Are You A Charlotte?
- Episodes
- 186
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- several times a week
- Latest episode
- Oct 22, 2026
About the podcast
In 1997, actress Kristin Davis’ life was forever changed when she took on the role of Charlotte York in Sex and the City. As we watched Carrie, Samantha, Miranda and Charlotte navigate relationships in NYC, the show helped push once unacceptable conversation topics out of the shadows and altered the narrative around women and sex. We all saw ourselves in them as they searched for fulfillment in life, sex and friendships.
Now, Kristin Davis wants to connect with you, the fans, and share untold stories and all the behind the scenes. Together, with Kristin and special guests, what will begin with Sex and the City will evolve into talks about themes that are still so relevant today.
"Are you a Charlotte?" is much more than just rewatching this beloved show, it brings the past and the present together as we talk with heart, humor and of course some optimism.
Episodes 186
Aidan vs. Berger: Who Was Worse? with Bethany Joy Lenz.... (S6 E5 "Lights, Camera, Relationship)
Bethany Joy Lenz joins Kristin Davis to unpack Carrie’s complicated history with Aidan and Berger—and the red flags we might have missed. Plus, Joy and Kristin get into why Charlotte and Harry are relationship …
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Bethany Joy Lenz joins Kristin Davis to unpack Carrie’s complicated history with Aidan and Berger—and the red flags we might have missed.
Plus, Joy and Kristin get into why Charlotte and Harry are relationship goals, Charlotte’s hilariously ill-fated attempt at casual sex, and the unforgettable advice Anthony gives her!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
When Love Turns Toxic: Carrie, Berger & Cults with Bethany Joy Lenz... (S6 E5 "Lights, Camera, Relationship)
Bethany Joy Lenz joins Kristin and they unpack Carrie and Berger’s disastrous motorcycle date. The conversation takes a deeper turn when Joy opens up about spending 10 years in a cult and shares the red flags …
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Bethany Joy Lenz joins Kristin and they unpack Carrie and Berger’s disastrous motorcycle date. The conversation takes a deeper turn when Joy opens up about spending 10 years in a cult and shares the red flags everyone should know, from love bombing to being cut off from outside perspectives.
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Charlotte and Harry Forever! with Evan Handler (S6 E4 "Pick-a-Little Talk-a-Little")
Evan Handler is back with Kristin Davis to revisit some memorable Sex and the City relationships! They break down Carrie and Berger’s chemistry (or lack thereof) and debate whether the two ever really worked as …
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Evan Handler is back with Kristin Davis to revisit some memorable Sex and the City relationships! They break down Carrie and Berger’s chemistry (or lack thereof) and debate whether the two ever really worked as a couple. Plus, Evan and Kristin look back at Harry and Charlotte’s Shabbat dinner, including the behind-the-scenes nerves of getting the Hebrew just right!
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The Man Charlotte Never Saw Coming with Evan Handler... (S6 E4 "Pick-a-Little, Talk-a-Little")
Evan Handler joins Kristin to revisit his time as Harry Goldenblatt and why they both think “He’s Just Not That Into You” is way too simple! Evan shares the real story behind almost losing the role of Harry …
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Evan Handler joins Kristin to revisit his time as Harry Goldenblatt and why they both think “He’s Just Not That Into You” is way too simple! Evan shares the real story behind almost losing the role of Harry, what he thought when he first joined Sex and the City, and how Harry became the unexpected man for Charlotte.
Plus, Evan and Kristin look back at Harry and Charlotte’s disastrous Shabbat dinner and the SATC lines that went on to become part of our everyday language.
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Charlotte Takes the Plunge with Melanie Shatner... (S6 E3 "The Perfect Present")
Melanie Shatner is back with Kristin to revisit Charlotte’s journey into her conversion to Judaism, the infamous mikvah scene, and Kristin’s fear of filming it! Kristin also looks back at working with Jennifer …
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Melanie Shatner is back with Kristin to revisit Charlotte’s journey into her conversion to Judaism, the infamous mikvah scene, and Kristin’s fear of filming it! Kristin also looks back at working with Jennifer Coolidge, Melanie’s very particular pre-flight ritual, and why Kristin now sees Steve in a whole new light.
Plus, Melanie reveals why Charlotte has always felt like Kristin’s “little sister.”
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A Very Charlotte Friendship with Melanie Shatner...
