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How to Quit Drinking as a Mom

September 5, 2026 · 56 min

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Six years ago, Payal looked in the mirror the morning after a blackout and finally had enough of herself. She's back on Where Are They Now to talk about how to quit drinking as a mom when mommy wine culture makes it feel normal, and what six years actually built: a dad and two sisters who gave up alcohol right along with her, and two boys who have never once seen their mom drunk. 

Payal and Coach Hayley discuss:

  • Growing up believing a drink was the only way to build real confidence, and what she knows now that she didn't then

  • The four-pack of small wine bottles hidden at the bottom of the trash, and the mommy wine culture that made it feel normal

  • Why she could never just have one, and the single therapist conversation that finally connected the dots

  • What it actually looks like to quit drinking as a mom when your spouse still drinks

  • Learning how to have fun without alcohol again, after believing for years it wasn't possible

  • And more on the "playing the tape forward" trick she still uses today, and finding your own path to alcohol freedom…

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Coach Hayley Scherders is a certified TNM Coach trained through the Canadian Addiction and Mental Health Association. Learn more about Coach Hayley: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/hayley-scherders/ 

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Related episodes:

Partying and Parenthood | Naked Life Story | EP 461 - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-461-naked-life-story-payal/

What If My Marriage Is Dependent On Alcohol? | Reader Question | EP 222 - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-222-reader-question-what-if-my-marriage-is-dependent-on-alcohol/

Shifting Mindset for Lasting Change | Alcohol Freedom Coaching | E783 - https://thisnakedmind.com/shifting-beliefs-changing-habits-alcohol-freedom-coaching-e783/ 

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