belief that if she could just become good enough, perfect enough, or controlled enough, she might finally feel safe.

    Mandi also shares what began changing when she found the right therapist. The conversation explores cognitive behavioral therapy, EMDR, expressive therapies, equine-assisted work, nature, and why healing does not always happen by thinking harder about the problem.

    G-Rex and Dirty Skittles share their own therapy experiences, including one of their favorite pieces of advice: speed-date your therapist. The right connection matters.

    This episode is heavy, funny, compassionate, and deeply human. Your past may explain parts of you, but it does not have to dictate the rest of your life.

    Keywords: Mandi Lynne, childhood trauma, trauma recovery, self-worth, shame healing, moral injury, OCD, anxiety, eating disorder recovery, EMDR therapy, attachment wounds, inner child healing, mental health recovery, expressive therapy, trauma-informed healing

    Meet Our Guest — Mandi Lynne Mandi Lynne is the Founder and CEO of ONE | Life and a former executive at MedCircle, where she helped scale one of the world's most recognized mental health education platforms.

    A former educator and nonprofit leader with a background in science, education, and leadership, Mandi also holds certifications in Health & Wellness Coaching, Hypnotherapy, NLP, Somatic practices, and Global Leadership & Social Innovation through the United Nations University for Peace. Her professional work is deeply informed by lived experience with trauma, chronic illness, job loss, bankruptcy, divorce, financial hardship, miscarriage, single parenting, OCD, anxiety, CPTSD, and a past eating disorder.

    Her work is grounded in one powerful belief: you do not have to wait to be fully healed to start living well.

    Website: https://onelifelivenow.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/onelifebymedcircle

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MedCircle

    Key Takeaways
    • Childhood trauma can shape self-worth before we are developmentally able to understand what happened.
    • Adult logic can know something was not your fault while a younger, wounded part of you still struggles to believe it.
    • Shame and moral injury can create deep emotional residue that requires patience, compassion, and support.
    • Perfectionism, control, disordered eating, and other coping mechanisms can become attempts to create safety.
    • Finding the right therapist matters. One poor therapeutic relationship does not mean therapy cannot work for you.
    • Healing is not always intellectual. EMDR, art, animals, movement, nature, and other experiential approaches can reach parts of us that conversation alone may not.
    Actionable Items
    • Speed date your therapist. Pay attention to whether you feel safe, understood, and able to be honest. If the connection is not right, you may keep looking.
    • Try a form of healing that does not require talking. Paint without a plan, spend time outside, listen to music, move your body, or engage with animals and notice what comes up.
    • Offer yourself the compassion you would give a child. When shame appears, ask: “If this happened to a seven-year-old I loved, would I blame them?”
    Important Chapters
    • 00:01:02 — Who is Mandi Lynne? Mandi starts with a simple answer: a regular person. She explains why accepting who we are matters before we start chasing some supposedly better version of ourselves.
    • 00:02:06 — Self-worth, perfectionism, and learning to feel proud. Mandi talks about growing up with messages about humility and confidence, and how easy it became to default to seeing herself through a negative lens.
    • 00:04:34 — Learning to receive praise without shrinking: G-Rex opens up about becoming more comfortable with recognition and learning that confidence and generosity can exist at the same time.
    • 00:08:53 — Childhood trauma and the beginning of survival patterns. Mandi shares her experience of sexual trauma at seven years old and explains the confusion, secrecy, attachment wounds, and self-blame that followed.
    • 00:12:41 — When knowing “it wasn’t your fault” still isn’t enough. Mandi explains the difference between intellectually understanding what happened and getting the brain and body to believe it.
    • 00:13:17 — Understanding moral injury and shame: Mandi discusses the guilt she carried from being forced into situations as a child that conflicted deeply with her values.
    • 00:15:27 — Avoidance, eating disorders, alcohol, and control. Mandi talks about the ways she tried to outrun what happened and how perfectionism became an attempt to make herself feel safe.
    • 00:17:44 — Pregnancy becomes a turning point. An unexpected pregnancy becomes a major catalyst for Mandi to take her mental health seriously and seek the right support.
    • 00:18:46 — CBT, reframing, and recognizing thought patterns. Mandi describes learning that catastrophizing and black-and-white thinking were patterns rather than unavoidable truths.
    • 00:19:05 — EMDR and healing beyond the thinking brain: Mandi explains why EMDR helped her access insights that talk therapy alone had not reached.
    • 00:20:12 — Changing perspective without minimizing pain. Mandi talks about accepting that some experiences simply suck while refusing to remain mentally tied to them forever.
    • 00:22:11 — Why you should “speed date” your therapist: G-Rex and Dirty Skittles share their own experiences finding therapists who were—and were not—the right fit.
    • 00:25:30 — Painting without a plan: Dirty Skittles shares a therapy assignment that challenged her need for control and unexpectedly helped her feel free.
    • 00:26:50 — Healing through photographs, horses, and experience. Mandi talks about expressive work, life timelines, equine therapy, and helping people access emotions through experience rather than forced conversation.
    • 00:29:15 — Nature as medicine for the nervous system: G-Rex and Mandi connect over nature, grounding, winter weather, and the very real impact seasonal changes can have on mental health.
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  20. Rocio & Angel Pt 2: Choose Joy, Reclaim Your Power, and Live Intentionally

    43 Min.Folge 6

    What changes when you stop looking outside yourself for permission to feel whole? In Part 2, Rocio Aquino and Angel Orengo return with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles for a powerful conversation about breaking …

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    What changes when you stop looking outside yourself for permission to feel whole? In Part 2, Rocio Aquino and Angel Orengo return with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles for a powerful conversation about breaking generational patterns, choosing yourself, letting go of emotional weight, healing old wounds, and building a life around joy instead of someone else’s definition of success.

    Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “Choose yourself. When you stop giving away your power, you finally have something real to give back to the people you love.” — Inspired by Rocio Aquino & Angel Orengo Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder This episode includes conversations about childhood abuse, abandonment, suicide attempts, trauma, and emotional pain. Please listen with care.

    If you or someone you love is experiencing a mental health crisis in the United States, call or text 988 to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. You do not have to be suicidal to reach out for support.

    https://988lifeline.org/

    Episode Description What happens after you recognize your wounds? How do you make sure you aren’t unknowingly handing them to the next generation?

    In Part 2, Rocio Aquino and Angel Orengo join G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to continue their conversation about healing, self-awareness, and the lessons behind The Orchid: The Secret Code of Modern Goddesses.

    Rocio and Angel explore the stories society teaches women and men, why empathy and compassion matter, and how the media and stories we consume can shape how we understand ourselves and the world.

    Rocio reveals that the five women at the center of The Orchid carry pieces of her own experiences, trauma, and transformation. Angel shares one of the biggest lessons of his healing journey: we have more control over where our emotional energy goes than we realize.

    The conversation becomes deeply personal as Angel discusses childhood abuse and Rocio shares losing her mother, attempting suicide at 20, and what she would tell that younger version of herself today: go play the game, because you are going to be okay.

    They also talk about generational trauma, parenting, letting go, intuition, self-love, nature, emotional energy, and why taking care of yourself first is not selfish. G-Rex brings it home with one hell of a reminder: stop chasing somebody else’s definition of happiness and start chasing your joy.

    Healing yourself can change more than your own life. It can change what the people who come after you have to carry.

    Keywords: generational trauma, choosing joy, self-love, emotional healing, breaking generational cycles, intentional living, childhood trauma, personal empowerment, mental health recovery, letting go, self-worth, emotional wellness, healing family patterns, self-compassion, finding purpose

    Meet Our Guests — Rocio Aquino & Angel Orengo Rocio Aquino and Angel Orengo are the storytellers and creators behind The Orchid, a book and growing community dedicated to healing, self-discovery, purpose, and intentional living. Their work blends personal experience, honest reflection, storytelling, and meaningful conversation to encourage people to look inward, challenge inherited beliefs, and create healthier emotional patterns for themselves and future generations.

    Website: https://www.theorchidbook.com/
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rocioangel__/
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rocioangel.social
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@rocioangel.theorchid

    Key Takeaways
    • Healing your own wounds can change what gets passed down to the next generation.
    • Loving yourself does not take love away from your family; it can increase your capacity to show up for them.
    • You have a choice about where you spend your emotional energy.
    • Letting go is not weakness—it is deciding that something no longer deserves your peace.
    • Happiness tied only to possessions or achievements can be temporary; joy can live in ordinary moments.
    • Family, cultural, and societal stories can shape you, but they do not have to control the rest of your life.
    Actionable Items
    • Do an energy audit. Identify one person, argument, resentment, or expectation receiving more of your emotional energy than you want to give it.
    • Spend ten minutes outside without your phone and notice something small that genuinely brings you joy.
    • Identify one belief, behavior, or emotional pattern from your family history that you do not want to pass forward, then choose one small way to respond differently.

