Sex With Emily
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About the podcast
Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Order her book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.
Episodes 1,419
The World’s First Sex Mattress Is Here
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Join the Better Sex Sleep Study:
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https://shop.sexwithemily.com/essentiaWhat if the secret to better sex isn’t doing more, but sleeping better?
Jack Dell’Accio, certified sleep coach and founder of Essentia, has spent more than 25 years obsessing over what happens when the lights go out. I’ve spent my career obsessing over what happens in the bedroom. So we built something together, and for the first time anywhere, we’re talking about it.
IN THIS EPISODE
• Why REM and deep sleep matter more than eight hours
• How exhaustion quietly kills desire
• What we designed into a mattress made for sexFIND JACK AND ESSENTIA
Essentia website: https://myessentia.com
Essentia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/essentiaorganicmattress/
Jack Dell’Accio on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jackdellacciosleep/ABOUT EMILY
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author, and host of the #1-rated Sex With Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation, and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because life is too short for bad sex.
CONNECT WITH EMILY
Best Sex Ever Tour: https://sexwithemily.com/events
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https://shop.sexwithemily.com/AIRSCHAPTERS
0:00 Why Sleep Might Be the Secret to Better Sex
2:03 How Jack Became Obsessed With Sleep
6:10 REM vs. Deep Sleep: What Actually Matters
9:06 The Hidden Stimulants Ruining Your Sleep
12:28 What Sleep Loss Does to Desire and Performance
18:15 Sleep Divorce and Separate Bedrooms
20:34 The Biggest Sleep and Mattress Myths
28:23 How We Built a Mattress Designed for Sex
40:24 EMFs, Toxins, and What’s Hiding in Your Mattress
1:00:24 The Better Sex Sleep Study
1:08:28 Quickie Sleep Tips and Five Quickie QuestionsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Is Porn Getting in the Way of Your Sex Life?
Want to know how porn is affecting your sex life? Find out here: https://sexwithemily.com/porn-your-sex-life/ Why does he have sex like a porn star? And why does it make you feel used instead of satisfied? In …
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Want to know how porn is affecting your sex life? Find out here: https://sexwithemily.com/porn-your-sex-life/
Why does he have sex like a porn star? And why does it make you feel used instead of satisfied?
In this episode, I'm taking your calls on one of the most common questions I get: porn. What happens when your partner seems more into porn than you, when you cry after sex because you felt like a prop, or when your own fantasies make you feel ashamed. I break it all down, with real listener calls and zero judgment.
We also get into the uncomfortable truth that most young people are learning how to have sex from porn. And that's a problem we all need to talk about.
ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.CONNECT:
Best Sex Ever Tour: https://sexwithemily.com/events
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TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily
Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemilyWANT MORE?
Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.
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Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text
Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribeThis episode is sponsored by:
- EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE Rose suction toy with their order! https://bbvibes.com/emily
- Try AIRS by SkinGenuity today at https://shop.sexwithemily.com/AIRSTimestamps:
0:00 - Cold open: why he likes “porn star sex”
2:38 - Listener email: my boyfriend secretly watches porn to get hard
4:08 - Why you have to practice satisfying yourself
5:51 - Caller #1: navigating single life without feeling used
8:45 - Why he likes porn star sex: it's the only sex he's had
11:35 - Why porn is a terrible sex teacher
14:34 - Caller #2: bringing porn into his marriage
18:08 - Listener email: only able to climax to a rough fantasy
20:10 - Mindful masturbation to stay present
21:17 - Listener email: my boyfriend masturbates to porn next to me
22:35 - How to talk to your partner: timing, turf, and toneLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What You’re Not Saying Is Hurting Your Sex Life
Have a question you've always wanted to ask? Send it to me: https://sexwithemily.com/ask What are the conversations you're not having with your partner, and what is that silence actually costing you? Dr …
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Have a question you've always wanted to ask? Send it to me: https://sexwithemily.com/ask
What are the conversations you're not having with your partner, and what is that silence actually costing you?
Dr. Jennifer Freed, psychological astrologer and therapist, is back and we went deep. We cover victim language vs. power language in sex, the three real reasons we avoid intimacy conversations, and how to actually get to your "power yes." Plus listener questions on threesomes, low libido, spotting a sensual lover, and what EMDR really does to your brain.
Jen also coins the term "emo porn" and we both have to admit we're guilty.
Find Dr. Jennifer Freed:
Website: https://www.jenniferfreed.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjenniferfreed/ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.CONNECT:
Best Sex Ever Tour: https://sexwithemily.com/events
Shop With Emily: https://shop.sexwithemily.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/
X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily
Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily
WANT MORE?
Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.
Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/
Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text
Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe
This episode is sponsored by:
EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE Rose suction toy with their order! (https://bbvibes.com/emily)
Try AIRS by SkinGenuity today at https://shop.sexwithemily.com/AIRS
Chapters:
0:00 - Where Your Words Go, Your Energy Goes
2:34 - Meet Dr. Jennifer Freed: Psychological Astrologer and 30-Year Therapist
4:03 - Men’s Biggest Sexual Challenge (And It’s Not What You Think)
5:08 - Sex as an Expectation vs. an Invitation: Why the Framing Changes Everything
5:28 - The Victim Behaviors Secretly Killing Your Power in the Bedroom
7:36 - “I Have To” vs. “I Get To”: The Language Shift That Rewires Your Brain Around Sex
9:34 - The 30-Minute Body Mapping Exercise That Can Transform Your Sex Life Tonight
10:21 - Your Feelings and Sensations Are the Only Irrefutable Truth
11:22 - Men and Performance Anxiety: What Would Happen If They Were Just Allowed to Receive?
13:22 - The Serial Sex Guy Who Was Depressed (And What It Reveals About Frequency)
16:05 - The Forbidden Conversations in Your Relationship Are Exactly Where the Juice Is
16:36 - The Three Reasons We Hide Things From Our Partners: Security, Control, Approval
18:45 - The Gaps in Relationships Are Where the Damage Lives
19:48 - Q: How Do You Keep the Fire Going While Still Being Vulnerable?
