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I'm Lucy Huxley, I'm a whore, and I'm bringing you into my bedroom - an intimate space that my clients never get to see. I've been working in various jobs in the sex industry for almost 8 years - from stripping, to camming, to porn performing, to escorting. This podcast is a place for me to share everything from my experiences, both past and present, completely unfiltered. These are the stories and viewpoints you've always wondered about but never got to hear. Follow me on socials: instagram.com/lucyhuxleyx twitter.com/lucyhuxleyxxx tiktok.com/@lucyhuxleyxxx
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40. Ten years of escorting, client kinks, and industry safety with Nikki D
Today I am joined by my friend Nikki D, an escort in London. We chat about the sex worker's collective she's a part of (Kinky London Escorts), why she chooses to hide her face online, her favorite kinks, and …
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Today I am joined by my friend Nikki D, an escort in London. We chat about the sex worker's collective she's a part of (Kinky London Escorts), why she chooses to hide her face online, her favorite kinks, and lessons from a decade in the industry.
Follow Nikki:
https://www.instagram.com/nikkidlondon_/
https://twitter.com/NikkiDLondon
Listen to the KLE podcast:
https://open.spotify.com/show/0T8kpGOrVCwTUx5jAuTxZM?si=b8f0d53ea5904075
39. Why men treat escorts better than their wives & the neuroscience of sex - with Elise Kennedy
Why do men bond differently than women do in intimate relationships? What makes cheating so thrilling? How can you hack casual sex to keep it casual? And what hormones are making all of this happen? Elise …
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Why do men bond differently than women do in intimate relationships? What makes cheating so thrilling? How can you hack casual sex to keep it casual? And what hormones are making all of this happen? Elise Kennedy, a London based sex worker, sat down with me to decode all of this and more.
Get 50% off Beducated: https://beducate.me/lucy
Elise's article about the neuroscience of love: https://nineseedyelk.substack.com/p/the-neuroscience-of-love
Follow Elise on Substack: https://substack.com/@nineseedyelk
Follow Elise on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elisekennedyuk/
38. Giving you advice about sex, relationships, and dating
You asked me for advice - I answered. The Whore's Bedroom episode 38!Try CHEEX for free for 7 days: https://bit.ly/HUX7CHEEXMy code is: HUX7It's valid with the annual subscription as a new user - you can cancel …
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You asked me for advice - I answered. The Whore's Bedroom episode 38!
Try CHEEX for free for 7 days: https://bit.ly/HUX7CHEEX
My code is: HUX7
It's valid with the annual subscription as a new user - you can cancel at any time during the trial period!
CHEEX is a platform I love to recommend for fairly produced porn, erotic audios, and a "Pleasure Academy" with real sex education. Real bodies and genuine desire, without shame and with a passion for breaking taboos. Thank you to CHEEX for being the sponsor of this episode!
Let me know in the comments if you are interested in hearing more advice from me - this was such a fun episode to record.
37. I'm single and I'm gay
I guess this is my coming out episode? I've got a lot to update you guys on.
36. Experiencing a Male Escort for the first time with Rhys Phillips
I met Rhys Phillips in London to dive into his work: being a male escort who services women and couples. Our jobs are technically the same, but there are so many interesting differences that I was so excited to …
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I met Rhys Phillips in London to dive into his work: being a male escort who services women and couples. Our jobs are technically the same, but there are so many interesting differences that I was so excited to ask him about. I absolutely loved this conversation and hope you guys do too!
Follow Rhys on socials:https://www.instagram.com/rhysensual/https://www.tiktok.com/@rhyssential
35. How to Become an Escort 101
You have been asking me - how do I become an escort? What tips do you have for beginners in the industry? I'm finally answering that, and giving my advice for anyone who is interested in entering the world of …
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You have been asking me - how do I become an escort? What tips do you have for beginners in the industry? I'm finally answering that, and giving my advice for anyone who is interested in entering the world of full service sex work. This advice will also be helpful for those who are already established in the industry in other locations, but are looking for logistical information about specifically working in Europe.
To be clear, this episode is NOT a comprehensive guide that tells you everything you need to know about escorting successfully and safely. This is meant to be a starting point, and it is meant to encourage you to do your own research. Safety information specifically varies so much depending on your location - I touch briefly on safety in this work, but it is imperative that you do your own research and have multiple ways to keep yourself safe while working.
