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EP721 我的猶豫是逃避,還是真的不適合生?生小孩是一份不能毀約的合約,先想清楚最壞的狀況

November 4, 2026 · 23 min

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一位 36 歲的聽眾來信:經濟壓力、太太還不穩定的事業,再加上爸媽無形的期待,讓他對生小孩一直很猶豫。他問:我的猶豫,是逃避,還是其實比較適合不生?
要不要生,很多人第一步是先算錢、算時間。可是這集 Joe 想先問一個比較少人問的問題:你對孩子的渴望,到底有多強?強到願意在寒冷的冬夜,帶著小板凳去排隊八個小時嗎?
為甚麼渴望的強度,會決定接下來二十年你有多辛苦?


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