20:35 - Your Partner Is Not Your Therapist: What to Share and What Not To
22:11 - Revelation Is Not a Dump: Trust Is Built Through Accretion
23:37 - Erotic Tension and Otherness: Why Mystery Is Essential to Attraction
24:04 - Things You Should Never Say — and How to Say the Hard Things Instead
26:09 - The Conversation Is an Invitation, Not a Confrontation
27:06 - Q: How Do You Reconcile With Men After a Painful History With Them?
28:55 - Q: Hookup Buddy Wants a Relationship and You Don’t — What Do You Do?
30:01 - Mixed Messages, Time Limits and Why You Need Friends Who Tell You the Truth
32:03 - “Emo Porn”: The Concept That Explains Your Most Dramatic Friendships
33:47 - Q: How to Spot a Sensual Lover Without Sleeping With a Lot of People
36:14 - Astrology and Compatibility: What Your Sun Sign Actually Cannot Tell You
37:48 - Every Relationship Is a Teacher — the Most Courageous Spiritual Path
38:12 - Q: How to Ease Into an Open Relationship or Fulfill a Threesome Fantasy
41:08 - Q: Does EMDR Therapy Actually Work? 43:03 - Q: Low Libido at 25 After Five Years Together — What’s Happening?
44:21 - It’s Not Low Libido, It’s High Boredom (And the Real Fix)
45:10 - The Secret to Reigniting Desire: Go Back to CourtshipLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Women’s Vaginas at 20 vs. 40
Have a question for me? Send it here: sexwithemily.com/ask Here's something I wish someone had told me years ago. Young doesn't mean sexually confident, 40s doesn't mean sexually over, and the biggest mistake …
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Have a question for me? Send it here: sexwithemily.com/ask
Here's something I wish someone had told me years ago. Young doesn't mean sexually confident, 40s doesn't mean sexually over, and the biggest mistake most couples make has nothing to do with technique. It's assuming they already know what their partner wants. In this episode I'm walking through what actually happens to a woman's body and desire across her 20s, 30s, 40s, and beyond: what changes, what stays the same, and what you can do to be a better partner at every stage.
Shop Women's Health: https://shop.sexwithemily.com/womens-health
ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
CONNECT:
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WANT MORE?
Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.
Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/
Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text
Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe
Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!
This episode is sponsored by:
EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE Rose suction toy with their order!
Try AIRS by SkinGenuity today at https://shop.sexwithemily.com/AIRS
Timestamps:
0:00 - Cold open: does sex get worse as a woman gets older?
1:44 - Her 20s: young doesn’t mean great sex
4:12 - Why most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone
5:33 - Her 30s: more confidence, new challenges
6:06 - After a baby: why her desire changes
9:11 - Her 40s: what perimenopause does to desire and arousal
11:58 - Spontaneous vs. responsive desire
13:51 - Menopause and beyond: sex has no expiration date
15:02 - Treatments for painful sex after menopause
15:39 - Why sex shouldn’t be defined by penetration
17:31 - The biggest mistake: assuming you know what she likesLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Why You Don’t Want to Have Sex Anymore with Dr. Jenni Skyler
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Have a question you've always wanted to ask? Send it to me: https://shop.sexwithemily.com/pages/ask?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=yt-E-nDTzNdcMI&utm_term=why-you-dont-want-to-have-sex-anymore-with-dr-jenni-skyler&utm_content=description
Ever wonder what really happens inside a sex therapist's office? Dr. Jenni Skyler, certified sex therapist, founder of the Intimacy Institute, and co-host of Sex and the Psyche, pulls back the curtain on what couples are really struggling with, why low desire is more normal than you think, and the two metaphors that change everything: the erotic piggy bank and the car on the highway.
We also get personal about Vyleesi. Our own experiences, the side effects, and what it actually feels like when desire comes back online. Spoiler: it gets good.
And yes, we go there. The myths, the duty sex, the midnight shoulder tap, the pressure to have simultaneous orgasms like it's a Hollywood movie. All of it on the table.
In this episode:- The erotic piggy bank: rebuilding desire through non-sexual deposits- Why spontaneous sex is a myth and what to do instead- The ten-minute invitation technique that changes everything- Vyleesi vs. Addyi: our honest, personal take
Learn more about Vyleesi: https://vyleesi.com
ABOUT DR.JENNI SKYLER
Website: The Intimacy Institute
Podcast: Sex and the Psyche
Instagram: @drjenniskyler
YouTube: Sex and the Psyche Podcast
Coming Soon: SavvySex – The App
ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
CONNECT:
Best Sex Ever Tour: https://sexwithemily.com/events
Shop With Emily: https://shop.sexwithemily.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/
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WANT MORE?
Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.
Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/
Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text
Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe
Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!
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Why You Love Your Partner but Don’t Want Sex
Have a question for me? Just ask: https://shop.sexwithemily.com/pages/ask?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=yt-B_NJuDUJF5I&utm_content=description Real people. Real questions. No filters. In this …
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Have a question for me? Just ask: https://shop.sexwithemily.com/pages/ask?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=yt-B_NJuDUJF5I&utm_content=description Real people. Real questions. No filters. In this hotline episode I take live calls from listeners navigating some of the most common and least talked about sexual dilemmas — from a woman in a good relationship who can’t stop fantasizing about women, to a 19-year-old whose birth control has wiped out her desire entirely, to a man trying to reconnect with his wife after a miscarriage, and more. These are the conversations people carry around for years without ever knowing who to ask. Let’s talk about them. ABOUT EMILY: Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. CONNECT:
Best Sex Ever Tour: https://sexwithemily.com/events
Shop With Emily: https://shop.sexwithemily.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/
X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily
Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily
WANT MORE?
Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.
Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/
Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text
Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe
Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply! Chapters: 0:00 Live Hotline: Real Questions About Sex, Desire, and Connection 1:19 Call 1: I’m Fantasizing About Women But I’m in a Relationship With a Man 3:30 Why Moving In Together Can Kill the Spark 5:45 Does He Get to Decide Which Fantasies You Can Have? 8:00 How to Tell Your Partner Exactly What You Want in Bed 10:30 The Yes No Maybe List and Why Every Couple Needs It 12:55 Call 2: Birth Control Took My Sex Drive to Zero 14:45 How the Pill Quietly Affects Desire and Mood 16:30 Learning Your Own Body for the First Time 19:00 Call 3: I’m Bisexual and Leaning More Toward Men 21:00 The Double Standard Around Male vs. Female Bisexuality 23:30 Call 4: My Wife Only Wants Sex When She’s Ovulating 26:00 Sex After a Miscarriage: What Couples Get Wrong 30:00 How to Keep Your Sex Life Alive While Trying to Conceive 32:30 Call 5: My Partner Says She’s Lazy in Bed 35:00 Mutual Masturbation as a Learning Tool 37:00 Call 6: 25 Years Married and Suddenly Insecure About My Body 38:15 What to Do When Insecurity Is Getting in the Way of Intimacy
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How to Start Having Sex Again After a Long Break
Have a question you've always been too embarrassed to ask? Send it to me: sexwithemily.com/ask Whether it's a body pattern you've never been able to break, a sex life that went quiet during a hard season, or a …
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Have a question you've always been too embarrassed to ask? Send it to me: sexwithemily.com/ask
Whether it's a body pattern you've never been able to break, a sex life that went quiet during a hard season, or a relationship where desire just doesn't match up — these are the questions people carry around for years without knowing where to take them. Let's talk about real listener questions on orgasm habits, how to restart intimacy after illness, navigating power dynamics in a relationship, and what to actually do when your partner seems completely uninterested in sex.
ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
CONNECT:
Best Sex Ever Tour: https://sexwithemily.com/events
Shop With Emily: https://shop.sexwithemily.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/
X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily
Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily
WANT MORE?
Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.
Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/
Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text
Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe
Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!
Chapters:
0:00 Real Sex Questions You Were Too Embarrassed to Ask
2:00 Q: I Can Only Orgasm One Way. Can I Change That?
3:47 How to Retrain Your Body for Full-Body Orgasms
6:23 The Breathwork Practice That Changes Everything
8:30 Q: How Do We Restart Our Sex Life After Six Months Off?
10:19 How to Ease Back In Without Pressure or Awkwardness
12:43 Q: I Want to Switch Roles But My Partner Won't
14:27 Top and Bottom Dynamics and Masculine Feminine Energy
17:05 How Age and Experience Shape Power in Relationships
19:17 Q: My Wife Just Wants It Over Quickly. What Do I Do?
21:00 When Culture and Shame Shut Down Desire
23:25 Sexual Health Is Overall Health. Here Is Why That Matters
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4 Effects a Sexless Marriage Has on a Man
Have a question you’ve always been too embarrassed to ask? Send it to me: https://sexwithemily.com/ask If you’re in a relationship where sex has quietly disappeared, you already know it’s not just about the …
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Have a question you’ve always been too embarrassed to ask? Send it to me: https://sexwithemily.com/ask
If you’re in a relationship where sex has quietly disappeared, you already know it’s not just about the lack of sex. It’s the questions that start creeping in—is she still attracted to me? Did I do something wrong? Why does every touch now feel loaded?
Let’s talk about what actually happens to men emotionally and relationally when a marriage goes sexless, and what you can do to start changing things without making it worse.
ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
CONNECT:
Best Sex Ever Tour: https://sexwithemily.com/events
Shop With Emily: https://shop.sexwithemily.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/
X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily
Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily
WANT MORE?
Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/
Includes FREE guides.Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/
Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text
Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe
Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to https://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!
Chapters:
0:00 – Intro
0:40 – What a mismatched-desire marriage feels like
1:15 – Listener question: no sex in almost a year
2:35 – Effect 1: You start taking it personally
3:35 – Why this hits men especially hard
5:00 – Effect 2: You pull away, even from affection
6:35 – Taking sex off the table to rebuild touch
7:35 – Effect 3: You feel disconnected and lonely
8:10 – Seeking outside validation
9:15 – What do you actually know vs. what are you assuming
10:20 – Mismatched desire is common: building a growth mindset around sexLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Why Better Sex Starts Outside the Bedroom
Have a question you’ve always been too embarrassed to ask? Send it to me: sexwithemily.com/ask What if the secret to getting turned on has nothing to do with what happens in the bedroom? Sometimes the best …
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Have a question you’ve always been too embarrassed to ask? Send it to me: sexwithemily.com/ask
What if the secret to getting turned on has nothing to do with what happens in the bedroom?
Sometimes the best foreplay starts hours earlier, with the right kind of adventure, connection, or touch that works with your brain chemistry instead of against it. Let’s talk about the trust, titillate, and touch framework for bonding activities that actually prime your nervous system for desire — plus I’m answering your questions on sexual incompatibility, rebuilding your sex drive after having a baby, reigniting a stalled marriage, and reclaiming your sexuality after a relationship that made you feel unseen.
ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
CONNECT:
Best Sex Ever Tour: https://sexwithemily.com/events
Shop With Emily: https://shop.sexwithemily.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/
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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily
Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily
WANT MORE?
Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.
Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/
Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text
Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe
Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!
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I answered Men’s Most Taboo Sexual Questions
Have a question you’ve always been too embarrassed to ask? Send it to me: sexwithemily.com/ask Let’s talk about the questions men are too embarrassed to ask about sex… because most of what men learn about sex …
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Have a question you’ve always been too embarrassed to ask? Send it to me: sexwithemily.com/ask
Let’s talk about the questions men are too embarrassed to ask about sex… because most of what men learn about sex comes from porn, from friends who are also just figuring it out, or from nothing at all. And then they spend years wondering if they’re broken, performing wrong, or missing something everyone else seems to already know. In this episode I’m answering seven of the most common questions I get from men, and I promise you are not the only one who has been too embarrassed to ask.
ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
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Chapters:
0:00 – Intro: the questions men are too embarrassed to ask
0:55 – Is it bad to masturbate every day?
2:39 – How long is sex actually supposed to last?
3:53 – Why most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone
4:46 – Why you can lose your erection even when you’re attracted to her
6:55 – Should you worry if you don’t wake up with an erection?
8:11 – Why you can orgasm alone but not with a partner
10:34 – If you finish before your partner, is sex over?