Elise's article that I read out: https://open.substack.com/pub/nineseedyelk/p/agony-elise-how-do-i-become-a-sex
Elise's article on boundaries, do give this one a read: https://open.substack.com/pub/nineseedyelk/p/companionship-the-question-of-endurance
If you are located in Berlin, Hydra is a fantastic resource that offers information, counseling, and even specific open office hours for information on how to start escorting in Berlin: https://www.hydra-berlin.de/
34. Two years of being a whore has made me change my mind on some things...
It's been a while since I sat down alone to share my opinions - and those opinions have changed. I'm taking back what I said in some of my previous episodes, and sharing some new things I've learned. Let's talk …
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It's been a while since I sat down alone to share my opinions - and those opinions have changed. I'm taking back what I said in some of my previous episodes, and sharing some new things I've learned. Let's talk about spirituality, dating, and north american vs european men when they cheat.
33. Disabled men need escorts - with Sonia von Sacher
Disabled men are rarely able to get their sexual needs filled. That's where Sonia comes in - she not only offers specific services as an escort to accommodate disabled clients, but also gives them a discount …
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Disabled men are rarely able to get their sexual needs filled. That's where Sonia comes in - she not only offers specific services as an escort to accommodate disabled clients, but also gives them a discount. They make up much of her clientele, and have shaped her outlook on both work and life. We chatted about her experiences in sex work - not just with disabled clients, but with pro submission, 6 week trips with clients, her female clientele and so much more.
Follow Sonia on socials:
https://www.instagram.com/sonia.von.sacher
https://www.tiktok.com/@sonia.von.sacher
32. How the FIFA world cup will harm sex workers in Vancouver and beyond with SWAN Vancouver
As one of the host cities for the FIFA world cup, Vancouver is already prepping for the alleged sex trafficking that comes with the event. But there's a catch - there is absolutely no proof to back up the claim …
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As one of the host cities for the FIFA world cup, Vancouver is already prepping for the alleged sex trafficking that comes with the event. But there's a catch - there is absolutely no proof to back up the claim that such sporting events cause an increase in sex trafficking, nor even an increase in demand for consensual sex work. Crystal from SWAN Vancouver joined me to discuss the tangible negative effects these trafficking myths have on sex workers, as well as current political changes in Vancouver that are making vulnerable worker's situations more dire than ever.
SWAN is a non-profit organization that promotes the rights, health, and safety of im/migrant women engaged in indoor sex work through frontline service and systemic advocacy. They offer low-barrier, culturally-specialized, and non-stigmatizing services through both inreach and outreach programs.
Donate to SWAN:https://swanvancouver.ca/donate/
Follow SWAN on IG:https://www.instagram.com/swan_vancouver/
Volunteer in Vancouver to help SWAN organizer safer sex supplies:https://swanvancouver.ca/volunteer/
31. The (actual) sex work situation in Germany - with Anne Bonny
Germany has been called "the brothel of Europe" due to it's thriving sex trade and relatively lax laws. But are those laws really all that lax? Anne Bonny, an activist and member of Hydra e.V. joined me to …
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Germany has been called "the brothel of Europe" due to it's thriving sex trade and relatively lax laws. But are those laws really all that lax? Anne Bonny, an activist and member of Hydra e.V. joined me to discuss the current and future realities of sex workers in Germany. We discussed the current "Prostitution Protection Act", the push to bring the Nordic Model to Germany, and the laws that sex workers in Germany want for themselves.
