We Talk Back
- Episodes
- 318
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- weekly
- Latest episode
- Nov 12, 2026
About the podcast
Hosted by two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talk back, TamBam and AJ are helping women maneuver through the Sea of Men! "We Talk Back” podcast is here to guide femininity to its ultimate greatness. We Talk Back podcast is giving their listeners the raw and unfiltered comedic gift of repartee. With thought-provoking conversations about sex, relationships, and money with a dash of danger and glitter. TamBam & AJ will also help listeners seeking non-professional guidance, as these ladies deliver advice and their personal thoughts on topics.
Episodes 318
Botox, Bloodwork & Bullsh*t feat. Dr. Rodriguez
Are today's biggest wellness and beauty trends actually improving your health, or just changing how you look? In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam welcome Dr. Nestor Rodriguez, board-certified …
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Are today's biggest wellness and beauty trends actually improving your health, or just changing how you look? In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam welcome Dr. Nestor Rodriguez, board-certified emergency medicine physician and medical director of Carbon World Health, for an eye-opening conversation about GLP-1 weight loss medications, peptides, Botox, fillers, and hormone therapy. Dr. Rodriguez breaks down the benefits and potential risks of GLP-1 medications, explaining why medical supervision, bloodwork, body composition tracking, and strength training are essential for maintaining muscle while losing weight. He also addresses the dangers of purchasing medications from unverified online sources, the differences between reputable pharmacies and black-market products, and how cultural beauty standards can influence individual fitness goals.
The conversation dives deeper into women's health, including perimenopause, menopause, testosterone therapy, and how hormonal changes can affect energy, libido, and body composition. Dr. Rodriguez explains why peptides shouldn't be used without a clear treatment plan, breaks down the differences between Botox and dermal fillers, and discusses when hormone evaluations may be worth considering. He also challenges the healthcare industry's tendency to treat symptoms instead of addressing underlying concerns, cautions against relying on AI tools like ChatGPT for medical decisions, and emphasizes the importance of sustainable habits, accountability, and personalized care. From weight loss and anti-aging treatments to hormonal health and wellness misconceptions, AJ and TamBam explore what women should know before jumping on the latest health trend.
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The Evil You Know vs. The Evil You Don't Know
In this post Halloween-inspired episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their wild Halloween weekend filled with escaped kittens, unexpected partying, and a hilarious peanut M&M's candy hustle. The …
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In this post Halloween-inspired episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their wild Halloween weekend filled with escaped kittens, unexpected partying, and a hilarious peanut M&M's candy hustle. The ladies dive into concerns about American food quality, questionable ingredients, and viral claims surrounding Hershey's chocolate before spotlighting Sipp Sisters' innovative nail stickers designed to detect potential drink-spiking substances. They also unpack 50 Cent's ongoing feud and legal battle with Tia Kemp, including allegations involving comments about his son and the social media drama surrounding their relationship.
The conversation takes a darker turn as AJ and TamBam explore "the evil you know versus the evil you don't,"debating whether supernatural forces or everyday human behavior pose the greater threat. From trusting your intuition and recognizing narcissistic tendencies to navigating jealousy, forgiveness, empathy, and hidden motives, the ladies question what truly makes someone dangerous. They also put their instincts to the test with outrageous horror movie scenarios, uncomfortable moral dilemmas, and laugh-out-loud debates about survival, loyalty, and human nature. It's a hilarious, thought-provoking mix of Halloween chaos, celebrity drama, relationship dynamics, and the uncomfortable truths people don't always want to confront.
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Life After Life feat. Nikki Valentine
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with weekend updates, from painful periods and missed homecoming festivities to the South Carolina State Fair and Halloween plans. The …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with weekend updates, from painful periods and missed homecoming festivities to the South Carolina State Fair and Halloween plans. The ladies also react to a Milwaukee woman accused of impersonating a substitute teacher, a viral incident involving police being called on a three-year-old soccer player, concerns surrounding Keyshia Cole's recent performances and relationship, and a controversial Detroit funeral home story. The conversation takes an unexpected turn when transformation coach and alchemist Nikki Valentine joins the show to share her extraordinary near-death experience following a hit-and-run accident at 17, describing an encounter with "the void" and memories that led her to believe she had shifted timelines.
