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Happily Murrayed

NewJo’s Planning to Become the BreadwinnerNovember 10, 2026 · 35 min
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About the podcast

Happily Murrayed is us - Conor and Joanna - chatting about our lives, our relationship, and everything that comes with it.

From big life moments to the everyday chaos in between, we share the stuff that’s going on with us, the things we disagree on, and the moments that probably should’ve stayed private.

We’re figuring things out as we go - balancing life with baby Alfie, building a home, busy work lives, and trying to keep some sense of normality along the way. It doesn’t always go to plan.

This is a podcast about relationships - the good bits, the messy bits, and the moments that nearly break you. We don’t always remember things the same way, we don’t always agree, and we definitely don’t have all the answers… but we’ll give it a go.

Each week, we also hear from you - your questions, your stories, your dilemmas - and react in the only way we know how: honestly, and usually with a bit of slagging.

If you’re here for the chaos, relationship honesty, or just to feel a bit better about how you’re doing it, you’re in the right place.

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Episodes 28

  1. Jo’s Planning to Become the Breadwinner

    35 min

    Jo’s planning to become the breadwinner—and she’s already promised to cover Conor’s coffees. But how would he feel if she earned more? And when Jo says neither of them minds picking up the bill, Conor’s face …

    Show notes

    Jo’s planning to become the breadwinner—and she’s already promised to cover Conor’s coffees. But how would he feel if she earned more? And when Jo says neither of them minds picking up the bill, Conor’s face tells another story…


    There’s also friendship in your thirties, a bathroom tile disaster, Alfie inviting himself into strangers’ houses on Halloween, and a Murray vs Cooper quiz that has Jo demanding justice.


    This episode is brought to you by Cadbury Secret Santa. Who deserves a little something? Nominate someone for a Cadbury hamper by emailing [email protected] or sending us a DM on Instagram. Tell us who they are and why they deserve a treat—we’ll keep your name secret.


    Look out for Cadbury Secret Santa QR codes on bus shelters and shopping centre screens, too. Scan one to secretly send someone a free chocolate bar.


    Chapters


    00:00 Coming up

    00:36 Jo’s toothbrush styling and Conor’s laundry service

    02:00 Cadbury Secret Santa: Who deserves a little something?

    02:40 Where have all our friends gone?

    05:55 Pink tiles, a blocked view and Alfie’s Halloween

    09:50 Is November too early for Christmas?

    14:03 Could we survive I’m a Celeb or The Traitors?

    15:59 Murray vs Cooper: Justice for Jo?

    21:26 Nominate someone for a Cadbury hamper

    22:33 Money, dating and Jo’s breadwinner ambitions


    New episodes of Happily Murrayed every week. 🤍

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  2. We Talk About Our Wills… Did We Make Each Other’s?

    38 min

    Conor’s made his will. Jo reckons hers is easy: Conor can have the lot, and he’ll look after Alfie. Then Conor suggests he might remarry in a year. Suddenly, Jo would like to make a few amendments.A clip of …

    Show notes

    Conor’s made his will. Jo reckons hers is easy: Conor can have the lot, and he’ll look after Alfie. Then Conor suggests he might remarry in a year. Suddenly, Jo would like to make a few amendments.

    A clip of Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard raises another question: if your partner told the waitress she had gorgeous eyes, would you hear a compliment or be offering her your seat?

    Jo tries to buy a quiz point with margaritas, and the Murray Mailbag takes on child-free weddings, a mother-in-law who lives next door and a fella whose international dial tone keeps giving him away.

    Chapters

    00:00 Coming up

    00:35 When Jo’s mum got “the nun” to ring

    02:51 The Derry move and Jo’s moon water

    05:42 Conor’s will and his imaginary second wife

    08:41 Is complimenting the waitress flirting?

    12:29 Murray vs Cooper: Have you been paying attention?

    19:52 Murray Mailbag: Baby names and child-free weddings

    24:10 Should your mother-in-law text before popping in?

    27:12 Revenge, missing car keys and an international dial tone

    34:21 One last spooky story: How did her three-year-old know?


    New episodes of Happily Murrayed every week. 🤍

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  3. Alfie Murray Turns Two… What Did We Do With All Our Free Time Before?!

    34 min

    Alfie has turned two, broken the telly and made himself very much at home in crèche. Conor and Jo take stock of life with their little boy - from birthday celebrations and toddler-proofing a restaurant trip to …

    Show notes

    Alfie has turned two, broken the telly and made himself very much at home in crèche. Conor and Jo take stock of life with their little boy - from birthday celebrations and toddler-proofing a restaurant trip to how becoming parents has changed them both.

    Jo admits she’s completely changed her mind about crèche, while her dream day now involves Harry Potter, endless cups of tea and very specific visiting hours for Conor and Alfie.

    Plus, Jo opens her Notes app to reveal her bucket list, the quiz gets competitive and there’s an update from our listener who was invited to Sicily.

    Parents: if you had a whole day to yourself, what would you actually do?


    New episodes of Happily Murrayed every week. 🤍


    00:00 Coming up

    00:31 Marathon prep and a coffee mishap

    03:13 Alfie turns two!

    05:32 Jo changes her mind about crèche

    07:43 What nobody tells you about having kids

    12:08 Jo’s dream day off

    14:21 Super noodles and student dinners

    17:35 Inside Jo’s Notes app

    19:25 Conor vs Jo: The quiz

    25:34 Murray Mailbag: Gossip and road rage

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  4. Jo Invited Everyone for Christmas… Conor Just Found Out

    33 min

    Jo’s planned Christmas dinner, the cocktails and a family sleepover. There’s just one problem: Conor hasn’t agreed to the sleepover. They haven’t moved into the house yet, and the Christmas negotiations are …

    Show notes

    Jo’s planned Christmas dinner, the cocktails and a family sleepover. There’s just one problem: Conor hasn’t agreed to the sleepover. They haven’t moved into the house yet, and the Christmas negotiations are already getting heated.

