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Episode 44: Making Progress on Choosing Our Hard

October 7, 2026 · 55 min

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There’s no version of life without hard—so which hard is actually worth it?

This week, we unpack the psychology behind “Choose Your Hard.” We talk about the difference between productive discomfort and the kind of hard that just keeps collecting interest, why avoiding a decision is still making one, and how choosing discomfort in service of your values can restore your sense of agency and even change the way your brain experiences stress.

Because the goal isn’t to build a life where nothing is hard. It’s to build a life where the hard things you’re carrying are actually worth carrying. Plus: Taylor Swift, the Cornell 7, road-trip chaos and a present exchange.

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