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E264: What Women Really Think About... Part 3

June 11, 2026 · 1 h 5 min

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So we're back with Part 3 of What Do Women Really Think About…?, giving you the honest answers women don't always say out loud.


From the mental load to mirror selfies, nothing’s off limits.


💛 In this episode, you'll hear:

  • Whether women actually want a "book boyfriend," or if that fantasy is better left on the page?

  • The real deal on mental load: is it running in the background every single day?

  • Cum on the face: hot, not, or total depends? We give you the honest answer.

  • Dick pics and mirror selfies: what reads as sexy vs what gets an instant delete?

  • Blowjobs before a shower: the candid take you've been too shy to ask about.

  • Why women open up to their friends about their sex lives so freely?

  • Getting finished with hands or fingers: thoughtful move, or last-ditch effort?


Here's the thing: the questions that feel embarrassing to ask are usually the ones everyone else is secretly wondering too. You're not weird for being curious. You're just paying attention.


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