506 傻瓜无处不在，这里有几个应对之道

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Neutrality can get you through a tough conversation, but it rarely gets you anywhere else. Joshua Johnson, actor/anchor for "The Onion" and former NPR host, makes the case instead for objectivity -- parking your own opinions for a moment so you can focus on someone else's story. He shares three quick ways to turn your most frustrating conversations into real understanding.
保持中立或许能帮你熬过一场艰难的对话，但除此之外，它很少能带你去往别处。《洋葱新闻》演员兼主播、前NPR主持人约书亚·约翰逊（Joshua Johnson）则主张另一种方式——客观。也就是暂时搁置你自己的观点，把注意力放在对方的故事上。他分享了三个快捷方法，帮你把那些最令人沮丧的对话，转化为真正的理解。