    Important Chapters
    • 00:00 – Welcome to Part 2 + Why Healing Stories Need a Bigger Stage G-Rex opens by asking how stories like The Orchid can help people better understand women's emotional experiences and normalize talking about mental health.
    • 03:34 – Rocio’s Mission to Create Stories That Help People Heal Rocio talks about dedicating her life to stories that allow people—especially women—to see themselves through a different lens.
    • 05:39 – Strengthening Women, Men, and the Human Experience Angel discusses the importance of empathy, kindness, compassion, and strengthening qualities historically labeled as feminine.
    • 08:06 – How the Stories We Consume Shape Us Angel explores the influence of film, television, video games, and storytelling—and why he wants more stories showing people how to heal and survive.
    • 09:45 – Rocio Reveals Herself in The Orchid’s Five Women Rocio shares that she sees parts of her own trauma and healing journey in all five central characters.
    • 10:58 – Closing Your Wounds and Reclaiming Your Power Angel uses The Matrix as a metaphor for reaching a place where another person’s insults no longer have the same power over you.
    • 15:45 – Take Care of Yourself Before Trying to Save Everybody Else Angel explains why healing yourself first allows you to show up differently for your family and everyone around you.
    • 17:53 – What Angel Would Tell His Six-Year-Old Self Angel reflects on childhood abuse and the lessons about personal power and self-belief he wishes he could have learned before experiencing trauma.
    • 20:21 – Rocio on Losing Her Mother and Attempting Suicide at 20 Rocio talks about reaching one of the lowest moments of her life and the message she would now give her younger self: you are not alone, and this will not last forever.
    • 22:11 – Their Hardest Lessons: Abandonment and Letting Go Rocio reflects on surviving abandonment while Angel explains why letting go has been one of the most difficult and rewarding lessons of his life.
    • 25:13 – “The Person I Love the Most Is Me” Angel shares the realization that taking responsibility for his own happiness actually allows him to love his wife, daughters, and family more freely.
    • 27:02 – Choosing the Story You Tell Yourself Rocio and Dirty Skittles discuss how self-belief becomes a daily practice and why compassionate thoughts matter.
    • 29:00 – Stop Chasing Happiness. Chase Your Joy. G-Rex shares why joy has become more meaningful than material success and encourages listeners to stop building their lives around somebody else’s dream.
    • 32:22 – Anxiety Theme Songs and Remembering to Breathe Angel and Rocio share the reminders they use when anxiety kicks in and life starts feeling overwhelming.
    • 35:50 – Healing as a Couple and a Family Rocio talks about investing in personal growth, growing together as partners, and watching those lessons ripple through their children and extended family.
    • 37:23 – Breaking Generational Trauma Angel recalls the moment he and Rocio decided that the painful patterns carried through their family line would stop with them.
    • 39:08 – “Yes, I Can” vs. “You Can’t” Rocio and Angel share their favorite and least favorite words, ending the episode with a reminder to stop allowing other people to define what is possible for you.
    • 40:06 – Where to Find Rocio, Angel, and The Orchid Rocio and Angel share where listeners can connect with their work and leave one final reminder: one of the greatest resources you have is yourself.
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  21. Rocio & Angel Pt 1: How to Forgive Yourself and Heal from Trauma

    47 Min.Folge 5

    What happens when you finally realize the pain you’ve been carrying doesn’t have to define the rest of your life? In Part 1, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Rocio Aquino and Angel Orengo, creators of The …

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    What happens when you finally realize the pain you’ve been carrying doesn’t have to define the rest of your life? In Part 1, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Rocio Aquino and Angel Orengo, creators of The Orchid: The Secret Code of Modern Goddesses, for a raw conversation about forgiveness, trauma, self-awareness, relationships, and learning how to choose yourself.

    Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “Forgiveness isn’t about giving your power back to someone else. It’s about releasing what you no longer need to carry.” — Inspired by Rocio Aquino Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder This episode includes conversations about trauma, abuse, suicidal thoughts, and a suicide attempt. Please take care of yourself while listening.

    If you or someone you love is experiencing a mental health crisis in the United States, call or text 988 to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. You do not have to be suicidal to reach out. Support is available for anyone experiencing emotional distress or crisis.

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    Episode Description What if forgiveness isn’t really about the person who hurt you?

    In Part 1 of this powerful two-part conversation, Rocio Aquino and Angel Orengo join G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about the experiences that shaped their personal healing and eventually inspired The Orchid: The Secret Code of Modern Goddesses.

    Rocio opens up about carrying shame, guilt, trauma, and the belief that life was happening against her. After a painful financial loss left her feeling betrayed, defeated, and responsible, curiosity pushed her toward a life-changing question: How do I forgive?

    What began as a search for relief became a deeper journey into psychology, self-awareness, acceptance, and understanding the beliefs she had been taught about herself. Rocio explains that forgiveness eventually stopped being about the person who hurt her and became about releasing the emotional weight she was carrying inside.

    Angel shares what it was like witnessing Rocio’s transformation while discovering his own understanding of personal power. Together, they explain why awareness is the starting point for change and why gratitude, forgiveness, acceptance, and intention became central lessons behind The Orchid.

    G-Rex also shares openly about her own suicide attempt, calling 988, and how therapy, self-forgiveness, and choosing to live changed her life. Dirty Skittles reflects on living in fight mode after childhood trauma and the process of becoming her own best friend.

    This episode is a reminder that healing doesn’t erase what happened. It changes how much power the past gets to have over what comes next.

    Keywords: forgiveness, trauma healing, self-forgiveness, self-awareness, emotional healing, childhood trauma, mental health recovery, inner child healing, self-discovery, intentional living, personal transformation, women’s mental health, gratitude, acceptance, overcoming shame

    Meet Our Guests — Rocio Aquino & Angel Orengo Rocio Aquino and Angel Orengo are the storytellers and creators behind The Orchid, a book and growing community dedicated to healing, self-discovery, purpose, and intentional living. Their work blends lived experience, honest reflection, storytelling, and meaningful conversation to help people better understand themselves, question inherited beliefs, and recognize their capacity for transformation.

    Website: https://www.theorchidbook.com/
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rocioangel__/
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rocioangel.social
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@rocioangel.theorchid

    Key Takeaways
    • Forgiveness can be less about the person who hurt you and more about freeing yourself from what you are still carrying.
    • Curiosity can become the first step out of survival mode and into genuine self-awareness.
    • Trauma, shame, guilt, and old family stories do not have to determine your identity forever.
    • Understanding why you think the way you think creates space to make different choices.
    • Gratitude, forgiveness, acceptance, awareness, and intention can become practical tools for personal transformation.
    • Becoming your own best friend can completely change how you experience yourself and the world around you.
    Actionable Items
    • Ask yourself: “Why do I believe what I believe about myself?” Write down whatever comes up without immediately judging or correcting it.
    • Identify one resentment, painful memory, or old story that still takes up emotional energy and ask what releasing some of that weight could give back to you.
    • Choose one small decision this week based on what you genuinely want instead of what you believe other people expect from you.
    References Mentioned The Orchid: The Secret Code of Modern Goddesses https://www.theorchidbook.com/

    The Matrix — referenced by Rocio as an early catalyst for questioning limitations, reality, and personal possibility.

    Important Chapters
    • 00:00 – Welcome to Part 1 + Meet Rocio and Angel Rocio and Angel introduce The Orchid and explain why the orchid became the symbol at the center of their story.
    • 03:13 – Why They Chose Storytelling Over a Traditional Self-Help Book Rocio and Angel explain how their lived experiences and entertainment backgrounds inspired them to teach healing concepts through story.
    • 06:17 – Rocio’s Transformation Begins Angel reflects on watching Rocio change after years of carrying shame, self-doubt, pain, and the feeling that she was never enough.
    • 08:26 – Betrayal, Financial Loss, and the Search for Forgiveness A failed investment becomes a major turning point that sends Rocio searching for a practical way to forgive and move forward.
    • 11:08 – G-Rex on Suicide, 988, and Choosing to Live G-Rex shares how calling 988 became part of her own turning point and how therapy, forgiveness, and doing the work changed her life.
    • 18:13 – What Forgiveness Really Means Rocio explains how she realized forgiveness was ultimately for her—not for the person who hurt her.
    • 22:03 – Learning to Understand Yourself Rocio discusses studying psychology, reading extensively, and recognizing how family, society, and old beliefs had shaped the way she saw herself.
    • 24:58 – Curiosity, Travel, and Discovering Different Ways to Live Angel shares how traveling around the world helped them see that many of the “rules” we live by are not the only options available.
    • 27:53 – Hope, Healing, and Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop G-Rex reflects on how life changed after her darkest moment and what it feels like to experience genuine happiness after years of pain.
    • 30:18 – What Humans Around the World Have in Common Rocio and Angel talk about traveling to more than 70 countries and discovering how much people share across cultures.
    • 33:00 – Angel’s Aha Moment: Recognizing His Own Power Angel describes realizing that many limitations are learned stories and that alignment between thoughts, feelings, words, and actions can change everything.
    • 35:13 – Rocio, The Matrix, and Becoming “Neo” Rocio explains how seeing The Matrix in 1999 sparked questions about possibility, programming, and the life she could create.
    • 37:02 – Becoming Your Own Best Friend Dirty Skittles and Rocio reflect on learning to love yourself, listen to yourself, and recognize what you actually need.
    • 42:15 – The Five Lessons Behind The Orchid Angel breaks down the core framework woven into the book: awareness, gratitude, forgiveness, acceptance, and intention.
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  22. David on Burnout, Anxiety, and Finding Humor Five Minutes From a Meltdown

    47 Min.Folge 4

    What happens when anxiety, creative pressure, and everyday stress leave you feeling five minutes from completely losing your shit? G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Author David Meyer for a funny …

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    What happens when anxiety, creative pressure, and everyday stress leave you feeling five minutes from completely losing your shit? G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Author David Meyer for a funny, thoughtful conversation about burnout, overthinking, empathy, self-care, and why making art can remind us that we’re not alone.

    Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “If it touches one person, make the art.” — David Meyer Episode Description David Meyer knows what it feels like to live five minutes from a meltdown. The author, screenwriter, poet, and cooking-show producer joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles for a brutally relatable conversation about anxiety, burnout, creative pressure, and the strange little habits that keep us functioning when our brains refuse to calm the hell down.

    David shares how a collection of hundreds of comedic poems became his book, Five Minutes From a Meltdown, and why humor has always helped him acknowledge emotions that might otherwise stay buried. For David, laughter is more than entertainment. It creates connection, offers relief, and reminds us that someone else has probably felt the exact same messy thing.

    The conversation also gets real about the basics of mental health care: eating, sleeping, drinking water, exercising, resting, and admitting that the annoying advice often works. David opens up about balancing a demanding creative career with his well-being, managing the fear of disappointing people, and learning to create without waiting for perfect confidence.

    He also introduces the idea of “sonder”—the realization that every person is living a life as complicated and meaningful as our own. That awareness can be overwhelming, but it can also make us kinder, more patient, and less likely to judge someone based on one difficult moment.

    This episode is funny, thoughtful, and deeply human. It’s a reminder that nothing has to be perfect to have value—and sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is laugh, make the art, drink some water, and keep going.

    Keywords: David Meyer, Five Minutes From a Meltdown, anxiety, burnout, mental health, emotional wellness, creative pressure, humor and healing, overthinking, self-care, empathy, resilience, perfectionism, stress management, creative confidence

    Meet Our Guest — David Meyer David Meyer is the author of Five Minutes From a Meltdown, a candid and funny exploration of stress, resilience, and life near the edge of burnout. A writer and producer based in Los Angeles, David uses poetry, screenwriting, storytelling, and sharp observation to help people find humor, meaning, and connection inside life’s everyday chaos.

    Website: https://davidmeyerwriter.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cubsdem
    Email: [email protected]

    Key Takeaways
    • Humor can help us acknowledge difficult emotions without letting them completely take over.
    • Burnout often gets worse when basic needs such as food, sleep, movement, water, and rest are ignored.
    • You don’t need perfect confidence to make something meaningful.
    • Creative work can help people feel seen, understood, and less alone.
    • Remembering that everyone has a full, complicated life can build empathy and reduce judgment.
    • Your work does not need to change the entire world to matter to one person.
    Actionable Items
    • Before labeling yourself unmotivated or overwhelmed, check the basics: Have you eaten, slept, moved your body, rested, and had enough water?
    • Create something imperfect this week—a poem, journal entry, voice note, sketch, or story—and resist the urge to judge it.
    • When someone frustrates you, pause and imagine one compassionate explanation for what they may be experiencing.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:00:37 – Meet David Meyer David joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about writing, producing, books, movies, and the creative work that keeps him busy.
    • 00:06:00 – From Buying Groceries to Producing a Cooking Show David explains how a short six-week job turned into a major production role and what he has learned from working with a small, driven creative team.
    • 00:08:01 – Becoming a Writer and Accidental Published Poet David shares how he started writing as a child, discovered screenwriting in college, and turned hundreds of comedic poems into a published collection.
    • 00:11:41 – Humor as Mental Health Medicine The conversation shifts to laughter, emotional release, and why art can make people feel recognized and less alone.
    • 00:15:38 – A Good Childhood and an Anxious Brain David talks honestly about having a loving upbringing while still experiencing mental health challenges—and why pain does not always need a dramatic origin story.
    • 00:17:23 – Creative Pressure, Burnout, and Basic Self-Care David describes the demands of producing a show and the frustrating truth that sleep, food, water, exercise, and rest really do help.
    • 00:22:37 – What David Wants to Write Next From serious poetry and plays to screenplays and horror-comedy, David discusses his creative ambitions and the uncertainty of building a career in a changing industry.
    • 00:24:48 – Confidence, Mortality, and Making the Art Anyway David explains how accepting that life is temporary helps him take risks, release perfectionism, and create work that may connect with even one person.
    • 00:29:17 – Building a Sustainable Writing Practice David reflects on being an inspiration-driven writer and why he is learning to treat creativity as a skill that requires routine and consistent effort.
    • 00:33:20 – Advice for His Younger Self David shares the message he would give his younger self: people probably see more value in you than you currently see in yourself.
    • 00:35:20 – Sonder, Empathy, and Everyone Else’s Full Life David explores the realization that every stranger is the main character of a complex life—and how that awareness can make us kinder.
    • 00:39:48 – The Theme Song for David’s Anxiety David chooses Johnny Cash’s version of “Hurt” and opens up about his fear of disappointing or emotionally hurting other people.
    • 00:41:48 – Favorite Words, Swearing, and the Mental Load of AI David explains why “fuck” is his favorite word, why AI is currently his least favorite, and how language reflects the pressures of modern life.
    • 00:44:33 – David’s Book and Charitable Mission David shares how listeners can find his work and explains that proceeds from his remaining books support charitable causes.
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  23. Justin on Healing the Shadow: From Addiction and PTSD to Emotional Freedom

    54 Min.Folge 3

    Justin Shaw went from addiction, PTSD, depression, anxiety, and spiritual rock bottom to a life-changing “bliss attack” that completely rewired how he saw himself. In this raw, funny, and deeply human …

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    Justin Shaw went from addiction, PTSD, depression, anxiety, and spiritual rock bottom to a life-changing “bliss attack” that completely rewired how he saw himself. In this raw, funny, and deeply human conversation, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles talk with Justin about shadow work, religious trauma, emotional healing, and what happens when we stop letting fear drive the damn car.

    Awards & Downloads

    Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries.

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    Mental Health Quote

    “The shadow is the reactor. The sorcerer is the responder.” — Justin Shaw

    Episode Description

    Justin Shaw knows what it feels like when the shadow takes the wheel. After years of addiction, PTSD, depression, anxiety, grief, and spiritual confusion, he reached a point where survival was no longer enough. He wanted to understand why pain kept repeating itself—and how to stop reacting from wounds he had never learned to heal.

    In this bold and brutally honest conversation, Justin joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to explain why our shadow cannot simply be locked in the trunk and ignored. Instead, he believes we must recognize it, care for it, and move it into the back seat where it no longer controls every decision. Justin shares how comedy first became a way to escape emotional pain, how substance use took over his twenties, and why traditional recovery and religious spaces helped him for a time but eventually left him trapped in fear.

    He also opens up about losing his mother, questioning beliefs about hell and worthiness, and experiencing what he calls a “bliss attack”—a powerful wave of love, clarity, and connection that changed the direction of his life. Through his book, Sourcery 101: 13 Rungs to a Higher Elevation of Consciousness, Justin now offers a practical, no-BS path toward emotional alchemy, curiosity, and personal freedom.

    This episode is about questioning inherited beliefs, separating your identity from your trauma, and learning to respond instead of react. It is messy, funny, spiritual, uncomfortable, and full of hope—because healing is not about becoming someone new. It is about remembering who the hell you were before fear took over.

    Keywords: Justin Shaw, shadow work, addiction recovery, PTSD healing, anxiety support, depression recovery, emotional freedom, religious trauma, spiritual awakening, trauma healing, mental health podcast, consciousness, self-awareness, emotional wellness, personal growth

    Meet Our Guest — Justin Shaw

    Justin L. Shaw is a mystical comedian, spiritual sherpa, author, and self-described Sourcerer who uses humor and higher-consciousness principles to help people transform pain into wisdom. After navigating addiction, PTSD, depression, anxiety, grief, and religious fear, Justin developed a grounded approach to healing that blends comedy, curiosity, shadow work, and spiritual connection without dogma or toxic positivity.

