Navigating Mental Health Without Pseudoscience or Spiritual Bypassing | Dr. Alison Cook (Ep. 22)
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In today’s episode, I’m joined by Dr. Alison Cook, an Enneagram Three. We talk about why quick-fix solutions and spiritual bypassing can keep us from genuine healing, and how learning to honor difficult emotions can lead to greater emotional health. She also shares her practical framework of naming, framing, and braving our emotions so we can face hard situations with greater wisdom and courage.
Dr. Alison is a therapist and host of the top-ranked The Best of You podcast. She’s the bestselling author of I Shouldn’t Feel This Way and The Best of You, and co-author of Boundaries for Your Soul, which brings the popular Internal Family Systems model of therapy into a Christian framework. Widely recognized for her work at the intersection of faith and psychology, Dr. Alison helps people heal from past wounds, develop a strong sense of self, and build healthier relationships.
You can learn more about Dr. Alison Cook and get access to all her resources at https://www.dralisoncook.com/
0:00 Audio Intro
0:20 Welcome
2:11 Alison Cook's Enneagram Journey
6:31 The Enneagram & Internal Family Systems
9:01 The Problem with Quick Fixes
12:55 Name, Frame & Brave Your Emotions
22:02 What Is Spiritual Bypassing?
26:51 Honoring Difficult Emotions
28:56 Faith, Fear & Avoiding Pain
33:33 When Love Can't Fix Someone
37:35 Healing Takes Time
40:19 Resources from Alison Cook
43:01 Final Thoughts
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