    Elsewhere, an empty sauna raises some serious questions about personal space, Conor’s signed book turns up on Vinted, and Jo lays down another rule for their new bathroom.

    Murray vs Cooper delivers a planetary misunderstanding and a memorable “as the crow flies” tiebreaker. Plus, your spooky stories include an unsettling Ring doorbell recording and a babysitter nobody hired.

    Christmas guests staying overnight: the more the merrier, or time to call a taxi? Tell us whose side you’re on.


    00:00 Coming up

    00:28 Who made us late?

    02:16 Conor’s sober October—and the bottom two abs

    03:43 House delays and Christmas dinner plans

    08:00 The Christmas sleepover disagreement

    10:18 Sauna etiquette and personal space

    14:28 Murray vs Cooper

    20:16 No peeing in the new shower

    21:19 Murray Mailbag: Vinted bargains and spooky stories

    32:28 This week’s recommendations

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  5. We Did the Sleep Training. Alfie Had Other Plans.

    27 min

    They did the sleep training. Alfie has decided both parents need to be in bed beside him—and leaving requires permission. Luckily, Conor’s found a loophole.This week, Alfie heads to crèche wearing a gold chain …

    Show notes

    They did the sleep training. Alfie has decided both parents need to be in bed beside him—and leaving requires permission. Luckily, Conor’s found a loophole.


    This week, Alfie heads to crèche wearing a gold chain, Jo considers going for a walk without her phone, and Conor discovers that being consulted on the house doesn’t necessarily mean getting a say.


    There’s also Jo’s unusual party trick, singing under pressure on the Ireland team bus, another disputed Murray vs Cooper quiz and your properly spooky stories.


    Does your toddler run bedtime too? Tell us your best escape excuse in the comments.


    Subscribe for more Happily Murrayed with Conor Murray and Joanna Cooper.


    New episodes of Happily Murrayed every week. 🤍


    00:00 Coming up

    00:40 Jo’s accidental hand-holding

    02:25 Alfie’s gold chain and bedtime rules

    04:55 Conor’s bedtime escape

    05:30 Jo’s phone-free walking ambitions

    07:50 The house: does Conor get a say?

    10:20 The engagement ring story

    11:50 Party tricks and Ireland team singalongs

    14:20 Murray vs Cooper

    20:30 Your spooky stories

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  6. We Ate Our Way Around San Sebastián… Then Came Home to House-Move Chaos

    27 min

    Three days eating their way around San Sebastián… then straight home to house-move chaos. Conor and Jo are back with their top three food spots, €2 beers and a long list of decisions they’d rather leave until …

    Show notes
    Three days eating their way around San Sebastián… then straight home to house-move chaos. Conor and Jo are back with their top three food spots, €2 beers and a long list of decisions they’d rather leave until later. The “retiree group” reunited with the Sextons, O’Mahonys and Healys for pintxos, cocktails and sea-urchin soup that wasn’t exactly Jo’s first choice with a hangover. Conor worried about Alfie from another country, while Jo insists a story is hilarious even as Conor questions whether it’s worth telling. Back home, Jo is ready to move in with or without windows, Conor has vetoed a piece of furniture, and even buying dishwasher tablets has become a debate. Plus, a sandwich comes with unwanted supervision, and the Murray v Cooper quiz takes a deeply unfair turn with a ten-point bonus question. Been to San Sebastián? Tell us which food spots we missed in the comments. And keep sending your spooky stories to the Murray Mailbag on Instagram for October. Subscribe for more Happily Murrayed with Conor Murray and Joanna Cooper. New episodes of Happily Murrayed every week. 🤍

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  7. The Guards Saved Jo’s TikTok… Should She Be Worried?

    36 min

    The official Garda TikTok account saved one of Jo’s videos. An accidental tap… or is she on a watch list? Jo has questions, and Conor isn’t helping.Meanwhile, a laundry dispute divides the room: Conor does the …

    Show notes

    The official Garda TikTok account saved one of Jo’s videos. An accidental tap… or is she on a watch list? Jo has questions, and Conor isn’t helping.

    Meanwhile, a laundry dispute divides the room: Conor does the washing, Jo rewashes it, and neither is backing down. There are ghostly goings-on in the apartment, Conor’s childhood banshee checks and a listener story that gives everyone chills.

    The countdown to Derry is on, the September reset has unravelled, and Jo is refusing her golf forfeit. She also opens up about her mum’s dementia, her own fears and finding a balance between looking after yourself and enjoying life.

    Plus, the quiz rivalry continues and the Murray Mailbag asks: what’s the worst thing you’ve ever forgotten? Conor remembers hiding from Joe Schmidt, while the Murrays explain why they kept calling newborn Alfie “Archie”.

    Whose side are you on in the laundry argument? Tell us in the comments, and send your stories to the Murray Mailbag on Instagram. We’re especially keen on spooky ones for October…

    Subscribe for more Happily Murrayed with Conor Murray and Joanna Cooper.

    New episodes of Happily Murrayed every week. 🤍

    Chapters

    00:00 Morning arguments and fart pants

    01:11 The suitcase verdict — and the laundry dispute

    07:05 Ghosts, banshees and your spooky stories

    14:10 Moving to Derry, ready or not

    18:12 September reset: health, family and finding a balance

    21:58 Jo’s phone detox — and the Garda TikTok surprise

    24:07 The golf forfeit Jo refuses to do

    25:16 Murray v Cooper: quiz time

    28:32 Murray Mailbag: the worst thing you’ve forgotten

    32:04 October prizes and the gold-or-silver test

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  8. We’re Both Getting Trolled… Jo Has Some Thoughts

    35 min

    Conor’s golf swing has upset the internet, and someone spotted Jo shopping and went home to send her a paragraph about her shoulder pads, her ego and her “Nike eyebrows”. Jo has a few thoughts.Meanwhile, Jo is …

    Show notes

    Conor’s golf swing has upset the internet, and someone spotted Jo shopping and went home to send her a paragraph about her shoulder pads, her ego and her “Nike eyebrows”. Jo has a few thoughts.