    Key Takeaways
    • Your shadow is not something to destroy—it is something to understand, care for, and stop allowing to run your life.
    • Unhealed trauma often shows up as anger, reactivity, addiction, anxiety, or destructive behavior.
    • You are not your diagnosis, addiction, fear, or trauma. You are the awareness observing those experiences.
    • Healing is not one-size-fits-all, and recovery should leave room for different spiritual beliefs and personal paths.
    • Questioning inherited beliefs can be painful, but curiosity creates space for emotional freedom.
    • Happiness comes from temporary experiences, while joy can remain present between those moments.
    Actionable Items
    • When you feel triggered, pause and ask: “Am I reacting from my shadow, or responding from awareness?”
    • Write down one belief you inherited about yourself, religion, success, or worthiness—and honestly question whether it is still true.
    • Create a healthy outlet for anger or fear through journaling, movement, comedy, music, art, or honest conversation.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:00:37 – Welcome to Justin Shaw G-Rex and Dirty Skittles introduce Justin and jump into his description of being “a little bit Deepak and a little bit Tupac.”
    • 00:01:26 – Understanding the Shadow and the Sorcerer Justin explains how the shadow can drive the car, sit in the passenger seat, or rest safely in the back seat when we learn to care for it.
    • 00:05:26 – Healthy Ways to Work With Anger From journaling and exercise to comedy and creative expression, Justin shares ways to process shadow emotions without harming ourselves or others.
    • 00:08:42 – Comedy as a Pain-Ducker Justin talks about growing up emotionally unsupported and using humor, television, food, and entertainment to create relief and connection.
    • 00:13:05 – Addiction, Rehab, and Relapse He opens up about addiction to opioids and benzodiazepines, his first attempt at rehab, and why physical sobriety alone was not enough.
    • 00:15:39 – Recovery, Religion, and Fear Justin describes following the AA and Christianity path, then spiraling after his mother became terminally ill and he feared she was going to hell.
    • 00:17:35 – Rebuilding Beliefs After Religious Trauma Working with a shaman, meditation, and self-inquiry helped Justin challenge dogma and begin separating spirituality from fear.
    • 00:19:32 – Justin’s First “Bliss Attack” Justin describes a three-hour experience of love, clarity, and spiritual connection that became his “near-life experience.”
    • 00:20:45 – Loss, Grief, and Searching for Direction After losing contact with his young son, Justin moved to Sedona and asked the universe for guidance about what to do next.
    • 00:22:32 – The Difference Between Happiness and Joy Justin explains why temporary pleasure is not the same as cultivating a deeper, more sustainable sense of inner peace.
    • 00:25:30 – Spiritual Healing Outside Traditional Religion G-Rex and Justin connect over religious trauma, changing beliefs, and finding support beyond the walls of a church.
    • 00:31:36 – Creating Sourcery 101 Justin shares why he created 13 “rungs” instead of 12 steps and how his framework turns pain into emotional alchemy.
    • 00:33:29 – Healing Is Not One-Size-Fits-All The conversation explores spiritual bankruptcy, anxiety, depression, PTSD, recovery, and the need for more inclusive healing options.
    • 00:38:25 – Questioning Childhood Programming Justin discusses how early messages shape identity and why adults must learn to question the beliefs installed during childhood.
    • 00:42:30 – Advice to His Younger Self Justin says he would tell his teenage self to question everything and approach life with curiosity.
    • 00:44:32 – The Hardest Lesson Justin Learned He reflects on realizing how many beliefs he accepted from people who may not have understood the truth themselves.
    • 00:45:54 – Anxiety’s Theme Song Justin chooses the Indiana Jones theme because anxiety can feel like a wild journey filled with rising intensity and sudden drops.
    • 00:47:11 – Favorite and Least Favorite Words Justin names his favorite word without hesitation and explains why “church” still brings up painful emotional memories.
    • 00:48:47 – Where to Find Justin and His Work Justin shares his social media, book, audiobook, email, and vision for combining spiritual growth with live mystical comedy.
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  24. Part 2: Diandra on Workplace Mental Health, FMLA, and Building a More Human Workplace

    34 Min.Folge 2

    This conversation concludes our two-part Season 19 opener with Diandra Ford-Wing. In Part 2, Diandra joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to ask one hell of an important question: why are employees expected to …

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    This conversation concludes our two-part Season 19 opener with Diandra Ford-Wing. In Part 2, Diandra joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to ask one hell of an important question: why are employees expected to navigate grief, burnout, mental health leave, and returning to work almost entirely alone? Together, they imagine a more human workplace built on emotional intelligence, practical support, psychological safety, and leaders who actually know how to lead people.

    Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder

    This episode includes references to suicide, depression, mental health crises, workplace trauma, and medical leave. Please listen with care.

    If you or someone you know is struggling or experiencing a mental health crisis, call or text 988 in the United States and Canada to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Help is available, and asking for it is an act of strength.

    Awards & Downloads

    Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries.

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    Mental Health Quote

    “Losing people won’t kill you. It can teach you how deeply you were capable of loving them.” — Inspired by Diandra Ford-Wing

    Episode Description

    What happens when an employee is too mentally unwell to work—but also too overwhelmed to navigate the system that is supposed to help them?

    In Part 2 of our Season 19 opener, Diandra Ford-Wing, G-Rex, and Dirty Skittles take an unfiltered look at workplace mental health, FMLA, toxic leadership, grief literacy, and the emotional cost of being treated like a replaceable number.

    Diandra shares how FMLA gave her the time she needed to recover after a suicide attempt, while Dirty Skittles describes the exhausting hoops she faced when severe burnout left her unable to form sentences or manage complicated paperwork. Their experiences reveal a brutal contradiction: people often need the most administrative help at the exact moment they are least capable of advocating for themselves.

    The conversation also examines what happens when employees return from leave. Who prepares the manager? How should coworkers respond? Why are struggling employees expected to disclose private medical details just to satisfy someone else’s curiosity?

    Together, the group imagines better systems: trained leave coordinators, crisis support that exists outside traditional HR, emotional intelligence standards for managers, return-to-work plans, ongoing leadership education, and workplaces where asking for help feels safe.

    Diandra also reflects on the advice she would give her 16-year-old self, the hardest lesson she has learned through loss, and the tattoo she shares with her twin sister commemorating the 16,282 days their mother was alive.

    This episode is a call for workplaces to stop treating mental health as a personal inconvenience. Employees are human beings—not machines, metrics, or cogs in somebody else’s wheel.

    Keywords: Diandra Ford-Wing, workplace mental health, FMLA mental health, burnout leave, grief in the workplace, toxic workplace recovery, emotional intelligence, employee wellbeing, return to work, mental health accommodations, leadership training, workplace crisis support, psychological safety, bereavement reform, human-centered leadership

    Meet Our Guest — Diandra Ford-Wing

    Diandra Ford-Wing is an author, speaker, Sales Director, and workplace grief advocate committed to creating conversations about loss, burnout, resilience, and humanity at work. Through her speaking platform and her debut novel, Red Bird, she uses personal experience and storytelling to help others feel less alone while encouraging organizations to respond to grief and mental health crises with greater compassion.

    Key Takeaways
    • Human resources primarily protects the organization, so employees need independent and accessible mental health support.
    • FMLA can provide essential recovery time, but the application process may overwhelm people already experiencing a crisis.
    • Employees returning from mental health leave do not owe coworkers the details of what happened.
    • Managers need practical training in burnout, grief, emotional intelligence, crisis response, and psychologically safe communication.
    • Supporting someone can be as simple as checking whether they ate, rested, brushed their teeth, or need quiet companionship.
    • Losing someone can change you without ending you, and healing does not erase the love that remains.
    Actionable Items
    • Prepare a return-to-work sentence before taking leave or coming back: “I appreciate your concern, but I’m not discussing the details. I’m ready to focus on moving forward.”
    • Create a personal crisis folder containing benefit contacts, insurance information, leave policies, medical providers, and one trusted person authorized to help you navigate paperwork.
    • Leaders should schedule regular, private check-ins that ask about workload, safety, capacity, and support—not just performance metrics.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:00:46 — Taking the first step toward workplace reform: Diandra explains why simply getting into the room and beginning the conversation can create meaningful change.
    • 00:01:56 — The need for workplace grief and crisis support: The group discusses why HR alone cannot provide the independent emotional support employees need.
    • 00:03:40 — When burnout leaves you unable to advocate for yourself: Dirty Skittles describes how mental exhaustion made navigating medical leave and workplace procedures nearly impossible.
    • 00:05:43 — How FMLA supported Diandra’s recovery: Diandra shares how her mother and manager helped her access leave after a suicide attempt.
    • 00:06:44 — The exhausting reality of FMLA paperwork: The conversation exposes the deadlines, documentation, costs, and administrative pressure placed on people in crisis.
    • 00:08:14 — Returning to work after mental health leave: G-Rex and Dirty Skittles discuss privacy, intrusive questions, and preparing a script for coworkers.
    • 00:10:41 — What meaningful support can look like: The hosts share why simple, low-pressure check-ins can matter more than advice or demands for conversation.
    • 00:12:45 — Building assessments and crisis-response systems: The group imagines tools that could help managers and leave coordinators identify escalating levels of distress.
    • 00:14:45 — Why emotional intelligence must be a leadership requirement: Diandra reflects on how therapy changed the way she would lead and why technical skill alone does not make someone fit to manage people.
    • 00:18:42 — Good managers, self-check-ins, and changing work culture: G-Rex discusses the leaders who made employees feel seen and the self-care questions she now asks herself.
    • 00:21:21 — What must change first?: The conversation turns toward realistic reforms, including workload expectations, psychological safety, and leadership accountability.
    • 00:25:38 — Why an EAP is not enough: The group challenges companies that point employees toward limited assistance programs without fixing harmful workplace conditions.
    • 00:26:59 — Men, stigma, and asking for help: G-Rex directly addresses the shame many men experience around burnout, grief, and mental health leave.
    • 00:28:00 — The advice Diandra would give her younger self: Diandra returns to age 16 with one clear message: things will get better.
    • 00:29:18 — The hardest lesson loss taught her: Diandra explains why losing someone will not kill you and shares the meaning of the tattoo honoring her mother’s 16,282 days.
    • 00:30:26 — Anxiety theme songs and favorite words: The episode closes with humor, reflection, and Diandra’s refusal to accept the word “can’t.”
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  25. Part 1: Diandra on Grief, Burnout, and the Mother Who Saved Her Life

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    Welcome to Season 19 of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads. We’re opening the season with a powerful two-part conversation about grief, survival, workplace burnout, and what it takes to rebuild your life after …

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    Welcome to Season 19 of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads. We’re opening the season with a powerful two-part conversation about grief, survival, workplace burnout, and what it takes to rebuild your life after everything changes without your permission. In Part 1, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with author Diandra Ford-Wing for a raw conversation about surviving a suicide attempt, losing her mother, stepping away from burnout, and learning that grief is love with nowhere to go.

    Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder

    This episode includes an open discussion of depression, suicide, hospitalization, grief, and the loss of a parent. Please listen with care.

    If you or someone you know is struggling or experiencing a mental health crisis, call or text 988 in the United States and Canada to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. You are not weak, broken, or alone, and you deserve support.

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    Mental Health Quote

    “Grief is just love with nowhere to go.” — Diandra Ford-Wing

    Episode Description

    Burnout does not always arrive with a dramatic breakdown. Sometimes, it looks like showing up, hitting your numbers, answering messages, and quietly disappearing inside yourself.

    In Part 1 of our Season 19 opener, author Diandra Ford-Wing joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to share what happened when grief, depression, and workplace exhaustion became too heavy to carry. After the sudden death of her mother, Diandra stepped away from a successful career and gave herself something corporate life rarely offers: time to stop, feel, and heal.

    Diandra also speaks openly about surviving a suicide attempt at 24. She remembers the depression she could not name, the friend who found her, and the mother who made the difficult decision to place her in professional care. That choice saved Diandra’s life and began a relationship with therapy that continues today.

    The conversation explores what it means to lose the person who made you feel safe, why three to five bereavement days are nowhere near enough, and how support systems can keep us standing when grief knocks the air out of us. Diandra explains the therapy exercise that helped her understand grief as love searching for somewhere to land.

    She also shares how writing her debut novel, Red Bird, became a love letter to her mother and Aunt Audrey—and a safe harbor for others navigating loss.

    This episode is honest as hell, but it is also filled with hope. You can survive the thing you believed would destroy you. You can ask for help. You can honor the people you have lost by choosing to keep living.

    Keywords: Diandra Ford-Wing, grief recovery, workplace burnout, suicide prevention, depression recovery, losing a parent, grief and mental health, therapy, bereavement support, healing after loss, maternal loss, emotional resilience, Red Bird novel, storytelling as healing, mental health podcast

    Meet Our Guest — Diandra Ford-Wing

    Diandra Ford-Wing is an author, speaker, and accomplished Sales Director whose experiences with grief, depression, career burnout, and healing inspired her to use storytelling as a source of connection. Her debut novel, Red Bird, is a heartfelt tribute to her mother and Aunt Audrey and an exploration of love, loss, resilience, and the complicated beauty of being human.

    Key Takeaways
    • Burnout can build quietly until your mind and body have nothing left to give.
    • Asking for professional help is not a failure; it can be the decision that saves a life.
    • A strong support system does not need perfect words—it needs consistency and presence.
    • Grief has no corporate timeline, and a few bereavement days cannot contain the loss of someone you love.
    • Therapy can help name emotions that feel too complicated or painful to explain.
    • Storytelling can give grief somewhere to go and transform private pain into connection.
    Actionable Items
    • Write a free-association list of every word you connect with grief, burnout, or loss. Review the list and notice which themes keep appearing.
    • Identify three people you can contact when you are not okay, and tell them what useful support looks like for you.
    • Check your current level of exhaustion honestly. Ask yourself whether you need rest, professional support, medical leave, firmer boundaries, or a larger life change.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:01:07 — When burnout and grief collide: Diandra explains how her mother’s death intensified an exhaustion that had already been building and why she ultimately stepped away from work.
    • 00:07:09 — Taking time off and writing Red Bird: During an 11-month career pause, Diandra wrote and published the novel that transformed her grief into a tribute to the women who shaped her.
    • 00:08:39 — Why workplaces need grief literacy: The conversation turns to productivity culture, employee burnout, and the lack of meaningful support for grieving workers.
    • 00:10:16 — Diandra’s suicide attempt and mental health crisis: Diandra shares the depression she experienced at 24, the night her friend found her, and the emergency care that followed.
    • 00:11:58 — The decision that saved her life: Diandra’s mother recognized that love alone was not enough and insisted that her daughter receive professional psychiatric care.
    • 00:14:46 — Gratitude, therapy, and learning how to cope: Diandra reflects on the coping tools she did not yet have and why she remains committed to therapy.
    • 00:16:33 — Mourning a parent before the loss: Diandra discusses anticipatory grief and the ways she imagined her mother’s death before it happened.
    • 00:18:32 — Grief is love with nowhere to go: A therapy exercise helps Diandra find the language that now shapes how she understands and carries grief.
    • 00:20:19 — G-Rex on honoring her mother through the podcast: G-Rex shares why the show launched on Valentine’s Day and how she changed the meaning of a painful anniversary.
    • 00:22:47 — Why bereavement policies fail grieving employees: The group challenges the idea that loss can be processed within a standard three-to-five-day leave period.
    • 00:24:15 — The people who helped Diandra keep standing: Diandra speaks about the support of her husband, twin sister, older sister, and brother.
    • 00:25:22 — Turning grief into advocacy: Diandra shares her goal of speaking on larger platforms and bringing more humanity into workplace culture.
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  26. Coming Home to Yourself: Season 18’s Biggest Mental Health Lessons

    43 Min.Folge 13

    Season 18 reminded us that healing is not always about becoming someone new. Sometimes, it is about finding your way back to the person you were before trauma, shame, burnout, illness, or other people’s …

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    Season 18 reminded us that healing is not always about becoming someone new. Sometimes, it is about finding your way back to the person you were before trauma, shame, burnout, illness, or other people’s expectations pulled you away from yourself.

    In this season-ender, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles look back at eight unforgettable guests, the lessons that stayed with them, and the conversations that changed how they think about anxiety, emotional healing, healthy masculinity, self-love, neurodivergence, food freedom, trauma, and listening to the body.

    Awards and Downloads

    Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Best Health, a 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, a 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, and a 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner for Best Hosts, with more than 4.5 million downloads and listeners in more than 160 countries.

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    Mental Health Quote

    “Healing isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about coming home to the person you were before the world taught you to leave.” — Inspired by the guests of Season 18

    Trigger Notice and Crisis Reminder

    This episode includes conversations about suicide, suicidal thoughts, childhood sexual abuse, trauma, grief, serious illness, and mental health crises. Please take care of yourself while listening.

    If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis in the United States, call or text 988 to reach the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. https://988lifeline.org/

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    Episode Description

    Season 18 brought us eight guests with completely different stories, but one truth kept showing up: healing begins when we stop running from ourselves and start listening.

    In this season-ender, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles revisit the conversations that changed how they think about mental health, parenting, masculinity, trauma, food, illness, self-worth, and the way the body carries what the mind tries to bury.

    Nancy Gilette reminded us that behavior is communication and that connection needs to come before correction. Dr. Mark Sherwood showed us what it means to become a hope dealer, especially for people who feel forgotten or written off. Dominic Petty helped us see that peace is not some distant finish line. It is the baseline underneath the noise.

    Jason Lange gave men permission to feel what is happening in their bodies and talk about it without shame. Michelle Petties challenged diet culture by showing us that food noise is often emotional noise in disguise. Michael Caprio proved that a life-changing diagnosis can become part of your story without becoming the end of it. Alan Katz showed us that telling yourself the truth can set you free, even decades later. Anat Peri reminded us that the only way to feel better is to get better at feeling.

    G-Rex and Dirty Skittles also reflect on their own growth, the ridiculous lies anxiety tells us, and what happens when you finally answer that voice with two words: watch me.

    This episode is honest, funny, emotional, and full of reminders that your body is not the enemy, your emotions are not weaknesses, and asking for help carries absolutely zero shame.

    Keywords: mental health podcast, emotional healing, coming home to yourself, anxiety recovery, self-discovery, trauma healing, emotional wellness, healthy masculinity, neurodivergent parenting, food freedom, self-love, body awareness, emotional literacy, personal growth, mental health awareness

    Meet Our Guests — Season 18

    Season 18 featured eight guests with eight very different stories, but every conversation gave us one unforgettable lesson about healing, self-awareness, and finding our way back to ourselves.

    Nancy Gilette

    Nancy taught us that behavior is communication. Before we rush to correct, fix, or control someone, especially a child, we need to slow down, listen, and connect first.

    Dr. Mark Sherwood

    Mark reminded us that hope can be life-saving. Even the smallest glimmer of hope can interrupt the darkness and help someone believe that more is still possible.

    Dominic Petty

    Dominic taught us that peace is not something we have to chase. It already exists beneath the anxiety, the noise, and the emotional chaos. The work is learning how to return to it.

