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#266: How to Move from Understanding Your Patterns to Actually Changing Them (Ask Steph)

June 19, 2026 · 17 min

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If you've been "doing the work" for a while now, it's likely you have a firm grip on why you are the way you are. But many of us find ourselves stuck at the "knowledge and awareness" stage, struggling to put our insights into practice in a way that translates into lasting change.

In this episode, I'm sharing thoughts on how to bridge that gap so that you don't find yourself on a never-ending hamster wheel of information-gathering that keeps you from experiencing relationships differently.

Links

  • Free training on healing anxious attachment: http://stephanierigg.com/haa-webinar-opt-in
  • Free resources: http://stephanierigg.com/free-resources
  • Attachment quiz: http://stephanierigg.com/quiz
  • Substack: https://stephanierigg.substack.com/

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