    Meanwhile, Jo is convinced their apartment is haunted, Alfie gets his first haircut, and the September reset is going so well that the producers have staged an intervention.

    In the Murray Mailbag: the biggest lies you’ve told to get out of something. From faking an injury to getting caught on Sky Sports, some of you have taken your excuses considerably too far.

    Plus, can Conor finally knock Jo off her quiz throne?

    Got a story for the Murray Mailbag? Send us a DM on Instagram, and subscribe for more Happily Murrayed with Conor Murray and Joanna Cooper.


    New episodes of Happily Murrayed every week. 🤍

    Chapters


    00:00 Two wines still counts as being off it, right?

    01:42 The Irish Open — and Jo’s had enough of golf

    05:38 Is our apartment haunted?

    08:12 Jo’s reality TV obsession

    10:40 Conor’s golf swing and Jo’s unwanted DM

    16:05 Alfie’s first haircut

    17:22 September reset: we’re being called out

    22:06 Can Conor finally win the quiz?

    26:57 Murray Mailbag: lies to get out of things

    32:26 The music that lifts your mood



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  9. We Went To Marbella Without Alfie… Was It Worth It?

    32 min

    Conor and Jo are back from Marbella — although apparently not everything made it off the plane with them. 👀This week, they settle a very important relationship question: if one person is carrying the passports …

    Show notes

    Conor and Jo are back from Marbella — although apparently not everything made it off the plane with them. 👀


    This week, they settle a very important relationship question: if one person is carrying the passports, does that automatically make them Airport Dad and responsible for everyone’s luggage too?


    Conor also reports back from his first pro-am, the house finally starts looking like an actual home, and plans for hosting Christmas immediately descend into negotiations over gate codes and turkey sandwiches.


    Then Murray v Cooper returns. Jo takes on sport, Conor enters the world of fashion and pop culture, and one Sydney Sweeney question causes considerably more trouble than expected.


    There’s also another September Reset check-in before the Murray Mailbag asks: when did you realise you were completely comfortable in your relationship — and can couples ever become too comfortable?


    Farting etiquette, bathroom boundaries, shaved legs and several things Jo would simply rather never know about.


    New episodes of Happily Murrayed every week. 🤍



    Chapters

    00:00 Conor Takes On His First Pro-Am

    03:31 Marbella & The Airport Dad Argument

    07:24 Jo Is Giving Up Drink… Apparently

    09:00 House Update: Halloween, Christmas & Moving In

    12:06 Who’s Hosting Christmas?

    17:22 Murray v Cooper: Sport vs Fashion

    22:30 September Reset: Are They Actually Improving?

    24:07 Murray Mailbag: When Do Couples Get Comfortable?

    27:18 Conor’s Full-Body Grooming Revelation

    29:00 Recommendations & Outro

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  10. What’s The Most Disgusting Thing Your Partner Does?

    30 min

    Conor needs some space, Jo has a serious screen-time problem… and apparently some of your partners are absolutely disgusting. 🤢This week, Conor and Jo reveal why life in their increasingly cramped apartment is …

    Show notes

    Conor needs some space, Jo has a serious screen-time problem… and apparently some of your partners are absolutely disgusting. 🤢


    This week, Conor and Jo reveal why life in their increasingly cramped apartment is pushing them towards Unhappily Murrayed, while the countdown to finally moving into their new house continues.


    Then things take a turn as they discover some of the most disgusting things people have caught their partners doing — from booger walls to fingernails being saved for later. You have been warned.


    The September Reset also hits its first major obstacle when Jo checks her screen time and discovers just how many hours of her week disappeared into social media.

    And in the Murray Mailbag: Jo reveals the drastic measures she once took after locking herself out of her student house, a listener wonders whether she should fly to Sicily for a holiday romance, and Conor and Jo tackle lazy partners, bad relationships and whether you should listen when everyone in your life tells you someone is wrong for you.


    New episodes of Happily Murrayed every week. 🤍


    Chapters

     00:00 Coming Up

    00:49 Conor & Jo Need Some Space

    03:13 Alfie’s Wholesome Weekend

    05:57 House Update: Are They Ever Moving In?

    08:26 The Most Disgusting Things Your Partners Do 🤢

    11:19 September Reset: Jo Has a Problem

    13:48 How Much Time Is Jo REALLY Spending on Social Media?

    16:03 Conor Takes Up Boxing

    18:24 Murray Mailbag: You Knew It Was a Bad Idea…

    21:09 Should She Fly to Sicily for a Holiday Romance?



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  11. We Gave Our Lives A Score Out Of 10... | September Life Audit

    40 min

    September feels like a fresh start — so Conor and Jo are giving their lives a full audit.This week, they score themselves across four areas: Body, Mind, Home Life and Soul — and work out what actually needs to …

    Show notes

    September feels like a fresh start — so Conor and Jo are giving their lives a full audit.


    This week, they score themselves across four areas: Body, Mind, Home Life and Soul — and work out what actually needs to change.


    Things get slightly uncomfortable when they compare their phone screen time and discover Jo spent an average of 7 hours and 6 minutes a day on her phone the previous week, including nearly 14 hours on TikTok. 😳 Is it officially intervention time?


    They also get honest about how becoming parents has affected their relationship, why date nights and cooking together have disappeared, getting stronger and healthier, being more present around Alfie and the changes they want to make throughout September.