Nikki dives into spirituality, manifestation, heightened intuition, and the connection between identity, energy, and personal transformation, while AJ and TamBam challenge her perspectives on near-death experiences, religion, and alternate realities. Together, they explore how nervous system regulation, self-awareness, and intentional action can influence personal growth and the ability to create change. Plus, Nikki delivers an unforgettable "dumb bitch story" about dating a man she later discovered was a major crack dealer.
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Professional Trick
AJ Holiday and TamBam return to We Talk Back with their signature unfiltered humor, catching up on Tam becoming a “grandma” after her cat Dasha gives birth to kittens, Costco adventures, and Black college …
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AJ Holiday and TamBam return to We Talk Back with their signature unfiltered humor, catching up on Tam becoming a “grandma” after her cat Dasha gives birth to kittens, Costco adventures, and Black college homecoming season, including AJ’s Benedict College homecoming experience and concerns about event safety. The conversation takes a serious turn as the ladies react to reports about Laurence Fishburne acknowledging past domestic abuse while portraying Ike Turner, sparking a discussion about intimate partner violence, consent, trauma, and accountability. They also examine research linking supportive partners to career success and debate masculinity, dating expectations, and gender roles following Justice Smith’s comments about no longer dating women.
The ladies then dive into the episode’s central debate: Should men be more generous with women, and is generosity about more than money? Exploring the spiritual connection between money, energy, giving, and receiving, AJ and TamBam challenge traditional relationship dynamics while emphasizing mutual respect, emotional investment, and financial generosity. From recognizing when a relationship becomes transactional to knowing when to walk away from resentment and disrespect, the duo delivers a candid conversation about love, boundaries, self-worth, and what it really means to show up for your partner.
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*Replay | Ep. 1: Cheaters Never Win, Winners Never Cheat
*Originally aired January 21st, 2021 On the first episode of "We Talk Back" listeners will meet co-host AJ and Tambam! These ladies kick off the episode with a favorite random "Sex fact" of the day. AJ & Tambam …
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*Originally aired January 21st, 2021
On the first episode of "We Talk Back" listeners will meet co-host AJ and Tambam! These ladies kick off the episode with a favorite random "Sex fact" of the day. AJ & Tambam speak with three gentleman, all from different backgrounds, but one thing they have in common is their familiarity with the term cheating. We all understand the emotional distress caused by stepping out on a partner, especially if the partner finds out, so AJ and Tambam explore to find out what is the reason for the cheating?
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No More A$$holes feat. Chantal Heide
AJ Holiday and TamBam welcome Chantal Heide, known as “Canada’s Dating Coach” and author of No More Assholes, to We Talk Back for an unfiltered conversation about modern dating, relationship standards, and the …
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AJ Holiday and TamBam welcome Chantal Heide, known as “Canada’s Dating Coach” and author of No More Assholes, to We Talk Back for an unfiltered conversation about modern dating, relationship standards, and the importance of boundaries. Chantal breaks down her “corporate model” for intentional dating, encouraging women to date multiple people while avoiding kissing, sex, sleepovers, and exclusivity for at least three months. She explains the difference between “guys” and “men,” challenges questions about body count, and argues that rushing physical intimacy can make it harder to recognize red flags and walk away from unhealthy relationships.
Drawing from 20 years as a stripper, her personal dating experiences, and the journey to meeting her husband, Chantal shares why screening potential partners matters just as much as setting boundaries. The conversation explores emotional attachment, self-worth, meditation, accountability, and choosing long-term compatibility over instant chemistry. Ultimately, AJ, TamBam, and Chantal challenge listeners to rethink their dating habits, communicate expectations early, and prioritize character, consistency, and emotional maturity when looking for lasting love.
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Cliteracy
AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up after AJ’s relaxing Jamaica getaway and Tam’s busy salon season before jumping into “SINS.” They debate whether Savannah James should be expected to upgrade a friend from coach to …
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AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up after AJ’s relaxing Jamaica getaway and Tam’s busy salon season before jumping into “SINS.” They debate whether Savannah James should be expected to upgrade a friend from coach to first class, defend Jasmine Guy against criticism of her appearance surrounding the A Different World revival, and discuss Kendrick Sampson’s comments about potentially having children with close female friends rather than within romantic relationships.