Donate to Hydra: https://www.hydra-berlin.de/en/donations
Learn more about Hydra: https://www.hydra-berlin.de/en/
Follow Anne: https://www.instagram.com/anne.bonny.berlin
30. Racism in sex work with Mistress Vera
Mistress Vera Von F is no stranger to racism in the sex industry, and she joined me in London to discuss both her own experiences as well as pervasive racism throughout the industry. We dove into race play …
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Mistress Vera Von F is no stranger to racism in the sex industry, and she joined me in London to discuss both her own experiences as well as pervasive racism throughout the industry. We dove into race play, online harassment, beauty standards, and how sexual desires reflect subconscious prejudices. Follow Mistress Vera:https://www.instagram.com/von.floozy/
29. Lenina Crowne on why she loves plastic surgery and how she became good at sex
Lenina Crowne, a high class companion in London, joined me while I visited her city to discuss social media visibility as a sex worker, how plastic surgery has affected her life, how autism makes her a better …
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Lenina Crowne, a high class companion in London, joined me while I visited her city to discuss social media visibility as a sex worker, how plastic surgery has affected her life, how autism makes her a better escort, and how we feel about OnlyFans vs escorting.Follow Lenina on socials:https://www.instagram.com/leninacrownex/https://x.com/RequiemLenina
28. Whorebaiting, the female gaze, and working through a recession with Edie Montana
What is whorebaiting? Why do people pretend to be sex workers when they're not? Edie and I discussed this, along with the "female gaze" in sex work, working through recessions, my criticisms of Kayla Jade, and …
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What is whorebaiting? Why do people pretend to be sex workers when they're not? Edie and I discussed this, along with the "female gaze" in sex work, working through recessions, my criticisms of Kayla Jade, and starting a business as a sex worker.Edie Montana is a stripper, performer, show director, and writer. She is the co-founder and director of Slut Riot, a growing platform that combines art and activism, aimed at de-stigmatising sex work through performances and art. Born and raised in the Italian countryside, she completed a master’s in Cultural Studies in New Zealand with her thesis on sex work representation, and now lives in Berlin. Her writing has been published in The New York Times and Huffpost, among other publications.Follow Edie on Socials:https://www.instagram.com/edie.montana/Check out Slut Riot:https://www.instagram.com/slvtriothttps://linktr.ee/slvtriot
27. What it takes to run a queer indie porn company with Mahx Capacity of Aorta Films
Mahx Capacity joined me to discuss being a porn doula, keeping an indie queer porn company financially afloat, consent on porn sets, creators as a non-renewable resource, and finding community in the queer porn …
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Mahx Capacity joined me to discuss being a porn doula, keeping an indie queer porn company financially afloat, consent on porn sets, creators as a non-renewable resource, and finding community in the queer porn world.
Mahx Capacity is a Brooklyn based performance maker, entrepreneur and postmodern pornographer. They are the co-founder and creative director of Aorta Films as well as a performer and consultant.
Check out Aorta Films:
https://www.instagram.com/aorta_studio
https://bsky.app/profile/aortafilms.bsky.social
https://x.com/aorta_films
Follow Mahx:
https://www.instagram.com/mahxcapacity666
26. Queer Porn Icon Jiz Lee on sex trends, falling in love on set, and queer porn archives
Trailblazer of queer porn Jiz Lee joined me on the pod to discuss their favorite sex trends, burnout in art vs porn, how the porn landscape has change for creators, fears surrounding AI in porn, and their …
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Trailblazer of queer porn Jiz Lee joined me on the pod to discuss their favorite sex trends, burnout in art vs porn, how the porn landscape has change for creators, fears surrounding AI in porn, and their advice for queer people who want to enter the industry.
Find more of Jiz:
https://www.instagram.com/jizlee/
https://bsky.app/profile/jizlee.bsky.social
Buy their book, "Coming Out Like a Porn Star"
https://jizlee.bigcartel.com/
25. Dungeon owner Miss May on why she loves being so mean to her subs
Professional mean girl Miss May joined me in London for a chat about her passion for pissing on people, the dream BDSM furniture she wants to add to her dungeon, dealing with the comedown from sessions, and …
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Professional mean girl Miss May joined me in London for a chat about her passion for pissing on people, the dream BDSM furniture she wants to add to her dungeon, dealing with the comedown from sessions, and male vs female subs.
Miss May is a professional dominatrix and dungeon owner based between London and Berlin.