    Plus, Conor plans a mystery trip for Jo, there's an update from the house build, Jo wonders whether The Weeknd was harvesting her energy, and Conor reveals the one date he apparently cannot remember. 🎃


    Join in with the Happily Murrayed September Reset and let us know what you're changing this month.


    New episodes every week. 🤍









    00:00 Coming Up

    01:12 Alfie Pulls a Sickie & Conor Plans a Mystery Trip

    04:27 Did The Weeknd Harvest Jo’s Energy?

    07:24 Are Kids Just… Annoying?

    09:47 Conor Takes On the Limerick Hurlers

    12:39 House Build Update & Conor’s Halloween Problem

    16:23 The September Life Audit

    21:25 MIND: Books, Phones & Jo’s Screen Time Confession

    29:00 HOME LIFE: Has Parenting Changed Their Relationship?

    31:06 SOUL & The September Reset Challenge

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  12. What Does Your Partner Do That Drives You Mad?

    34 min

    This week, Conor reports back from Ibiza, including party naps, questionable dancing and casually finding himself beside Jason Statham and Rosie Huntington-Whiteley. Meanwhile, Jo heads to London, does some …

    Show notes

    This week, Conor reports back from Ibiza, including party naps, questionable dancing and casually finding himself beside Jason Statham and Rosie Huntington-Whiteley. Meanwhile, Jo heads to London, does some serious damage at Bicester Village and finally lands a Topshop job years after repeatedly being turned down by them.

    We also launch Murray v Cooper — our new quiz designed to find out whether either of them can actually back up the things they confidently talk about every week. First up: Conor on pensions and Jo on the Rules of the Road. 🚗

    Then it's over to the Murray Mailbag: "I love my partner, but I'll never understand why they..."

    Dishwashers. Chewing. Whistling. Being late. Toilet habits. Leaving doors open. Clothing tags. And yes, several immediate calls for divorce.

    Let us know the completely irrational thing your partner does that drives you mad.

    New episodes of Happily Murrayed every week. 🤍

    Chapters

    Based on the pre-edit transcript, so these may need a small adjustment against the final export.

    00:00 Coming Up

    00:45 Conor Survives Ibiza

    02:05 Jason Statham & Rosie Huntington-Whiteley

    03:11 Three Nights of Ibiza Clubs

    04:18 Conor's WHOOP Exposes His Dancing

    04:56 Jo's London Weekend

    05:19 Four Hours at Bicester Village

    06:04 The Shared Celine Fleece

    07:48 Jo Negotiates a YSL Discount

    09:33 Alfie & The Terrible Twos

    10:43 How Many Calories Are in Champagne?!

    11:56 Alfie Falls Out of Bed

    13:36 Jo's Topshop Full-Circle Moment

    14:40 Murray v Cooper Begins

    15:14 Conor's Pension Quiz

    16:39 Jo's Rules of the Road Quiz

    19:22 Murray Mailbag: Things Our Partners Do That Drive Us Mad

    20:18 The Dishwasher Wars

    21:05 Jo's Packing Chaos

    22:43 Chewing, Whistling & Jo's Pet Hates

    26:28 Being Late: Conor vs Jo

    27:26 Why Can't Men Plan Dates?

    28:22 The Toilet Complaints 😂

    29:13 Conor Irons Bedsheets for Guests

    30:42 Taps, Clothing Tags & The New House Rules

    31:15 Ronaldo, Georgina & Marriage Agreements

    32:14 Jo's New Engagement Ring

    32:48 Outro



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  13. Should Couples Have Their Own Money?

    35 min

    A missing diamond, secret runaway funds and one question that seriously divided the Murray household: should couples have their own money?This week, Jo reveals the panic of realising the diamond had disappeared …

    Show notes

    A missing diamond, secret runaway funds and one question that seriously divided the Murray household: should couples have their own money?

    This week, Jo reveals the panic of realising the diamond had disappeared from her ring mid-flight to Mallorca — and the small matter of whether Conor had actually insured it. 👀

    Then it's over to the Murray Mailbag, where things get surprisingly heated. Should married couples combine everything? Should you always have money that's completely your own? If one partner earns more, should they have more spending money? And is keeping an emergency "runaway fund" just sensible?

    Plus, your answers to the most ridiculous thing your partner has ever spent money on — featuring unused golf memberships, Star Wars helmets, pedigree sheep, €100 worth of coffee beans for someone without a coffee machine… and a €7,000 watch.

    Elsewhere, Conor prepares for Ibiza with the best of intentions, Jo survives the Dublin Horse Show, and we discover an entirely new world of tiny horses.

    New episodes of Happily Murrayed every week. 🤍

    Send your questions to [email protected]


    🎧 Listen on Spotify & Apple Podcasts

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    Chapters

    00:00 Coming Up

    01:50 Conor Prepares For Ibiza

    03:16 "Best Intentions Murray"

    04:39 Jo & Conor At The Dublin Horse Show

    08:48 Jo's Bali Horse-Riding Controversy

    09:45 The Sexist Car Park Pillar Strikes Again

    10:40 Jo Takes Someone's Wing Mirror Off

    12:39 Jo's Previous Car Crash Story

    14:53 Jo Loses Her Diamond On The Flight

    18:34 Murray Mailbag: Should Couples Have Their Own Money?

    21:06 If One Partner Earns More, Should They Get More?

    22:19 Jo Doesn't Believe In Pensions 😂

    24:41 Should Every Woman Have A Runaway Fund?

    26:10 Joint Accounts vs Separate Money

    28:45 What's The Most Ridiculous Thing Your Partner Has Bought?

    30:58 Your Partners' Wildest Purchases

    33:49 So... Should Couples Have Separate Money?

    34:27 Recommendations & Outro



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  14. Family Holidays, Conor's Role Plays and Backing Up Your Partner...

