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The Trouble With Men

October 8, 2026 · 33 min

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A strange invitation to a castle sends Jon Ronson into a much bigger mystery: What happens when men lose their sense of purpose—and the internet offers to supply a new one? In The Castle: Adventures in a World of Unraveling Men, he explores a world of algorithms, AI flattery, and bewildering ideas about masculinity. Connor Beaton approaches the same struggle from the inside in Men’s Work: A Practical Guide to Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, and Find Freedom, examining why withdrawing can deepen the problems men hope to escape, and what meaningful connection and a sense of capability might offer instead. Two perspectives on finding a way out of isolation—and back into life.⁠⁠⁠⁠

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