    Jason Lange

    Jason showed us that emotional strength begins with body awareness. When men learn to name what they feel and take responsibility for their pain, they are less likely to pass that pain on to the people they love.

    Michelle Petties

    Michelle taught us that food struggles are rarely just about food. Lasting change begins when we understand the emotions, beliefs, and unmet needs underneath the behavior.

    Michael Caprio

    Michael reminded us that a diagnosis can change your life without ending it. Gratitude does not erase pain, but it can help us build meaning, connection, and hope on the other side of it.

    Alan Katz

    Alan taught us that the truth can set us free, even decades later. Healing began when he stopped blaming himself for what happened and finally told his own story with honesty and compassion.

    Anat Peri

    Anat reminded us that the only way to feel better is to get better at feeling. Self-love grows when we stop running from our emotions and learn how to sit with ourselves without judgment.

    Key Takeaways
    • Healing is not always a reinvention. Sometimes, it is a return to the most honest version of yourself.
    • The body is a messenger, not the enemy.
    • Connection creates more change than shame or correction.
    • Emotional literacy helps us understand what is happening inside us.
    • Rock bottom can become a turning point, but asking for help should come sooner.
    • Your worth does not depend on achievement, toughness, productivity, or perfection.
    Actionable Items
    • Ask yourself, “What is my body trying to tell me right now?”
    • Replace broad words like “fine” or “stressed” with a more specific emotion.
    • When anxiety says you cannot do something, answer it with evidence and two words: “Watch me.”
    Important Chapters
    • 00:00:37 — Welcome to the Season 18 Ender, celebrating 18 seasons with laughs and side quests.
    • 00:05:17 — The Thread That Connected the Season: Finding your way back to yourself.
    • 00:08:11 — Growth, Reassurance, and Reinvention: How the season changed G-Rex and Dirty Skittles.
    • 00:11:09 — Nancy Gilette Connection before correction.
    • 00:14:58 — Dr. Mark Sherwood Hope, vulnerability, and first responder mental health.
    • 00:17:31 — Dominic Petty Inner peace, relationship healing, and baby spiders.
    • 00:25:16 — Jason Lange Men’s groups, emotions, and healthy masculinity.
    • 00:30:08 — Michelle Petties Food freedom and emotional eating.
    • 00:33:20 — Michael Caprio Rare disease, gratitude, and resilience.
    • 00:35:19 — Alan Katz Childhood trauma and telling yourself the truth.
    • 00:37:14 — Anat Peri Self-love and learning to feel.
    • 00:39:26 — Gratitude for the Season: Thanking the guests, listeners, and each other.
    • 00:40:42 — What Anxiety Told G-Rex From “You won’t make it” to “Watch me.”
    • 00:42:18 — Goodbye to Season 18: Closing out the season and welcoming Season 19.
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  27. Anat’s Journey from Rock Bottom to Self Love Feel Your Feelings and Rewrite Your_Story

    52 Min.Folge 12

    What happens when losing the life you thought you wanted finally sets you free? G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Anat Peri to talk about hitting rock bottom, uncovering childhood wounds, learning to feel …

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    What happens when losing the life you thought you wanted finally sets you free? G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Anat Peri to talk about hitting rock bottom, uncovering childhood wounds, learning to feel your feelings, and building the kind of self-love that changes everything.

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    Mental Health Quote

    “The only way to feel better is to get better at feeling.” — Anat Peri

    Trigger Notice and Crisis Reminder

    This episode includes conversations about emotional trauma, anxiety, substance misuse, depression, and suicide rates. Please take care of yourself while listening.

    If you or someone you know is experiencing a mental health crisis or considering suicide, call or text 988 in the United States and Canada. For international crisis resources, visit: https://findahelpline.com

    Episode Description

    When Anat Peri discovered evidence that her five-year relationship was ending, she felt devastated—but underneath the heartbreak was an unexpected realization: she was finally free. Three weeks later, she boarded a one-way flight to California with $2,000, $40,000 in debt, no car, no job, and no permanent home. That rock-bottom moment became the beginning of her real journey toward self-love.

    In this raw and deeply practical conversation, Anat joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to explain why personal growth requires more than positive thinking and intellectual breakthroughs. She shares how codependency, emotional disconnection, and an unhealed father wound shaped her relationships, career choices, and belief that she had to work harder to be worthy.

    Anat also breaks down what it means to reparent yourself, recognize the childhood scripts still directing your adult life, and safely express emotions instead of judging, suppressing, or analyzing them. She explains why unfamiliar feelings can register as threats to the nervous system—and how giving an emotion your full attention for just 90 seconds can begin building emotional capacity.

    This episode is a powerful reminder that healing is not about becoming someone else. It is about letting go of inherited roles, reconnecting with your body, and trusting that you are worthy without hustling, performing, or proving yourself. Your feelings are not the enemy. They are part of the path home.

    Keywords: Anat Peri, self-love, emotional healing, inner child healing, reparenting, nervous system regulation, somatic healing, childhood trauma, father wound, codependency recovery, emotional expression, anxiety support, personal transformation, self-worth, generational healing

    Meet Our Guest — Anat Peri

    Anat Peri is the CEO and Founder of Training Camp for the Soul and the creator and Master Facilitator of the TCS Method, a transformational coaching framework that blends mindset work, somatic healing, and inner-child reparenting. With nearly two decades of experience in developmental and trauma-informed coaching, she helps coaches, healers, and business leaders move beyond survival, break painful patterns, and create lasting emotional freedom.

    Website: https://trainingcampforthesoul.com

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anat.peri/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anat-peri

    Key Takeaways
    • Rock bottom can become the moment you finally stop living a life that no longer belongs to you.
    • Self-love means becoming your own inner best friend, cheerleader, protector, and nurturer.
    • Many adult relationship patterns are childhood survival strategies playing out in a different setting.
    • Positive thinking cannot replace the emotional work of grieving, feeling, and healing.
    • Emotions are not dangerous; they often feel threatening simply because they are unfamiliar.
    • You do not have to hustle, overperform, or overgive to prove that you are worthy of receiving.
    Actionable Items
    • Use an emotion or mood chart to identify exactly what you are feeling instead of defaulting to words such as “sad,” “bad,” or “anxious.”
    • Set a timer for 90 seconds and allow an emotion to move through your body using sound, facial expression, movement, and breath—without judging or explaining it.
    • Ask yourself: “Am I choosing this because it is aligned with who I am, or am I repeating a role I learned in childhood?”
    References Mentioned

    Training Camp for the Soul: https://trainingcampforthesoul.com

    Yale Mood Meter: https://moodmeterapp.com

    988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: https://988lifeline.org

    Global Crisis Resources: https://findahelpline.com

    The Chopra Center and the teachings of Deepak Chopra were also discussed as part of Anat’s healing environment and professional journey.

    Important Chapters
    • 00:00:37 – Meet Anat Peri Anat shares how growing up on the East Coast eventually led her to San Diego—and why California always felt like home.
    • 00:02:17 – Arriving at Rock Bottom With limited money, significant debt, and no job or home, Anat makes the life-changing decision to move across the country.
    • 00:04:06 – Codependency, Heartbreak, and Freedom Anat reflects on losing herself in relationships and the betrayal that finally gave her permission to leave.
    • 00:06:35 – One Hundred Days of Dating Herself Unable to enjoy her own company, Anat commits to spending 100 days building a relationship with herself.
    • 00:08:35 – Reconnecting With Her Body She discusses dissociation, plant medicine, stored tension, and realizing how much of her life had been lived inside her head.
    • 00:10:05 – The Relationship That Revealed Her Father Wound An emotionally significant relationship uncovers childhood grief and introduces Anat to deeper inner child work.
    • 00:12:11 – The Support Behind the Healing Anat explains how mentorship, meditation, yoga, friendships, and her work environment supported her transformation.
    • 00:15:40 – Recognizing Childhood Relationship Patterns She examines how her father’s absence shaped beliefs about being invisible, unimportant, and repeatedly chosen second.
    • 00:20:13 – Relationships as Mirrors for Growth G-Rex and Anat discuss healthy partnerships, vulnerability, and why lasting relationships require ongoing inner work.
    • 00:22:10 – Moving From Survivor to Creator Anat explains how inherited family scripts and generational learning can quietly control adult decisions.
    • 00:26:08 – Why the Work Never Really Ends Marriage, entrepreneurship, and reinvention continue to reveal new levels of healing and personal growth.
    • 00:29:47 – Choosing Joy Over External Success The conversation turns to money, career expectations, social media comparison, and defining success for yourself.
    • 00:34:31 – The Only Way to Feel Better Anat explains why talking about feelings is different from physically and emotionally expressing them.
    • 00:38:16 – Teaching Children Emotional Safety Dirty Skittles shares how she helps her son name and process emotions rather than dismissing or suppressing them.
    • 00:40:53 – Building Your Emotional Vocabulary Anat introduces the Mood Meter and a 90-second practice for making unfamiliar emotions feel safer in the nervous system.
    • 00:44:09 – What Anat Would Tell Her Younger Self She offers her 12-year-old self a message about intelligence, talent, self-acceptance, and future impact.
    • 00:44:37 – The Cost of Not Believing in Herself Anat reflects on leadership, business mistakes, overgiving, and learning that she is worthy simply because she exists.
    • 00:46:46 – Anxiety, Alignment, and Letting Go of “Try” The episode closes with Anat’s reflections on anxiety, her word of the year, and her choice to align with her authentic self.
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  28. Alan’s Truth-Telling Journey from Childhood Trauma to Emotional Freedom

    42 Min.Folge 11

    Alan Katz spent decades telling other people’s stories while hiding the most painful chapter of his own. In this raw conversation, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with the former Tales From the Crypt writer …

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    Alan Katz spent decades telling other people’s stories while hiding the most painful chapter of his own. In this raw conversation, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with the former Tales From the Crypt writer and producer to talk about childhood sexual trauma, self-blame, suicidal despair, creativity, and the brutal honesty that finally helped him reconnect with himself.