12:45 – Send in the questions you’ve been too embarrassed to ask
13:19 – How to tell your partner you’re anxious about sex
15:10 – Why perfect sex isn’t the goal: presence, communication, and patienceLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Why You’re Making Oral Sex Harder Than It Needs to Be
Let's talk about 69… because whether you love it, hate it, or have been too intimidated to try it, chances are nobody ever actually taught you how to do it well. In this episode I'm breaking down everything you …
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Let's talk about 69… because whether you love it, hate it, or have been too intimidated to try it, chances are nobody ever actually taught you how to do it well. In this episode I'm breaking down everything you need to know about giving and receiving oral sex simultaneously, including the modifications that turned me from a 69 skeptic into someone who actually gets it. I'm also answering your oral sex questions, from what to do when size makes a blowjob feel impossible to the listener who discovered the most unexpected erogenous zone of her life mid-session. If you've ever written off 69 or felt like you were doing oral sex wrong, this one is going to change some things for you.
ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
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00:00 Introduction
01:37 Why People Love and Hate 69
03:30 What Research Says About Giving Oral Sex and Happiness
05:00 How to Be a Better Giver in the 69 Position
07:30 Your Hands Are Your Best Friend in 69
09:00 How to Actually Receive Pleasure While Giving
11:00 Mindful Masturbation as a Tool for Better Receiving
13:00 The Sideways 69 and the Power 69
15:30 How to Stop Getting in Your Own Head During Oral
18:00 Question 1: I Discovered My Ear Is an Erogenous Zone Mid Session
21:00 The Science Behind Extra Genital Erogenous Zones
23:00 Question 2: How Do I Give Oral to a Much Larger Penis
25:00 Hands Lube and Permission to Mix It Up
27:00 The Only Rule That Actually Matters in Oral Sex
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The Oral Sex Skill Nobody Teaches
Great oral sex isn’t about mastering a technique, memorizing tutorials, or finding one magic trick. It’s about being present enough to listen to your partner’s body. In this episode, I’m sharing how to build a …
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Great oral sex isn’t about mastering a technique, memorizing tutorials, or finding one magic trick. It’s about being present enough to listen to your partner’s body.
In this episode, I’m sharing how to build a sexual language with your partner through attention, communication, and responsiveness. We’re talking about why starting slow matters, how to read the signals your partner is giving you, what it means to follow the “yes,” and why feedback like “don’t stop” or “softer” is an invitation—not a critique.
If you want oral sex to feel more connected, more pleasurable, and less like a performance, this episode is for you.
ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
CONNECT:
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Chapters:
0:00 – Intro: what this episode covers
1:24 – The oral sex skill nobody teaches: no secret move, just paying attention
2:49 – Step one: start way slower than you think you need to
4:29 – Why arousal needs a runway
5:52 – Step two: read the body and be a detective
7:35 – Step three: follow the yes
9:29 – What to do when the yes goes away
10:32 – Step four: talk about it
11:22 – Why feedback is direction, not criticism
12:36 – The question to ask: "What was your favorite part?"
14:08 – The real skill: attunement and the full feedback loopLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Why Better Sex Starts Outside the Bedroom
Let's talk about why foreplay might be the most misunderstood thing in your sex life… because the way most couples think about it is exactly backwards. In this episode I'm breaking down why foreplay doesn't …
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Let's talk about why foreplay might be the most misunderstood thing in your sex life… because the way most couples think about it is exactly backwards. In this episode I'm breaking down why foreplay doesn't start in the bedroom and what to do when your partner goes straight to penetration every single time, when the sex has gone stale and neither of you knows how to say it, when one person won't reciprocate, and when a medical situation forces you to get creative in all the best ways.
If you have ever wished your partner understood what you actually need before sex even starts, this one is for you.
ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
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Chapters:
00:00 Introduction
02:15 Foreplay Starts After the Last Orgasm
04:00 Why Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire Changes Everything
06:00 The Psychology of Arousal and What Gets You There
07:30 Call 1: He Goes Straight to Penetration Every Time
10:00 How to Tell a Sensitive Partner What You Actually Need
13:00 The Compliment Sandwich and Why It Works
15:30 Call 2: Our Sex Has Gone Stale and I Don't Know How to Fix It
18:00 What to Do When Foreplay Has Disappeared From Your Relationship
21:00 Call 3: My Partner Won't Reciprocate Foreplay
24:00 How to Ask for What You Want Without Making It a Fight
27:00 Call 4: I Have Never Had an Orgasm
30:00 Why Most People Skip the Most Important Step
33:00 Your Homework: 30 Minutes Three Times a Week
35:00 Call 5: I Can't Have Sex for 6 Weeks After My Procedure
36:00 How to Stay Sexually Connected When Penetration Is Off the Table
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What Nobody Taught You About Vaginas
Sexual communication isn’t a sign that something is wrong—it’s how sex gets better. When your partner says “slow down,” “stay right there,” or asks for something different, they aren’t rejecting you. They’re …
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Sexual communication isn’t a sign that something is wrong—it’s how sex gets better. When your partner says “slow down,” “stay right there,” or asks for something different, they aren’t rejecting you. They’re giving you the roadmap to what feels good for them right now.
In this episode, I’m talking about how to create the safety to give and receive direction during sex without anyone getting defensive, embarrassed, or shutting down. We’ll explore why learning basic anatomy is only the beginning, how bodies and desires change over time, and why staying curious is the real secret to being a great lover.
If you want more connected, responsive, and satisfying sex, this episode is for you.
ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
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Chapters:
0:00 - What Nobody Taught You About Vaginas
1:24 - The Vagina Is Not the Whole Thing — Here's Your Anatomy Refresher
3:00 - The Sex Ed We Got Was Basically Useless (And What Was Missing)
4:00 - Step 1: Learn the Map — What You're Actually Working With
5:30 - Why We've Been Treating Penetration Like the Main Event (And Why That's a Problem)
7:00 - What Actually Happens in Your Body When You Become Aroused
8:30 - Look at Your Vulva — Yes, With a Mirror. Here's Why It Matters
10:30 - We Know Our Skincare Routine Better Than Our Own Pleasure Anatomy
12:00 - Step 2: Stop Assuming — There Are No Universal Settings
13:30 - The "Starting Gun" Problem: Why Timing Is Everything
15:00 - Closing the Tabs: How to Actually Get Fully Present During Sex
16:30 - When Your Body Is Telling You Something Needs Attention — Don't Ignore It
17:30 - Step 3: Keep Talking — Stop Saving the Conversation for When It Goes Wrong
18:30 - The GPS Analogy for Sexual Communication
19:45 - What Great Lovers Actually Have in CommonLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Why You Feel Disconnected During Sex
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Let's talk about what actually gets in the way of connected, present, pleasurable sex… because it is almost never what you think it is. In this episode I'm taking live listener calls from people who are done settling for sex that feels disconnected, performative, or just plain stuck. A divorced mom of two who spends every sexual encounter watching herself from the outside instead of actually feeling anything. Someone navigating intimacy after leaving a religion that made sex feel like something to be ashamed of. A 19 year old who wants to take control in the bedroom but freezes every time. And more. If you have ever felt like you were in the room but not really there, this episode is going to give you a way back in.