Follow Miss May on socials:
https://www.instagram.com/missmayberlin/
https://x.com/missmayberlin
https://www.tiktok.com/@worshipmissmay
24. Belonging on Social Media with Dr. Carolina Are
Dr. Carolina Are joined me to discuss her research on social media censorship, sex work in academia, how AI impacts influencers, shadowbanning, and of course, Taylor Swift.Carolina is a pole dancing academic …
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Dr. Carolina Are joined me to discuss her research on social media censorship, sex work in academia, how AI impacts influencers, shadowbanning, and of course, Taylor Swift.Carolina is a pole dancing academic, blogger, author, speaker, pole dance instructor and performer, and activist. She published some of the first ever studies on shadowbanning, and is currently a digital criminologist at the London School of Economics and Political Science. Follow Carolina on socials:https://www.instagram.com/bloggeronpole/https://bsky.app/profile/bloggeronpole.bsky.socialhttps://www.tiktok.com/@bloggeronpole
23. Eva Oh on women in power, the lust of greed, and keeping men in her personal prison
Eva Oh joined me in London for a titillating conversation on her life as a dominatrix, hesitance in dating, the meaning she finds in mentoring, and what's wrong with men.Eva Oh is an award winning dominatrix …
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Eva Oh joined me in London for a titillating conversation on her life as a dominatrix, hesitance in dating, the meaning she finds in mentoring, and what's wrong with men.
Eva Oh is an award winning dominatrix, advocate, mentor, and podcast host, who has been wielding her power as a sex worker since 2011 to be come one of the most famous dominatrixes in the world.
Follow Eva on socials:
https://www.instagram.com/youwillplease_me/
https://x.com/youwillpleaseME
https://www.tiktok.com/@youwillpleaseme
I'm Back!
A quick little update to let you know where I've been, and tell you about upcoming episodes!
22. Your burning questions
What was my favorite booking? What do I think about Lily Phillips and Bonnie Blue? What are my go-to icebreakers with clients? I'm answering these questions and many more!Some other sex workers on TikTok you …
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What was my favorite booking? What do I think about Lily Phillips and Bonnie Blue? What are my go-to icebreakers with clients? I'm answering these questions and many more!
Some other sex workers on TikTok you should follow, as mentioned in the episode:
https://www.tiktok.com/@juicypomma4.0
https://www.tiktok.com/@shakingsheets
https://www.tiktok.com/@pursenuggets5.0
https://www.tiktok.com/@inaralorde
https://www.tiktok.com/@jadeblairxox
https://www.tiktok.com/@tigressthe304.personal
21. One year of being a whore - lessons and reflections
It's officially been one year since I started escorting full time! Today I'm diving into all the lessons I've learned, and my personal reflections on this year for me.
20. The truth about dating
A bit of a different topic today, but one I'm incredibly passionate about - my opinions on dating men, as a straight cis woman. This is purely about dating in personal life (not about my clients), and it's such …
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A bit of a different topic today, but one I'm incredibly passionate about - my opinions on dating men, as a straight cis woman. This is purely about dating in personal life (not about my clients), and it's such an important facet of many women's lives.
This isn't a comprehensive totality of my views - I would have to talk for a few hours to get everything out! I'd love to hear your opinion in the comments and start a conversation.
TikTok accounts mentioned:
https://www.tiktok.com/@texasgardenfairy
https://www.tiktok.com/@the_yv_edit
https://www.tiktok.com/@observationswithmyeyes
(tip: if you don't have the TikTok app, you can watch all videos without having to download it or log in by viewing the links on desktop!)
Books mentioned:
Why Men Love Bitches, Sherry Argov
Calling in The One, Katherine Woodward Thomas
19. Living in Berlin - my experiences
I've been living in Berlin for almost a decade (!) and often get asked online what it's like to live here - so here's a deep dive! I talk about the pros and cons from my personal perspective (warning: there's a …
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I've been living in Berlin for almost a decade (!) and often get asked online what it's like to live here - so here's a deep dive! I talk about the pros and cons from my personal perspective (warning: there's a lot of cons) as well has how much the city has changed since I moved here.
18. Porn Historian Noelle Perdue on banning porn, AI, and the future of content
Today's conversation is full of not just juicy bits about porn, but important lessons for anyone who is even slightly interested in the industry. We discuss what a porn ban would actually look like, how AI …
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Today's conversation is full of not just juicy bits about porn, but important lessons for anyone who is even slightly interested in the industry. We discuss what a porn ban would actually look like, how AI effect the adult industry, the role of porn in sex education, and how porn is used as a political pawn.
Noelle Perdue is a writer, producer and porn historian with nearly 10 years of experience working platform side for multiple mainstream and independent adult industry companies. Having written everything from Food Network porn parodies to legally binding terms and conditions, much of her current work explores the blurry borders of obscenity and how pornography's history can influence our digital and political futures.
