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Raising Conscious Kids Through Connection, Not Control with Dr. Shefali

September 9, 2026 · 1 h

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**🌱 Inspired by this conversation? Join us this Sunday, September 13 at Agape as Michael, Dr. Shefali, and special guests continue the dialogue on Raising Conscious Children in The Digital Era. Reserve your seat: https://donate.agapelive.com/an-afternoon-with-dr-shefali ***

What if the real work of parenting isn't raising perfect children, but allowing our children to awaken the parts of us still waiting to heal?

Today, Michael welcomes Dr. Shefali, a New York Times bestselling author, clinical psychologist, and founder of the Conscious Parenting movement, widely known as Oprah's Favorite Parenting Expert. Trained at Columbia University, she integrates Western psychology and Eastern philosophy to help parents and individuals break free from unconscious patterns and live with greater presence, authenticity, and connection. Her newest books, Raising Conscious Daughters and Raising Conscious Sons, offer a timely blueprint for raising emotionally grounded, resilient children in today's anxious world.

Note: This episode contains some explicit language.

Conversation Highlights include:

-Why parents don't need to chase perfection, and how guilt can become another form of self-focus that keeps us from true growth.

-How children reveal the unconscious patterns, wounds, and reactions that adults may never see until parenting brings them to the surface.

-The difference between raising children through control and raising them through connection, presence, emotional safety, and inner work.

-Why today's digital world has created new pressures for children, from social media comparison to online isolation, beauty pressure, gaming, and distorted ideas of masculinity.

-How parents still have power in the middle of technological overwhelm by choosing healing, presence, and conscious engagement instead of outsourcing their influence.

-Why boys need movement, purpose, physical expression, and healthy initiation into their energy rather than being forced into silence or disconnection.

-How girls need space to practice their voice, self-trust, authenticity, and strength before taking that confidence into the wider world.

Michael then closes the episode with a guided meditation on beginning again, receiving the blessing already present, and anchoring Heaven on Earth through intention, gratitude, and inner stillness.

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Explore Dr. Shefali's current book tour dates in other cities, her courses, podcast, and offerings here: https://www.drshefali.com/ and follow her across social media.

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