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The Benny’s Mom Episode

September 15, 2026 · 49 min

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Today we are taking on the very important task of trying to find love for Benny’s mom, Sandy. We scoured Los Angeles for the cream of the crop, the very best single men over the age of 55 in this city. These are not actors. These are men. Men looking for love. And we have to say, we were blown away by this group of men. As for Sandy, she’s looking for someone responsible, smart, has a sense of humor, dedicated, loyal, and kind. Tall would be nice, but they don’t have to be tall. She wants a best friend. Someone to spend her time with. And maybe there’s a world where a man walks through the door and it’s just love at first sight. Honestly, him being able to walk at all is apparently a very strong selling point in Sandy’s book. In this episode eleven men come over, Sandy meets every single one of them, and we do everything in our power to let a love bloom. At the end of the day, it’s really just about human connection. Thanks for watching us try to find Benny’s mom a best friend. We respect you!

 

What happens:
0:00 waiting for the men

2:08 teaser

2:29 the beautiful sandy

3:09 sandy's dream man

4:27 sandy's potential suitors

5:01 what sandy is looking for

6:31 sandy's dating history

8:00 preparing to bring out the men

8:39 bring out the men

9:17 meet the bachelors

13:29 speed dating begins

15:46 choosing the finalists

17:26 the sunflower ceremony

18:55 sandy's first 1-on-1 date

21:41 staying active as you get older

25:33 sandy's current dating life

26:18 sandy's second 1-on-1 date

26:48 photography

28:58 cooking & food

30:30 family & getting older

33:09 sandy's third 1-on-1 date

33:48 dating after divorce

35:08 experiencing life

36:09 favorite books & movies

37:27 comfort in silence

38:57 the boomerang penis

39:31 sandy's fourth 1-on-1 date

40:23 dating in LA

40:51 past relationships

42:10 clive's pasta sauce

43:33 a world of brilliance

46:43 sandy's final decision




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