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How to compare (featuring Neil Bage)

July 31, 2025 · 38 min

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In the fourth episode of the Money:Mindshift podcast, host Dr. Tom Mathar delves into the challenges of comparison and the emotional rollercoaster it can trigger. Joined by behavioural expert, Neil Bage, the duo explores the intricacies of envy, social media's impact and the importance of focusing on personal values over superficial success. Discover how to redefine your benchmarks of success and embrace a fulfilling life that prioritises living well, over being well-off. Tune in to shift your perspective and unlock how to live a happier, more contented life.

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The podcast host – Dr. Tom

Dr. Thomas Mathar (or Dr. Tom) is not only an author, podcast host, and speaker on all things financial wellbeing – he’s also an expert in financial psychology, behavioural science, and longevity education.

Dr. Tom has a unique drive to help you live a happy, long and rich life. You can pick up positive new habits on the Money:Mindshift podcast, or check out Dr. Tom's new book: ‘Your Path to Prosperity: How to fund a happy and long life.

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And thank you to our guest Neil Bage

Neil Bage is a respected expert in financial psychology and behavioural science, and is a co-founder of Shaping Wealth.

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