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EP.6【脆文心理學】「我自己就能變好,幹嘛要談戀愛」,兩個人在一起到底為了什麼?

October 13, 2026 · 21 min

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「如果兩個人在一起沒有辦法讓彼此變得更好,那還不如一個人。」

​這句話聽起來超級有道理對不對? 但你是否也曾想過:如果我自己就能變好,那為什麼還需要另一個人?

今天這集我們要探討 感情的終極意義與伴侶的功能性迷思

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​1. 功利戀愛的陷阱:我自己就能變好,幹嘛還要找個人來麻煩自己?

​2. 伴侶的省電模式:一個人抗壓很耗力,而牽著對的人,會讓你更省電

​3. 分手後的戒斷期:分開後過得一塌糊塗,代表我從來沒真正「變好」過嗎?

​4. 照出脾氣的鏡子:為什麼單身時EQ超高,一談戀愛卻會為了擠牙膏理智斷線?

​5. 最舒服的相處距離:如何做到「各自買票、並排坐車」的成熟關係?

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