    Awards & Downloads Line

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    Mental Health Quote

    “You’ve got to be brutally honest with yourself about yourself. Then you can maybe find happiness.” — Alan Katz

    Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder

    This episode includes candid conversations about childhood sexual abuse, suicidal thoughts, self-blame, depression, and emotional trauma. Please take care of yourself while listening.

    If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, call or text 988 in the United States or visit: https://988lifeline.org/

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    Episode Description

    For most of his life, Alan Katz was a professional storyteller who could build characters, write dark comedy, and help shape iconic projects like HBO’s Tales From the Crypt. But beneath the success was a story he could not fully tell himself.

    At 14, Alan was sexually abused by a religious authority figure. After the abuse happened a second time, he began carrying a devastating belief: when something bad happens, it must be his fault. That belief became a lifelong pattern of self-blame, disconnection, rage, and emotional pain.

    In this honest conversation with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles, Alan shares how he reached the lowest point of his life just before Christmas in 2016, when he came within inches of ending it. Choosing to seek immediate help became the first step toward stabilizing his mental health, confronting the truth of his trauma, and reconnecting with the 14-year-old version of himself who had carried the blame for far too long.

    Alan also takes us behind the scenes of his Hollywood career, from his arrival in Los Angeles to his role in developing the Crypt Keeper’s unforgettable personality. He explains how creative success can become its own mountain—and how painful it can be when identity, purpose, and career begin to fall apart.

    This episode is about more than survival. It is about speaking up, releasing shame, reclaiming creativity, and discovering that the truth really can set you free.

    Keywords: Alan Katz, childhood trauma, childhood sexual abuse, emotional freedom, trauma recovery, suicidal thoughts, depression recovery, self-blame, mental health healing, emotional honesty, inner child healing, storytelling, Tales From the Crypt, creative identity, suicide prevention

    Meet Our Guest — Alan Katz

    Alan Katz is a writer, producer, storyteller, and podcaster whose entertainment career includes work on HBO’s iconic Tales From the Crypt. After decades of professional storytelling, Alan confronted the childhood trauma and self-blame that had disconnected him from himself, transforming his personal healing into a deeper purpose: making the world better through honest storytelling.

    He is also the co-founder of Costard and Touchstone, a podcast production company named after two Shakespearean “wise fools” known for speaking truth to power.

    Website: https://costardandtouchstone.com

    Key Takeaways
    • Childhood trauma can quietly create patterns of shame and self-blame that last for decades.
    • What happened to you is not automatically your fault, even when trauma convinces you otherwise.
    • Speaking the truth about your own story can rebuild your connection to yourself.
    • Medication can be a valuable part of mental health treatment when used with informed medical support.
    • Career success cannot heal emotional wounds that have never been acknowledged.
    • Creativity can return with greater depth when it is grounded in honesty and purpose.
    Actionable Items
    • Write a compassionate note to the younger version of yourself who carried blame that never belonged to them.
    • Identify one painful belief you have treated as fact, then ask: “Is this actually true, or is this something trauma taught me?”
    • Tell one safe, trusted person what you are going through instead of trying to carry it alone.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:00:57 – Meeting Alan Katz Alan describes himself as the final product of a remarkable story—one that proved the truth could set him free.
    • 00:01:42 – Success, identity, and falling off “Showbiz Mountain” Alan explains why staying successful in Hollywood can be more emotionally damaging than reaching the top.
    • 00:05:00 – Finding purpose through truthful storytelling He shares how reconnecting with himself helped him discover a deeper mission behind the work he had already been doing.
    • 00:06:40 – The childhood trauma Alan kept from himself Alan reveals that he was sexually abused at 14 and explains how the second incident created a lifelong pattern of self-blame.
    • 00:08:12 – Coming within inches of suicide Alan recounts the crisis he experienced three days before Christmas in 2016 and the decision to seek immediate medical help.
    • 00:10:39 – Finding a medication that helped stabilize him He describes how a mood stabilizer interrupted overwhelming rage and gave him space between emotion and reaction.
    • 00:14:38 – Reconnecting with his 14-year-old self Alan talks about embracing the younger version of himself who had carried guilt and shame for decades.
    • 00:16:02 – How emotional healing changed his creativity Truth gave Alan access to a wider emotional range and helped him evolve from a strong writer into a purposeful storyteller.
    • 00:17:15 – Leaving acting behind and becoming a writer Alan shares how a rough audition helped redirect him toward screenwriting and, eventually, Hollywood.
    • 00:20:42 – Meeting creative partner Gil Adler He explains how their shared belief in solving production problems through creativity shaped their partnership.
    • 00:22:38 – Joining HBO’s Tales From the Crypt Alan reveals how he became the show’s story editor when the series was originally expected to end.
    • 00:27:21 – Saving the show from cancellation Alan and Gil helped revive the series by protecting the rebellious spirit of the original comic books.
    • 00:28:53 – Creating the Crypt Keeper’s personality Alan explains how he gave the Crypt Keeper a character, a voice, and a twisted sense of humor, based in part on his own personality.
    • 00:32:31 – Moving Tales From the Crypt into feature films The conversation turns to Demon Knight, Hollywood expectations, and the fear of being pigeonholed creatively.
    • 00:34:20 – When a dream project was suddenly killed Alan recounts how Universal shut down a deeply personal film project and replaced it with Bordello of Blood.
    • 00:37:23 – The mental health cost of creative loss He reflects on how one devastating professional decision became a turning point in his emotional decline.
    • 00:38:11 – The advice Alan would give his younger self His message to his 14-year-old self is simple and powerful: “Speak up.”
    • 00:38:32 – The hardest lesson he has learned Alan explains why brutal honesty with yourself is essential to healing and happiness.
    • 00:39:24 – Alan’s work today He introduces Costard and Touchstone and shares how the company uses podcasting and storytelling to speak truth to power.
    Closing CTA

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  29. Part 2: Michael’s Road to Gratitude: Mental Health, Rare Disease Advocacy, and Life Beyond Survival

    37 Min.Folge 10

    In Part 2, Michael Caprio’s story moves beyond survival and into the messy, beautiful work of rebuilding a life with purpose. G-Rex and Dirty Skittles talk with Michael about mental health after surgery, living …

    Shownotes

    In Part 2, Michael Caprio’s story moves beyond survival and into the messy, beautiful work of rebuilding a life with purpose. G-Rex and Dirty Skittles talk with Michael about mental health after surgery, living with FAP long-term, family genetics, advocacy, gratitude, and why helping even one person makes the whole damn story worth telling.

    Awards & Downloads Line

    Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries.

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    Mental Health Quote

    “If my story helps one person feel less alone, then it was worth telling.” — Michael Caprio

    Episode Description

    In Part 2 of Michael Caprio’s conversation with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles, the story shifts from diagnosis and surgery to what happens after survival. Because surviving the scary thing is one chapter. Learning how to live again is a whole different road.

    Michael opens up about life after FAP surgery, including diet changes, bathroom anxiety, ongoing medical monitoring, and the everyday realities of living without a large intestine. He talks honestly about how a rare disease affects planning for the future, relationships, travel, family conversations, and the possibility of having children when a hereditary condition is involved.

    This episode also explores the emotional power of legacy. Michael shares how his grandmother’s courage shaped his understanding of perseverance, how his family’s “club” fostered connection rather than shame, and how writing A Bump in the Road helped him turn pain into purpose. One of the most moving parts of the conversation is Michael’s story about connecting with a woman in Australia who also lives with FAP and finally felt seen through his book.

    Through humor, honesty, and a whole lot of heart, Michael reminds us that rare disease advocacy is not about pretending everything is fine. It is about telling the truth, building community, and showing someone else that life can still be beautiful after the thing that almost broke you.

    Keywords: Michael Caprio, rare disease advocacy, FAP, Familial Adenomatous Polyposis, mental health, colorectal cancer awareness, gratitude, survivorship, chronic illness, hereditary cancer, patient advocacy, medical trauma recovery, emotional wellness, family genetics, life after surgery

    Meet Our Guest — Michael Caprio

    Michael Caprio is an Author, rare disease advocate, and speaker who draws on his personal experience with Familial Adenomatous Polyposis to help others feel less isolated in their medical journeys. He is the author of A Bump in the Road: My Medical Journey over Potholes, Detours, and the Bridge to Gratitude, a memoir that blends vulnerability, humor, and gratitude while shining a light on the emotional side of rare disease, surgery, and survivorship.