ABOUT EMILY:Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
CONNECT:
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Chapters:
0:00 – Cold open: why we don't talk about sex like we talk about everything else
2:21 – Caller #1: breaking free from "spectatorship" during sex
8:33 – Caller #2: what to do when your partner won't go down on you
12:33 – Caller #3: postpartum libido and not enjoying receiving oral
17:07 – Caller #4: performance anxiety and disconnecting during sex
22:17 – Why focusing on your partner's pleasure can ease performance anxiety
25:22 – The trap of people-pleasing in relationships
27:07 – Caller #5: how to finally make the first move
29:11 – Caller #6: freezing up during a casual hookup
33:52 – Healing sexual shame with EMDR therapy
37:53 – Caller #7: learning to take control in the bedroomLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Real Difference Between Sexually Happy Couples and Everyone Else
Great sex isn’t about finding one perfect moment and trying to recreate it forever. It’s about getting curious about what made that moment feel so good in the first place. In this episode, I’m sharing how to …
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Great sex isn’t about finding one perfect moment and trying to recreate it forever. It’s about getting curious about what made that moment feel so good in the first place.
In this episode, I’m sharing how to talk with your partner about your best sexual memories without turning it into a complaint meeting. We’re exploring the questions that uncover what really turns each of you on: Was it the flirting all day? Feeling unrushed? The freedom, the anticipation, the way you looked at each other? Those details are the roadmap to creating more desire and connection now.
If your sex life feels fine but you want it to feel more alive, connected, and uniquely yours, this episode is for you.
ABOUT EMILY:Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.`
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Chapters:
00:00 Cold Open / Welcome to Sex with Emily
01:24 Is This It? The Problem With "Fine" Sex
02:33 Step 1: Notice What's Actually Happening
06:20 Step 2: Name What You Actually Want
09:47 Using Toys as Shared Discovery
10:48 Step 3: Share It (Timing Matters)
11:50 The Postpartum Story: Same Moment, Different Experience
14:04 Turn the Complaint Into a Request
16:19 Step 4: Experiment Without the Overhaul
19:53 The Reset Recap & This Week's Exercise
21:47 Closing Thought: Someone Worth DiscoveringLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Why You Don’t Want Sex Anymore
Low desire isn’t always about your relationship or something you need to “fix” inside yourself. Sometimes, feeling more connected to your sexuality begins outside the bedroom: with creativity, friendship …
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Low desire isn’t always about your relationship or something you need to “fix” inside yourself. Sometimes, feeling more connected to your sexuality begins outside the bedroom: with creativity, friendship, novelty, connection, and getting back in touch with the parts of life that make you feel alive.
In this episode, I’m talking about why libido is shaped by so much more than sex, how to get curious before diagnosing yourself, and the small ways you can spark eroticism without putting pressure on yourself or your partner. Because a better sex life might not start with another conversation, supplement, or dating app—it might start the moment you step back into the world.
If you’ve been feeling disconnected from desire, stuck in a rut, or wondering whether it’s you or your relationship, this episode is for you.
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ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
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Chapters:
00:00 Cold Open: "Get Uncomfortable"
00:17 Welcome to Sex with Emily (+ Tour Dates)
01:54 Why Connection Is the Missing Piece
03:12 The EV Charging Station Story
06:05 Your Environment Shapes You More Than You Realize
06:56 The Missing Wellness Pillar: Social Health
09:43 What This Has to Do With Sex
13:19 Your Body Knows Before Your Brain Does
15:28 The 7-Day Challenge: Increase Your Exposure to Life
16:35 Listener Q&A: Roommates, Dating Apps & Libido
24:34 Today's Message & OutroLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Five Unsexy Tips for Better Sex Every Time
Let's talk about five things that are quietly killing your sex life that have absolutely nothing to do with attraction, technique, or how much you love your partner… because after 20 years of helping people …
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Let's talk about five things that are quietly killing your sex life that have absolutely nothing to do with attraction, technique, or how much you love your partner… because after 20 years of helping people improve their sex lives, I can tell you we are way too quick to assume low desire means something is wrong with us. Sometimes the conditions around your sex life just suck. In this episode I'm giving you five very unsexy tips that can make your sex life a whole lot better, and I promise at least one of them is going to make you go, oh that's exactly us. Fair warning: number three is the one everyone rolls their eyes at. And it's the one that actually works.
ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.`
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Chapters:
00:00 Cold Open / Welcome to Sex with Emily
01:24 Maybe Your Sex Life Doesn't Need Fixing
01:48 The Five Unsexy Things Overview
02:29 Tip 1: Stop Making Sex the Last Thing on the List
05:38 Tip 2: Lube Is Not a Report Card
07:54 Tip 3: Put Possibility on the Calendar (Schedule Sex)
10:46 Tip 4: Your Sex Life Doesn't Live Outside Your Body
12:38 Where to Keep Your Lube (Plus a Product Note)
13:21 Tip 5: You Can't Go From Project Manager to Sex Goddess in 30 Seconds
16:21 Recap: Pick One Unsexy Thing to Start
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The 5 Love Languages: How to Feel More Loved & Have Better Sex
What if the reason you keep having the same fight with your partner isn't that you don't love each other, it's that you're speaking completely different love languages? You may be giving love exactly the way …
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What if the reason you keep having the same fight with your partner isn't that you don't love each other, it's that you're speaking completely different love languages? You may be giving love exactly the way you'd want to receive it, while your partner is waiting for something totally different.