Kristin’s longtime best friend and Sex and the City fan, Melanie Shatner joins her to talk about their decades-long friendship, from lying about their ages as young actresses to the time Kristin opened her home …
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Kristin’s longtime best friend and Sex and the City fan, Melanie Shatner joins her to talk about their decades-long friendship, from lying about their ages as young actresses to the time Kristin opened her home to Melanie and her family. Melanie also opens up about facing stage 4 breast cancer while her father, William Shatner, was going through his own cancer journey and shares screening advice she wishes she had known sooner.
Plus, Kristin and Melanie discuss being “Charlottes” who put everyone else first, and why advocating for yourself in women’s healthcare is so important.
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The Sex Was Bad, But Jerry (Smith) Jerrod Was Great with Jason Lewis... (S6 E2 "Great Sexpectations")
Jerry (Smith) Jerrod has entered the chat! Jason Lewis joins Kristin to revisit his Sex and the City debut in “Great Sexpectations,” where Carrie and Berger’s relationship is hitting some serious turbulence …
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Jerry (Smith) Jerrod has entered the chat! Jason Lewis joins Kristin to revisit his Sex and the City debut in “Great Sexpectations,” where Carrie and Berger’s relationship is hitting some serious turbulence. Jason weighs in on the expectations, the disastrous sex, and what it was like stepping onto the SATC set for the very first time.
Plus, he shares some of his favorite behind-the-scenes memories from his time on the show!
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An Ex, a Baby and a First Date with Wallace Langham… (S6 E1 “To Market, To Market)
Before he appeared on 247 episodes of CSI, Wallace Langham was Willy on Sex and the City.He brings a unique perspective about Carrie’s first date nerves as she prepares to go out with Berger. He reveals there …
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Before he appeared on 247 episodes of CSI, Wallace Langham was Willy on Sex and the City.
He brings a unique perspective about Carrie’s first date nerves as she prepares to go out with Berger.
He reveals there is a “guy” version of this and lets us in on the secrets.Plus, Aiden has a baby!
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The Date That Went Very, Very Wrong with Wallace Langham... (S6 E1 "To Market, To Market")
Season 6 is officially here! Wallace Langham joins Kristin Davis to revisit his unforgettable Sex and the City date with Carrie, complete with real pigeons, a dozen attempts, and a very creative solution …
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Season 6 is officially here! Wallace Langham joins Kristin Davis to revisit his unforgettable Sex and the City date with Carrie, complete with real pigeons, a dozen attempts, and a very creative solution involving his hair.
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Oh, baby that’s sweet... with Jason Lewis
Jason Lewis (Smith Jerrod) returns! There was so much more you wanted to know, so this time, he’s answering all your questions.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
A Very Bitsy Hamptons Wedding with Julie Halston... (S5 E6 "I Love a Charade")
Tony Award winner and comedian Julie Halston joins Kristin to dive into Bitsy Von Muffling and her Hamptons wedding to Bobby (Nathan Lane)! Julie gets candid about Carrie’s many mistakes with men and why she …
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Tony Award winner and comedian Julie Halston joins Kristin to dive into Bitsy Von Muffling and her Hamptons wedding to Bobby (Nathan Lane)! Julie gets candid about Carrie’s many mistakes with men and why she thinks Aidan was the perfect boyfriend. She also shares how Michael Patrick King ultimately wrote Bitsy for her after years of auditioning for the show. Plus, Kristin reveals a surprising behind-the-scenes detail: Trey was actually supposed to be in this episode!
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The Sex and the City time capsule with Molly Rogers...
Kristin Davis and Molly Rogers are opening the Sex and the City scrapbook! The two dig through old magazine clippings they saved over the years, revisiting the stories, photos, and moments that captured SATC …
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Kristin Davis and Molly Rogers are opening the Sex and the City scrapbook! The two dig through old magazine clippings they saved over the years, revisiting the stories, photos, and moments that captured SATC mania at the time. It’s a nostalgic trip through the pages of pop culture history.
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Carrie’s baggage is showing with Molly Rogers... (S5 E7 "The Big Journey")
Molly Rogers returns, this time to recap “The Big Journey”! Molly spills some seriously fun behind-the-scenes fashion secrets, including a look back at Carrie’s iconic wedding dresses, while Kristin remembers …
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Molly Rogers returns, this time to recap “The Big Journey”! Molly spills some seriously fun behind-the-scenes fashion secrets, including a look back at Carrie’s iconic wedding dresses, while Kristin remembers when the paparazzi became completely relentless. Plus, what is going on with Carrie’s luggage?!