For the main topic, AJ and Tam explore “cliteracy,” inspired by Regina Thomashure’s Pussy: A Reclamation, and the importance of understanding and communicating what brings you pleasure. The candid conversation covers desire, boundaries, sexual communication, faking orgasms, and becoming more comfortable expressing your needs, before closing with a self-date exercise centered on self-care, affirmation, and prioritizing yourself.
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Bish...This Is A Warning
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with some Jamaica banter before diving into “SINS,” including a disturbing Florida arrest involving alleged bestiality caught on home …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with some Jamaica banter before diving into “SINS,” including a disturbing Florida arrest involving alleged bestiality caught on home surveillance and reported changes involving FBI background-check disqualifiers. They also react to the controversy surrounding Every Woman, artist Tschabalala Self’s new “Lady in Blue” sculpture in London’s Trafalgar Square, before unpacking racism, prejudice, and violence within communities. The conversation gets even more personal after discussing a Kansas man who discovered a racial slur printed on an oil-change sticker from a Ford dealership.
For the main topic, AJ and TamBam ask a question many people confront after a relationship ends: Did you waste your time—or did you stay too long? They unpack why women may feel the weight of lost time differently, accountability for ignoring signs and overstaying relationships, biological clocks, boundaries, and the contrast between women regretting time invested and men regretting money spent. Ultimately, the ladies encourage listeners to choose themselves, demand reciprocity, stop waiting for the “perfect” time to make a change, and release relationships and situations that no longer serve them to create space for something better.
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Y'all Stay Safe, Though
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up after Labor Day, from AJ hosting her mom’s 70th birthday celebration at Smoke and Bubbles in Columbia, South Carolina, to Tam preparing for a …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up after Labor Day, from AJ hosting her mom’s 70th birthday celebration at Smoke and Bubbles in Columbia, South Carolina, to Tam preparing for a girls trip to Jamaica—with white Hennessy and parasite cleansers on the shopping list. During “SINS,” they react to Boosie Badazz’s 60 Minutes appearance, where he said he paid $600,000 to consultants while seeking a presidential pardon that he never received, sparking a debate over whether publicly exposing the situation counts as “snitching.” They also discuss the reported death of 22-year-old rapper Bloodhound Q50, social media and safety, and a viral conversation about escaping from a Tesla during an emergency.
AJ and TamBam then unpack the Lindsay Clancy case, which ended in a mistrial after jurors deadlocked 11–1, and the intense backlash and scrutiny surrounding the holdout juror. They compare the conversation surrounding Clancy with the case of Latarsha Sanders, whose Massachusetts murder conviction was overturned after the state’s highest court ruled that excluding medical records related to her mental-health defense was prejudicial error. After the break, the hosts debate whether moving abroad really offers a better life, weighing peace and quality of life against taxes, healthcare, racism, cost of living, and the glamorized version of expat life often presented online. They close with practical thoughts on rebuilding community abroad and using astrocartography as one tool for exploring where your next chapter could take you.
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Reality Cheque feat. Juawana Colbert
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap Labor Day, from AJ buying a new bike to conversations about drinking, accountability, and why splitting the bill doesn’t qualify as a date. During …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap Labor Day, from AJ buying a new bike to conversations about drinking, accountability, and why splitting the bill doesn’t qualify as a date. During “SINS,” they react to backlash over DaBaby’s Charlotte restaurant and its viral menu prices, sparking a debate about Black-owned businesses, food quality, customer expectations, and price gouging. They also discuss a viral video of a mother calling police after being attacked by her son, weighing safety and mental health against sharing family crises online, before unpacking a cruise scam involving $1,100, a canceled reservation, and a very public confrontation.
After the break, Selling Tampa star Juawana Colbert joins AJ and TamBam to reveal what happens when reality TV meets real life. She opens up about production manipulation, restrictive contracts, and how appearing on television impacted her personal life and business, while sharing lessons from transitioning beyond the show. Juawana also discusses her continued work in real estate and entrepreneurship, including The Sip Room and Pilates and Pretty Vibes Charlotte, and how she’s building her next chapter beyond reality TV.
