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IS A DM CONSIDERED CHEATING?!

November 5, 2026 · 1 h 9 min

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 It wouldn’t officially be November without a new advice column! This week, Jaci and Chelsey are helping a listener whose husband saw a woman on the street, thought she was the most beautiful woman in the world, and DMed her just to confirm it, plus someone struggling to find the right mental health diagnosis and a first time mom in the depths of the newborn phase. There’s plenty more advice where that came from, so grab a cozy drink and let the girls talk you through it.


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