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The Heterosexuals Need a Ceasefire with Anand Giridharadas & Priya Parker

November 5, 2026 · 1 h

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This week on Boy Problems, Liz sits down with the most overqualified panel in the history of heterosexual dating advice: Priya Parker, author of The Art of Fighting, and Anand Giridharadas, author of Man in the Mirror. Together they unpack the fight under the fight — why men and women are more divided than ever, what happens when hope in men makes you better prey, and why cancelling people isn't the same as having a plan.

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