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Til Debt Do Us Do Us Part (Part. 1)
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up after low-key weekends before debating rising grocery prices, the cost of eating out, a wild DoorDash accident story, and AJ’s experience …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up after low-key weekends before debating rising grocery prices, the cost of eating out, a wild DoorDash accident story, and AJ’s experience volunteering through the Be My Eyes app. During “SINS,” they dive into a shocking Canadian sperm donor case involving a father and son who allegedly fathered more than 600 children, raising concerns about donor regulation, genetic risks, and people turning to informal Facebook groups to find sperm donors. They also react to the conviction of Duane “Keefe D” Davis in the murder of Tupac Shakur after years of public statements surrounding the case, before unpacking viral scam stories involving a woman accused of faking her way into Duke’s physician assistant program and a man who allegedly impersonated a San Francisco 49ers player to scam 26 women out of $1.3 million.
For the main conversation, “Till Debt Do Us Part,” AJ and TamBam tackle the uncomfortable realities of lending money to friends, family, and romantic partners. They debate proper repayment etiquette, whether paying someone back in installments is acceptable, how loans can complicate family relationships, and the warning signs that usually mean your money isn’t coming back. From setting financial boundaries to deciding whether some loans should simply be considered gifts, the hosts offer plenty of laughs and relatable lessons about money, relationships, and accountability—before sending one final message to everyone with an outstanding debt: if you owe somebody money, send it.
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Spread 'Em feat. Elizabeth Taelor
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap a chaotic weekend, from AJ balancing nonstop work, family time, and a broken-pinky scare to Tam dealing with a home-improvement nightmare after …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap a chaotic weekend, from AJ balancing nonstop work, family time, and a broken-pinky scare to Tam dealing with a home-improvement nightmare after installers allegedly drilled into a sprinkler line, flooding her home and leading to firefighters cutting into the wall to stop the damage. The hosts then turn to the latest viral conversations, discussing domestic abuse allegations involving social media relationship personality Yadon Yada and Aj'a, while emphasizing the importance of financial independence and recognizing unhealthy relationship dynamics. They also react to Texas tightening penalties around certain THC products and lighten the mood with a “men only” social media thread debating women’s fashion and beauty trends, including bonnets and oversized lashes.
After the break, professional sports bettor Elizabeth Taylor Conley Marcel joins the show to break down sports betting for beginners, explaining everything from moneylines and point spreads to over/unders, prop bets, and understanding odds. She shares how research and strategy influence her picks, why disciplined bankroll management is essential, and how bettors can avoid making emotional decisions while remembering that sportsbooks are designed to maintain an advantage. Blending relationships, viral news, personal chaos, and practical sports betting education, this episode delivers another entertaining mix of humor, real-life conversation, and useful game.
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Smash Or Pass
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with a hilarious debate over South Carolina slang, arguing whether “bo” belongs to Charleston or Columbia before recapping their weekends …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with a hilarious debate over South Carolina slang, arguing whether “bo” belongs to Charleston or Columbia before recapping their weekends and teasing the Patreon with details from AJ’s latest date. The conversation turns to Young Thug’s court-ordered school appearance, where the hosts react to reports that he told students “fame is the most important thing” and debate the potential impact of that message on young people. AJ and TamBam also unpack the complicated case of a surrogate who reportedly traveled to Texas to give birth after refusing to follow an abortion provision in her agreement when the baby was diagnosed with serious heart conditions, sparking a nuanced discussion about bodily autonomy, surrogacy contracts, parental expectations, and quality of life.
After the break, the hosts lighten things up with “Smash or Pass: Lifestyle Edition,” putting modern dating, relationships, money, and everyday habits under the microscope. AJ and TamBam weigh in on dating someone with children, large age gaps, living together before marriage, long-distance relationships, separate bedrooms, joint bank accounts, splitting bills, quick engagements, prenups, lending partners money, and navigating major income differences. They also debate designer spending and financing, quitting a job while in a relationship, GLP-1 medications, Botox, long voice notes, bonnets in public, and plenty more. Funny, candid, and relatable, the episode explores which lifestyle differences are worth compromising on—and which ones are an automatic pass.
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BIOHazzard
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap an emotional and eventful weekend, from AJ attending Dolly Bishop Litticker’s wedding to Tam celebrating her best friend Janae’s birthday with a day …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap an emotional and eventful weekend, from AJ attending Dolly Bishop Litticker’s wedding to Tam celebrating her best friend Janae’s birthday with a day on the water. The hosts then dive into “Stupid Internet News,” reacting to a viral conversation about male educators navigating puberty and appropriate boundaries with young girls while emphasizing that adults are responsible for protecting children and maintaining clear boundaries. They also discuss a disturbing case involving a police officer who pleaded guilty to sexually abusing handcuffed male detainees and debunk a bizarre TikTok myth surrounding menstruation and women’s health.
