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Be a Hater

29 de setembro de 2026 · 6 min

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Fearing God isn't just about what you love; it's about learning to hate what pulls you away from Him. And sometimes the evil you need to confront isn't out there. It's in the mirror.

Today, Chris continues through Proverbs 8, turning to verse 13, where Solomon paints a clear picture of what it means to fear the Lord: a growing hatred for pride, arrogance, evil behavior, and perverse speech. Our culture tells men to be confident, assertive, and unapologetic, and there's nothing wrong with confidence. But Chris draws a sharp line between confidence and pride. Confidence says, "I know who I am because I know who I belong to." Pride says, "I don't need anyone, including God."

Pride is dangerous because it convinces a man he's doing fine while he's actually drifting. The proud man refuses correction, always has an excuse, blames everyone else, and can't say "I was wrong." The godly man is different. He can receive correction, apologize to his wife, tell his kids "Dad was wrong," and go before God saying, "Lord, change me." That's not weakness; that's strength. And hating evil doesn't mean hating people who do wrong. It means hating what sin does: the marriages it damages, the trust it destroys, the children it wounds. A man who fears God doesn't ask how close he can get to sin without crossing the line. He asks what he can remove from his life that's pulling him away from God.

Verse of the Day: Proverbs 8:13

Your Daily Man-Up Challenge

Ask yourself one uncomfortable question today: What is one attitude, habit, or behavior in my life that I know God wants me to change? No excuses, no blame. Name it, even out loud. Then take one specific action to confront it. If it's pride, apologize to someone. If it's anger, walk away before you react. If it's temptation, remove the access point. If it's bitterness, choose forgiveness. If it's hidden sin, bring it into the light with God and, when appropriate, a trusted godly man. Don't manage your sin. Confront it.

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The Men's Morning Devotional is a podcast to help you man up in every way - in your faith, your family and your work - by spending a few minutes getting into the Word before you face the world.

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