In this throwback episode, I'm breaking down the five love languages, acts of service, gift giving, physical touch, quality time, and words of affirmation, and how understanding yours (and your partner's) can help you move through resentment, feel more connected, and bring more intimacy into your relationship. We also get into how each love language can show up sexually, what to do when yours don't match, and simple ways to make your partner actually feel the love you're already trying to give.
If you've ever wondered why your efforts don't seem to land, why the same relationship frustrations keep coming back, or how to create more love and better sex without overcomplicating it, this episode is for you.
ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
CONNECT WITH EMILY:
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0:00 - What If Love Languages Could Lead to Better Sex?
2:42 - The Five Love Languages Explained
5:00 - Acts of Service in and Out of the Bedroom
9:00 - Gift Giving (and the Sex Act That Falls Under It)
13:00 - Physical Touch — Emily Gets Personal
18:00 - When Your Partner Doesn't Share Your Love Language
22:00 - Quality Time: Being Together vs. Being Present
26:00 - Words of Affirmation (Yes, Dirty Talk Counts)
28:00 - When You and Your Partner Speak Different Languages
32:11 - Love Languages in Long Distance Relationships
33:23 - How to Spot Someone's Love Language Without Asking
35:18 - How Each Love Language Translates Into Sex
37:00 - Caller #1: She Accidentally Shamed His Penis
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The Ultimate Guide to Initiating Sex (Without the pressure or Weirdness)
Let's talk about why initiating sex in your relationship started feeling like a test… because somewhere along the way, that moment of reaching for your partner stopped feeling like closeness and started feeling …
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Let's talk about why initiating sex in your relationship started feeling like a test… because somewhere along the way, that moment of reaching for your partner stopped feeling like closeness and started feeling like a pass-fail question hanging in the air. Am I about to get rejected? Am I going to disappoint them? And when initiation starts to feel that way, both people stop doing it. In this episode I'm giving you five concrete steps to change the whole dynamic, starting with one reframe that makes everything else possible.
We're talking about how to read the room before you even reach for your partner, what to say instead of do you want to have sex, how to bridge the gap when one of you has been thinking about it all day and the other just got done folding laundry, and the one response to a no that either builds or destroys trust over time.
If you've ever felt guilty for saying no, talked yourself out of initiating, or noticed that the affection in your relationship quietly disappeared along with the sex, this episode is for you.
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Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
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Chapters:
00:00 When Initiation Starts to Feel Like a Test
01:20 Meet Dr. Emily & Why Initiation Trips Couples Up
02:08 The Mindset Shift: Invitation, Not Contract
02:28 Reframing Initiation as an Invitation
03:40 The Five-Step Overview
03:55 Step 1: Time the Invitation
04:26 Step 2: Make It an Invitation, Not an Audition
05:34 Step 3: Close the Desire Gap
07:18 Step 4: Ditch the Yes-or-No Trap (Try the 1-10 Scale)
08:48 Step 5: Protect the No
09:59 The Bigger Conversation to Have Outside the Bedroom
10:31 Recap: Building Safety So Desire Can Grow
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Squirting, Threesomes & the Sex Skills No One Teaches You
Let's talk about the sex skills nobody teaches you and why most people are still waiting for their partner to figure it out instead of just saying it out loud… because that's exactly what today's callers are …
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Let's talk about the sex skills nobody teaches you and why most people are still waiting for their partner to figure it out instead of just saying it out loud… because that's exactly what today's callers are done doing. In this episode I'm taking live calls from people who are done leaving their pleasure up to chance. We've got a 27 year old who wants to learn how to squirt on her own without relying on anyone to do it for her, a couple who wants to bring others into their play but can't figure out how to find the right people, and a woman whose new partner flat out refused to try to make her orgasm. I promise that last one goes somewhere really good. If you have ever felt like you were the only one carrying the weight of your own pleasure, this episode will change that.
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Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
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Chapters:
00:00 Introduction
02:19 Call 1: How Do I Learn to Squirt on My Own
04:30 Squirting vs Orgasm: Are They the Same Thing
06:30 What Actually Helps With Squirting
09:00 Teaching Yourself Before You Teach a Partner
11:30 Call 2: We Want to Open Things Up But Can't Find the Right People
14:00 How to Find Partners for Ethical Non-Monogamy
17:00 The Conversations to Have Before You Start
20:00 Call 3: He Refused to Try to Make Me Orgasm
23:00 What That Tells You About Someone Early On
26:00 Why Talking About Sex Early Saves You So Much Time
29:00 If You're Naked With Someone It's Time to Start Talking
31:00 What Sexually Healthy Actually Means
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Curious About Anal?
If anal play sounds like something you'd have to grit your teeth through, I want to change your mind about one thing first: a painful first try isn't your body's final answer. It's usually a sign something was …
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If anal play sounds like something you'd have to grit your teeth through, I want to change your mind about one thing first: a painful first try isn't your body's final answer. It's usually a sign something was rushed, unprepared, or out of your control, not proof this isn't for you.
In this episode, I'm walking through my five-step, comfort-first framework for exploring anal: getting a real yes before anything starts, setting yourself up for success, warming your whole body up first, moving in layers instead of straight to penetration, and learning to actually read your body's feedback. I'm also busting a few myths along the way, including the one that penetration is the goal at all.
Pleasure, not performance. Let's get into it.
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Chapters:
00:00 Cold Open / Welcome to Sex with Emily
01:24 Why Your First Time May Have Hurt
02:08 The Five Step Framework (Meet Dr. Emily)
02:56 Anal Isn't All or Nothing
03:44 Your Nervous System Is the Real Sex Organ
04:07 The Two Rings of Muscle, Explained
04:49 Step 1: Start With a Real Yes
05:28 The Receiving Partner Is Always in Charge
06:00 Step 2: Set Yourself Up for Success (Hygiene)
06:41 Lube, Toys, and the Pre-Talk
07:17 Step 3: Warm Up Your Whole Body
08:22 Step 4: Move in Layers, Not Pressure
09:59 Step 5: Listen to Your Body and Talk About It
10:51 Busting the Biggest Anal Myths
11:11 Recap: The Five Steps to Try Anal Comfortably
11:58 Outro & Where to Find More
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Pegging, Threesomes & the Sex Breakthroughs That Changed Everything
Let's talk about what actually happens when real people finally stop holding back in the bedroom… because the best sex education doesn't always come from experts. Sometimes it comes from a husband who spent …
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Let's talk about what actually happens when real people finally stop holding back in the bedroom… because the best sex education doesn't always come from experts. Sometimes it comes from a husband who spent months asking for something his wife wasn't sure about, or a couple whose 20 year marriage took a very unexpected turn on a dance floor in Anchorage, or a woman who spent years unable to orgasm with a partner and finally got there in the last way she ever expected.