The episode shifts into “Biohazard,” as AJ and TamBam take on modern dating, dating apps, and some of the wildest profile bios the internet has to offer. From demands involving sex, money, jealousy, control, vaccination status, and co-parenting to profiles that raise immediate safety concerns, the hosts debate the difference between refreshing honesty and undeniable red flags. Along the way, they unpack dating-app fatigue, relationship expectations, personal boundaries, and why meeting someone organically can feel more authentic than turning romance into a job interview. Funny, candid, and relatable, this episode explores the realities of dating in the digital age while reminding listeners that sometimes a bio tells you everything you need to know.
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Stop The Cap
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up after an emotional weekend, with AJ reflecting on attending a friend's son's funeral before the conversation shifts to several of the week's …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up after an emotional weekend, with AJ reflecting on attending a friend's son's funeral before the conversation shifts to several of the week's biggest headlines. The hosts react to the arrest of reality TV personality Sidney Starr on multiple felony charges involving a minor, discussing the importance of protecting children while cautioning against broad assumptions about entire communities based on the alleged actions of an individual. They also weigh in on Ariana Grande stepping back from public scrutiny, conversations surrounding celebrity wellness and privacy, and broader discussions about the pressures of fame, public perception, and internet speculation.
The conversation then turns to culture, economics, and power, sparked by reactions to Jim Jones' comments about dating and nightlife, before diving into the public debate surrounding Jay-Z's Target partnership. AJ and TamBam explore capitalism, consumer spending, Black economic empowerment, corporate influence, and the importance of building sustainable institutions within Black communities. They also examine wealth disparities, the effectiveness of boycotts, and why financial literacy, informed decision-making, and community support remain essential to creating long-term economic opportunities.
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Save Dat!
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with a recap of a relaxing weekend in Charlotte, including dinner at Dean's Steakhouse, before diving into several of the week's biggest …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with a recap of a relaxing weekend in Charlotte, including dinner at Dean's Steakhouse, before diving into several of the week's biggest headlines. The hosts react to the tragic death of TikTok creator Sarah Duffy in an alleged murder-suicide involving her estranged husband despite an active protective order, prompting AJ to share a deeply personal story connected to a former high school resource officer whose decades-old murder case recently came to a close. They also discuss a viral moment from an Usher concert after a fan appeared uncomfortable during an onstage interaction, along with social media personality ATL Tay's controversial claims from jail following a probation violation.
The conversation shifts into a broader discussion about hip-hop, accountability, and the responsibility of artists versus parents, sparked by the backlash surrounding Yung Miami's latest release, "Spin That." AJ and TamBam examine whether music should be blamed for influencing behavior, debate the double standards women in hip-hop often face, and unpack conversations around "frequency," messaging, and personal responsibility. Blending current events, pop culture, and thoughtful commentary, the hosts challenge listeners to think critically about the media they consume while closing with a practical reminder to protect both their peace and their pockets: "Hold your money—don't spend it."
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The Happiness Gap
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their weekends, from AJ's unforgettable time at Jeezy's Black Tie Affair in Las Vegas—where she enjoyed performances from Mary J. Blige and reflected …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their weekends, from AJ's unforgettable time at Jeezy's Black Tie Affair in Las Vegas—where she enjoyed performances from Mary J. Blige and reflected on the influence women have in relationships—to TamBam's birthday celebration in Washington, D.C., complete with a visit to the National Museum of African American History and Culture, a full day of self-care at the spa, and brunch with her sisters. The hosts also dive into this week's biggest headlines, including a class-action lawsuit alleging Workday's AI hiring technology discriminates based on race and age, growing concerns over airport facial recognition and biometric data collection, a viral catfishing story involving stolen photos, and a widow's shocking discovery after reading her late husband's emails.
The conversation expands into discussions about cultural accountability, reacting to controversy surrounding an Argentina restaurant named "Big Nigga Burger" before exploring why so many people feel unfulfilled despite pursuing success. AJ and TamBam unpack the pressures of debt, subscription culture, inflation, and constant comparison in the social media era, while emphasizing the importance of gratitude, therapy, discipline, and protecting your peace.
