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HOOK-UP APP ETIQUETTE: “NO Response IS a Response!” with Jeff Thurm

September 1, 2025 · 24 min

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Nobody is taught how to behave on a hook-up app - So where do we learn how to communicate with each other sensitively and "appropriately". I sit down with presenter Jeff Thurm who recently created a TikTok series about 'Grindr etiquette', to discuss whether there really is a right or wrong way to engage with each other on sex-focussed apps.

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