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150: Why is my ADHD kid MEAN!?

June 15, 2026 · 31 min

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Have you noticed that when your ADHD kid is dysregulated it comes out as being plain nasty?! For lack of a better word, they turn into a total asshole! New EEG research shows that 96% of hyperactive-impulsive ADHD kids have a significant difference in frontal lobe activity during frustrating moments. And the net result is anger and aggression. Of that 96%, 63% is severe. This is important to note, because in neurotypical children, this outcome is 12%. This tells us it's less a behavior choice and more of a wiring reality.

To me, this is empowering. Because now we know more and we can do more with this information. Inside this episode I share some critical mindset shifts as well as practical ways we can start to move the needle forward.

As promised from the episode here are the 3 next options:

  1. Join the upcoming masterclass: https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/adhd-masterclass

  2. Jump right into the program: https://www.responseableparenting.com/join

  3. Book a Connection Call to talk about 1:1 coaching: https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/call

Study: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC13018046/

🎉STOP YELLING! How to create a resilient and responsive ADHD home🎉

If you are sick and tired of the same repetitive behaviors and want to see real and permanent changes with you and your ADHD child, make sure you attend my upcoming FREE masterclass.

I will walk you through my proprietary 8 step method that will teach you exactly what needs to be in place in order to see the changes you want to see.

Register here to get the details for the latest masterclass! https://responseableparenting.kit.com/stop

FREE RESOURCES!

  • Tired of repeating yourself over the same behaviors? Try this VALUES DECK OF CARDS! You can customize the cards to your family values and instead of dishing out yet another punishment, you can instill positive consequences through the actions on the back! https://responseableparenting.kit.com/cards

  • Get the cheat codes to "stack" regulation practices throughout your day! No time to meditate? No problem. Grab this simple system and add ZERO time to your day! https://responseableparenting.kit.com/zero

Book a call with me to connect on areas of your parenting that are causing pain, struggle, or frustration. https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/call

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