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Every party has a pooper! with Sean Palmer... (S5 E6 "Critical Condition")
Nina Katz way to ruin a good time! Kristin compares Nina Katz womp womp to negative comments on social media. We just pay too much attention to them. Plus Heather Graham plays Heather Graham! See …
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Nina Katz way to ruin a good time! Kristin compares Nina Katz womp womp to negative comments on social media. We just pay too much attention to them. Plus Heather Graham plays Heather Graham!
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Stanford's got a boyfriend! with Sean Palmer... (S5 E6 "Critical Condition")
Stanford Blatch found love with Marcus and actor Sean Palmer portrayed him perfectly. Sean talks about chatting and dancing with Baryshnikov…casual!Plus, Sean reveals a storyline that was cut from the Sex and …
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Stanford Blatch found love with Marcus and actor Sean Palmer portrayed him perfectly.
Sean talks about chatting and dancing with Baryshnikov…casual!
Plus, Sean reveals a storyline that was cut from the Sex and the City movie that frankly has us shook to our core.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
You need to tell an ex when you had a baby with Robert John Burke...
We're catching up with phenomenal actor Robert John Burke (who you know from absolutely everything)! He's back as Miranda's boyfriend for some SEX in the City and we must get his answer to this question, did he …
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We're catching up with phenomenal actor Robert John Burke (who you know from absolutely everything)! He's back as Miranda's boyfriend for some SEX in the City and we must get his answer to this question, did he deserve to know Miranda had a baby?
Plus, all the SEX threw his back out!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Even before the Post-it note sealed the deal, Berger was a red flag from the start!?... (S5 E5 "Plus One Is the Loneliest Number")
The first date was flirty but filled with mixed messages. Berger was a bad idea from the very beginning!Plus, Kristin reveals French Fry lore and a moment between Miranda and Brady that gave us chills.See …
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The first date was flirty but filled with mixed messages. Berger was a bad idea from the very beginning!Plus, Kristin reveals French Fry lore and a moment between Miranda and Brady that gave us chills.
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Lexi is as unforgettable as 3rd Rock from the Sun with Kristen Johnston.
Are You a Lexi? Two-time Emmy winner Kristen Johnston joins Kristin Davis for a deep dive into all things Lexi! Find out why this was the role for her, even after she’d been offered numerous other roles. And …
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Are You a Lexi? Two-time Emmy winner Kristen Johnston joins Kristin Davis for a deep dive into all things Lexi! Find out why this was the role for her, even after she’d been offered numerous other roles. And party girls, keep those windows closed!
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Good as Gold with Judy Gold... (S5 E4 "Cover Girl")
Comedian Judy Gold is fired up about "Cover Girl". The topics are hot as Kristin and Judy get very honest about the highs and lows in this episode. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
You can bet your bottom dollar! with Julie Rottenberg & Elisa Zuritsky... (S5 E3 "Luck Be an Old Lady")
Julie Rottenberg and Elisa Zuritsky return to explain WHY they really didn't want Richard to cheat again. They also explain the extra padding on Cynthia's butt and legs and why the girls defending her was a …
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Julie Rottenberg and Elisa Zuritsky return to explain WHY they really didn't want Richard to cheat again. They also explain the extra padding on Cynthia's butt and legs and why the girls defending her was a perfect fit.
Plus, why the bus was crucial in the end.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
This one was a big gamble! With Julie Rottenberg & Elisa Zuritsky... (S5 E3 “Luck Be an Old Lady”)
Atlantic City ...Here we come! Hear the story behind Charlotte's pink dress and the challenges of shooting in a Casino. Kristin shares why she was mad about Old Maid and a scene that was cut tied to it!See …
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Atlantic City ...Here we come! Hear the story behind Charlotte's pink dress and the challenges of shooting in a Casino. Kristin shares why she was mad about Old Maid and a scene that was cut tied to it!
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Even Cool Girls Get Lonely with Hoda Kotb…(S5 E2 “Unoriginal Sin”)
Kristin is joined by legendary television host Hoda Kotb and Hoda immediately reveals the important role Sex and the City played in her life when she first moved to NYC. They bond over the importance of …
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Kristin is joined by legendary television host Hoda Kotb and Hoda immediately reveals the important role Sex and the City played in her life when she first moved to NYC.
They bond over the importance of manifestation and if Charlotte’s manifestations will be successful.
Plus, Kristin reveals secrets of hiding Sarah Jessica Parker’s pregnancy.
