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Life Wisdom – By Words of Taoism

Life Wisdom – By Words of Taoism

NewMaking Peace with Anger - TaoismNovember 14, 2026 · 23 min
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About the podcast

Life Wisdom is a podcast inspired by Taoist teachings, offering guidance on mindfulness and inner peace. Each episode features meditative storytelling, simple practices, and deep reflections to help you reconnect with the present moment. Brought to you by Substack bestseller author Chen Li, from the blog Words of Taoism.

Episodes 117

  1. Making Peace with Anger - Taoism

    23 min

    Anger usually arrives in a few seconds, with a door slammed a little too hard or a sentence we regret before we have even finished saying it.More resources:Free resources, books and more on …

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    Anger usually arrives in a few seconds, with a door slammed a little too hard or a sentence we regret before we have even finished saying it.

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  2. Your Body Knows Your Limits - Taoism

    21 min

    The body is where limits become concrete, and it is usually the first to know when you are tiring.More resources:Free resources, books and more on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://wordsoftaoism.com/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My …

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    The body is where limits become concrete, and it is usually the first to know when you are tiring.

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  3. Finding Your Own Pace - Life Wisdom #68

    22 min

    This episode is about that habit of haste, which settles so deeply into the body that we stop noticing it, and about the possibility of finding again a pace that belongs to us.More resources:Free resources …

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    This episode is about that habit of haste, which settles so deeply into the body that we stop noticing it, and about the possibility of finding again a pace that belongs to us.

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  4. Enjoying Your Own Company - Daily Wisdom #69

    21 min

    Someone who has learned to enjoy their own company comes to others with less hunger, without needing them to fill every silence, reassure every doubt or entertain every evening.More resources:Free resources …

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    Someone who has learned to enjoy their own company comes to others with less hunger, without needing them to fill every silence, reassure every doubt or entertain every evening.

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  5. You Are Worth Hearing - Life Wisdom #67

    22 min

    You can feel invisible in an empty flat, and you can feel it far more sharply at a crowded family table, among the very people who are supposed to know you best.This episode is about that second kind of …

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    You can feel invisible in an empty flat, and you can feel it far more sharply at a crowded family table, among the very people who are supposed to know you best.

    This episode is about that second kind of invisibility, which settles into long marriages, old friendships and families.

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  6. Loving People as They Are - Daily Wisdom #68

    22 min

    Change can happen in a relationship, by a road that starts on our own side of it.More resources:Free resources, books and more on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://wordsoftaoism.com/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Substack Blog:⁠⁠⁠ …

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    Change can happen in a relationship, by a road that starts on our own side of it.

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  7. Be patient with Life - Life Wisdom #66

    21 min

    Impatience has become so ordinary in this way of living that we hardly recognise it any more, and it passes for the normal speed of life.More resources:Free resources, books and more on …

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    Impatience has become so ordinary in this way of living that we hardly recognise it any more, and it passes for the normal speed of life.

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  8. The Way to Inner Peace - Daily Wisdom #67

    21 min

    Inner peace is not an external calm that must be achieved by eliminating storms. It is like water that settles on its own when we stop stirring it. The wise show us what stirs it, and how that agitation can …

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    Inner peace is not an external calm that must be achieved by eliminating storms. It is like water that settles on its own when we stop stirring it. The wise show us what stirs it, and how that agitation can subside.

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  9. Living With Grief - Life Wisdom #65

    27 min

    This episode is about grief, about what it does to us and how we can make our way through it, and also about how we can stand beside those who are living through it.More resources:Free resources, books and more …

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    This episode is about grief, about what it does to us and how we can make our way through it, and also about how we can stand beside those who are living through it.

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  10. Worrying Less About Tomorrow - Daily Wisdom #66

    20 min

    When we dread the future, we assume that the sky might fall, and we also assume that we know what would be good for us and what would be bad.More resources:Free resources, books and more on …

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    When we dread the future, we assume that the sky might fall, and we also assume that we know what would be good for us and what would be bad.