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You Wearing That?
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up on an eventful weekend, from TamBam's hot yoga session and an overpriced brunch with her mom to AJ's unforgettable trip to New York for Jay-Z's …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up on an eventful weekend, from TamBam's hot yoga session and an overpriced brunch with her mom to AJ's unforgettable trip to New York for Jay-Z's concert. AJ shares the surreal experience of watching Beyoncé open the show, seeing Blue Ivy perform, enjoying exclusive backstage lounge access, and even being chased by an unexpected animal after the concert before missing the second night's performance due to massive crowds and locked entrances. The hosts also weigh in on Dame Dash's latest comments about Jay-Z, Boosie's reported attempt to recover money paid to lobbyists after a promised presidential pardon never materialized, and headlines surrounding Tommie Lee's legal issues after allegedly entering a FIFA match without a ticket.
The conversation wraps with another entertaining edition of "Fashion Court," where AJ and TamBam debate style across generations, discussing confidence, body types, tailoring, trend culture, and the difference between wearing clothes versus letting clothes wear you. They also swap shopping recommendations, call out their biggest fashion pet peeves, and offer candid opinions on today's style trends.
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STHU For 72 Hrs
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap a relaxing Fourth of July weekend before diving into the latest viral headlines, internet debates, and cultural conversations shaping today's world …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap a relaxing Fourth of July weekend before diving into the latest viral headlines, internet debates, and cultural conversations shaping today's world. The hosts unpack a report claiming nearly one-third of American men are not working or actively seeking employment, sparking a broader discussion about dating, financial stability, modern hustle culture, and shifting relationship expectations. They also react to research on emotional intelligence and conflict resolution, debate Matthew Knowles' comments about his financial success before Destiny's Child, and explore everything from seasoning culture and healthy eating to the realities of America's food system.
The conversation expands into the influence of social media and the internet on everyday behavior, examining viral trends like the crate challenge, "soft life," trad wives, Ozempic, and the rise of performative online culture. AJ and TamBam also discuss AI's growing impact on music, fashion, and digital storytelling, while questioning how much of what people consume online is authentic. From couples sharing passwords to the consequences of filming strangers for content, this episode blends humor, cultural commentary, and thoughtful discussion about technology, relationships, and navigating an increasingly online world with intention.
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Dumbbihathon
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with an unfiltered conversation about the realities of women's health, venting over period struggles, the rising cost of menstrual …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with an unfiltered conversation about the realities of women's health, venting over period struggles, the rising cost of menstrual products, and the ongoing debate over pads, cups, and other feminine hygiene options. With their signature humor, they question why essential products aren't more accessible before diving into a series of bizarre viral headlines, including an amateur sleuth who dated a convicted murderer to help solve a missing person's case, an 11-year-old who ordered an Uber to the airport with dreams of flying to Japan, and a retail theft suspect who allegedly exposed themselves through social media.
The conversation shifts into another installment of the fan-favorite "Dumb B*tch Files," where AJ and TamBam react to jaw-dropping listener submissions involving relationship drama, workplace scandals, and unexpected betrayals. From a therapist with questionable boundaries and a workplace affair uncovered through company phone records to a business partner caught speaking behind someone's back and a woman navigating unexpected feelings for her best friend, AJ and TamBam offer their candid advice, hilarious commentary, and hard-earned perspectives on trust, accountability, friendships, and modern relationships.
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Still Can't Trust Nobody
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by filmmaker Big Stevo for a candid conversation about trust, loyalty, and the real-life experiences that inspired the Trust Nobody franchise …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by filmmaker Big Stevo for a candid conversation about trust, loyalty, and the real-life experiences that inspired the Trust Nobody franchise. The trio explores the emotional impact of betrayal, the challenges of maintaining integrity in relationships and business, and how personal experiences shape the way people navigate trust. Big Stevo also shares insight into the realities of independent filmmaking, the sacrifices required to bring creative visions to life, and the importance of producing quality work in an increasingly competitive entertainment landscape.
The discussion expands into modern relationships, friendship dynamics, and the difficult choices people make in pursuit of money, love, success, and validation. AJ, TamBam, and Big Stevo unpack how ego, finances, and social media influence behavior, while examining loyalty, accountability, and the true cost of betrayal. From debates about fame versus wealth to reflections on masculinity, gender roles, self-respect, and personal values, this episode delivers an honest and thought-provoking look at trust, character, and what it takes to stay true to yourself in a world that constantly tests your principles.