    24 min

    Family Holidays, Compliment-Fishing and Backing Up Your Partner... | Happily MurrayedConor and Jo are back from their family holiday, with all sorts of stories that show just how much parenthood can change …

    Show notes

    Family Holidays, Compliment-Fishing and Backing Up Your Partner... | Happily Murrayed

    Conor and Jo are back from their family holiday, with all sorts of stories that show just how much parenthood can change things.

    Plus, Joanna learns mid-show about an unpaid gig Conor has booked her in for, while this week's Murray Mailbag raises all sorts of questions around backing up your partner in public...


    Send your questions to [email protected]


    New episodes every Thursday.


    🎧 Listen on Spotify & Apple Podcasts


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    Chapters

    00:00 Intro

    01:43 Family Holiday Memories

    06:10 Conor's Surprise for Joanna

    09:02 Mallorca Review

    12:43 ROKA Restaurant

    14:47 Family Holiday Anxiety

    17:08 The Murray Mailbag

    23:25 Recommendations


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  15. "WE'RE BOTH ASS MEN"...😂 | AMA Special

    36 min

    You asked. We answered. And things got personal very quickly.👀In this special AMA episode, Conor and Jo take on your questions about marriage, parenting, rugby, weddings, their house build and everything in …

    Show notes

    You asked. We answered. And things got personal very quickly.👀

    In this special AMA episode, Conor and Jo take on your questions about marriage, parenting, rugby, weddings, their house build and everything in between.

    They reveal what they fancy most about each other, the habits that drive them mad, how they chose Alfie’s name, what life as a rugby couple was really like, Conor’s worst injury and whether kids belong at weddings.

    There are also wedding regrets, house-build arguments, sleep struggles, baby names, jealousy, relationship advice and some answers they probably should have kept to themselves.

    Send your questions to [email protected]

    New episodes every Thursday.


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  16. You May As Well Call Me Mommy, Holiday Packing & Are Work Wives OK? | Happily Murrayed

    28 min

    You may as well call me Mommy... 😅This week, Jo reveals just how much planning goes into a family holiday after Conor admits he barely knows where they're even staying in Majorca. Is this what marriage looks …

    Show notes

    You may as well call me Mommy... 😅

    This week, Jo reveals just how much planning goes into a family holiday after Conor admits he barely knows where they're even staying in Majorca. Is this what marriage looks like... or is Jo basically his mother at this point?

    Elsewhere, the pair tackle one of your biggest relationship dilemmas yet: is it ever OK to have a work wife or work husband? The Murray Mailbag is split.

    Plus, holiday excitement, toddler travel, coconut margaritas, packing stress, recommendations and plenty of laughs along the way.


    👇 Let us know in the comments...

    Are work wives and work husbands harmless... or crossing a line?


    🎧 Listen on Spotify & Apple Podcasts

    📲 Follow Happily Murrayed for new episodes every week.


    00:00 Intro

    01:29 Life Update: Jo's Girls Trip & Conor's Solo Parenting

    02:25 Jo's Mykonos Stories

    05:18 Conor's All-Ireland Final Weekend

    08:55 Mallorca Family Holiday Plans

    11:16 Holiday Packing: Jo vs Conor

    14:50 Shrek, Margaritas & Airport Encounters

    17:02 Murray Mailbag: Are Work Wives & Work Husbands OK?

    23:43 Listener DMs

    25:25 Recommendation Of The Week

    27:18 See You Next Week

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  17. Should You Tell Your Partner Everything Your Friends Tell You?

    33 min

    Should you tell your partner everything your friends tell you... or are some secrets meant to stay between friends?This week's Murray Mailbag completely split opinion.Jo and Conor debate whether couples should …

    Show notes

    Should you tell your partner everything your friends tell you... or are some secrets meant to stay between friends?

    This week's Murray Mailbag completely split opinion.

    Jo and Conor debate whether couples should tell each other everything, where the line is between gossip and confidence, and read some of the wildest stories you've ever sent us.

    Elsewhere, we enjoy two rare date nights, accidentally turn up to the wrong night of Dermot Kennedy, discover one of Ireland's best restaurants, and Jo somehow ends up with paprika in her eyes.

    Plus, another house update, relationship quizzes, and your recommendations.


    Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube and Facebook @HappilyMurrayed

    Get in touch: [email protected]


    0:00 – Coming up

    0:38 – Car trouble & an "electrical fault"

    3:55 – Two date nights in one week

    4:06 – Our stay at Omos / incredible food

    8:20 – Dermot Kennedy... on the wrong night

    10:17 – Toddler tantrums & parenting updates

    12:17 – Conor's perfect sports day

    15:04 – Couple quiz: annoying habits

    17:08 – Murray Mailbag: Should you tell your partner everything your friends tell you?

    23:58 – More unbelievable cheating stories

    28:18 – Listener recommendations

    29:35 – Jo's favourite snack

    30:31 – The paprika disaster 😂

    32:10 – Outro

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  18. Would You Let Your Partner Go On Holiday Without You?

    34 min

    Would you be happy for your partner to go on holiday without you?This week's Murray Mailbag sparked one of our biggest debates yet.From lads' trips and girls' holidays to trust, jealousy and independence, Jo …

    Show notes

    Would you be happy for your partner to go on holiday without you?

    This week's Murray Mailbag sparked one of our biggest debates yet.

    From lads' trips and girls' holidays to trust, jealousy and independence, Jo and Conor react to your brilliant responses and chat about why time apart might actually be good for a relationship.

    Elsewhere, Jo explains why she's convinced their bedroom is haunted after another sleep paralysis episode, including the time she accidentally terrified Miss Russia at Miss Universe. Conor shares an unforgettable story about partying with the All Blacks after one of Ireland's biggest matches, and there's another update on the house build.

