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How to Date Without Desperation

February 19, 2026 · 31 min

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In this episode of the You Will Be OK Podcast, I talk about how to date without desperation — and why self-worth is the real key to attracting healthy love. I break down the difference between wanting a relationship and needing one, how comparison and envy sabotage your confidence, and why high standards should be rooted in values — not fear or avoidance. We also talk about pacing in early dating, emotional safety, ghosting, disappointment, and how to stop overinvesting too quickly. If you struggle with anxious attachment, overthinking, or feeling behind in your love life, this episode will help you shift from chasing validation to building a life that feels full — so love becomes an addition, not a rescue. Join my inner circle - Sabrina's Inner Circle

Book: Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible Learn more here: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me: Instagram: @sabrinabendory @youwillbeokpodcast Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice

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