347: Accommodations That Reduce Cognitive Load Restore Motivation, with Jeff Copper, MBA, PCC, PCAC, CPCC, ACG
Show notes
Motivation isn’t what we’ve been taught it is. When we misunderstand it, we accidentally shame our kids for struggling with something they can’t control.
In this powerful conversation, I sit down with ADHD coach and cognitive engineer, Jeff Copper, to unpack motivation through the lens of executive function impairment. What if your child isn’t unmotivated at all? What if their brain simply requires more effort (more emotional cost) to produce the same outcome as their peers?
Jeff reframes motivation as a two-force system: the automatic brain (driven by comfort and survival) and the executive functioning brain (driven by effortful achievement). When executive function is impaired, as it is in ADHD, the balance tips. Tasks feel colder. Harder. More painful. And avoidance suddenly makes perfect sense.
We also dive into why traditional strategies like willpower, rewards, and even common accommodations like “extra time” often fail. In fact, some accommodations simply prolong suffering rather than relieve impairment.
Instead, Jeff introduces the idea of adaptive accommodations — support that reduces cognitive load and restores equilibrium. Think cueing questions, direct oral processing, printing assignments instead of forcing everything digital, and providing scaffolding that truly fits the brain.
This conversation is about dignity. It’s about seeing the invisible impairment. It’s about shifting from shame to understanding.
You can find additional resources at parentingadhdandautism.com and Regulated Kids.com — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.
Show notes and more resources at parentingadhdandautism.com/347
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support.
You can find additional resources at parentingadhdandautism.com. It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.
In this powerful conversation, I sit down with ADHD coach and cognitive engineer, Jeff Copper, to unpack motivation through the lens of executive function impairment. What if your child isn’t unmotivated at all? What if their brain simply requires more effort (more emotional cost) to produce the same outcome as their peers?
Jeff reframes motivation as a two-force system: the automatic brain (driven by comfort and survival) and the executive functioning brain (driven by effortful achievement). When executive function is impaired, as it is in ADHD, the balance tips. Tasks feel colder. Harder. More painful. And avoidance suddenly makes perfect sense.
We also dive into why traditional strategies like willpower, rewards, and even common accommodations like “extra time” often fail. In fact, some accommodations simply prolong suffering rather than relieve impairment.
Instead, Jeff introduces the idea of adaptive accommodations — support that reduces cognitive load and restores equilibrium. Think cueing questions, direct oral processing, printing assignments instead of forcing everything digital, and providing scaffolding that truly fits the brain.
This conversation is about dignity. It’s about seeing the invisible impairment. It’s about shifting from shame to understanding.
You can find additional resources at parentingadhdandautism.com and Regulated Kids.com — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.
Show notes and more resources at parentingadhdandautism.com/347
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support.
You can find additional resources at parentingadhdandautism.com. It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.