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When Staying Silent Isn't a option

February 18, 2026 · 27 min

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This week on It Is What It Is, things get very real.


Aisling, known to her 140k plus followers as the girl who never entertains
negativity, finally speaks about something she has stayed silent on for a long time.
After becoming the subject of a major discussion on Tattle Life, she felt she had no
choice but to address it. She opens up about how damaging these forums can be,
the rumours that were circulating, and how it actually feels to see your name
picked apart online.


Katie shares her perspective on how harsh and damning these spaces can be for
this generation. As someone nearing 40, she admits she finds the fake pages and
anonymous discussions hard to process, and questions how a teenager is
expected to cope with that level of scrutiny.


The conversation goes deeper into the psychology behind fake accounts on
TikTok, why people feel the need to hide in order to criticise or tear someone
down, and what that says about online culture today.
Most importantly, Katie and Aisling offer honest advice on how to navigate being
talked about online, how to protect your mental health, and how to stay grounded
when your name is being discussed by strangers.


It is open, reflective, uncomfortable at times, but necessary.

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