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WTB Presents: Unpopular Opinions
AJ Holiday and TamBam blend humor, personal stories, and social commentary as AJ recaps her recent trip to Costa Rica, including moments of relaxation, adventure, and a frightening near-drowning experience. The …
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AJ Holiday and TamBam blend humor, personal stories, and social commentary as AJ recaps her recent trip to Costa Rica, including moments of relaxation, adventure, and a frightening near-drowning experience. The conversation then shifts into deeper discussions surrounding the Karmelo Anthony case, racial justice, and the influence of social media on public perception and accountability. The hosts also unpack recent business moves involving Jay-Z and Target, exploring the complexities of capitalism, consumer activism, and the challenges of creating meaningful change while navigating economic realities.
The discussion expands into conspiracy theories, dating culture, friendships, and the evolving dynamics of modern relationships. AJ and TamBam debate the realities of online dating, the expectations people bring into relationships, and the impact of financial status and social media on how individuals present themselves to the world.
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Broke, Bougie, Basic
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam reflect on birthdays, solo travel experiences, spiritual cleansing, and the lessons that come with personal growth. The conversation explores the realities …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam reflect on birthdays, solo travel experiences, spiritual cleansing, and the lessons that come with personal growth. The conversation explores the realities of modern relationships, societal expectations, and the influence of social media on how people perceive success, dating, and self-worth. Through candid anecdotes and trending news stories, the hosts unpack the complexities of wealth, gender dynamics, and the pressures of navigating adulthood in an increasingly image-driven world.
The discussion shifts into a lively debate over what behaviors qualify as “broke,” “bougie,” or “basic,” covering everything from dining etiquette and dating expectations to airport snacks, travel habits, priority boarding, and first-class flights. AJ and TamBam also examine friendship dynamics, luxury lifestyles, social media flex culture, and the motivations behind financial decisions people make for status or perception.
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The North Remembers
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam blend humor, culture, and relationship talk while recapping their weekend adventures, including a night out at a dessert bar and conversations around …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam blend humor, culture, and relationship talk while recapping their weekend adventures, including a night out at a dessert bar and conversations around popular films and viral moments. The duo dives into the intersection of crime and law enforcement through humorous commentary, while also unpacking ongoing debates surrounding “gold diggers,” financial expectations, and modern dating standards. They discuss public conversations involving Floyd Mayweather Jr. and child support, using the topic to explore the broader realities of money, responsibility, and perception in relationships.
The conversation expands into the evolving dynamics between men and women, focusing on ambition, attraction, communication, and societal expectations in modern partnerships. AJ and TamBam examine how financial success often shapes male identity, while many women seek emotional connection, support, and intentionality beyond money alone. From discussions around masculine and feminine energy to power, submission, and relationship balance, this episode offers an honest and entertaining perspective on navigating gender dynamics, emotional needs, and healthier communication in today’s dating culture.
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You Only Know The Old Me
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into candid conversations about healing, relationships, identity, and the realities of personal growth in today’s world. Through humor and personal …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into candid conversations about healing, relationships, identity, and the realities of personal growth in today’s world. Through humor and personal stories, the duo reflects on everything from weekend experiences and evolving friendships to the challenges of navigating societal expectations, parenting, and relationship dynamics. The discussion also touches on sensitive topics like fetishization, self-perception, and how change can impact the way people connect and communicate with one another.
The conversation expands into love languages, toxic friendships, and the importance of setting boundaries while prioritizing self-respect and emotional well-being. AJ and Tam explore coping mechanisms, authenticity, and the growing influence of AI and digital culture on human interaction, while emphasizing the need to remain grounded in self-awareness and personal discipline. Blending honesty, humor, and real-life insight, this episode offers a relatable perspective on evolving relationships, protecting your peace, and becoming a healthier version of yourself.
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Y'all Feel That Too?
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam reflect on Mother’s Day and unpack the emotional layers surrounding motherhood, relationships, and modern dating expectations. Through personal stories and …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam reflect on Mother’s Day and unpack the emotional layers surrounding motherhood, relationships, and modern dating expectations. Through personal stories and honest dialogue, they explore the pressures women face around love, family, and self-worth while discussing how societal standards shape perceptions of desirability and relationship value. The conversation also tackles trust, communication, and the impact of infidelity, offering candid insight into the realities of navigating relationships in today’s culture.
