How To Stop Being A Loser
- Episodes
- 34
- Released
- weekly
- Latest episode
- Nov 12, 2026
About the podcast
Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser with Bella Dane - a podcast about becoming the best version of yourself, without taking yourself too seriously. We dive into self-improvement, science, dating, drinking, intellectual curiosity, men, communication, career, success, wellness, lifestyle, psychology, neuroscience, sarcasm, style, and everything in between.
Episodes 34
How to Build a Science-Backed Skincare Diet: Internal Skincare
Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor. This week, we're getting under the surface of skin health. From foods that may …
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Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor.
This week, we're getting under the surface of skin health. From foods that may be aging you (and what to eat instead) to collagen, cortisol, inflammation, and skin-loving supplements, we're breaking down the science behind your glow and the surprising gut-skin-brain connection.
New episodes every Thursday on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts.
Have a confession, question, or story for Bella to react to? Leave us a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/HowToStopBeingALoser or write in at https://forms.gle/CgkMTqDfN1nyrb4j9 - and you might just hear yourself on a future episode. Nothing is off the table, so go ahead and spill. We can't wait to hear from you!
Follow us on IG: @howto.stopbeingaloser
Hosted by @beedane
Disclaimer: All opinions and advice given on this show are intended for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional, medical, legal, financial, or other expert advice. Do your own research and consult a qualified professional when appropriate.
What Having High Standards Actually Looks Like
Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor. This week, we're talking high standards and self-respect. From flaky friends …
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Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor.
This week, we're talking high standards and self-respect. From flaky friends and inconsistent relationships to settling for less at work, we're breaking down what it actually looks like to know your worth, stop chasing, and start expecting more.
New episodes every Thursday on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts.
Have a confession, question, or story for Bella to react to? Leave us a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/HowToStopBeingALoser or write in at https://forms.gle/CgkMTqDfN1nyrb4j9 - and you might just hear yourself on a future episode. Nothing is off the table, so go ahead and spill. We can't wait to hear from you!
Follow us on IG: @howto.stopbeingaloser
Hosted by @beedane
Disclaimer: All opinions and advice given on this show are intended for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional, medical, legal, financial, or other expert advice. Do your own research and consult a qualified professional when appropriate.
How to Kill Your Old Self: Storytime of My Reinvention + Practical Tools to Do It
Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor. Boo! Today's bonus episode is all treats, no tricks. In this special story …
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Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor.
Boo! Today's bonus episode is all treats, no tricks. In this special story time, Bella shares her journey of reinvention and the lessons she's learned along the way. Plus, she breaks down practical tools to help you embrace change, reinvent yourself, and step into your next chapter.
New episodes every Thursday on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts.
Have a confession, question, or story for Bella to react to? Leave us a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/HowToStopBeingALoser or write in at https://forms.gle/CgkMTqDfN1nyrb4j9 - and you might just hear yourself on a future episode. Nothing is off the table, so go ahead and spill. We can't wait to hear from you!
Follow us on IG: @howto.stopbeingaloser
Hosted by @beedane
Disclaimer: All opinions and advice given on this show are intended for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional, medical, legal, financial, or other expert advice. Do your own research and consult a qualified professional when appropriate.
Your Bones Are Dying to Tell You Something
Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor. Happy Halloween! In today's special (and slightly spooky) episode, we're …
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Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor.
Happy Halloween! In today's special (and slightly spooky) episode, we're getting to the bones of bone health. From the role lifestyle plays in keeping your bones strong to osteoporosis, calcium, and everything in between, we're breaking down what you need to know to protect your bone health and build a stronger, healthier version of yourself.
New episodes every Thursday on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts.
Have a confession, question, or story for Bella to react to? Leave us a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/HowToStopBeingALoser or write in at https://forms.gle/CgkMTqDfN1nyrb4j9 - and you might just hear yourself on a future episode. Nothing is off the table, so go ahead and spill. We can't wait to hear from you!
Follow us on IG: @howto.stopbeingaloser
Hosted by @beedane
Disclaimer: All opinions and advice given on this show are intended for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional, medical, legal, financial, or other expert advice. Do your own research and consult a qualified professional when appropriate.
Why Getting Ghosted is So Scary: The Neurochemistry of Heartbreak
Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor. This week, we're diving into ghosting: why it messes with our heads, why it can …
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Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor.
This week, we're diving into ghosting: why it messes with our heads, why it can feel so scary, and what's actually happening in our brains when someone disappears without a word. We're breaking down the neuroscience behind the emotional roller coaster, exploring dopamine's role, and unpacking what the research tells us about why we keep wanting answers. Plus, we'll share practical tools and exercises to help you regulate your emotions, break the cycle of overthinking, and take back your peace of mind.
New episodes every Thursday on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts.
Have a confession, question, or story for Bella to react to? Leave us a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/HowToStopBeingALoser or write in at https://forms.gle/CgkMTqDfN1nyrb4j9 - and you might just hear yourself on a future episode. Nothing is off the table, so go ahead and spill. We can't wait to hear from you!
