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He Slept With Someone Else Before We Were Official: Is That Cheating?

November 11, 2026 · 1 h 42 min

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Happy Anniversary to U Up? and J&J! It’s officially 9 years of taping the podcast! They are going back in time and revisiting some of their earliest dating advice from 2017. Will they agree with their former selves? They revisit questions like whether calling your parents every night is a red flag, dating someone who has never said “I love you,” getting caught in a messy relationship beginning, and how many drinks are too many on a first date. They revisit 9 listener questions and see how their answers have changed! They also talk about how late is too late to arrive to a date, performance anxiety, inspirational IG quotes, and if a man who cries in public is actually hubby material.

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