Follow Noelle on socials:
https://www.instagram.com/all_day_breakfast_/
17. Veteran Stripper Chiqui Love on gold diggers, dating vs escorting, and 20 years in the industry
Chiqui Love joins me for a lively discussion on her decades of experience as a stripper, how sex work has changed her approach to both dating and feminism, and how the industry has changed since she got her …
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Chiqui Love joins me for a lively discussion on her decades of experience as a stripper, how sex work has changed her approach to both dating and feminism, and how the industry has changed since she got her start in London in the early 2000’s.
Chiqui Love is a stripper, burlesque, and cabaret artist and all round erotic entertainer. With over 22 years’ experience in the industry, she combines different elements of performance into her own unique style, and is also a sex worker rights advocate. She was the founding member of not one, but two stripper’s collectives, one in London and one in Berlin.
Follow Chicqui on socials:
https://www.instagram.com/chiquilovelovelove/
16. Dominatrix Madame L'affaire on classism in sex work and her love for BDSM
Madame Ava L'affaire joins me for a discussion on all things BDSM and sex work. We talk about her past experiences as an escort, her passion for being a dominatrix, experiencing class discrepancies as a sex …
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Madame Ava L'affaire joins me for a discussion on all things BDSM and sex work. We talk about her past experiences as an escort, her passion for being a dominatrix, experiencing class discrepancies as a sex worker, the whorearchy, sexual shame, and more.
Madame Ava L'affaire is a dominatrix and sex worker rights activist. She grew up in Berlin and is the child of Afghan refugees.
Follow Madame Ava on socials:
https://www.instagram.com/madame_laffaire/
https://x.com/Madame_affaire
15. Trans Escort Sienna Carlisle on the Domme archetype, transphobia, and rebranding
Today I am joined by the magnificent Sienna Carlisle. We discuss her journey from being a pro-domme to now being a domme and escort, transphobia in the sex industry, her experiences with clients, her recent …
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Today I am joined by the magnificent Sienna Carlisle. We discuss her journey from being a pro-domme to now being a domme and escort, transphobia in the sex industry, her experiences with clients, her recent rebrand, and working in Australia vs Europe.
Sienna Carlisle is an international trans goddess whose journey has spanned many countries and many parts of the industry. She is a luxury companion as well as a domme depending on the dynamic at hand.
Follow Sienna on socials:
https://www.instagram.com/sienna.carlisle/
https://twitter.com/siennacarlisle
14. Porn Legend Bishop Black on 10 years in porn, biphobia, and racism in the industry
Today I am joined by my friend and colleague, Bishop Black. We discuss what Bishop has faced as a bisexual POC in the industry, the difference between mainstream and "ethical" porn, and how Bishop has sustained …
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Today I am joined by my friend and colleague, Bishop Black. We discuss what Bishop has faced as a bisexual POC in the industry, the difference between mainstream and "ethical" porn, and how Bishop has sustained their long and illustrious career in the porn industry.
Bishop Black (they/them) is a multidisciplinary stage, burlesque, and porn performer. Hailing from London, they currently reside in Berlin. They've been active in the porn scene for over 10 years and have worked with directors and studios such as Bruce LaBruce, Erika Lust, HardWerk, JoyBear, and more. They recently starred in the film The Visitor, which premiered at the Berlinale this year.
Bishop's socials:
https://instagram.com/thebishopblack3000
https://twitter.com/itsbishopblack
https://bsky.app/profile/thebishopblack3000.bsky.social
13. Can you call me a "whore"? The history of sex work terminology
Why is the word "whore" a derogatory term? Is it ok for you to call me that? What other terms do we use to talk about sex workers, and where do they originate from? Class is in session, and I'm teaching you …
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Why is the word "whore" a derogatory term? Is it ok for you to call me that? What other terms do we use to talk about sex workers, and where do they originate from? Class is in session, and I'm teaching you everything you need to know.
12. Everything you've been asking
Do I pay taxes? Do I care if my clients are married? Do I fake orgasms? I get a lot of common questions about my work, and today I'm answering *all* of them. Plus, some extra answers from questions you asked on …
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Do I pay taxes? Do I care if my clients are married? Do I fake orgasms? I get a lot of common questions about my work, and today I'm answering *all* of them. Plus, some extra answers from questions you asked on Instagram earlier this week. All your curiosities, indulged!
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