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060.如何停止用“外界的反馈”来判断自己是谁?

July 29, 2026 · 39 min

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00:03 命格里那个最核心的“阻碍点”
00:47 和咨询师聊了两年的阶段性汇报
01:50 心理咨询里最底层的一个概念:无条件的自我价值
04:16 用绩效思维休假?怎么休息才“正确”
05:54 放弃预设之后,反而什么都刚刚好
09:18 如果我不在变得更好,我还是有价值的吗?
10:54 “穴居人”的隐喻:你是烤火的人,不是墙上的影子
15:08 录视频播客,被相机里自己的脸打击到了!
22:04 我是谁,到底是由什么定义的?
23:48 做选择的那一秒,你是谁就已经是既定事实
24:59 不问“今天做了什么”,问“今天感觉到了什么”
26:40 做决定前问自己:如果这件事做不到,我还是不是那个我?
29:23 允许矛盾共存,把那个拧紧的螺丝松一松
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