Follow us on IG: @howto.stopbeingaloser
Hosted by @beedane
Disclaimer: All opinions and advice given on this show are intended for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional, medical, legal, financial, or other expert advice. Do your own research and consult a qualified professional when appropriate.
How to Get your S*** Together and Do Everything You Said You Would
Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor. This week, we're getting our s* together - talking productivity, consistency …
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Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor.
This week, we're getting our s* together - talking productivity, consistency, and building systems that help you succeed instead of relying on motivation. We're getting into maintaining to-do lists, time-management strategies, balancing your lifestyle, and becoming someone who actually does everything they said they would.
New episodes every Thursday on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts.
Have a confession, question, or story for Bella to react to? Leave us a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/HowToStopBeingALoser or write in at https://forms.gle/CgkMTqDfN1nyrb4j9 - and you might just hear yourself on a future episode. Nothing is off the table, so go ahead and spill. We can't wait to hear from you!
Follow us on IG: @howto.stopbeingaloser
Hosted by @beedane
Disclaimer: All opinions and advice given on this show are intended for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional, medical, legal, financial, or other expert advice. Do your own research and consult a qualified professional when appropriate.
WTF is Neuroplasticity
Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor. This week: We're getting into neuroplasticity - the brain's incredible ability …
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Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor.
This week: We're getting into neuroplasticity - the brain's incredible ability to change, adapt, and rewire itself.
New episodes every Thursday on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts.
Have a confession, question, or story for Bella to react to? Leave us a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/HowToStopBeingALoser or write in at https://forms.gle/CgkMTqDfN1nyrb4j9 - and you might just hear yourself on a future episode. Nothing is off the table, so go ahead and spill. We can't wait to hear from you!
Follow us on IG: @howto.stopbeingaloser
Hosted by @beedane
Disclaimer: All opinions and advice given on this show are intended for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional, medical, legal, financial, or other expert advice. Do your own research and consult a qualified professional when appropriate.
Season 2 Trailer
Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor. Bella may not be an expert in every topic she tackles, but she's committed to …
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Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor.
Bella may not be an expert in every topic she tackles, but she's committed to doing the homework. She learns from industry professionals and digs into science, evidence, and real-life lessons to bring you information that's actually worth your time.
From science for curious minds to health and wellness, practical advice, unexpected deep dives, and everything in between - Bella's sharing it all.
New episodes every Thursday on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts.
Have a confession, question, or story for Bella to react to? Leave us a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/HowToStopBeingALoser or write in at https://forms.gle/CgkMTqDfN1nyrb4j9 - and you might just hear yourself on a future episode. Nothing is off the table, so go ahead and spill. We can't wait to hear from you!
Follow us on IG: @howto.stopbeingaloser
Hosted by @beedane
Disclaimer: All opinions and advice given on this show are intended for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional, medical, legal, financial, or other expert advice. Do your own research and consult a qualified professional when appropriate.
How to Build a Science Backed Skincare Routine
In this episode, we'll talk about skincare products that actually work and explain how to build an effective, sustainable routine! I'll explain how and why sunscreen is so important, how to pick a cleanser, how …
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In this episode, we'll talk about skincare products that actually work and explain how to build an effective, sustainable routine! I'll explain how and why sunscreen is so important, how to pick a cleanser, how to actually hydrate your skin, and ingredients that have been proven to do what they say they do versus trendy, not as effective ones.
There is so much information available about skincare, I highly recommend getting most of your information from dermatologists! I'd love to do more specific videos on skincare and wellness trends in the future, so let me know what you want to see next.
This information is for general learning only. It is not medical advice. Do not use it to diagnose or treat health problems. Always talk to a doctor for medical care.
Q+A: Navigating Relationships + Building Confidence, Social skills and Wellness Habits
In this episode, I answer your questions about relationships, how to make friends, what truly builds confidence, my wellness routine, etc. Thank you so much for listening and supporting the show!
A Guide to Becoming a High Achiever
In this episode, we'll talk about how to get over caring what others think of you to achieve your goals, how to manage being someone who has big dreams, work ethic, discipline and how to be a high achiever when …
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In this episode, we'll talk about how to get over caring what others think of you to achieve your goals, how to manage being someone who has big dreams, work ethic, discipline and how to be a high achiever when your goals feel unreachable
How To Be Unbothered
In this episode, we'll talk about practical tools you can use to stop letting useless things drain you and treat your energy like your currency, the difference between setting boundaries and cutting people off …
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In this episode, we'll talk about practical tools you can use to stop letting useless things drain you and treat your energy like your currency, the difference between setting boundaries and cutting people off, and how to truly be unbothered.
How I Became My Own Boss: Content Creating, Influencing + Entrepreneurialism
In this episode, I wanted to talk a little bit about how I became a full time content creator, my career path, what I've learned and share a little bit of my story with y'all. Idk if this is boring or not …
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In this episode, I wanted to talk a little bit about how I became a full time content creator, my career path, what I've learned and share a little bit of my story with y'all. Idk if this is boring or not... basically I'm just talking about myself for 45 minutes which, I thoroughly enjoyed, but.