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"Ladies, seamen, 12 o’clock!" with Mark Deklin... (S5 E1 "Anchors Away")
Kristin reveals the Season 5 look she wishes she could take back, while Mark Deklin explains why fans still recognize him from just one Sex and the City scene. Plus, they revisit filming during an emotional …
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Kristin reveals the Season 5 look she wishes she could take back, while Mark Deklin explains why fans still recognize him from just one Sex and the City scene. Plus, they revisit filming during an emotional time in post-9/11 New York and why Steve's sweetest moment is one Kristin didn't fully appreciate until now.
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Fleet Week Is Here… And Charlotte Is Feeling Flashy with Mark Deklin... (S5 E1 "Anchors Away")
Mark Deklin reveals the behind-the-scenes SATC drama that had him literally throwing up over whether to film the show or return to Broadway, why he felt pressure to make Kristin comfortable during their …
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Mark Deklin reveals the behind-the-scenes SATC drama that had him literally throwing up over whether to film the show or return to Broadway, why he felt pressure to make Kristin comfortable during their unforgettable scene, and the hilarious question Kristin asked during their scene. Plus, Mark and Kristin look back at filming the show right after 9/11 and reveal the one line Mark had to re-record years later for the show.
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"If you're tired you take a nap-a, you don't move to Napa" with Cynthia Nixon (S4 E18 "I Heart NY")
Cynthia returns and continues to share with Kristin fascinating Sex and the City memories. They both weigh in on Big leaving New York and what they think REALLY would have happened. Plus, a little history about …
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Cynthia returns and continues to share with Kristin fascinating Sex and the City memories. They both weigh in on Big leaving New York and what they think REALLY would have happened. Plus, a little history about the words “And Just Like That”. And, in a surprise twist, they both believe there was an additional Trey moment we never got to see and are telling us all about it.
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Cynthia Nixon is rewatching with Kristin and Miranda is giving birth! (S4 E18 "I Heart NY)
Cynthia Nixon returns for an incredible conversation with Kristin. Cynthia reveals that Michael Patrick King left one of Miranda’s biggest life decisions up to her! They chat about eating cake out of the …
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Cynthia Nixon returns for an incredible conversation with Kristin. Cynthia reveals that Michael Patrick King left one of Miranda’s biggest life decisions up to her! They chat about eating cake out of the garbage, bts about the hot detective, and of course BABY BRADY!
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The Hunk Is Back. Jason Lewis is here!
Smith Jerrod! Was he the best of all the boyfriends?? The handsome, charming, and dashing Jason Lewis joins Kristin for a deep dive into everything Smith Jerrod. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
"I'm Drunk, I'm Drunk at Vogue!"... (S4 E17 "A 'Vogue' Idea")
Carrie lands her dream job at Vogue, and Kristin reveals the surprising connection between Sex and the City and the iconic fashion magazine including the scenes Anna Wintour had notes on. Carrie’s new bob …
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Carrie lands her dream job at Vogue, and Kristin reveals the surprising connection between Sex and the City and the iconic fashion magazine including the scenes Anna Wintour had notes on. Carrie’s new bob sparks a conversation about the real reason behind the haircut, and Kristin questions one unforgettable Vogue moment.
Plus, why Kristin spent the entire episode wondering if Charlotte could pull off the perfect baby shower for Miranda!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Inside the Sex and the City Writers' Room with Amy Harris... (S4 E16 "Ring A Ding Ding")
Writer Amy Harris reveals the Samantha storyline that landed her a job in the writers' room, why she became obsessed with Miranda's pregnancy arc, and the one scene the writers were still arguing about while it …
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Writer Amy Harris reveals the Samantha storyline that landed her a job in the writers' room, why she became obsessed with Miranda's pregnancy arc, and the one scene the writers were still arguing about while it was being filmed.
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Should Charlotte have given Carrie the money??? With Amy Harris... (S4 E16 "Ring A Ding Ding")
This is the episode that has spurred endless debates and controversy.Should Charlotte have given Carrie the money, should Carrie have been so emotional and upset over it, is mixing friendship and money ever a …
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This is the episode that has spurred endless debates and controversy.Should Charlotte have given Carrie the money, should Carrie have been so emotional and upset over it, is mixing friendship and money ever a good idea???!!!
Writer Amy Harris reveals that this episode caused the biggest disagreement ever amongst the writers of the series, and trust us, we get it!
Plus, find out the line that Amy Harris feels is the most significant within the episode.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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