Skip to content

Mistaking Judgment for Insight with Mark Nicolson

November 13, 2026 · 41 min

Show notes

Mark Nicolson has been an executive coach for 35 years. He joins Cecily Mak to reframe the inner critic and self-judgment as a “dimmer.” He believes that judgment is a way we flatten feelings instead of staying present. Trained at Oxford and Stanford and with formal MAPS training and a doctorate in clinical psychology, Mark has helped people prepare for and integrate after more than 300 legal psychedelic sessions.

In this episode Mark explores self-criticism, upper limiting (a concept from Gay Hendricks’ book The Big Leap), high sensitivity, grief and compassion, and how psychedelics support recovery and lasting change. Anchored in the Sixth Awareness of the Eight Awarenesses, Respect: I don’t judge or impose my limitations on others, this conversation is for anyone working on presence, emotional growth, and letting others walk their own path. Mark regularly leads dynamic interactive workshops at Esalen called Designing the Life We Want.

Mark's website, LinkedIn

Mark featured in Rolling Stone, "Inside the New Psychedelic Awakening"

Mark's Eselen Workshop

The Big Leap: Conquer Your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the Next Level—A Transformative Guide to Overcoming Fears and False Beliefs for Personal Growth and Success

Please remember to rate, subscribe, review, and share the Undimmed podcast to help this content reach more humans in need of support or inspiration. You can also follow Cecily's @undimmedjourney on Instagram, subscribe to her Substack, or learn more via her website.

Credits:

Host: Cecily Mak
Producer: Joanne Elgart Jennings
Composer & Sound Alchemist: Laura Inserra
Editor: Kai Heartlife
Social Media & Marketing: Megan Belden



All episodes of Undimmed with Cecily Mak

Settings

Display

Language

Decides which stations you see first on the home page.

History

Recently played stations and episodes and your latest searches are only stored in this browser.

Notifications

A short notice when a podcast you follow has a new episode. Turn off single podcasts with the bell on their page.

Account

Save favorites – in the app and on the website.

Keyboard shortcuts

/
Open search
Space
Play or pause
← →
In the player: back 15 s, forward 30 s (episodes) · in a row: next tile
↑ ↓
In a row: target within the tile
Home / End
In a row: first or last tile
Esc
Close window or menu
?
This overview
Now playing

Go to station page

Play next

    Add episodes with “Play next” – they play after the current episode.