    Website: https://www.mikecaprioauthor.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mikecaprio_author/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/A-Bump-in-the-Road/100076302759044/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-caprio/

    Key Takeaways
    • Life after survival still comes with anxiety, adjustments, and big emotional questions.
    • A rare disease can affect everything from travel plans to relationships to future family planning.
    • Advocacy does not require perfection; it starts with telling the truth.
    • Family history can carry pain, but it can also carry strength, wisdom, and a blueprint for survival.
    • Gratitude can grow beside grief, fear, and uncertainty.
    • Helping one person feel less alone can turn a painful story into a powerful mission.
    Actionable Items
    • If you live with a chronic or rare condition, make a “real life” plan for travel, food, bathrooms, appointments, and support instead of pretending your needs do not exist.
    • Share your story with one safe person or support group. Connection can break the shame spiral.
    • Replace “I can’t” with “What support or information would make this possible?”
    Important Chapters
    • 00:00:00 – Welcome to Part 2 G-Rex opens the second half of Michael’s story, bringing the conversation back to mental health, recovery, and life after diagnosis.
    • 00:00:39 – Was therapy offered? G-Rex asks whether anyone offered Michael therapy during diagnosis or treatment, and Michael reflects on not being ready for help at the time.
    • 00:01:30 – Life with FAP now Michael explains what day-to-day life looks like in his 30s, including diet adjustments, stomach sensitivity, and future medical monitoring.
    • 00:04:24 – Planning life around the body you have Dirty Skittles asks how FAP affects life experiences, and Michael talks about travel, bathrooms, crowded places, and learning not to feel ashamed.
    • 00:07:01 – Family planning and hereditary risk Michael discusses the emotional complexity of having children when FAP can be passed down genetically.
    • 00:08:50 – Nothing in life is guaranteed Michael shares his family’s perspective: every family has something, and FAP is theirs.
    • 00:10:47 – His grandmother’s courage and the butterfly effect Michael tells the powerful story of his grandmother, early medical procedures, and how her decision to keep going helped make his whole family possible.
    • 00:15:13 – Advocacy and helping others feel less alone G-Rex reflects on Michael’s courage in putting his story out there and helping others understand that FAP is not a death sentence.
    • 00:16:35 – Reaching someone across the world Michael shares the story of connecting with a woman in Australia who found comfort and validation through his book.
    • 00:20:57 – The family “club” and deeper connection Michael talks about how FAP brought his family closer and created a stronger bond through shared understanding.
    • 00:23:31 – Advice to his younger self Michael says he would go back to his 18-year-old self and tell him that life after surgery would be okay, and that there would be a future worth living.
    • 00:25:43 – The hardest lesson Michael shares that one of the hardest lessons has been accepting that some people cannot handle illness or hardship and may walk away.
    • 00:28:30 – Anxiety’s theme song Michael answers G-Rex’s question with humor and heart, landing on “My Way” by Frank Sinatra.
    • 00:29:37 – Favorite word: Attitude Michael explains why “attitude” matters so much to him and his family, sharing a quote that shaped his recovery mindset.
    • 00:31:34 – Least favorite word: Can’t Michael talks about why he dislikes the word “can’t” and how he pushes back against limitations.
    • 00:32:28 – Where to find Michael Michael shares where listeners can learn more about his book, his story, and his advocacy work.
    • 00:34:12 – Final reflections G-Rex and Dirty Skittles thank Michael for sharing his story and helping listeners understand rare disease, resilience, and hope.
    Closing CTA

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  30. Part 1: Michael’s Bump in the Road: FAP, Surgery, Anxiety, and the Fight to Keep Going

    27 Min.Folge 9

    At 18 years old, Michael Caprio was handed a diagnosis that changed everything: Familial Adenomatous Polyposis, a rare genetic condition tied to colorectal cancer risk. In this powerful Part 1 conversation …

    Shownotes

    At 18 years old, Michael Caprio was handed a diagnosis that changed everything: Familial Adenomatous Polyposis, a rare genetic condition tied to colorectal cancer risk. In this powerful Part 1 conversation, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles talk with Michael about fear, surgery, anxiety, family history, and what it really takes to keep going when life smacks you sideways.

    Awards & Downloads Line

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    Mental Health Quote

    “Sometimes the bump in the road becomes the bridge that gets you back to yourself.” — Inspired by Michael Caprio

    Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder

    This episode includes discussion of serious illness, surgery, medical trauma, anxiety, depression, and moments of feeling like life was no longer worth living. Please listen with care.

    If you or someone you love is in crisis or thinking about self-harm, call or text 988 in the United States to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. You are not a burden. You are not alone. Help is available right now.

    Episode Description

    At 18, Michael Caprio should have been worrying about senior year, friends, and what came next after high school. Instead, he was facing a rare genetic diagnosis called Familial Adenomatous Polyposis, or FAP, a condition that causes precancerous polyps to grow in the large intestine and dramatically raises colorectal cancer risk. What followed was fear, bloodwork, colonoscopies, life-changing surgery, an ostomy, and the emotional punch of realizing his body would never be the same.

    In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, Michael joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk honestly about what it felt like to be diagnosed so young, how his family history shaped his understanding of FAP, and why Googling symptoms can send your brain straight into a horror movie. He opens up about having his large intestine removed, living with an ostomy during recovery, and struggling with the mental health side of healing.

    This episode gets real about medical trauma, anxiety, identity, and the moments when Michael felt like a burden to the people who loved him most. But it also shows the power of support, honesty, perspective, and choosing to stay in the fight one painful day at a time.

    Keywords: Michael Caprio, FAP, Familial Adenomatous Polyposis, colorectal cancer awareness, rare disease, medical trauma, anxiety, ostomy recovery, colectomy, J pouch surgery, mental health, chronic illness, hereditary cancer, surgery recovery, emotional wellness

    Meet Our Guest — Michael Caprio

    Michael Caprio is an Author, advocate, and rare disease warrior who was diagnosed with Familial Adenomatous Polyposis at just 18 years old. He is the Author of A Bump in the Road: My Medical Journey over Potholes, Detours and the Bridge to Gratitude, a memoir about surviving serious illness, navigating medical trauma, and finding gratitude after life-changing surgery.

    Website: https://www.mikecaprioauthor.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mikecaprio_author/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/A-Bump-in-the-Road/100076302759044/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-caprio/

    Key Takeaways
    • A rare diagnosis can change your body, your future, and your mental health all at once.
    • Medical trauma is not just physical; it can shake your identity, independence, and sense of safety.
    • Support systems matter, especially when your brain tells you that you are a burden.
    • Friends may show you who they really are during hard seasons, and that truth can hurt.
    • Gratitude does not erase pain, but it can help you rebuild after it.
    • Healing takes honesty, patience, and the courage to keep showing up.
    Actionable Items
    • If you are facing a scary diagnosis, write down your questions before appointments so fear does not steal your voice in the room.
    • Build a support circle that includes medical professionals, loved ones, and people who understand your condition.
    • When your thoughts get dark, tell someone. You do not have to carry the heavy stuff alone.
    Important Chapters
    • 00:00:00 – Welcome to Part 1 G-Rex opens the episode and lets listeners know this is the first half of Michael’s two-part story.
    • 00:01:33 – Michael introduces his book Michael shares the title of his memoir, A Bump in the Road, and explains how his medical journey became the foundation of his writing.
    • 00:01:48 – Understanding FAP Michael explains Familial Adenomatous Polyposis, a rare genetic condition that causes precancerous polyps to grow in the large intestine.
    • 00:03:00 – Family history and “the club” Michael talks about his mom, aunt, and grandmother living with FAP, and how he slowly began to understand the family connection.
    • 00:05:19 – The diagnosis conversation Michael remembers being told he had FAP and how the seriousness of the diagnosis slowly started to sink in.
    • 00:06:39 – The danger of Googling symptoms After searching online, Michael found terrifying stories that made his fear and anger spike.
    • 00:08:30 – Being 18 and trying to process everything G-Rex and Michael talk about the emotional weight of facing a life-changing diagnosis while still figuring out who you are.
    • 00:10:05 – Surgery, colectomy, ostomy, and J pouch recovery Michael explains the surgery to remove his large intestine, the temporary ostomy, and the J pouch procedure that helped him regain quality of life.
    • 00:13:43 – The emotional toll of recovery Michael shares how difficult recovery became, including bathroom challenges, pain, frustration, and regret over how he treated people trying to help him.
    • 00:14:56 – Friends, support, and painful distance Michael reflects on friends who disappeared and others who showed up in ways he never expected.
    • 00:18:11 – A perspective shift after illness Michael describes how losing everyday freedoms made him more grateful for small things like coffee, exercise, and time with friends.
    • 00:22:29 – Rock bottom and the fight to keep going Michael opens up about feeling like a burden and the painful family conversation that helped snap him out of a dangerous mental spiral.
    • 00:26:10 – Closing reminder G-Rex and Dirty Skittles close with a reminder that it is okay to be not okay, as long as you are talking to someone.
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