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5 Things I’ve Completely Changed My Mind About

July 29, 2026 · 40 min

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Some of the beliefs I held most strongly a few years ago… I don’t believe anymore.

In this episode, I’m sharing five things I’ve completely changed my mind about, from what confidence looks like as a Black woman, to friendships, family relationships, my accounting journey, and the need to be well-liked.

We talk about how my perspective on natural hair has evolved, why I no longer measure my worth by the number of friendships I have, how I’ve learned to approach difficult family relationships with more grace than retaliation, and why I’m finally grateful for the accounting career I once saw as a detour.

I also share one of the biggest lessons I’ve learned as a creator: being authentic and living with integrity doesn’t guarantee that everyone will like you, and that’s okay.

If you’ve ever looked back and realized you’ve outgrown an opinion you once defended, this conversation is for you.

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