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041.如何拥有“真实的自信”

July 8, 2025 · 40 min

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02:00 “相信自己,你能做到”,是对“自信”的误解?
02:38 自信,需要与“能不能”解
06:06 “拼贴的自我” VS “独特的自我”
09:18 从“原生家庭”的课题里滚一遍出来,才能“重新做人”
13:16 为什么“人最终会活成自己想成为的样子”?
16:33 追求世俗意义上的成功,一定意味着失去自我吗?
18:02 我30岁之前的人生:一场皮格马利翁效应的真人实验
23:22 方法论1、发现你的“驱动模式”:目标、过程、意义
不要活成别人价值判断的组合
29:08 方法论2、一个阶段里,把一个动作做到底
了解自己,需要拉长时间
31:45 方法论3、永远前置自己的需求,但不将它和其他东西对立
没有“一劳永逸”,也意味着没有“一锤定音”
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