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  11. You Are More Than Useful - Life Wisdom #64 - Taoism

    21 min

    When two people meet for the first time, the first thing they exchange is a name, and the second, almost always, is a question: so, what do you do?More resources:Free resources, books and more on …

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    When two people meet for the first time, the first thing they exchange is a name, and the second, almost always, is a question: so, what do you do?

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  12. Living in the Present Moment - Life Wisdom #63

    25 min

    Zhuangzi tells the story of a man who was so troubled by his own shadow, and by the sound of his own footsteps, that he decided to get away from them for good.More resources:Free resources, books and more on …

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    Zhuangzi tells the story of a man who was so troubled by his own shadow, and by the sound of his own footsteps, that he decided to get away from them for good.

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  13. The path to a simpler life - Life Wisdom #62

    20 min

    A life left to itself grows the way an unpruned tree grows, in every direction at once, and it is rarely anyone's fault.More resources:Free resources, books and more on …

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    A life left to itself grows the way an unpruned tree grows, in every direction at once, and it is rarely anyone's fault.

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  14. On Feeling Grateful - Daily Wisdom #65

    20 min

    We are very good at giving thanks and surprisingly bad at feeling grateful, and that gap is worth sitting with, because we tend to assume that the words and the feeling are the same thing at two different …

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    We are very good at giving thanks and surprisingly bad at feeling grateful, and that gap is worth sitting with, because we tend to assume that the words and the feeling are the same thing at two different volumes, when they turn out to be different kinds of thing altogether.

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  15. It's Okay to Spend Time Alone - Taoism - Life Wisdom #61

    20 min

    "Alone" is a word we use every day that has changed its meaning under us, and I would like to spend some time with it, because the change explains a great deal about why so many of us feel the way we feel.More …

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    "Alone" is a word we use every day that has changed its meaning under us, and I would like to spend some time with it, because the change explains a great deal about why so many of us feel the way we feel.

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  16. The Right Timing - Daily Wisdom #64 - Taoism

    22 min

    Today I want to talk about timing. About the sense, which some people seem to have and most of us feel we lack, of when to act and when to wait, when to speak and when to hold back, when a thing is ready and …

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    Today I want to talk about timing. About the sense, which some people seem to have and most of us feel we lack, of when to act and when to wait, when to speak and when to hold back, when a thing is ready and when it needs more time.

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  17. The Need To Be Understood - Life Wisdom #60 - Taoism

    25 min

    Being understood is one of the ways we feel close to another person. There is a particular ease in knowing someone can see the intention behind an awkward sentence, or recognise tiredness in a silence that …

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    Being understood is one of the ways we feel close to another person. There is a particular ease in knowing someone can see the intention behind an awkward sentence, or recognise tiredness in a silence that might otherwise look cold.


  18. Let a Good Moment be Enough - Daily Wisdom #63

    24 min

    Watch what the mind does with happiness. It rarely just takes it.I want to be careful here, because it would be easy to describe all that as a failure of presence and leave you feeling you have been doing joy …

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    Watch what the mind does with happiness. It rarely just takes it.

    I want to be careful here, because it would be easy to describe all that as a failure of presence and leave you feeling you have been doing joy incorrectly. That is not what is happening.

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  19. Not Everything Is Meant to Stay - Life Wisdom #59 - Taoism

    28 min

    I want to talk about the story we tell ourselves when something ends. And about the fact that almost all of us have only one story available, and it is a story about failure.More resources:Free resources, books …

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    I want to talk about the story we tell ourselves when something ends. And about the fact that almost all of us have only one story available, and it is a story about failure.

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  20. The Beginner's Mind - Life Wisdom #62

    20 min

    In the beginner’s mind there are many possibilities. In the expert’s mind there are few.More resources:Free resources, books and more on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://wordsoftaoism.com/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Substack …

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    In the beginner’s mind there are many possibilities. In the expert’s mind there are few.