The discussion expands into sexuality, burnout, and the everyday pressures of balancing work, personal life, and emotional well-being. AJ and TamBam examine how media influences ideas around sexuality and self-image while addressing the shared exhaustion many women experience as they juggle responsibilities and expectations. From aging and body image to self-care and emotional health, this episode delivers a relatable and thoughtful perspective on the challenges of maintaining balance, protecting peace, and showing up authentically through life’s evolving seasons.
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So You Doing The Bending
AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their eventful weekend adventures, from filming a reality show to attending social gatherings, while diving into candid conversations about modern relationships, dating culture, and …
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AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their eventful weekend adventures, from filming a reality show to attending social gatherings, while diving into candid conversations about modern relationships, dating culture, and social media dynamics. The duo discusses everything from movie experiences and hot yoga to the unexpected role of air fryers in relationships, using everyday moments to unpack larger conversations around gender norms, sexuality, and personal expectations in dating. Their relatable storytelling offers an entertaining yet thoughtful perspective on navigating romance in today’s culture.
The conversation deepens into the importance of boundaries, consent, and emotional awareness in intimate relationships. AJ and TamBam explore why people—particularly women—sometimes compromise their personal limits to please partners, while discussing the emotional consequences that can follow, including guilt, shame, and self-violation. Emphasizing communication, accountability, and mutual respect, the episode encourages listeners to better understand and protect their boundaries while fostering healthier, more intentional relationships rooted in trust and self-awareness.
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Thou Art No Russell
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack a weekend in Atlanta while diving into serious conversations around domestic violence, relationship dynamics, and cultural headlines. From reacting …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack a weekend in Atlanta while diving into serious conversations around domestic violence, relationship dynamics, and cultural headlines. From reacting to a shocking incident at a Mercedes-Benz dealership to discussing the latest surrounding Megan Thee Stallion, the hosts blend real-time commentary with deeper reflections on safety, accountability, and emotional awareness. They also explore the idea of the “good man” in today’s dating landscape, referencing Russell Wilson as a point of debate while breaking down expectations, values, and partnership standards.
The conversation expands into modern relationships, focusing on communication, honesty, and the personal growth required to attract and maintain healthy connections. AJ and TamBam discuss the balance between discipline and freedom, the importance of privacy in relationships, and how public exposure can impact personal lives. With candid insights and relatable perspectives, this episode offers a grounded take on navigating love, self-care, and evolving relationship standards in today’s culture.
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You Aint Got No Alibi
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam dive into a thought-provoking conversation on Black women’s empowerment, mental health, and the realities of navigating relationships in today’s culture. The …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam dive into a thought-provoking conversation on Black women’s empowerment, mental health, and the realities of navigating relationships in today’s culture. The duo unpacks the complexities of the justice system, the rise of therapy language in everyday conversations, and how terms like gaslighting and narcissism are often misunderstood or misused. They also explore the impact of social media on mental health awareness, highlighting how online narratives shape perception, accountability, and emotional expression.
The conversation deepens into personal experiences with trauma, PTSD, and the emotional labor often expected in relationships, while addressing the importance of clear communication and self-awareness. AJ and Tam also touch on parenting, nutrition, and the responsibility of fostering healthier environments both at home and in partnerships.
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I Chose The Bear
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam blend humor with hard truths as they recap their weekends—from fasting challenges to a wild Cardi B concert—before diving into trending topics like taxes …
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam blend humor with hard truths as they recap their weekends—from fasting challenges to a wild Cardi B concert—before diving into trending topics like taxes, prank call dangers, digital likeness rights, and celebrity divorce drama involving Kimora Lee and Russell Simmons. What starts as lighthearted conversation quickly shifts into deeper discussions about accountability, ownership, and the unexpected risks people face in today’s digital and real-world environments.
The episode takes a serious turn as the hosts address the tragic case of Ashley Janay, using it as a catalyst to discuss women’s safety, situational awareness, and self-defense. AJ and Tam emphasize the importance of recognizing red flags, trusting your instincts, and being prepared for dangerous situations—especially for Black women navigating unique societal challenges.
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