Hopefully some of my advice and story is helpful and interesting, I'd love to share more of it and hear feedback if it is <3
Neuroscience of Relationships, Attractiveness and Confidence: Q+A
In this episode we'll discuss healthy relationship dynamics, the rolls different neuro chemicals can play in dating, how to get out of toxic relationships and general dating tips. I'll also be answering your …
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In this episode we'll discuss healthy relationship dynamics, the rolls different neuro chemicals can play in dating, how to get out of toxic relationships and general dating tips. I'll also be answering your questions about learning, confidence, beauty and much more.
Thank you so much for listening and please follow!
The Neuroscience of Resiliency and Controlling Burnout
In this episode, we'll discuss how to manage burnout, increased stress levels, controlling feelings of being overwhelmed and anxiety, how to stay resilient and consistent with your goals and persevere through …
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In this episode, we'll discuss how to manage burnout, increased stress levels, controlling feelings of being overwhelmed and anxiety, how to stay resilient and consistent with your goals and persevere through tough situations.
A Q+A With Michael Smoak
In this episode, we have our first ever guest on the show Michael Smoak or Higherup Wellness. We did a follower Q+A and answered questions about dating, fitness, mindset, etc. This was my first time ever crying …
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In this episode, we have our first ever guest on the show Michael Smoak or Higherup Wellness. We did a follower Q+A and answered questions about dating, fitness, mindset, etc. This was my first time ever crying on the internet so lucky you for witnessing this very vulnerable and slightly embarrassing but also iconic moment of mine.
I was incredibly excited to have Michael on the show and I hope y'all enjoy listening as much as we enjoyed recording it!
Apologies for the imperfect audio.... I literally spent days on this so listen to it anyways and deal with it thank you.
Thank you for listening and supporting the show it means more to me than I can say!
Building Emotional Discipline and Self Regulation
In this episode, we'll talk about controlling reactions, emotional intelligence, managing our perceptions, how to self regulate and navigating relationships with emotional discipline!
How to Rewire Your Brain
In this episode, we'll talk about neuroplasticity, the science behind our brains ability to rewire itself, clear up common misconceptions, and explain how we can alter our perceptions, habits and behaviors for …
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In this episode, we'll talk about neuroplasticity, the science behind our brains ability to rewire itself, clear up common misconceptions, and explain how we can alter our perceptions, habits and behaviors for a better life.
Social Magnetism + How to Make Friends
In this episode, we'll talk about the importance of social connection, how to be socially magnetic and how to make friends as an adult.
How to Balance Lifestyles and Maximize Productivity
In this episode, we'll talk about how to balance hobbies, work, relationships, productivity, self care and all of the many things we all try to accomplish during the week.
How To Invest In Your Appearance
In this episode, we'll talk about why investing in your appearance is important, investing vs. obsessing, science backed tools for beauty, confidence and wellness, red light therapy, vitamins , collagen …
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In this episode, we'll talk about why investing in your appearance is important, investing vs. obsessing, science backed tools for beauty, confidence and wellness, red light therapy, vitamins , collagen, skincare, posture, etc.
How to Stop Overthinking
In this episode, we'll cover how to rewire the brain to stop overthinking, learn to control the mind through practical strategies and psychological tricks, detach from situations and let go of things.
How To Unrot Your Brain With Science
In this episode, we'll talk about how to improve and maintain cognitive function, keep the brain sharp and focused, and support neuroplasticity in everyday life! I am not a neuroscientist or a neuroscience …
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In this episode, we'll talk about how to improve and maintain cognitive function, keep the brain sharp and focused, and support neuroplasticity in everyday life! I am not a neuroscientist or a neuroscience student this is just something I research for fun.
How To Start Liking Yourself Again
In this episode, we'll talk about how to get your spark back, how to get out of a slump and start feeling like yourself again.
How to Become Disgustingly Well-Spoken: Mastering Communication
My best communication, persuasion and articulation tips to help you stop communicating like a loser.
How to Stop Giving a F*: Mastering Detachment
In this episode, we'll talk about the science of cognitive reappraisal, how to heal you attachment style, and detach from things that don't serve you.
Psychology of Friends: You Are Who You Surround Yourself With
How to navigate healthy versus toxic friendships, some neuroscience of why you are who you hang out with, why friendships are so important, what's healthy and what's not.
How to Make Learning a Lifestyle
In this episode, we'll talk about how to lead your life with intellectual curiosity, why it's so important to invest in your education and practical tools you can implement into your everyday life to feed your brain.
Navigating life in your 20's: Q+A
How to know if you're dating the right person, balancing lifestyles, influencing and content creating, how to get smarter, detachment and answering all of your most recent questions!
How to Get Out of a Funk and Control Your Emotions
In this episode, I'll talk about how to transform your energy and start feeling like yourself again. How to get out of a funk, how to stay happy consistently, and actually learn how to control your emotions and …
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In this episode, I'll talk about how to transform your energy and start feeling like yourself again. How to get out of a funk, how to stay happy consistently, and actually learn how to control your emotions and problem solve.
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