In this episode I'm reading three real listener success stories out loud, and I promise you will learn something from every single one of them.
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Chapters:
00:00 Introduction
02:46 Story 1: The Pegging Journey
06:00 Why Receiving Changes Everything for Men
08:30 What Happened After She Said Yes
10:15 How One Conversation Transformed Their Whole Relationship
14:45 Story 2: The Threesome That Started on a Dance Floor
19:00 What Made It Work and What They Learned
22:00 Story 3: Her First Penetrative Orgasm
24:00 How She Finally Got There
25:18 What All Three Stories Have in Common
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Why YOU Don’t Want Sex With Your Husband Anymore
Let's talk about why you don't want sex with your husband anymore… and why the answer probably has nothing to do with your libido. If you've been lying next to him quietly hoping he doesn't reach for you, and …
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Let's talk about why you don't want sex with your husband anymore… and why the answer probably has nothing to do with your libido. If you've been lying next to him quietly hoping he doesn't reach for you, and then hating yourself for feeling that way, this episode is going to change the way you see what's actually happening in your body and your relationship. Because the story most women tell themselves at this moment is the wrong one entirely. I'm walking you through a four part desire check in that will help you stop asking the question that keeps you stuck and start asking the one that can actually lead you somewhere.
If desire has gone quiet in your marriage, this one is for you.
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Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
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Chapters: 00:00 Introduction 01:23 You Are Not Broken 02:24 The Four Part Desire Check In 02:53 Step 1: Is Your Body Pulling Away From Everyone or Just Him 03:51 What the Pattern Is Actually Telling You 04:26 Step 2: What Is Your Body Protecting You From 04:42 Emotional Safety and Unresolved Conflict 05:37 Burnout and the Mental Load 06:25 Unresolved Hurt and Resentment 08:12 Step 3: Rule Out Physical and Mental Health Factors 08:31 Hormones, Medications, and Your Nervous System 09:13 Step 4: Rebuild Safety Before You Rebuild Desire 09:34 Affection Without Expectation 10:56 The One Sentence to Start the Conversation 11:37 What Your Body Has Been Trying to Tell You
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Can You Love One Person and Still Want Someone Else? | Sex With Emily
Can you love one person and still want someone else? Are you and your partner actually on the same page about your relationship rules, or just assuming you are? And is porn really the problem it gets blamed …
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Can you love one person and still want someone else? Are you and your partner actually on the same page about your relationship rules, or just assuming you are? And is porn really the problem it gets blamed for? In this episode, we’re getting into the conversations couples rarely have out loud, because there’s no single “right” way to do a relationship. The goal is getting honest about your desires, your boundaries, and what you’ve actually agreed to together. If you’ve been assuming your partner agrees with you on things you’ve never actually talked about, or wondering whether porn is really the issue in your relationship, this one’s for you. #SexWithEmily #EmilyMorse #Monogamy #RelationshipAdvice #Relationships ABOUT EMILY: Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. CONNECT WITH EMILY: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily WANT MORE? Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides. Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply! This episode is sponsored by: Bellesa: EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE Rose suction toy with their order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Chapters: 00:00 Introduction 00:24 Why Non-Monogamy Is Everywhere Right Now 02:30 How Normal Is Non-Monogamy 04:15 I Crave Sex With Other Women When I Travel for Work 06:30 We've Been Together 20 Years and Want to Open Up 08:45 What to Talk About Before You Open Your Relationship 10:30 First Time Having Sex With a Woman 13:00 Go Slow, Stay Curious, Let Her Teach You 15:00 Why Do Women Get Mad When Men Watch Porn 17:30 When Porn Becomes a Relationship Problem 19:45 What Porn Really Brings Up and How to Talk About It 21:00 The Conversation You've Been Meaning to Have
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What You Got Wrong About Men & Sex in Marriage
Let's talk about the five lies about men and sex that might be quietly destroying your marriage… because most couples aren't fighting about sex. They're fighting about connection, rejection, and feeling unseen …
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Let's talk about the five lies about men and sex that might be quietly destroying your marriage… because most couples aren't fighting about sex. They're fighting about connection, rejection, and feeling unseen, and nobody ever gave them the language to say that out loud. In this episode I'm breaking down the five most harmful myths about male sexuality that I see playing out in long term relationships over and over again, from "he just wants sex" to "men don't take rejection personally." Once you see these lies for what they are, the dynamic between you can start to shift. I'm also giving you one conversation to have this week that can completely change how you and your partner understand each other. And the best part? You don't have to do a single thing you don't want to do to get there.
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Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
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Chapters:
00:00 Introduction
01:21 Lie 1: His Whole Agenda Is Sex
02:45 Lie 2: Men Don't Need Emotional Intimacy
04:10 Lie 3: Men Are Always Ready for Sex
05:20 Lie 4: Sex Is Just Physical for Men
06:15 Lie 5: Men Don't Take Rejection Personally
07:45 The Cycle Nobody Talks About
08:30 Two Different Languages of Connection
09:00 Try This: Notice How He Reaches for Connection
10:05 Responsive Desire Explained
12:00 The One Conversation to Have This Week
13:30 Questions to Ask Each Other
14:30 What Couples Are Really Fighting About
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The Sex Questions Everyone Is Secretly Asking | Sex With Emily
Chicago and Philadelphia showed up big for the Best Sex Ever tour, and I couldn't get to every question live. So here's the rest. We're getting into the real first move before opening up a marriage, what …
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Chicago and Philadelphia showed up big for the Best Sex Ever tour, and I couldn't get to every question live. So here's the rest.