    Plus, recommendations and plenty of laughs along the way.

    New episodes every Tuesday. 🤍


    Chapters

    00:00 – Coming up

    00:35 – Catch-up: Hurling final & a huge weekend of sport

    04:21 – Jo thinks their bedroom is haunted 👻

    05:21 – Sleep paralysis & terrifying Miss Russia

    09:29 – House build update

    11:19 – Saunas, cold plunges & "men don't struggle enough anymore"

    12:50 – Ireland's win over Australia & rugby tour stories

    15:33 – The All Blacks food fight 🍳

    17:00 – Murray Mailbag: Would you let your partner go on holiday without you?

    21:25 – The "Let Them" theory

    29:35 – Weekly recommendations

    34:01 – Outro



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  19. Can You Ever Be Friends With An Ex?

    32 min

    This week on Happily Murrayed, Jo and Conor get into one of the messiest relationship debates yet — can you actually be friends with an ex?It starts simple… and quickly spirals into cheating, loyalty, who …

    Show notes

    This week on Happily Murrayed, Jo and Conor get into one of the messiest relationship debates yet — can you actually be friends with an ex?


    It starts simple… and quickly spirals into cheating, loyalty, who should tell who, and whether men really are more likely to cheat.

    Before that, we chat Alfie’s first ever cinema trip (which nearly broke Jo), the latest house build updates, Conor’s growing obsession with golf, and the argument over barn doors and golf simulators.

    Plus, why we won’t post Alfie’s face online - and our latest true crime recommendations.


    Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube and Facebook @HappilyMurrayed


    Get in touch: [email protected]



    Chapters

    0:00 – Coming up

    0:28 – Foot ratings, feet pics & weird DMs

    2:27 – Rollers, face masks & golf weekends

    4:12 – Alfie’s first cinema trip

    6:10 – Why we don’t show Alfie online

    9:27 – House build update

    12:18 – The bath in the middle of the room?

    13:01 – The Nigerian goalkeeper obsession

    14:39 – Barn door regrets

    15:30 – Golf simulator negotiations

    19:05 – Murray Mailbag: Can you be friends with an ex?

    24:24 – The wildest cheating story we’ve heard

    25:15 – Would you tell someone they’re being cheated on?

    29:40 – Jo’s advice for toxic relationships

    31:14 – Recommendations: true crime podcasts

    33:17 – Outro


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  20. Cringiest Date Stories, Manifesting & Jo’s Brown Thomas Bust-Up

    29 min

    This week on Happily Murrayed, Jo kicks things off with a road rage story that somehow ended with her being called an “entitled bitch” in Brown Thomas 😅We recap a huge weekend at Ascot, Olivia Dean in Marlay …

    Show notes

    This week on Happily Murrayed, Jo kicks things off with a road rage story that somehow ended with her being called an “entitled bitch” in Brown Thomas 😅


    We recap a huge weekend at Ascot, Olivia Dean in Marlay Park, and the chaos of leaving Alfie with a babysitter for the first time.


    In this week’s Murray Mailbag, we react to your wildest and cringiest dating stories — from lads bringing cousins on dates to mattress-on-the-floor icks.


    Plus, Jo shares the manifestation story behind winning Miss Ireland, and Conor opens up about how visualisation shaped his rugby career.


    New episodes every Tuesday 🤍


    Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube and Facebook @HappilyMurrayed


    Get in touch: [email protected]


    Chapters

    0:00 – Coming up

    0:37 – Jo’s road rage confession

    3:08 – Ascot recap

    5:37 – Olivia Dean in Marley Park

    7:12 – Jo’s concert “altercation”

    8:57 – First babysitter chaos

    11:01 – Murray Mailbag: cringiest dating stories

    13:33 – Should you split the bill on a first date?

    15:38 – Spotify comments & feedback

    16:10 – Jo’s manifestation story

    18:40 – Conor on visualisation in rugby

    20:17 – House build update

    21:54 – Wedding anniversary gifts

    24:58 – Was Conor an altar boy?

    26:21 – Recommendations

    28:22 – Outro



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  21. Dad Guilt, World Cup Fever & Does Living Together Mean More Or Less Sex?

    27 min

    This week on Happily Murrayed, we’re getting into the big one — is dad guilt even a thing?Jo opens up about the reality of being away from Alfie and why mum guilt never really switches off, while Conor argues …

    Show notes

    This week on Happily Murrayed, we’re getting into the big one — is dad guilt even a thing?


    Jo opens up about the reality of being away from Alfie and why mum guilt never really switches off, while Conor argues dads feel it too… just in a very different way.

    We’re also fully in World Cup fever in our house, with Alfie football-mad and the tournament taking over everything. Plus, we get into the reality of living together — and whether it actually means more or less sex.


    There’s also the Murray Mailbag, your stories on what living with your partner is really like, and our weekly recommendations.

    As always, it’s honest, chaotic and probably oversharing.


    Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube and Facebook @HappilyMurrayed


    Get in touch: [email protected]


    Chapters

    0:00 – Coming up

    0:37 – Royal Ascot prep

    1:31 – World Cup fever in our house

    3:24 – Is dad guilt even a thing?

    4:30 – Jo’s panic on the plane home

    8:02 – Solo dates with Alfie

    11:03 – Alfie’s World Cup obsession

    13:17 – We’re not fun anymore (0.0 beers)

    15:25 – Jo’s Pride brunch plans

    17:05 – Murray Mailbag

    17:18 – What living together is actually like

    18:22 – Biggest relationship reality checks

    20:12 – Cleaners saving relationships

    21:37 – Does living together mean more sex?