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  21. Making Room For Your Self - Life Wisdom #58 - Taoism

    19 min

    Most of us have promised ourselves, at some point, that we would live more simply.More resources:Free resources, books and more on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://wordsoftaoism.com/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Substack Blog:⁠⁠⁠ …

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    Most of us have promised ourselves, at some point, that we would live more simply.

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  22. Why Do I Need to Be Liked? - Daily Wisdom #61

    30 min

    Today I'd like to talk with you about something almost everyone treats as a weakness, and which I think has been badly misunderstood: the fact that we care, often a great deal, about what other people think of …

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    Today I'd like to talk with you about something almost everyone treats as a weakness, and which I think has been badly misunderstood: the fact that we care, often a great deal, about what other people think of us.

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  23. Why Receiving Feels So Hard - Life Wisdom #57

    21 min

    Somewhere along the way, most of us start keeping score of what passes between us and other people. And in that accounting, a gift or a compliment shows up as a debt. Debts are uncomfortable, so we settle them …

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    Somewhere along the way, most of us start keeping score of what passes between us and other people. And in that accounting, a gift or a compliment shows up as a debt. Debts are uncomfortable, so we settle them fast.

    Welcome back to Daily Wisdom.

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  24. Alan Watts and the Backwards Law - Daily Wisdom #60

    23 min

    Today, we're going to look at a reversal at the heart of how effort works: the fact that some things retreat from us precisely because we are reaching for them.More resources:Free resources, books and more on …

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    Today, we're going to look at a reversal at the heart of how effort works: the fact that some things retreat from us precisely because we are reaching for them.

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  25. Making Peace With Regret - Life Wisdom #56

    34 min

    The question I would like us to sit with is a simple one, and I suspect it has visited almost everyone listening. Why does the life we did not live always seem to have gone better than the one we are …

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    The question I would like us to sit with is a simple one, and I suspect it has visited almost everyone listening. Why does the life we did not live always seem to have gone better than the one we are living?

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  26. How to become more patient ? - Daily Wisdom #59

    34 min

    Today we're going to sit with a frustration that lives underneath a great many abandoned projects and unfinished changes, the frustration of things that simply take time to ripen.More resources:Free resources …

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    Today we're going to sit with a frustration that lives underneath a great many abandoned projects and unfinished changes, the frustration of things that simply take time to ripen.

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  27. Three Taoist Treasures for an Ordinary Day - Life Wisdom #55

    32 min

    What do you reach for when things get difficult?We all have our tools and we carry them everywhere. But most of us have never once asked whether they actually work, because we are usually too busy using them to …

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    What do you reach for when things get difficult?

    We all have our tools and we carry them everywhere. But most of us have never once asked whether they actually work, because we are usually too busy using them to evaluate them.

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  28. How do I truly connect with myself and the world ? - Daily Wisdom #58

    15 min

    All week we have been pulling the plug on the things that keep us scattered and half-present. Today we finally turn to what all that unplugging was for, to the body, the world, and the people it was meant to …

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    All week we have been pulling the plug on the things that keep us scattered and half-present. Today we finally turn to what all that unplugging was for, to the body, the world, and the people it was meant to hand back to us, and to how we actually find our way home to them.

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  29. Why Am I Lonely When Surrounded? - Daily Wisdom

    15 min

    Never in human history have we been this connected, able to reach almost anyone, instantly, at any hour, and loneliness has climbed steadily right alongside all that connection.More resources:Free resources …

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    Never in human history have we been this connected, able to reach almost anyone, instantly, at any hour, and loneliness has climbed steadily right alongside all that connection.

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  30. Who Owns My Attention? - Daily Wisdom

    15 min

    Your attention is not only wandering off on its own. It is being taken. There is now an entire economy built on capturing it, staffed by some of the most talented people alive, and its whole purpose is to …

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    Your attention is not only wandering off on its own. It is being taken. There is now an entire economy built on capturing it, staffed by some of the most talented people alive, and its whole purpose is to fragment your focus and hold it, because your attention is the product being bought and sold.

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