We're getting into the real first move before opening up a marriage, what alcohol actually does to your libido, and why your body tightening up mid-sex is information, not a red flag. Plus how to ask for foreplay in a way that actually lands, the cuddle trap where touch always seems to lead to sex whether you want it to or not, and a low-pressure way into kink and BDSM if you're curious but nervous.
Save sex with me, one city at a time.
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ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
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Chapters:
00:00 Tour promo + coming up preview
00:54 Welcome back + tour recap
03:15 Opening up a marriage: where to start
07:38 Alcohol as an aphrodisiac
10:08 When your body tightens up during sex
12:18 Cuddling without it leading to sex
14:10 Building confidence to approach someone
16:57 How to actually ask for foreplay
19:17 Perineum & prostate pleasure explained
21:17 Getting into kink & BDSM safely
24:04 Closing + Nashville tour date
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The Wisdom of Saying YES to Intimacy in Your Relationship | Sex With Emily
Let's talk about what actually happens when desire disappears in a long term relationship… because most people assume their libido is just gone, or something is broken in their relationship, when the truth is …
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Let's talk about what actually happens when desire disappears in a long term relationship… because most people assume their libido is just gone, or something is broken in their relationship, when the truth is usually something completely different. In this episode I'm breaking down how desire actually works, why spontaneous desire is mostly a myth for couples past the honeymoon phase, and the one simple 20 minute practice you can try this week to start feeling connected again without forcing anything. I'm also getting into the difference between duty sex and responsive desire, because those are not the same thing and confusing them is making a lot of people miserable. If you've ever thought something is wrong with you because you don't want sex the way you used to, this episode is for you.
Spoiler: nothing is wrong with you. Your desire just works differently now.
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ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
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Chapters:
00:00 Intro
01:06 The Honeymoon Phase & Why It Naturally Fades
02:09 Desire Isn't Gone — It's Changed Shape
03:35 Who This Episode Is For (And Who It's Not For)
04:47 Duty Sex vs. Responsive Desire
06:07 Reading Your Body's Real "Yes"
06:49 How Couples Quietly Drift Into "Roommates"
07:46 What the Research Says About Sex & Satisfaction
10:32 Desire Isn't a Light Switch (The Date Night Example)
12:12 Why Responsive Desire Isn't "Lesser" Desire
12:53 What's Actually Blocking Your Desire
15:15 The 20-Minute No-Sex Connection Challenge
16:16 The Makeout Challenge & Closing Thoughts
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The Sex Advice I Got Wrong After 20 Years | Sex With Emily
For 20 years, people have asked me the same questions: what's the best position, how do I get better oral sex, is anal sex supposed to hurt. And honestly? I still love answering those. But after two decades of …
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For 20 years, people have asked me the same questions: what's the best position, how do I get better oral sex, is anal sex supposed to hurt. And honestly? I still love answering those. But after two decades of doing this podcast, I've realized something. People rarely come to me with the real problem. Underneath the sex question, there's almost always shame, rejection, resentment, or the big one: "am I normal?"
In this episode, I'm doing something I've never done before going back through 20 years of advice and telling you what I'd change. I'm a Doctor of Human Sexuality and I've talked to millions of people about their sex lives, and here's what I know now that I didn't then: "just communicate" isn't enough, "spice it up" doesn't fix resentment, spontaneous desire is mostly a myth for people in long-term relationships, and sleep and stress matter more than any toy in your nightstand. I'm breaking down the five pillars of sexual intelligence, why I think we're all obsessed with the wrong metrics, and what actually predicts great sex (hint: it's not technique). If you've ever wondered whether you're normal, this one's for you. You are.
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ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
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Chapters:
00:00 Intro
00:50 20 years of sex advice, updated
03:03 What's really underneath people's sex questions
05:46 Why "just communicate" isn't enough
07:18 "Spice it up" won't fix resentment
08:03 Rethinking "schedule sex"
08:18 Spontaneous desire vs. responsive desire
11:04 Sleep, stress, and your libido
14:16 You are not broken
14:58 The permission problem
15:38 Why perfect sex doesn't exist
20:01 Mastering yourself, not just technique
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Why People Cheat Even In Happy Relationships | Sex With Emily
Let's talk about where the line actually is when it comes to cheating… because most couples never have this conversation until it's too late. In this episode I'm sitting down with licensed holistic psychologist …
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Let's talk about where the line actually is when it comes to cheating… because most couples never have this conversation until it's too late. In this episode I'm sitting down with licensed holistic psychologist and trauma expert Scott Lyons to unpack what cheating really means in the digital age, from liking thirst traps and DMing an ex at 2am to full on affairs and everything in between. I'm also sharing something I've never talked about publicly: I'm a reformed cheater, and I'm getting honest about what was really going on underneath that.
Whether you've been cheated on, done the cheating, or just want to get ahead of it before it becomes a problem in your relationship, this episode gives you the real talk, the research, and the tools to define your boundaries, rebuild trust, and have the conversation most couples are too scared to start.
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Chapters:
0:00 - Intro
2:51 - Why Couples Who Never Define Cheating Are Setting Themselves Up
5:17 - Physical, Emotional, Digital: The Different Ways People Cross the Line
9:05 - What Open Relationships Get Right That Monogamous Couples Almost Never Do
10:37 - Roleplaying the Conversation Every Couple Should Actually Have
13:20 - Is Fantasizing About Someone Else Cheating? The Neuroscience Answer
15:36 - When Your Partner Is Having Sex With You While Thinking About Your Friend
17:48 - What to Do When a Full Affair Has Actually Happened
26:00 - The Role of Jealousy — And How to Use It as Information Instead of Destruction
31:00 - Tech, Location Sharing and the Digital Behaviors That Blur the Line
37:40 - The Steps to Actually Repairing After Betrayal
39:55 - Why Sharing Passwords and Location Does Not Rebuild Trust
41:45 - Emily and Scott Get Personal: Their Own Experiences Being Cheated On
43:10 - The Dopamine Loop That Keeps You Stuck After Infidelity
44:38 - What Rebuilding Actually Looks Like — and What It Doesn't
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