    22:23 – Living near the in-laws

    24:03 – Recommendations

    24:31 – Best breakfast rolls

    26:14 – Outro



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  22. Jo Failed Her Driving Test In 7 Minutes…

    33 min

    This week on Happily Murrayed, Jo tells the story of failing her driving test in just seven minutes… and why Conor had to come rescue her after crashing the car (again).We also celebrate our third wedding …

    Show notes

    This week on Happily Murrayed, Jo tells the story of failing her driving test in just seven minutes… and why Conor had to come rescue her after crashing the car (again).


    We also celebrate our third wedding anniversary, talk house updates, interior design decisions, and why Conor still isn’t over losing carpet in the bedroom.

    In this week’s Murray Mailbag, we get into Leaving Certs, GCSEs, A-Levels, long-distance relationships, summer romances, how many kids we’d like, parenting differences, and what our death row meals would be.

    Plus: Derry food chat, fighting in relationships, and Jo’s dream job if she wasn’t doing this.


    This episode is brought to you by Paul Sheeran Jewellers. Whether you’re celebrating a special occasion, searching for the perfect engagement ring, or treating yourself to something timeless, Paul Sheeran Jewellers offers an exceptional collection of fine jewellery and luxury watches from some of the world’s most renowned brands.


    Chapters

    0:00 – Coming up

    0:34 – Jo crashed the car… again

    2:47 – Jo’s disastrous driving test story

    5:08 – Our 3rd wedding anniversary

    7:20 – House update & the hardwood floor decision

    10:03 – Anniversary date at the jewellers & F1 simulators

    11:39 – Murray Mailbag begins

    11:43 – How did we do in school? (Leaving Cert / A-Levels)

    17:13 – Long-distance relationship advice

    19:33 – How we argue (and why couples who “never fight” are lying)

    20:52 – Cringe dating stories

    22:31 – How many more kids do we want?

    23:50 – Parenting differences & screen time

    26:14 – Death row meals

    27:54 – Where would we be if rugby/modeling never happened?

    29:43 – Listener feedback

    31:45 – Recommendations of the week

    33:30 – Outro


    📩 Send us your questions, dilemmas & stories: [email protected]


    📱 Follow Happily Murrayed on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook & YouTube 🤍

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  23. Would You Go On A Jog For A First Date?

    27 min

    This week on Happily Murrayed, Jo tells us all about her trip to Portofino with Penneys — from €60 bellinis and Hugo spritzes to dancing in the streets of Italy and accidentally ruining pesto in a cooking …

    Show notes

    This week on Happily Murrayed, Jo tells us all about her trip to Portofino with Penneys — from €60 bellinis and Hugo spritzes to dancing in the streets of Italy and accidentally ruining pesto in a cooking class.


    Meanwhile, Conor spent the weekend in Kerry reliving his childhood summers in Derrynane and explaining the very strange tradition of teenage “shifting” on the rocks after beach rugby.


    We also answer your Murray Mailbag questions — including whether a jog is an acceptable first date, whether the man should always pay on date one, and how Jo handled the attention that came with dating one of Ireland’s biggest rugby stars.


    Plus: jealousy in relationships, World Cup predictions, engagement stories with the Ireland lads, and why people keep calling Jo “Joanne.”



    Chapters

     0:00 – Coming up

    2:20 – Kerry vs Portofino

    4:50 – Jo’s Portofino trip (and Conor’s suspicions)

    8:49 – Conor’s childhood summers in Kerry

    10:37 – The “summer shifting” stories

    11:46 – Murray Mailbag begins

    11:50 – Should wives take their husband’s surname?

    13:47 – How do you ask someone out?

    14:39 – Best first date ideas (coffee, drinks… or a jog?)

    17:32 – How Jo handled Conor’s rugby fame

    18:35 – The girl who nearly made a move on Conor

    21:03 – Are we jealous in relationships?

    22:42 – World Cup sweepstakes & favourite teams

    23:55 – Which teammate does Conor miss most?

    24:37 – The Dubai engagement story

    25:57 – Should we do a wedding special?

    26:34 – Jo’s biggest pet peeve: being called Joanne

    27:40 – Outro


    📩 Send us your questions, dilemmas & stories: [email protected]


    📱 Follow Happily Murrayed on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook & YouTube 🤍

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  24. Conor’s Secret Beauty Regime

    25 min

    This week on Happily Murrayed, we uncover Conor’s surprisingly extensive beauty regime — from facials and shaving his legs to getting salmon sperm injected into his face.After years of slagging Joanna for her …

    Show notes

    This week on Happily Murrayed, we uncover Conor’s surprisingly extensive beauty regime — from facials and shaving his legs to getting salmon sperm injected into his face.

    After years of slagging Joanna for her modelling jobs and skincare routines, it turns out Conor might be just as high maintenance after all.

    We also chat about our first RTÉ radio interview, Jo’s glamorous Portofino modelling trip, watching the European Cup final in a very Leinster-heavy pub, and a brilliant listener email from a Dub trying to adjust to life in Derry.

    Plus: Murray Mailbag questions, Pete O’Mahony’s plans for our future garden, the butter chicken incident, and our recommendation of the week.


    ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

    0:00 – Coming up

    2:50 – Catch up: our first RTÉ radio interview

    4:40 – Watching the European Cup final in a Leinster pub

    6:10 – Jo’s best ever facial

    7:10 – Conor’s salmon sperm treatment

    9:10 – Jo’s Portofino modelling job

    9:50 – Listener callback: adjusting to life in Derry

    14:00 – Callback: the Derry Chinese restaurant airlift

    15:00 – Murray Mailbag

    15:30 – Opinions on Whoop bands

    17:30 – Pete O’Mahony’s plans for our garden

    18:30 – Who takes the longest to get ready?

    19:20 – The Jurgen Klopp story

    20:20 – Who’s the better cook?

    22:30 – The Butter Chicken Story

    23:30 – Recommendation of the week: Peelers and The Walk Amongst Us

    📩 Send us your questions, dilemmas & stories:

    [email protected]

    📱 Follow Happily Murrayed on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook & YouTube 🤍



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  25. Conor Said He Was Retired… Then This Happened

    31 min

    This week on Happily Murrayed, we’re all over the place in the best way possible 🤍We get into Alfie’s first time swimming, Conor’s unexpected trip to a London gentlemen’s club, and Joanna’s big night away that …

    Show notes

    This week on Happily Murrayed, we’re all over the place in the best way possible 🤍

    We get into Alfie’s first time swimming, Conor’s unexpected trip to a London gentlemen’s club, and Joanna’s big night away that somehow ended with her arriving home in somebody else’s jeans.

    We also chat about how becoming parents has completely changed the way we think about life, death and everything in between.

    There’s more feedback from listeners, more Murray Mailbag questions, another house-build disagreement (wood floors vs carpet floors), and Jo tries to justify buying wooden dumbbells.

    Plus, Conor opens up about retirement, whether he misses rugby, and the call from Ronan O’Gara that nearly took us to France.


    ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

    0:00 – Coming up

    1:30 – Bikini or salad? Part II

    3:00 – Catch-up

    4:30 – Alfie’s first time swimming

    6:45 – Conor’s visit to a London gentlemen’s club

    9:30 – Joanna’s big night away in London

    12:00 – How having a child changes your view on life and death

    15:13 – Listener feedback

    17:00 – The Murray Mailbag

    17:30 – House-build disagreement: wood floors vs carpet

    19:30 – Jo’s wooden dumbbells

    21:30 – Does Conor miss rugby?

    25:10 – The call from ROG to go to France — and why we didn’t go

    30:00 – More Murray Mailbag questions

    📩 Send us your questions, dilemmas & stories:

    [email protected]

    📱 Follow Happily Murrayed on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook & YouTube 🤍



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  26. What Happened After Alfie Was Born (And Rugby Didn’t Stop)

    26 min

    We’re back for Episode 2 of Happily Murrayed 🤍This week we chat about Conor's trip to Anfield, why we’re making the move to Derry, whether Alfie will end up playing for Ulster one day, and why Chinese cuisine …

    Show notes

    We’re back for Episode 2 of Happily Murrayed 🤍

    This week we chat about Conor's trip to Anfield, why we’re making the move to Derry, whether Alfie will end up playing for Ulster one day, and why Chinese cuisine has such a special place in the hearts and bellies of Derry people.

    We also get into some parenting advice sent into the Murray Mailbag and open up about the weeks after Alfie was born — including Conor having to head straight into Ireland camp days later.

    Plus: Jo’s Mini Cooper at a rugby match, the advice that shaped Conor’s career, and plenty more.


    ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

    0:00 – Coming up

    2:20 – Catch up: Anfield & Paddy The Baddy

    7:00 – Murray Mailbag

    8:00 – Why we’re moving to Derry

    11:00 – Conor’s mentors’ advice

    11:50 – Will Alfie play for Ulster?

    12:30 – Jo’s Mini Cooper story at the rugby match

    13:00 – Parenting advice

    15:30 – What happened after Alfie was born — and why rugby didn’t stop

    21:00 – Why Derry food is the best ever


    📩 Send us your questions, dilemmas & stories:

    [email protected]


    📱 Follow Happily Murrayed on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook & YouTube



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  27. Our First Shift (And Why We Still Argue About It)

    22 min

    We’ve finally done it… we’ve started a podcast.In our very first episode, we’re straight into it - fresh from a chaotic weekend at our friends’ wedding in Italy, running on no sleep and trying to figure out how …

    Show notes

    We’ve finally done it… we’ve started a podcast.


    In our very first episode, we’re straight into it - fresh from a chaotic weekend at our friends’ wedding in Italy, running on no sleep and trying to figure out how Jo ended up balling her eyes out to a priest.


    We get into the story of how we met (which, as it turns out, we remember very differently), from first impressions to our first kiss - including Drake’s role in it all.

    Outside of that, there’s plenty going on - Alfie has conjunctivitis, the house build is in full swing, and Jo (along with the builder) is doing everything she can to stop Conor installing a half door.


    We dive into the Murray Mailbag and we give advice on moving in together for the first time, why the robot hoover has become a major issue… and the one thing Conor still can’t understand about Joanna.


    Get involved:

    📩 Email: [email protected]

    📱 Instagram: @happilymurrayedpod

    🎵 TikTok: @happilymurrayedpod

    ▶️ YouTube: Happily Murrayed

    📘 Facebook: Happily Murrayed

    Send us your dilemmas, questions or stories - the messier the better



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  28. Coming Soon...

    1 min

    Happily Murrayed is us - Conor and Joanna - chatting about our lives, our relationship, and everything that comes with it. From big life moments to the everyday chaos in between, we share the stuff that’s going …

    Show notes

    Happily Murrayed is us - Conor and Joanna - chatting about our lives, our relationship, and everything that comes with it. From big life moments to the everyday chaos in between, we share the stuff that’s going on with us, the things we disagree on, and the moments that probably should’ve stayed private.


    We’re figuring things out as we go - balancing life with baby Alfie, building a home, busy work lives, and trying to keep some sense of normality along the way. It doesn’t always go to plan.


    This is a podcast about relationships - the good bits, the messy bits, and the moments that nearly break you. We don’t always remember things the same way, we don’t always agree, and we definitely don’t have all the answers… but we’ll give it a go.


    Each week, we also hear from you - your questions, your stories, your dilemmas - and react in the only way we know how: honestly, and usually with a bit of slagging.

    If you’re here for the chaos, relationship honesty, or just to feel a bit better about how you’re doing it, you’re in the right place.


    Get involved:

     📩 [email protected]

     📱 Instagram / TikTok / YouTube / Facebook: Happily Murrayed

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